#it's hurt

[monkie-brainriot]

How Macaque's dependency could have affected His and Wukong's relationship

following this post

I think that the past Macaque might have depended on Wukong as his only support, or his biggest source of support.

And of course Relying solely on one person as your sole support can result in various consequences:

Dependency: Mac's emotional well-being and sense of security might have been intricately linked to Wukong's presence and support. When Wukong failed to provide that support due to his own struggles (when he failed and faced punishment), it could have triggered feelings of abandonment, frustration, and even panic in Mac.

Loss of Emotional Anchor: Wukong served as Mac's emotional anchor, and when that anchor is suddenly unavailable, it can lead to a sense of emotional disorientation. Macaque might not have developed the skills to manage his emotions and challenges independently, and this loss of stability could contribute to his anger and blame towards Wukong.

Feelings of Betrayal or Neglect: Macaque might interpret Wukong's pursuit of his goals that might lead to the inability to provide the same level of support as a form of betrayal or neglect. From Mac's perspective, he might feel that he sacrificed his own aspirations to be there for Wukong, but it's not the same the other way around.

Frustration and Vulnerability: The frustration and vulnerability Macaque is experiencing due to Wukong's absence as his primary support could be channeled into blaming him for the current situation in the Mountain Scene. Macaque might not have the emotional tools to cope with his feelings. Also He tends to suppress his own concerns and desires, which eventually leads to built-up resentment that explodes later when he finally loses his support - Wukong.

This's unhealthy for both of them. Not only does it put a burden on the other person, but also when the other person crumbles (as humans often do), your only support crumbles too. You can't maintain a sound mind to be there for them because you're left trying to cope with the loss of support.

The other person slips up (as most humans do), they crumble, and thus your support crumbles. So they're the reason for your current lack of support. It's THEIR FAULT. (Note: This is one of Macaque's reasons because the situation is complex, but I want to highlight this aspect as it's often not discussed how Mac's dependency played a part in his behavior.)

All of this added to Macaque failing to cope and leaving Wukong when he needs him the most.

#They're so unhealthy #and so loving #it's hurt #they loved each other #and they hurt each other #and they hurt themselves #because of their own issues #It wasn't good to begin with #now add 1 scratch and it all crumble down #explode like a bubble #just #shadowpeach #past shadowpeach #lmk #lmk meta #meta #I wonder how much did Wukong know about Mac's dependency on him #poor Mac keeps expecting and disappointed on his own because his own issues created all this behaviours #him suppressing and failing to communicate clearly and assert himself to Wukong #Like now We have 2 non-talking monkeys #I wonder what could go wrong #lmk takes #mac analysis #analysis #mac meta #macaque #mac #swk #swk and mac #tag

[juuuuunaaaaaooooo]

I don't know why I think about this just before going to sleep but...

Beth didn't shoot Rio because she was afraid of him or in danger (he was unarmed, and we know he would never hurt her physically).

Nope she was only afraid to going to jail!

She wasn't mad at him for the "kidnap", she was mad at him because he tells Turner her secret!

She prefer kill the man who give her the chance to be something else than just the puppet of her trash husband, than kill or let rio kill the man who try to put her in jail, But...

What I mean is...She had another choice, because Rio wasn't the problem!

#Why I do this to myself #it's hurt #and the worst part is.... She continue to wash cash even when he was gone and when turner continue to “spy” on her #and this is what upset me the most #rio x beth #beth x rio #Brio #nbc good girls #gg #good girls nbc #and yes Rio isn't an angel at all #but he didn't hide who he is

[adoriels-tears-if]

"Quite the contrary. Because clearly, we missed something in your education."

"Why do you feel compelled to include yourself in we. You are not my mother, just her familiar!"

Pain flashes in the hawk's eyes as she stands speechless, and at a loss for words. You hurt her. Deeply.

#It's hurt #Saschta #Snippet

[rachel-974]

I hate periods times...

