Like, I definitely firmly believe that someday soon I will be able to finally resolve this whole jaw issue once and for all, because like....I have to, lol, thatâs literally how I get up in the morning.
But just...lmao its so weird to think about how I really have no idea how to picture my life after that point, because like....every day is a ridiculous onslaught of ridiculous that keeps me so stressed, panicked, desperate and oh yeah in pain, to the point of not being able to have a single life goal, ambition or like....future event I want to do, because its almost all about âmust make todayâs rent and food by the end of today so I can eat and sleep and oh yeah also another $800 by the end of each month so I can continue to enjoy even the possibility of this not being the state of my existence for the rest of my life.
Wow, that came out way more pity party than I intended, lmfao, because like the whole point of this post and why I started writing it was not like oh look at me, my life sucks so many balls, whine whine, a little bit of cheese, barrels of more whine. Like, believe it or not I was kinda rolling my eyes while typing out that above paragraph and literally laughing in that âlook I know its not funny but Iâm still laughing because fuck you thatâs whyâ kinda way.
Bizarre as it may seem, this is actually intended as an optimistic kinda post? And like....the result of me doing deep breathing exercises and making a concerted effort to be optimistic today? Because the point is, the above has been the day to day state of my existence for almost two straight years (look, Iâm not SAYING all things straight are bad, but hey if you can, be gay, do crimes). And its definitely not like my life was all sunshine and roses before that, lmfao, but at least there were breaks in the storm clouds, like...I had actually hills and valleys of suck but also wahoo! It wasnât like........the constant annoying beep that accompanies a flatlining heart monitor, but also somehow seems to keep descending.
Like, I can handle sucky events, as long as I can find that bit of normalcy in between, and I mean, I feel like the fact that Iâm still here and have at no point really entertained the thought of not still being at this point, like, it kinda lends credence to the idea that I can also handle sucky events even when I CANâT find any bit of normalcy in between. I donât LIKE to, because who would, lmfao, but I can, and do, and will continue to do so.
Its just.....I mean bottom line of where this whole train of thought started and was aimed at is.....its been so long since I wasnât just preoccupied day to day with constant chronic pain and stress and an unknown future or how long this would last, as well as repeated attempts to fix things that have managed to end up just being a disappointment at every turn so far.....like....Iâve literally forgotten what it FEELS like to not wake up every day in pain and spend the whole day worrying about making enough money to still have somewhere to sleep before the day is over. LOLOLOL, like the bar is super low, Iâm aware, but like....I remember that state of existence exists, and that Iâve definitely enjoyed it in the past and have every hope of doing so in the future, its just....I donât remember how it FEELS for this not to be the only thing on my mind, 24-7.
And Iâm so looking forward to that, to feeling that again, even if I canât picture it at the moment, because like...Iâm anticipating how MIND-BLOWING itâll be, the first time I can spend a whole day just...enjoying myself. With no interruptions, no pain. And as crazy as it may sound, Iâm so lucky in that I know that day is even out there? Like I know that as bad as things have gotten for me over the past two years, I can hold out hope that there is an actual end point to THIS state of existence, that it is a specific problem with a specific solution, and once I find it, so much about my life will change because Iâll be able to stand on my feet for hours at a time, go running, exercise, all things that I enjoy and use to keep myself centered, Iâll be able to take a day to just go to the movies even if its just by myself and like, have a fucking chewy pretzel without having to worry that doing so will actually be the thing that finally fractures my jaw beyond repair, lmfao.
And the thing is.....as sucky as the last two years have been.....constantly, day to day....its not like theyâve been nothing BUT suck. I may not have had a single day in the past two years where there hasnât been at least SOME pain, SOME stress, SOME inescapable awareness of like....all the things I canât do and the reasons why, all the things I desperately want to do but canât afford or physically am incapable of, but none of that means that through all this time I havenât also had tons of good moments to carry me through.
Because I have. And Iâm so thankful for them. Even if they seem miniscule to other people in comparison, they mean everything to me, because any moment that takes my mind off all the things that are wrong or that suck and just lets me laugh and MEAN it, be truly entertained, any moment where Iâm more preoccupied with being inspired by an idea or something someone said or something Iâm picturing, any moment where Iâm just smacked in the face with the undeniable truth that I have some of the best friends on the planet and who love me unconditionally and are here for me even if its just to bombard me with cute animal pictures at 2 am so I go to bed with a smile on my face instead of focused on the pain...and the flip side of that, any moment where Iâm able to feel good that I was able to provide one of my friends with that good moment for themselves, to make THEM laugh or be inspired or take their mind off their pain or troubles, like.....
