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three internet trends i will (regrettably) probably never grow out of:

• typing in a cresCENDO TO EXPRESS EXCITEMENT • …………..unnecessarily……. long……….. ellipsis’ • puttinfh a typo in eveyr other word to shwo u dont really give a fukc but u actually do

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will i ever get tired of chase atlantic? ? ? absolutely not.

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Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.

Shout out to people like me who have parents who are loving but are black holes of emotional labor… It took me a long time to realize that it’s okay to have mixed feelings about your parents, about your relationship with them.

Sometimes parents can love you but be somewhat toxic to you and your growth, and that’s a very hard realization to come to if you, like me, grew up extremely close to them.

Sometimes parents can love you genuinely but lack emotional maturity, forcing you to perform disproportionate amounts of emotional labor. Some parents manifest symptoms of their mental illness in ways that are toxic to your mental illness.

Some parents, like mine, try so hard to be good parents but fall back on habits of emotional manipulation because they haven’t processed their own traumas and are modeling behavior they grew up with. That doesn’t make their behavior acceptable, and it’s okay to feel exhausted and hurt when they betray you. You don’t have to forgive every mistake.

I want you to know that it’s okay to protect yourself, to need some space apart from them. The love you have for your parents is still valid, and you are making the right decision.

Placing a safe emotional distance between myself and my parents has been one of the most difficult, heartbreaking processes I’ve ever gone through… it hurts to try to curb the strength of your own natural empathy around people you love. It feels disingenuous to your heart’s natural state.

But I promise you, you are not hard-hearted or ungrateful, and you are not abandoning them. You are making a decision about your own emotional, mental, and spiritual health.

I know what it’s like in that confusing grey area of love mixed with guilt and anxiety, of exhaustion and quasi-manipulation and unreciprocated emotional labor, and I promise you, you are not alone.

Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.

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THE MOON IS TURNING THE FROGS GAY OH GOD O FU

science side of tumblr pls tell me why i get gayer when the sun goes down

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Ah, tidal wave

This song literally makes me feel the same emotions as when I met my (now) boyfriend. Literal love. Science side of tumblr? E x p l a i n

#science side of tumblr #science side please explain #science side help me #science side explain #science side of the internet #explain #chase atlantic songs #chase atlantic #chaseatlantic #chase #kras #christiananthony #christian anthony #clintoncave #clinton cave #mitchelcave #mitchel cave #tidal #tidal wave #good songs #song recommendation #music #music recomendation #i love this song #i love this so much #im in love with this song #honestly

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A gf

im buying party supplies for the bday livestream tomorrow

balloons

party hats

those noise thingies

cupcakes

candles (probably just gonna burn crayons tbh)

what else should i get?

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Alright so I was just listening to Consume doing my thing and can I just say this is the first time I understood the saying "music to my ears" (ha ha, kind of ironic).It was just...like ,,, so ,,,, pleasing,,,, I'd say akin to a smooth feeling of pleasure to my ears.When I think about the feeling I think of it like butter(??? Idk why) as to the smoothnes? I fucking love this?? It's like an orgasm tbh

#chase #chaseatlantic #chase atlantic #kras #mitchel cave #clinton cave #mitty #christian anthony #music #music recomendation #song #consume

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This gave me nightmares thankyou!!

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me: *is gay*

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Hi hello there this is an important message

Like FUCK I love Chase Atlantic so fuckinggg muchhh they are too fucking underrated! Go give them some love here are some of my fav songs from them:

No friends

Friends(lol)

Like a rockstar

You too

Dancer in the dark

Triggered

Consume

Ozone

Cassie

Obsessive

Numb to the feeling

Meddle about

Uncomfortable

Actually pretty much all of them.They don't have a single bad song.Go check them out if you wanna get obessesed with a band❤

#chase #chase atlantic #chaseatlantic #atlantic #kras #christiananthony #clintoncave #mitchelcave #christian anthony #clinton cave #mitchel cave #chase atlantic songs #song #song recommendation #good songs

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If this protest didn’t work, then why dont we make another one?

But that last longer, because a day wont change that much.

I think we all got the poll with the faces, so we could leave our opinions about why we’re not feeling good using the app, but that’s it.

(screenshot by: @signedcentaur)

They didn’t lose that much, because it was just a day, and a day won’t make a HUGE difference (considering the number of people that didn’t protest & the people that logged in a couple of minutes/hours later that day)

So, let’s try to make another protest, that lasts longer.

Would be a week too much?

What about a ‘Christmas Break’?

Tell me what y'all think, so we can all agree!

UPDATE:

I saw people commenting that we should log off once a week. It’s a really good idea since I think a lot of us are addicted to this app!

UPDATE 2:

I saw a lot of people that liked this whole idea, and that are supporting this. So, I think all Wednesdays from tomorrow we should log off.

Let’s make this last until January/February. (or until they change this shit)

Why should we do it?

Because I’m not the only one that wants a REAL better and positive Tumblr, without the porn bots, racists, etc. We need to let staff now that the real problem here is not NSFW content!

And, here, take this alternative, if you don’t want to participate in the log off protest:

There’s a possibility that the poll with the faces appears twice to an user, so, please, leave honest feedback there.

Leave your opinion/review in your online store (App Store, Play Store, etc) Speak sincerely, tell all of them how artists are losing their fans, support and jobs, tell them what the real problem is, which is the racists, the anti-LGBTQ+ community, the nazis (the hate communities in general), the pedophiles, etc. Tell them how this is killing the community, by forcing people to go over other platforms. Tell them how censorship is not giving us freedom. Tell them how a lot of us are losing friends over this thing! We need to SHOW truly how we’re feeling about this. Because, they need to know that there are MUCH BETTER ways of running their own website.

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Where is this from? Was Escapism released??

CAN WE TALK ABOUT THIS IMAGE???

This is from Escapism!

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tumblr users: ALL WOMEN ARE QUEENS

tumblr staff: IF SHE BREATHES, SHE’S A THOOOOTTT 😤🗡

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consume.