Oof...

#digital art #funny art #freacking periods #argh why #ooof #it's hurt #rachel 974

[nayialovecat]

Ouch...

Allright. So it's time to say it. Yesterday I had an attack of some kind of pain of nervous origin (it started from the lumbar section and during the day it walked along the right leg to attack so hard in the evening that I got stuck on the 2nd floor of my building and my husband had to almost carry me upstairs). I thought that if I sleep through the night it will get over, but no. The pain is still there, and even despite the painkillers it sometimes squeezes the tears out of my eyes. I go to the doctor, but personally I suspect sciatica.

I am writing this to make you realize that this week's update of the comic may be canceled - while I am still able to correct a scanned lineart on my computer (e.g. second Ink Demonth), I am not able to bend over the page enough to finish lineart.

We'll see what the doctor says and recommends.

#about me #it's hurt #really really hurt #I'm crying

[gaybichon]

this is cute but also i like to think the pope has to preface every single statement with "this isn't dogma but" like he has to break character for a sec and clarify that he's not speaking ex cathedra

#hell is empty everything is beautiful and nothing hurt ♥️

[saulwexler]

how to explain to non-americans that the better call saul ads aren’t exaggerated for comedic effect they are super normie

#better call saul #[name rhyme] did someone hurt you? I’ll kill them. I’ll make them suffer. i’ll burn the world down until we are the last 2 in it #local lawyer tag

[silverspleen]

Every time I see that G--gle phone photoshop commercial my heart is filled with infinite sadness, like, yeah it's cool you can have a good family photo, it's cool you can do that, but god, there is something to be said for the honesty of a family photo where you're blinking, or crying, or have ugly wrinkles.

What is too unsightly for you? Would you swipe-click-replace out the image of my cousin crying on our Florida trip family reunion photo? Would you remove the plastic snake I have clenched in my grip, which I still have to this day? Would you scoff at the wrinkles around our eyes and the strands of hair on our faces as we squint into the wind, the day before the massive storm? Would I remember it if I didn't have these reminders, if the picture was perfect and clean, all children in a row with perfect gleaming white tombstone tooth smiles? No tears. No plastic snake.

Everyone is beautiful and no one looks genuine.

#like it's cool it's cool but also IT HURTS. #BE UGLY #HAVE AN UNFLATTERING PICTURE OF YOURSELF #it's who you are #people are often unflattering and it's genuine #anyway stupid candid camera shots will always be my favorite pictures of myself #I like to see how I look when I'm not posing #the dragoon diaries

[greykolla-art]

My blog has become infested with angst goblins, and they must be fed with some hypothetical scenarios!🙏💚

#grey art #fan art #hazbin hotel fanart #hazbin hotel #Hazbin hotel comic #JESUS WEPT THIS FUCKING THING WAS A BEAST #BUT I LOVE IT! #hazbin charlie #hazbin alastor #Alastor #charlie morningstar #angst #hurt/comfort #whump art #I know what you people are I’m one of you! #I heard your cries for more angst and I aim to please! #also good excuse to use clip studio more #I only bust that out for something special #now let’s do something else! like eat!

[midnight-coffee94]

No single line has ever wrecked me as hard as this one from the Good Place and I think about it constantly

#the good place #i'm binge watching it again and it just takes me out so hard #i get lost in the sauce thinking about this quote #the idea that those who hurt you are capable of being better people and then seeing them change and grow just hits me right between the rib #who am i kidding it stabs me like the senators stabbed Caesar #anyway #icy does a tag ramble

[jjunhui]

gaza has just been completely cut off from the world.

after increased intensity of israeli aistrikes tonight, the last cable providing communications was destroyed. telecommunications have been completely cut off. they cannot reach one another. they cannot reach paramedics. the red crescent society has completely lost contact with their branch in gaza. nobody inside can reach anyone inside, and especially not outside of gaza to tell us what is going on. this is a complete atrocity.