Those good moments still exist, no matter what else exists or in what quantities. They still count. They still add up. And the point isnât even about them needing to add up to some specific tally or quota or otherwise they donât mean anything, or donât mean enough....because each good moment exists purely on its own, for itself. Thereâs no POINT to them, theyâre not FOR any specific purpose or outcome. They just exist. They simply are. And thatâs all they need, in order to matter.
Because I firmly believe, and honestly always have, that ultimately, life is just about the good moments. Theyâre the things we focus on when times are hardest, theyâre the things that spring to mind when we try and think of reasons to keep going. Because I mean...there ISNâT a specific tally of how many good moments you need to reach before life is worth living, before thereâs a reason to be alive. Because each good moment is enough, all on its own. Each good moment, no matter how small it is in anyone elseâs eyes, IS the reason to be alive. The whole reason. The only one anyone needs. Because the only way you get those good moments, those small snapshots that are for whatever reason, just wholly, undeniably GOOD and WORTH IT.....is by being alive. Thatâs the only way you ever get to have any more of them.Â
Like yeah, 90% of 99% of the days over the past two years might have epicly sucked for the most part, especially if weâre focusing on percentages, defining each dayâs âsuccessâ by whether or not I spent more of the day miserable or more of it enjoying myself...but when you say screw the percentages, the quotas the tallies....when you look just at the good moments, specifically, let each one of them matter by themselves and be worthwhile, worth EVERYTHING just in and of itself....
The whole picture changes. Because that one conversation I had with my friend Moukie on a day where I just laughed myself breathless at something he said.....that good moment wouldnât exist if I threw in the towel before I got to it. That one story I loved and just blew me away with how perfectly it encapsulated everything I wanted from certain characters but that I would never have dreamed up myself, but that I kept thinking about days, even weeks after I read it.....thatâs a story I wouldnât have read if I only let the fact that itâd been seven months of chronic pain at that point, like, be the only thing that mattered. Instead of how just that one story made me feel, for however long I felt it. That one conversation, that one episode, that one post or tweet or daydream or whatever.
Anyway. I wasnât intending to get all sappy or life coach woowoo or whatever, more just thinking out loud or in text, as Iâm wont to do, and I use it to put my complaints to paper often enough I might as well use it to put the non-complaints to paper too, lmao.
But I mean. Yeah. Its the good moments that really matter, if you ask me. Theyâre what any of us are here for any way, no matter what form they take or how much space there is between them, but like....idk, I think we could all benefit from being reminded from time to time that they all count. They all matter. Theyâre the POINT. At least if you ask me, because if weâre not here to enjoy good moments in whatever shape or quantity we get to enjoy them, like, what other reason IS there, to spend however many years on this earth as we end up getting?Â
*Shrugs* So yeah. Thatâs it. Thatâs the point. Enjoy the good moments, and donât forget to keep them somewhere you can queue them up when you need a reminder that they exist, theyâre out there, youâve had them before and no matter how long it takes, youâll have them again. Theyâre what carry us through however much suck we have to wade through before we chance upon the next one, and the one after that and the one after that. And the more we carry with us, keep with us, THATâS when the percentages start to matter, if by the end of it all we can say no matter what the actual quantities of good vs suck, or what shapes or sizes that good and that suck took....its the good moments that mattered most. Stuck with us most. Defined us most.
Anyway, thatâs where my thoughts took me just now and it helped so maybe itâll help someone else too, and if not. More verbal diarrhea, business as usual. Same place, same Batchannel. Tune in tomorrow, Iâll probably be bitching about Tim. Or hey, maybe Iâll surprise myself. Who knows?
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Inktober Day 28: Companion
Prompt from @ttimemachinesâ â Inktober
Voltron: Legendary Defender Happy Ending AU: Fly Me to the Moon
Fly me to the moon,
Let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like on
A-Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand
In other words, baby, kiss me
Fill my heart with song and let me sing for ever more
You are all I long for
All I worship and adore
In other words, please be true
In other words, I love you
-By Bart Howard, performed by Frank Sinatra
This is like 4 days late cuz the power went out while I was doing this and it stayed off for days lmao thanks pg&e anywayÂ
I followed VLD since 2016 and am veeery fond of sheith. As a form of self-care, I decided to completely disregard the existence of season 8 and I daydreamed a sappy, romantic ending I wouldâve liked to see and am accepting as canon. GAY RIGHTS.
