#woman's evening wrap

[lookingbackatfashionhistory]

• Woman's Evening Wrap.

Date: 1925

Artist: Designed by House of Worth, Paris (ca. 1858–1952)

Medium: Silk velvet with metallic supplementarty wefts.

#fashion history #history of fashion #fashion #vintage clothing #vintage fashion #vintage #1920's fashion #1920's #woman's evening wrap #house of worth #silk velvet #1925

[rambrandt-the-painter]

i love the genre of art click bait thats literally just "dont draw bad"

also i hate how the clothes? on the right are drawn like just draw her naked at that point

#this doesnt make me want to click on the video #it feels like its going to be a huge gamble #with potential to waste my time #that doesnt even look like a study thats just your oc #shrink wrapped anatomy #this is what itd look like if you got a bad paleo artist to draw a woman

[pickled-flowers]

I wonder what about me, a trans man with boobs, make people think I don't experience misogyny 🤔

#like do you think i have male privilege as well? #do you think i dont benefit from feminism? #curious #i was talking with my mom about it and she was surprised i still got treated “like a woman” #like maam no one sees me as a guy ok they see me as a weird androgynous girl at best #idk man but this shit usually comes from cis women and im tired #like i once got called the enemy because im a trans guy??? like sure noemie #i dont even consider myself a binary man im transmasc but cis people cant wrap their head around that i guess

[kuroimugen]

I'm coming out of the woodwork because I can't handle it. My chest has been tight with anger since I read that Ruibo was supposed to be more prominent in season 3. I am shaking as I write this. I've had to hold it in until I got off work and could write properly.

I volunteer in fandom. I work the Alternate and Historical Fiction track at DragonCon. (Yeah, if you've been and you like our diversity and our women-focused content of the last five or so years? That's ME. Me and my director. WE have been CURATING THAT CONTENT for yall) Our Flag Means Death falls under my track and I watched it with complete glee and would gladly make sure you all had content to talk about this year.

But to tell us (here's talking to you Casey Bloys) that we should amp up The Gilded Age when your DEI content is right there and you just cancelled it? You cannot tell me that you and Max deserve to have fan retention when you don't even understand what Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion is and why it matters. You don't throw a show at the wall and then take it down and give yourself a pat on the back going "yup we did it good for us guys, don't need another gay show for a few years take a break." You fight, every single day, for your content to feature anyone OTHER than white men.

Every single year I comb through our DragonCon content and decide "What can we do better? Where did we falter? Where do we need to improve?" (you can discuss those with me later, this is about OFMD) You DO NOT give yourself a show with this much diversity and then claim something like The Gilded Age can even compare. You cannot use that as your substitute. It does not work like that. I do this as volunteer work and not as my job and I am furious that he is treating it like a fucking joke. Like Ruibo and Nathan didn't deserve to be showcased in their own season now that the third season would feature them more and we would take a step back from the middle aged men (allegedly).

#ofmd #our flag means death #let's not even get into fridging the gay because I know David wrote that to wrap up Izzy #and he also specifically said there is no OFMD without Izzy #but diversity means giving your spotlight to everyone #including the incomparable Zheng Yi Sao #that woman RULED THE SEAS #and no one knows about her but everyone knows Blackbeard #I am shaking and so near tears I hate this so much

[menlove]

recognizing t//erf red flags on posts is a gift i am burdened with bc i do not want to go into my mutuals' asks every time to be like "that poll you reblogged said 'males' so i went to op's blog and sure enough she's ranting about how her 'sister' is trans now so is 'allegedly her brother'" bc ultimately it's usually on some inane fucking post and i don't want to be that annoying but like

:/

anyways..... if u see anyone making posts using only the term "male" instead of men 9/10 times just go to their blog and bam! t//erf. this is usually fool-proof.

