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First off:

Hi guys, I unhid my previous sex story posts due to some request. I hid them  few months ago kasi I felt bad about it (nagka existential crises ako haha) pero now I'm seeing them under a different lense. Hope you guys enjoy as much as I did. They are true stories, even if medyo mahirap paniwalaan for some. Heck, I can't blame them kahit ako nahihiwagaan parin hanggang ngayon.

A bit of history: Even when I was a kid, I never stood out. I was a shy boy, I always kept to myself, I always wanted to be alone, and if I needed to be with anyone I wanted to be with my younger brother kasi sakanya lang ako sanay makipag usap and socialize. Come highschool my parents sent me to a minor seminary at the young age of 11 years old. A minor seminary is an all boy private school with the initial goal of training young boys and inculcating them into priesthood someday. During my four years there, I was with boys who were so good looking, sociable, and smart, that guys like me never really stood out, props lang kami sakanila. We're all like brothers there pero when we have events with other schools, talagang yung mga pogi lang ang napapansin. My classmates are mostly half-americans, europeans, or belong to families with long histories that can be traced back to the spanish era dito sa province namin. Imagine having a prominent last name, good genes, and enourmous clout, good at sports and music. Talagang guys like me who are chubby, not good at sports, tama lang sa music, no good genes to compliment my looks, do not belong to a prominent family, no clout, eh talagang as you progress through high school mababa ang self-esteem. At third year highschool, my classmates where already kissing girls, already held boobs and pussy, and I personally saw two of my classmates go into a room with girls, naturally naisip ko nag sex sila. Well, that basically where I stand. Since we were in a seminary, we had foreign laguages in our curriculum like: Spanish and Ecclesiastical Latin. We had them for four years and we were rigurously trained, this came in handy someday. Doon na ako nag focus.

Come college, I went to Metro Manila to pursue my "vocation" in a major seminary. Hindi ko na papangalanan hahaha. A major seminary is a place where young adults usually go to be a priest. They generally take up Classical Philosophy and go to other universities for other subjects like for example for Metaphysics and Anthrophology we went to ADMU for that, for Classical Music, Botany and Zoology we went to UP for that. For Advanced Latin in house na lang iyon. For Mandarin we went to UST for that. So kahit nasan seminary kami nakaklabas kami and may classmates na akong mga babae at nakakalabas na. You might think, so ano naman? pretty normal shit right? No sir not for us, lalo na sakin na ang highschool sa seminary. I was socially awkward, I couldn't even talk to girl properly, I can't even sit beside them, I couldn't even be normal around them. Until when we did NSTP in Tayuman, sa Sisters of Charity where we were with other people as well. I was assigned to do laundry with these girls from DLSU and UST. We did that for a semester. As they asked about me, nalaman nila itong origin story ko, and that being the source of my inability to properly socialize with girls. Ito wholesome to. They slowly helped me. They ate lunch with me, took me out to the mall with them, and took me out places. Simula noon, I was little by little able to adjust. Simula noon, hindi na ako nahihiya and awkward. Siguro dahil sakanila, I "grew up" softer compared to the other men, I grew up more sensitive, and that brought with it that sense of harmlessness. I tell you brodies, kung hindi siguro sakanila, I would've tunred out different. Siguro kung na expose ako sa mga brusko na mga fuckboy na group hindi siguro ako nakapag develop ng passive skill na ito which women dig. Until I went out of the seminary and transferred to the province. Where I was able to maximize this "power".

Sorry for the long history bros, I just really needed you to see where I came from for context.

Anyway, most of the stories na ikekwento ko dito are already posted in my profile. Just chek them out if you haven't already. Here are my tips, If I may:

ON SOCIALIZING (Friends): Always be attentive, always appear to listen even if its not interesting or they're merely ranting, always react organically. Know when they need someone to listen, or if they are looking for advice. Kasi if they just need someone to listen and ikaw naman itong advice ng advice, you might just find yourself seen on a different light. It might set you back a few months or weeks. Do not touch them, unless they touch you first. Alway be cheery but not too much as to apear forced. Always be lean forawrd when listening while looking at their eyes, that way they know they have your full attention. When speaking, always speak in neutrality and with benefit of the doubt, unless the situation calls for you to have an immediate decision. When going places, always offer to accompany them or look for girl-friends to accompany them. On clothing, always look out for open buttons, exposed bra straps, possible up-skirts, and what have you. Inform them of waht you have noticed in a calm and nice manner and when they are unable to fix it, offer and ask for consent to fix it in a private place. Amoung other things, this is the general theme of your docorum.