In a nutshell, Shiro and Keith get together and live on Earth. But you canât tie down a space exploring power couple to one planet, so they go off with the Blade of Marmora. In this picture, theyâre dancing to Fly Me to the Moon, celebrating their (kind-of) elopement and new life together.
I wrote a rough outline and bolded the main points. Itâs long, so if you want to read it, buckle up and hit that Keep Reading!
Picking up from what little I remember of season 7 cuz I watched it the day it aired in 2018:
After the big battle with the Galra, everyone is chillin. Shiro is officially captain of the Atlas and Keith is like hell yeah Iâm the Black Paladin! Idk whatever stuff they did to conclude the fight with the Galra, but I guess they did that.Â
Idk why they killed Allura, but that doesnât fuckin happen. Everyone is happy!
They eventually settle into their new roles on Earth with Pidge/Katie working as a head of the tech department with the Holts. Hunk and Lance handle diplomatic/relief affairs. Allura becomes the queen of the Alteans they found with Coran and Romelle as her advisory. The mice are there too.
As admiral, Shiro gets a cool fancy house. So they throw a house party and the gang and some of the cool Earth/Galran/Altean people are invited too. Itâs a great party 10/10 and 3 hours in, Lance gets wasted cuz Allura drinks him under the table. Hunk is getting some water while Pidge/Katie is taking blackmail pictures. Coran is still partying with the mice and Romelle.
Keith and his introvertedness has his social battery run out at this point, so he finds a porch to sigh upon. It takes Shiro exactly five minutes to notice that Keith isnât coming back yet, so he seeks him out in the big fancy house.
 Shiro finds Keith sighing on the porch or smth and jokes about this being their easiest time finding each other and Keith smiles at this. Shiro has a beer or smth and Keith asks to try it to break the ice. Shiro teases him about being old enough to drink. Then heâs like uh yeah remember the time I was stuck on a meteor for 2 years with my mom?? Fair point. Shiro lets him try it and Keith spits it out cuz itâs nasty even though bruh probably drank swamp water. They laugh and banter about that too.
The mood settles and then Shiro asks about those two years. And about their lost time. Keith asks if he took any of Kuronâs memories since heâs got a clone body now.Â
He does. He remembers it, but Kuronâs memories feel like itâs him, but heâs taken a backseat and is watching himself do things instead of doing them himself. Then Keith asks him if he remembers what he said when they fought. âYou said you love me,â Shiro speaks softly as he turns back to face Keith. âIs that still true?â
Finally they talk about their feelings. Like a well-developed couple should. Keith does still love him and says that he always will. Shiro also admits his feelings too. Thought he was fam. Turns out he was bae. They almost kiss, but the Voltron gang interrupts because thatâs how it be.
The two awkwardly get dragged back into the party and Lance is recovering okay. Also, heâs been offical with Allura at this point too. Lance teases them about being a couple and Shiro and Keith are internally screaming.Â
The party dies down and everyone starts to go home. The Voltron gang is the only few left and they help Shiro clean up. Lance gets benched cuz heâs still recovering. As they clean up, Shiro begins to notice how large and lonely the house is gonna get. He catches Keith before everyone leaves and slips him a key and says heâs always welcome just in case he gets lonely. Or something.... Thereâs some Shiro head scratching and Keith knows whatâs up.
Everyone leaves. Shiro is alone. He tries to get some rest, but the house is too gotdamn big and unfamiliar. Being alone in a large space is not good for a guy with PTSD. He works out. He investigates his house, etc. Bro still canât sleep.Â
Afterwards, he just gives up and sits at his kitchen going like :( at a glass of water. Then the doorbell rings. Who is it? DING DING, Itâs Keith! With a duffel bag! Turns out he couldnât sleep either. Shiro invites him to join him in the kitchen with his :( water and they talk a bit.