#nothing wrong w the terms male and female they are just the group most often to use them and never man #theyll still use woman! but they will not use man that word does not exist to them i dont think lmfao #which is funny bc it's the exact opposite for incel bros who only ever say 'females' and never women. but still say man. it makes u think #who is afforded manhood and womanhood vs who is boiled down to 'male' and 'female' and why etc #also this is abt that poll asking how far down in ur wrapped do u have to go to get a male artist #which is a fine concept for a poll until u connect the dots there #and it's just a part of female/lesbian sepratism that demands that u not even listen to male artists or do ur best not to #did straight up see one of them going on the other day abt how TRUE feminists only listen to female artists and go to female doctors #and dont talk to any males ever including their family #im like are yall okay genuinely #the ansewr is no. but. you know.

[theygender]

Going to visit the more conservative side of my gf's family who she's 0% out to sucks but it's also kinda funny bc like. I only have three presentation modes I can possibly pass as: turbodyke, genderfucker, or cis man. I can't look like the first one around that side of her family since she's not out as a woman to them so my presentation automatically loops back around to one of the other two in trying to avoid it, and since I'm specifically trying to NOT look queer it usually means I get read as a cis man—which completely defeats the purpose bc then I get people asking if I'm her gay boyfriend. Last time we were preparing to visit them I put on an unassuming T-shirt and jeans, looked in the mirror, and just told her "I don't think I'm beating the gay boyfriend allegations"

#choosing whether it's safer to be interpreted as a gay man or a Transgender or an inconceivably masculine straight (failed) woman #is a fucking trip let me tell you #it's one that i have to deal with to some extent any time i go outside #but adding my gf's conservative family to the mix makes it even worse #bc then i can't let people (correctly) interpret me as a dyke or even hope to pass as a straight man #and no matter what I'm interpreted as i risk outing her as some level of queer #surprisingly it seems like letting people believe I'm her gay boyfriend has been easier so far than being interpreted as her girlfriend #'fairly respectable cis gay couple' seems to be easier for them to wrap their heads around than #'too-feminine nephew starts dating a hairy & offensively masculine woman who seems like she should be a dyke but somehow isn't' #😮‍💨 #rambling

[ophernelia]

There’s a good chance Lykaia might be late this week for patrons. Had period cramps yesterday that damn near sent me to the ER so we are not doing well, friends.

#mine have always been bad #like passing out level bad but they’ve been manageable the last few months #but yesterday jfc i couldn’t even wrap my head around the level of pain #and my family thinks they’ll get kids from me one day?? HA! when hell freezes over #idk what’s up tho I might make a doctors appointment tho I doubt I’ll find anything out #the joys of being a black woman am I right??? #and imagine me showing up with my dark skinned bf too they’ll surely prescribe me some Tylenol and brush off my pain #I love being black but I hate everyone else’s perception of blackness #text post

[rotisseries]

love participating in taylor swift haterism as a regular listener. feels good feels right. trust I am shackled here against my own volition

#“what kind of hold does that woman even have on you” I WISH I FUCKING KNEW MAN😭😭😭 I HAVE UNCONTROLLABLE BAD TASTE #she's on my damned spotify wrapped every year but I will NEVAR. let an anti ts post pass me by unreblogged

[xboxseries]

eris has been my favorite character for 10. fucking years and i genuinely know more about her than the people writing her. she really might as well be my oc at this point man

#like this does. nothing for her character development. #nothing touching eris in the past 3 years has done anything for her LOL #first they made her The Mom Therapist Character which is nothing. its nothing coming from someone who is that fucked in the head #its genuinely just Misogyny wrapped up in a But Look! She Looks Weird! bundle #and now theyre backtracking and just. making her a hive. the thing she literally hates the most in the world. that killed all her friends #even tho she already 'mastered' hive magic gotta make her the thing that ruined her life! with no further commentary. this is good writing . #mhm mhm sure it sure is lol #also they erased every relationship she had with a woman. ikora eriana mara. in favor of. drifter #and as one of the people who STARTED drifteris it was fine. until they hired a drifteris fanfic writerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr #straight woman that erased a characters existing relationships with other women in favor of her being a self insert. lol #whatever. shes a weird fucking dyke. shes a weird dyke and shed rather ignore your existence and kill bugs than play therapist for you. fuck

