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RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE.Â
When I was at one of my lowest (mental) points in life, I couldnât get out of bed some days. I had no energy or motivation and was barely getting by.
I had therapy once per week, and on this particular week I didnât have much to âbringâ to the session. He asked how my week was and I really had nothing to say.
âWhat are you struggling with?â he asked.
I gestured around me and said âI dunno man. Life.â
Not satisfied with my answer, he said âNo, what exactly are you worried about right now? What feels overwhelming? When you go home after this session, what issue will be staring at you?â
I knew the answer, but it was so ridiculous that I didnât want to say it.
I wanted to have something more substantial.
Something more profound.
But I didnât.
So I told him, âHonestly? The dishes. Itâs stupid, I know, but the more I look at them the more I CANâT do them because Iâll have to scrub them before I put them in the dishwasher, because the dishwasher sucks, and I just canât stand and scrub the dishes.â
I felt like an idiot even saying it.
What kind of grown ass woman is undone by a stack of dishes? There are people out there with *actual* problems, and Iâm whining to my therapist about dishes?
But my therapist nodded in understanding and then said:
âRUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE.â
I began to tell him that youâre not supposed to, but he stopped me.
âWhy the hell arenât you supposed to? If you donât want to scrub the dishes and your dishwasher sucks, run it twice. Run it three times, who cares?! Rules do not exist, so stop giving yourself rules.â
It blew my mind in a way that I donât think I can properly express.
That day, I went home and tossed my smelly dishes haphazardly into the dishwasher and ran it three times.
I felt like I had conquered a dragon.
The next day, I took a shower lying down.
A few days later. I folded my laundry and put them wherever the fuck they fit.
There were no longer arbitrary rules I had to follow, and it gave me the freedom to make accomplishments again.
Now that Iâm in a healthier place, I rinse off my dishes and put them in the dishwasher properly. I shower standing up. I sort my laundry.
But at a time when living was a struggle instead of a blessing, I learned an incredibly important lesson:
THERE ARE NO RULES.
RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE!!!
(by Kate Scott 2018)
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I am so in love with this volume because I am so in love with the way Blake Belladonna is finally allowing herself to love Yang, you feel me?
Blake has always had this love fer Yang, we all watched their slowburn unfold over several volumes, but she kept this love close to her heart and only let that affection slip through cracks of her walls and/or during dire life or death situations. The simple, domestic, everyday ways to express love? Holding hands just because and softer words spoken freely and casually? Blake couldnât do it because she was still afraid.
Afraid to hurt Yang and scare her away with her affections, because she had hurt Yang so much already and couldnât bear to risk burdening her even more. She had left, she had abandoned the one person who she trusted most, and she had to prove she was staying for good this time. They still had to repair their friendship first and foremost.
Afraid to be the one hurting for exposing herself, because love had burned her once so throughly before. She trusts Yang with her life, but that haunting nightmare that is Adam makes it hard fer her to trust the brightest thing in her life with her heart. Blake had to overcome the bullish knife hanging over her head before she could be in another relationship.
And then when these issues were slowly getting resolved, Blake still held back. Sure, there were more tender moments between them, but they were more brief and far between. Blake was still holding back because this slowburn slowdance was all she knew when it came to Yang. They had to focus on the threat of Salem, of Atlas falling, of all that. It was better to play it safe, now was still not the right time.
But then? But then Blake watched Yang die, and suddenly all those cautious moments of âplaying it safeâ racked up to an indescribable amount of missed opportunities and regret. Suddenly waiting all this time for the ârightâ time didnt matter at all anymore because Blake completely ran out of any time.
Blake isnât going to hold back anymore, sheâs finally comfortable enough to be who she always was deep down under those trauma walls, this openly affectionate silly goofy little book nerd who just wants to make her beloved smile, and sheâs going to absolutely s h o w e r Yang with flirty tones and dumb jokes and longing touches and be such a dorky romantic because she doesnât want to waste anymore time. As Weiss spoke fer all of us, itâs, âAbout timeâ. The ârightâ time is right the fuck now screw that ânot concerned with sands of timeâ bullshit she wants to kiss this stupid pretty face and she WILL let Yang know. I think about Blake this volume and Iâm just SO PROUD OF HER. Nothing like a little taste of death to push a slowburn along, huh? Seriously though, witnessing Blakeâs arc come full circle to open up and be the person she once was before Adam crushed her into taking up as little space as possible, before she deemed herself as nothing but a coward and a fool, seeing her laugh and smile openly and shoot every damn shot she can- itâs so, so damn good.