Then they pick up where they left off at the party and finally kiss. One of them asks if the kiss was okay, and the other is like HELL YEAH and so they keep going. Itâs really spicy. One thing leads to another and then they go upstairs to Shiroâs large bed. (Iâll leave that to your imagination.)Â
Either way, morning comes and Shiro wakes up with Keith in his arm(s). (HELL YEAH) Guess they got REAL official. He asks about the duffel bag. Itâs literally everything Keith owns. So like. 3 outfits. And some weapons. Hygeine products. Etc. (Dude is a minimalist.) Kosmo is in the living room or smth. Bottom(lmao) line is, Keith planned on taking Shiro up on his offer the whole time. He literally just left to pack lmao (HELL YEAH) Shiro gives him his own closet and drawers since the room is big. Guess they live together now yeehaw.Â
Eventually, everyone finds out theyâre official and is like FINALLY and so they continue their lives on Earth with Shiro as admiral and Keith as captain. They sort out the war damage for a year-ish or so and then do whatever leaders do in peace time. Probably train their people idk. Shiro is up to his neck in papers. Heâs not really digging it. He enjoys his peaceful life on Earth, but he often thinks about what it would be like exploring the galaxy now that the Galra arenât a threat.
Allura and Lance get married. Lance still gets those blue marks but idk why. Why not lmao. Itâs a big wedding and Lance throws the boquet. Keith catches it. He looks to Shiro and DING DING, the lightbulb goes off. The Altean Queen and King have many babies and they all have the marks too. Happy family. Goofy dad. Badass mum. Gotta rule the new Alteans too. Thatâs all good. They either live in space or get their own land cuz racism doesnât exist on this earth. Cuz I said so. Either way, Lance and Allura visit the others often with their kids. Hunk and Pidge are GREAT with kids.
The Blade of Marmora calls. Krolia is like hey wus poppinâ son. Keith tells her he and Shiro are a couple and sheâs like oh finally thank god. That guy was the only thing heâd talk about for the two years and like honestly itâd be awkward if they didnât get together. But also, the Blade of Marmora needs Keith. For a while. Like, at year at least. He has a few days to decide to go with them. Keithâs torn between his people on Earth or his people in Marmora.Â
Shiro tells him itâs okay to go. But before that, he kneels on one knee and presents Keith with a ring. An engagement ring!!!! Itâs specially designed by Pidge with a one-channel track that wonât get in the way of any signals or whatever, but they can find each other, no matter where in the galaxy each is. (Since thatâs been a recurring problem throughout the series.)
Keith goes. Keith Galra Facetimes whenever he can. Weeks pass. Months pass. Seasons fly. Shiro terribly misses his fiancé. Nothing goes terribly wrong since this is the endgame, but Keith is away for a looong time. More than a year. He misses Shiro terribly, but he knows his duty is to the Blade of Marmora, which has become a relief effort and guardians of the galaxy. No talking trees or raccoons, unfortunately.
Eventually, Keith makes his way back to earth. Krolia, Kolivan, Axca, and the other Blades are with him. Krolia has a mother-son moment with him and asks him what he truly wants. Keith wants Shiro, but he also wants the life with the Blade of Marmora. Itâs way better than on Earth, (no offense.) Then Krolia asks, âWhy not take your man with us? His skill is going to waste at that desk.â And Kolivan is like âShiro is a man of honor. He will always have a place with us if he so desires.â And Keith is like :0
He tells Shiro to come with him and Shiroâs like :O But heâs got papers! And Duties! And... the ability to train a successor to be Admiral! He gets on it. But low-key. Cuz he doesnât want everyone to freak out. Like All Might and Deku, but not as life-threatening a situation and no consumption of hair. Itâs probably that guy who thought Keith was his rival. Jack? Jacob? James! Or someone else idk. Whoâs Curtis? We can sprinkle him in, I guess. Not sure if Hunk would want to be admiral. But either way, Shiro steps down from his position and gives it to someone very capable.
Then the Blades are back on Earth. Keith leaps into Shiroâs arm(s) all dramatically and gay as God intended. Shiro and Keith get married!!!! Everyone is there and itâs such a happy day like wowie.
After the wedding/goodbye party and preparations, the newlyweds announce their leave into space. And they fly off! Shiro is part of the Blade of Marmora. Theyâre a happy family and visit Earth and Altea whenever they can. Everyone still gets together every year for Christmas or something.
The last scene is the space ship leaving earth with Frank Sinatraâs âFly Me to the Moonâ playing. The planets and space stuff fade further in the background. Theyâre in a field of stars. It cuts to Keith in his uniform holding Shiro, whoâs in his earthly clothing and kissing his husbandâs hand. A golden ring shines on each of their fingers and they continue to dance. Gosh, theyâre so happy and in love. The two never lose each other again.
THE END!!!
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