[thegroundhogdidit]

one thing about lucifer morningstar is that he will participate in girls night

#every time he meets a woman he doesn't want to have sex with it immediately becomes girls night #no hesitation even #lucifer morningstar #lucifer netflix #lucifer tv #y'all remember candy? his ultimate girls night moment tbh. just wrapped up in a snuggie eating ice cream talking about girls

[garbagequeer]

i kinda feel like one thing that fails post rtd era is that they erased a lot of the continuity between doctors and companions like moffat and from what ive seen chibnall to some degree let the doctor keep some general issues from their past as another doctor but it is not as present as it was in rtd era in which the doctor didnt move on from regeneration to regeneration or companion to companion and the influence of what was before was a palpable motivation in all of the doctor's actions. like i think for example it's very visible when you compare 10 losing rose and how this affects everything about how he relates to other people and who he is with martha because of how big a hit that was to him and then 11 coming fresh off erasing donna's memories mostly as a new person with issues that pop up from time to time but more as if they were acquired so long ago that they're not as on the surface even though it just happened. which could be attributed to the effect of regeneration but it was more interesting the way rtd did it in that who the doctor is at the point of regeneration informs so much of who he becomes to the point that 10 comes into the world loving who 9 loved in such a palpable way that informs all of his character arc

#then i also think the change from 12 to 13 personality wise is not earned #but tbh i think thats a mix of chibnall sucks as showrunner + the moment they got a woman they stopped letting her emote as much as the men #even though the doctor's emotional behavior is like a trademark no matter how much each incarnation tries to keep it under wraps #whatever. daddy long dick is back in town. yippee #dw #thing

[orcelito]

The good news: I will have Chinese food tomorrow

The bad news: I have to see my mom as part of it :[

#speculation nation #negative/ #i guess. i Am complaining. #i did agree to this. better to rip the bandaid off ahead of the family christmas. #but i havent talked to her since like... jeeze. i really think it's been over 2 years by this point now. #ignored all her calls and texts and Letters even #like what am i supposed to say? heyyy ma nice to see you (i guess). why havent i called? well uhhhhh #even in her letter she sent me it was essentially a nearly illegible journal she kept during a depressing as fuck time #something that really shouldve stayed as a journal. but no she wrapped it up stuck a sticker on it and drew some nail polish on the envelope #i am her child and yet she was using me as a therapist. venting things and In The Letter saying she didnt know why she said them #like. mom. you know you dont have to send me everything you write right? you know you can start over right? #but no she just writes with no filter. no consideration for me. #because she's a sad sad woman who sees her children as the only things worth living for #and i do say things. she doesn't fucking care about me as a person. #she just misses the experience of being these little impressionable people's Everything. #no one puts up with her bullshit these days and how sad is that? #so. well. that's the kind of reason why i havent talked to her. bc she's a fucking drain just to be around. #but shes my mother yada yada and something in me still feels maybe even slightly socially obligated to see her #really though i just want to see her Side of the family. i miss them. i haven't seen them in too long. #and in order to see them i have to see her. and i decided itd be best to see her ahead of time #so that family xmas is. at least slightly less awkward. hopefully. #what am i supposed to do if she tries to hug me or something? i dont want to hug her. #either she'll be all weepy that i havent been talking to her or she'll try to act like nothing's changed at all. #or maybe both. who knows. either way itll be entirely about her. as it always is. #i just need to make sure i dont end up alone with her #so long as my sister or grandma are there too she wont be As insufferable. hopefully.

[lunasilvis]

Tomorrow is 8 years since my mom's passing. What a time. And how unrecognizingly different everything is now.