#n.txt #palestine #gaza #free palestine #i am so angry and hurt rn

[candaru]

no no. you don't get it. the reason I injure my blorbos until they can't walk is because that's the only way they'll ever let someone else carry them. the reason I curse them to be sick and feverish is so that they'll finally open up about their emotions while delirious. the reason I force them to overexert themselves to the point of exhaustion is so that when they pass out they can finally rest.

I'm doing this for their own good.

#angst #whump #writeblr #hurt/comfort #does anybody hear me. hello #it's about forcibly stripping a character of the pride that keeps them from letting themselves be human

[juuuuunaaaaaooooo]

Rio in 2x11 : You talk too much

Rio in 4x04

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh…..Well it doesn't feel the same at all…ouch^^

#It's hurt #^^ #junaowatchggs4forthefirsttime #gg rewatch 2022 #gg rewatch #ggrewatch #ggrewatch2022 #4x05 #nbc good girls

[iapislazuli]

Guys I’m going to be so bare naked ass honest with you we had a house fire tonight and I was standing in the kitchen with the flaming stove reading the Wikipedia page for fire

#dia noises #some minor burns but otherwise nobody was hurt #Dias greatest hits

[stil-lindigo]

lead balloon (the tumblr post that saved me)

if this comic resonated with you, it would mean the world to me if you donated to this palestinian family's escape fund.

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no creative notes because this isn't that kind of comic.

I know I don’t owe any of you anything but I still felt compelled to write about my long term absence. And I feel far enough away from the dangerous spot I was in to be able to make this comic. I have a therapist now, and she agreed that making this could be a very cathartic gesture, and the start of properly leaving these thoughts behind me. I am still, at seemingly random times, blindsided by fleeting desires to kill myself. They’re always passing urges, but it’s disarming, and uncomfortable. I worry sometimes that my brain’s spent so long thinking only about suicide that it’s forgotten how to think about anything else. Like, now that I've opened that door for myself, I'll never be able to fully shut it again. But I’m trying my best to encourage my mind in other directions. We'll see how that goes.

I am still donating all proceeds from my store to Palestinian causes. So far, I've donated over $15K, not including donations coming from my own pocket or the fundraising streams which jointly raised around $10K. In the time since I made my initial post about where this money would be going, the focus has shifted from aid organisations to directly donating to escape funds.

If you'd like to do the same, you can look at Operation Olive Branch, which hosts hundreds of Palestinian escape funds or donate to Safebow, which has helped facilitate the safe crossing and securing of important medical procedures for over 150 at-risk palestinians since the beginning of the genocide.

#cw: suicidal ideation #cw: suicide #cw: self harm #cw: mental health #cw: depression #i made the balloon the main representation of my self destructive urges for a reason but im not going to explain it #i tried to keep a lot of the details in this vague #it would be my worst nightmare if this comic encouraged someone to hurt themselves #so. please dont #for a long time even the thought of making this comic felt so insipid and narcissistic #with the state of the world as it is #having the only threat to your life be yourself felt so privileged and trite and shameful #but doing this comic made me sit down and process things in full #and im just. very grateful i didn't give in to my thoughts back when i sincerely felt i'd be more useful to the world dead #i also feel the need to say that this wont represent everyone's battle with mental illness. its unfortunately different for all of us #there is no fix-all #and im afraid this might be one of those comics that either resonates a lot or misses the target by a mile #i made it for myself foremost. and now that its done im glad i did it #thank you for reading #and please stay alive #stillindigo art #stillindigo comics

[catskullery]

#posted on my uhhhh side art account on twitter and thought i should make it clear here too #since they've been coming out of the woodwork lately #carry on #the terfs are really in their feelings about this one <3 #really down in their hurt little ugly feefees <3 #my they pronoun scares them soooo bad too #awww it's okay little dumb dumb the pronoun can't hurt you here have a binkie