#thank you for your sympathy

[bumnyv]

two losers caught in 4k

#a gift for a friend :) #yes solangelo is king but pls understand #my weakness is also annoying x edgelord #thank you for your sympathy #valdangelo #leo valdez #nico di angelo #pjo #percy jackon and the olympians #heroes of olympus #hoo #pjo art #pjo hoo toa #hoo art #pjo tv show #pjo series

[jaclynhyde]

seeing these replies come in is the true cry for justice experience

#thank you for your sympathy #jh reads dc #thornfield13713 #depizan

[north-peach]

Rest in Peace, Vixen Tail

I was recently informed that one of my favorite authors, a woman who has contributed much to many fandoms, has passed away.

At first, I hoped this was merely a mistake, but on checking with Vixen Tail's ao3 profile, I read the small announcement that stated this author passed away May 3rd, 2022.

Typically when an author stops posting, we all hope they are merely taking a break. Perhaps a life event? Maybe a lingering injury or a sudden change in free time. For all that we love, appreciate and respect everyone who contributes to fandoms through art, media, fics and all the ways we can imagine, sometimes we forget that we are not as immortal as our works.

I am devastated that I am almost a year late to offer my deepest condolences, my sympathies and, should you who are reading this have also been unaware, my apologies.

Honestly, a part of me is hoping I will get a very confused PM, asking why on Earth I would believe a dearly beloved author and artist is dead when she is simply busy with life...

We can only hope.

But in the meantime,

Rest in peace, Vixen Tail.

We mourn your silence.

You will be missed.

You will not be forgotten.

#Vixen Tail #rest in peace #thank you for your work #i hope rumors of your death are greatly exaggerated #my sympathies and condolences to your friends and family #everyone who loved you #fandom deaths #we mourn your silence

[lanwangjihouse]

#Marius thanks you for your kind words and sympathy for his severe suffering #WangXiao pretends that they have nothing to do with it #okay i just kidding #in fact wzc is parodying jgy #the untamed bts #cql bts #wang zhuocheng #xiao zhan #wang yibo #cql #mdzs

[starrysharks]

we need to line up every single ''""""""""""artist"""""""""""" on deviantart who steals art from real creators to churn out ugly AI adopts for quick cash and shoot them via firing squad

#im sorry but yesterday i found out my own art is being fed to that sort of thing #i have zero sympathy for idiots who cant just pick up a fucking pen and draw #its just fucking lazy and stupid using ai to draw adopts GET A REAL FUCKING JOB #kys kys kys #fucking hell #kys #i fucking hate that AI shit #if youre even contemplating feeding my or anyone's art to that shit against their will then do us all a favor and ram a gun down your throat #thank you

[owlinaminor]

yesterday I was arrested while playing my drum at a protest, and the precinct where they took me and my comrades was set up with individual cells so we couldn't talk to each other while waiting to be let out. no phones or reading material either. as a result I spent the better part of 3-4 hours just singing mountain goats songs to myself, and never have I more appreciated this band's immense discography

#thank you john darnielle for your indirect assistance here #also gave me a new level of sympathy for people put in solidarity confinement and shit like that; absolutely inhumane #the mountain goats #betsy blogs

[magnifiico]

We have this king named Magnifico ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* [. . .] with lightning for hands and eyes that can glow—

No, no, no, I’m totally kidding! unless ???

please like/reblog if you're interested in interacting with king magnifico of disney's wish. heavily headcanon-based, spoilers present but tagged accordingly. (see my rules page for further information)

canon tied in with my remarkable queen amaya, written by casi (´⌣`ʃƪ)

#˗ˏˋ ★ ˎˊ˗ 《 promo 》 #back and settled after the holiday weekend with my family #which means none of you are safe from us 8) #the entire world: dunking on the movie hardcore #me: this is so sad alexa play despacito #bc whether you like it or not magnifico is here and WILL be witnessed in one way or another #no but fr thank you so far to the folks giving this blog a chance! #it means a lot to have even a shred of support--i can't properly express my gratitude #much less my sympathies for having to deal with this dramatic idiot but this is what you sign up for sorry 8'))) #thanks again for your interest! :D

[transfagholmes]

me sending out all my little requests for extensions. i feel like a little mouse going help somebody help me. why did they all make the deadlines the last day of lectures rather than after lectures are over is it because they hate me personally

#first officer's log #also i just contacted my module coordinators directly bc i know my tutor will just forward my email. girl what about gdpr. #literally the way my lecturer looked at me in class last semester after my tutor forwarded her on the letter from the counselling service. #thank you for your sympathy but also i don't want to burst into tears

[scarrletmoon]

i will simply not be reading any izzy discourse and will be blocking people who try to argue things that straight up aren’t supported by canon, god bless

#scarrlet rambles #i haven’t seen anything yet i’m just putting it out there #this is not an izzy sympathy zone #i would like to go back to being ambivalent about him thank you #i know some of y’all white people can’t be normal so i will not be giving you the time of day #stay away from me and i will not get in your business! simple!

