The fun thing about having weird fantasies and also being a wannabe writer is that when I find a kink I like I'll worldbuild the shit out of it but the moment I open google docs to actually write I suddenly lose all interest. The comic sans trick works though
Having been around during the "never tell anyone on the internet anything lest they find out who you are and murder you" era is fun. I still police myself as to never mentioning anything too specific, but I'll still spout my random fantasies and weird kinks on here because in reality I'm taking this shit to my grave unless I end up with someone similar to me.
Just got a new hobby of writing smut for my random kinks whenever I have the inspiration. It's fun even though I rarely write more than a few pages before losing interest or doing something else. My google drive is a graveyard of half-written stories
I think bondage is better when it's soft. Straightjackets, padded rooms, etc. I just want to be comfy and unable to move, like being strapped to a bed so I have to rest all day.
Straightjackets and padded rooms as a kink thing are so great. Like yeah I want to be in my own little place where everything is soft. It would feel so good.