Anyways, I am also in love with Yang Xiao Long having no idea how to handle Blake being incredibly openly in love with her. 10/10 watching experience, truly.
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normalize creators replying to fanon shippers with âthatâs great that youâre inspired to write your own version of things. keep doing that! but please respect our version of our story.â
normalize fans being reminded that boundaries between fandom and creators exist for a reason.
normalize fans recognizing their own creative potential without seeking canon validation
normalize the idea that fandom is a hobby, not an identity to threaten and fight and harass people over
normalize a healthy understanding of the boundaries between fiction and reality
normalize just chilling the fuck out lmao
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REBLOGGING FOR REFERENCE MATERIAL
GOOD OMENS SCREENCAPS AND RELATED VIDEOS
THESE ARE THE FULL SERIES SCREENCAPS* I MADE FOR EVERYONE IN THIS BLESSED FANDOM!
*[I do not own any rights to these images, nor do I have permission to use or distribute them. These are not to be used for commercial or any monetary gain. Thank you for not suing me!]
Episode One - âIn the Beginningâ
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âThe Bookâ
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âHard Timesâ
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âSaturday Morning Funtimeâ
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âThe Doomsday Optionâ
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âThe Very Last Day of the Rest of Their Livesâ
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DAVID TENNANT and MICHAEL SHEEN on The Graham Norton Show - 5/31/19  (Full Episode - 889MB)
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4th sep was @duocreatixâs birthday
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Honestly as a blind person Iâm so tired of seeing fictional blind characters who donât use white canes or other guides. âThey have special powers so they know whatâs around themâ or âtheyâre confident enough to not need a guideâ are common tropes, and Iâm tired.
Are people scared that using a white cane will make their blind character seem weak? They canât use a cane because theyâre so special that they already know whatâs around them, and other blind people who use guides are inferior because theyâre not special?
Iâm tired. Give your blind characters white canes and other guides. Let them hold onto their friends, let them have guide dogs. Donât make white cane users feel ostracized for not being âstrong enoughâ to go without.
Another thing that pisses me off is when a sighted character comes up with the fantasy equivalent of braille and teaches it to the blind character. Braille was invented by Louis Braille, a blind man, in 1824. The blind character should be the one coming up with it.
Tldr Iâm blind and tired of sighted people lol
đȘ Sighted People MUST Reblog This đȘ
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hey lesbians youâre not a fake lesbian if you find some men to be conventionally attractive. you were most likely raised to know what an âattractiveâ man looks like, and you probably still recognize it. seeing a man as attractive under societies rules of âattractive-nessâ doesnât make you a fake lesbian.
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Quick Reminder...
The COVID-19 virus has not changed
Your immune system has not changed
There is no vaccine
There is no cure
Whatâs Different?
Fewer government-directed restrictions
Thatâs literally it: fewer lockdowns, closures, and stay-at-home orders, often due to political pressure.
But COVID-19 is still here. Itâs still contagious. People are still getting it. People are still dying from it. Just because itâs not as prominent in the news does not mean that this 2020 story arc has concluded!
Please
Wash your hands
Continue social distancing
Wear a face mask
Protect high-risk and vulnerable people
Self-isolate if sick, quarantine if exposed
Help flatten the curve and contain the outbreaksÂ
Source: I am an actual contact tracer and I just got home from a very long shift where we are having to reach out to more and more and more people as they are exposed to people with positive COVID-19 tests.
Please stay safe.
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Iâm years late, decades, honestly, but I did watch Good Omens and this was the one thing I really wanted to draw when I was done. I did look for it, because I thought probably it existed already somewhere, but I couldnât find it, so as usual I have to do everything myself.