[triptych-of-voids]

idk if this is medical anomaly technically but i have HS (hidradenitis suppurvativa) and one of the many symptoms is tunnels under my skin. ive fit qtips in them before (dont do this if you have HS fyi it fucking hurts) and im only stage 2. my dermatologist says shes seen tunnels big enough to put a finger in! yuck!

ach....sinus tracts. painful. but interesting nonetheless. as far as im aware hidradenitis suppurativa is chronic but i hope youre able to get treatments and that they help!

#youre all staving off my boredom with these asks which i really appreciate:]] #i hope no one is expecting an outpouring of sympathy from me though.... #either way thanks for sharing i do find it interesting!! i wish i could magically cure you and save you the trouble #replies from the void #the doc is in

[unproduciblesmackdown]

truly something that, amidst facing / going through a dramatic Life Change ft. unavoidable emotional effects of that, there are instances where i can't conceal any & all degrees of being distressed / upset, & repeatedly getting "it's hard for me too" as a Direct Response to that: really something & a half how the asserted theoretical Sympathy of [i feel similarly!] is invoked so as to, oh you know, preclude sympathetic Treatment. such as that what would be More sympathetic in these instances would be to say Nothing, "if there's nothing but dismissal / making it first & foremost about someone else's feelings to say, don't say it at all" style

#reading also that original Lovelessness essay ''love is meant to make me human / love is also the mechanism by which my humanity #has been denied'' always preferring to have [sorry! couldn't fully bottle up this Emotiona externally manifesting at all!] Ignored rather #than ''nicely'' interacted with so as to Invalidate; Dismiss; someone's annoyed at you for having it; etc #for bonus context like we are not in the same boat with it. #not a case of ''the same situation; mine is worse though'' like no; fundamentally different situations here lmao. mine is worse #If You Feel So Bad. Or At All. then at least now do me the favor of Not Saying That; Repeatedly #their feelings put on me too in other ways. stewing resentment into lashing out; tossing out ''but i'm justified'' like ok! Your business!! #the ol like. If You're Going To Do Something Anyways then how you justify it to yourself is Your business / b/w you & your god as they say #& the last thing to do is be making it the problem of ppl Most Affected by what you're gonna do anyways & Also ask their Absolution..... #like if you need more moral support abt What You're Doing Anyways: turn to Anyone Else. even No One if you have to. #bit going tf through it when it's spilling over into Posting but such is life!! we all have that [the horrors. girl help] blogger on dash #again the tl;dr like oh you don't say. the [umm but have you considered? My Feelings! (they're so sympathetic at all. yor welcome)] is #the mechanism through which Really basic sympathy is being denied & replaced with [Saying Nothing would've been less hurtful] #misgendering me the other night too while Also all 'hey I'm trying to talk to the customer service. why are You going up & talking first' #(that was me experiencing the latter. i didn't say it but i was like cmon. my glasses are fogging up w/surgical mask (don't have access to #more effective masks so doing what Nonzero i can there) i'm a bit carsick i'm weathering a crisis. can i have anything here lol) #just Oh You Know. The Horrors.... #balancing ofc trying to endure trying to self soothe etc etc. with ''it's the horrors. it's gonna be horrific & you're gonna be affected'' #ah the [being kind to oneself] like also means knowing how reasonable it is to Not solo contain & endure & Cope Through everything.... #crushing a paper cup in my hands genuinely i would like to generously thank my virtual allies out here today. mic feedback #irl In Real Life? life is Real asf here & nobody Realer than them

[milkstoner]

Well, besides that, you guys deserve a life update too because the goddesses are well aware new fics will not be seeing the light of day

#i just drop by and im like btw we found out my mom does coke #then i dip. LOL #no but i had to report my family to cps too so that’s sth i never would wish on anybody its awful. IJBOL #other than that i dont need sympathy or whatever im trying to be fierce through it all. im beating chronic insomnia and i got a promotion #if you think your life is not together just be reminded that as long as im around there will always be worse than you LOLLLLLL okay sorry #the self deprecation is tired admittedly. i dont expect to witness anymore horrors #so that’s it thanks for sticking around ^_^

[buckttommy]