#We were not on best terms because of her alcoholism and abusive behavior. But no one deserves to die from such a horrible disease #it gives me nightmares continually. if you wanna peek into my worst fears or nightmares or weakness or whatever. there you go #I feel so insanely sad still that this happened to her. somehow even a strange form of guilt I can't wrap my head around :/ #dang.. let's celebrate the woman she was on her good days (bc the first 6 years of my life she was a kick ass mom) :) #personal

[humanbeanisnotamused]

fact: wrayne agrupnin is a scientist.

fact: i don't know whether the words "adhd" or "autism" exist in the cr world, but laerryn does not mask At All, and The Way Laerryn Is is obviously a valid and accepted way to Be.

scientists tend to be more Like Laerryn than not, so whether wrayne is herself neurodivergent or not, i imagine she is well within her comfort zone getting along with laerryn.

hypothesis: at some point in wrayne and cerrit's courtship, laerryn spirited wrayne away from some boring social engagement and into her lab, where they spent a couple of hours gleefully blowing stuff up until their partners showed up to retrieve them.

#quay says have you seen laerryn at the same time that cerrit says have you seen wrayne #and then they both go ah. #this is either very good or VERY bad #have they been drinking? yes! are they operating precise scientific machinery? also yes! #quay; wrapping an arm around laerryn's waist: hello darling have you had a fun evening with wrayne? #laerryn; who is not DRUNK but is well into her cups: wrayne has a CENTRIFUGE. she is the COOLEST WOMAN cerrit has EVER DATED #critical role #exu calamity #the ring of brass #exu fucking party time #wrayne agrupnin #laerryn coramar seelie #due to the bonus content in the tags i will be tagging this #loquatius seelie #cerrit agrupnin

[liu-yu-xin]

Really fascinating that the group of ppl who have the most problem with lisa doing the burlesque show are chinese ppl (u would not believe how many video essays have been made about this from the moment it was announced to now the topic is literally inescapable everywhere u look and theyre acting like this single event is setting feminism back 50 years) BUT guess who were the ppl searching lisa 疯马秀 on twt for video footage and flooded the tag with porn bots. ALSO chinese ppl. The fucking irony of it all. Now i am aware these are probably not the same ppl and the pearl clutching group probably takes the most issue with the second group but this is YOUR fucking problem in YOUR society and youve decided to have this fight over the body of a woman who is a) not chinese b) not active in china c) not doing this performance in china like why do u even care??? And its gotten to the point where theres outrage about the two chinese actresses who went to fashion week and also went to lisa’s show saying they should be blacklisted and theyve ruined their career by associating with this like its just ridiculous

#and the wildest comment i saw was ‘this proves we have better feminism in china bc we would never let a woman degrade herself like this’ #its like. from what im hearing u are doing most of the degrading here. AND its an issue thats so unanimously one sided that #men have felt comfortable making commentary disapproving of it and some of the stuff they say is just straight up misogyny again #like… congratulations u have gone from we have better feminism than the west to u have circled back to regular sexism #I really thought it would just die down but basically everyone in china who even knew who she was has turned on her #like do u think it’s feminist to attack the way she looks and call her names for dating the rich louis vuitton guy. #and i dont even want to defend lisa bc i also think its a weird career choice but thats IT. just say its #weird and move on!! stop inventing new forms of misogyny wrapped in feminism wrapped in misogyny wrapped in feminism #i am soo sick of ppl talking about this and bashing lisa for easy feminism points #lisa #blackpink #sidney talks shit

[garfballed]

just THINKING about fast car by tracy chapman gives me goosebumps

#the chorus is such a queer anthem like #i had a feeling that i belong and I had a feeling I could be someone #while wrapped in her deadbeat gfs arms #she finally found a relationship that didn’t make her feel totally alone in the world being a queer woman #even if the gf is a piece of shit lol #yes they are escaping poverty and their situation but also they want to escape to where they can be themselves #idk just some thoughts because this song evokes such visceral emotions #tracy chapman #fast car