SO, I donât think itâs possible to spoil something as old as this, but spoiler warning, I suppose (too late) for Aziraphale and Crowley swapping places. I donât think it went like this, but it couldâve gone like this. My feeling was that, after losing your best friend once, itâd be terrifying to have to walk headfirst into that prospect again. What if it does all go pear-shaped after all? So, you do it, but it scares you.
And I just really, I REALLY like to draw hugs. I really like it so much. Thank you.
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I'm so sorry, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but aren't you a straight cis woman? Isn't it kinda weird that you want to profit off pride merch then? Sorry if i misunderstood!
I was going to ignore your question, but it honestly rubbed *me* in the wrong way, so let's go...
I admit you have a point, but tbf Doritos tries to make profit off LGBTQ community, not me. I'm an ally, I don't see anything for het cis people to express their support, but I do my best to make queer people feel valued and represented, to the point that the majority of my IG followers thought I was queer myself. Even so, as a lovely friend pointed out I don't need to be queer to design queer merch.
The main reason I designed my cute cats is that I see queer fellows not feeling represented and not having any kind of merch with their corresponding flag. I just wanted to make something different for people to identify with. This afternoon someone bought a demi cat sticker and I got super happy, because I know how difficult is to find demi pride merch... and anyone is free to tell me if they think there's any specific pride flag they want me to represent!
This is my way to show support, and if I will profit the bare minimum just to pay the fucking hours I spent creating those designs, so be it. This is MY art, MY effort, and my sexuality frankly doesn't fucking matter, it's nobody's business. đ
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Me too, my darling, me too...
I have to ask.... how many of my followers have I inadvertently gotten into the Magnus Archives
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So, i saw my art works on pinterest and got this reaction. I feel like i should clear this up.
I'm sorry if this version of Aziraphale offended people. It was simply drawing with the moment and admitedly this is how i usually draw men's body. I had no intention of offending anyone by turning him into a more tuned version. And i did fix it with another drawing, just never posted it.
If you guys want it, i'll post the other version too.
Thank you for reading this.
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Sci-fi! Fantasy! Book series! LGBT+! Fighting imperialism and capitalism!
Hopefully I have gripped you enough for you to read the following pleaâŠ
Ever since watching Avatar: the Last Airbender, Iâve wondered why there isnât more media for children which discusses difficult, dystopian themes in an accessible and enjoyable context.
Thatâs why Iâm writing a sci-fi series for children, set in 23rd century London, dealing with the dangers of imperialism, colonialism, and fascism.Â
Whatâs the book about?????
Neon Lights is the first book in a planned sci-fi and fantasy series for kids. Itâs colourful, exciting, full of friendship. It takes the narratives that many of us know â about the struggle against frightening systems â and puts it into a context which teaches about finding love and the strength of your own voice.
Imagine a pretty pastel, London version of Blade Runner.
Now, imagine a fifteen year old girl, breaking into her uncleâs government office to find out state secrets.
Now, imagine her getting caught, running into a princess, fleeing the authorities with said princess, their relationship turning from enemies to friends, a family of drag queens saving them from killer robots, waffles, 23rd century fashion, horses, riots, hoverboarding up walls, and skipping school to rescue a city of prisoners.
Like the sound of it?
WellâŠ
Calling all my fanfiction readers: I need your help!
Iâve worked very hard on this book, but I need some help betaâing it before I try sending it to literary agents again.
BetaBooks is a platform in which readers like you get to quickly make an account, accept an invitation from an author like me, and read their manuscript for free. You can leave comments, talk to each other about bits you liked, bits you think need work, and take party in little surveys.
Iâve had some really nice feedback from agents, but so far, none of them have decided to take on Neon Lights. This is a series I have great plans for; LGBT+ romance; canon trans characters; Celtic folklore; Star Trek style, hopeful sci-fi.
If youâre interested in helping me outâŠ
Sign up to read it on BetaBooks here!! https://betabooks.co/signup/book/351e66
As an English teacher based in the UK during Brexit and Covid, during the BLM movement, and as a queer person, Iâve learned how important it is to teach dystopian literature to young adults. Childrenâs fiction is a gateway into understanding the social issues in our own world. I think that Neon Lights could be really enjoyed and loved by a wide audience.
So, please, reblog and boost this! Read my book, literally for f r e e. It would mean the world. <3
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