@/anon

#Last time I checked my name wasn't [REDACTED] or [REDACTED]. It's jack and jack hasn't said any of those things. #Sooooo. Y'all can keep out of my inbox with this imagined angst. Either you like show or you don't. #I genuinely don't care either way. #But unless my name is [x] don't complain to me about something someone else said as if I'm supposed to magically #fix the problems or offer sympathy because I can't and I have no sympathy to give. #If y'all don't like what someone says I can't do anything about that. Your internet experience is yours to deal with however you see fit. #But it's YOUR experience not mine. #So. Handle that and leave me to handle mine. Thanks #/not mad #(firm but not mad) #jack answers mail

[proto-language]

hrngnfghnfg

#just thinking aloud but #i dunno. kind of feel like the last Barrier between me and Normal Personness or whatever #is just. i feel so completely and utterly unable to feel empathy specifically with regards to children and childbearing and childrearing. #like. i have known ever since i was small that my parents lost other pregnancies before me and between me and my sister. and all i could #feel about that as a kid was 'thank god because i never wanted a sibling anyway' and 'uh well i never asked to be born soooo... so what' #and now as an adult. i know that it's a terrible thing to suffer a loss like that. #and i'd at least manage not to act inappropriately towards someone i knew if they were in that position. #but i still can't find any of the *feelings* about it. #which is strange because i usually feel Everything So Much. #i also still don't understand when people talk about like. instantly falling in love with their kid or whatever #like maybe i almost get it if it's a child you've gestated for nine months and then given birth to. #but i feel like people *must* be at least partially lying about it when it comes to things like adoption #because there'd be such a high psychological and social penalty to admitting that you felt anything less. #adoption in general drives me crazy like i cannot Believe that it's still just a really accepted alternative to having a biological child #when... any kid who has had to be removed from the circumstances into which they were born and given to new people #is surely going to be traumatised or have issues or however you want to put it. #and it can't possibly be the Same Thing as having a... fresh baby of your own. #anyway. i feel some sympathy for and plenty of logical understanding of children and parents. #but none of it makes sense to me on the level on which i usually connect with people. #and hell maybe everyone feels that way until they have a kid. in which case i think everyone #is wildly irresponsible for having those kids without knowing they're gonna like it or be good at it and hoping it'll just work out. lmao

[askshivanulegacy]

/rant

At work, someone mentioned that they don't like their dog, and I said Wow, have you tried training it? Socialising it? (This is most people's pet problems.)

And he said, well it is completely trained, he's just used to outside dogs, but this dog is an inside dog since they've been living in a place with no yard. And his wife doesn't like the dog either because it will seek attention from her instead of going to lay in a corner all day.

Me, thinking all this is very, very strange - both of them not liking their own dog and also getting a dog in the first place if they were determined not to like it - suggested that maybe the kids could take care of it.

But the "problem" is evidently that the wife is at home alone, with the dog, most of the day, and never grew up with dogs, and just can't stand it.

I think this guy expected me to express some kind of sympathy, but, of course, I had none except for the dog.

And I just. If you get an animal, you make your bed and you LIE in it. "Not growing up" with dogs isn't an excuse to hate your pet and deny it attention. Grow up. This is a creature who is perfectly trained, sounds like a dream animal for anyone, thinks the world of you, and you just can't be bothered to even like it? Spend time with it???

This guy and his wife are losers. They need to get over themselves and figure out how to love their pet.

Heard from some other guy who failed to train his pet properly and was "scared for his kids."

These are a YOU problem, NOT an animal problem. Train your pet. Love your pet. It's not like it's hard; it's easy. If you're giving your pet a shit life or giving the pet up because you won't bother to put the time and energy into it, then you suck at life and shouldn't have gotten one in the first place.

#this is a rant and only a rant #sorrynotsorry if you like your kids but you need to like your pet JUST AS MUCH and PROTECT AND TRAIN IT #not give it up just because you have no spine #there is no situation that calls for getting rid of a pet in favor of kids #literally none #train the pet and socialize it #BAM ! #ez #'but i can't it's untrainable' #sounds like a YOU problem #sounds like a FAILING TO BE A HUMAN BEING problem #anyway it seems the other kids love the dog so they're the ones keeping it from getting punted thank goodness #expect no sympathy from me if you get a pet you better BUCK UP and fulfill your responsibilities #i am not prioritizing your kids over a vulnerable animal #act like an adult for pete's sake #rant #the words i hold back at work #i shouldn't needle this guy but i think I'm gonna start asking him about his dog instead of his wife or kids 8) #anyway i get Things Happen when major life circumstances change #but this post is not about that #this is about INFORMED CONSENT and the RESPONSIBILITY THEREOF of the LIFELONG VARIETY #if you cannot handle your pet then #FIX YOURSELF