ON SOCIALIZING (New People): On meeting new people, this usually happens at parties, mga inuman, mga birthdays, anywhere. For example you find yourslef on a big table with rotating booze, friends having conversations with other friends, if you happen to meet eyes with a girl you don't know raise your eyebrows with a smile as an open invitation for friendship. You can also include raising your glass to them and then break off eye contact, to avoid being creepy. On moments where in after a few hours of socializing people walk around and talk to people, when introduced to new girls just offer a handshake and looka at them in the eyes and say your first name. Then break off eye contact. In moments you find yourself in company with a girl you like to befriend, always find way to solicit new information that you can use to open up new topics of conversation. When familiarity permits, move in close to them and continue the conversation, when you think you have established your friendship, ask for their socials by saying something like "You know can I add you on facebook or IG? Its always good to know more friends at parties like this." Play it off casually and when you have acheived your goal, invite them back to the group of take her to a group where both of you can know more people, and who knows you might get a chance to add more girls. Although this is not as simple as it sounds, this is something that I have done that has, not on purpose, gotten me laid. Do not be a creep. Always feel the atmosphere, if she feels like leaving let her leave gracefully. After the party, when you have already befreinded them on FB or IG, routinely give them a heart or a haha, whichever the situation demands. it hard to land new people but its always worth a shot.

Moments and openings of lust and sex will arrive and when they do you seize it. It doesn'y matter the looks of the woman, as long as you have genuine feelings about it take it. The more you experience this the more confident you become. Eventually you'll land on your dreams and you'll enjoy it.

It is hard to organically apply this to everyday life not to mention we all have different personalities. But this is me trying my best to share my ways in hopes of other guys like me to step into the gates of valhalla.

I rate myself 5-6 out of 10, and I waited years to get laid, literally years. I hope you guys pick something up from this. Nakakahiya mag post nito parang naman ang ganda kong lalaki but this is a response to those people who have been flooding my DMs asking for tips haha.

Keep safe bros and sis. May you all have a flourishign sex life.

Basta do not throw those pick-up lines, do not act like a fuck boy, alam nyo na yung mga toxic na iyon. In short be the best gentleman you can be and find yourself eventually balls deep inside a pussy kasi, charming at mabait ka.

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Mount Tagapo Shot in color film processed in B&W chemistry.

#mountaineering #travelouge #province #binangonan #mount tagapo #travel #film #black and white #philippines

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It took me about 10 seconds to frame each photo, maybe 15 at most. I learned the ff: In these types of photos

1. Avoid unnecessary and distracting clutter/elements

2. Fluid and natural slender flow of lines

3. Fresh, youthful and peaceful aura

4. Good contrast is needed.

5. Frame it properly especially in square format.

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Square format framing. A study on the cat’s eye.

1. Do I need the vignette - how much?

2. I want to try increasing the padding of the border from the photograph. I want to see its effect. Coming up soon.

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Refer to previous post.

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I’m studying the way fine art photography is commonly framed, and what how it affects the impact of the image depending on how it’s done.

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The line in the background makes the image crosses with the direction of the image. This balances out the focal point of the image and keeps the viewer on the photograph - in a way.

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Looks ghastly. I tried to express it with mystery, a bit of horror, and very unrealistic. It’s important to keep the image interesting with MOTION, thus the cropping and the way the image is rotated (notice the gutter? alignment).

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Speeding in a tricycle as passenger. The blur gives motion and steps away from reality. Makes the person think why is it blurred in such a way. Whatever, it looks interesting. In post-processing it’s important to make the image coherent and crop if needed (as always with any photo) to get the best out of it.