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every heartstopper hug -> 1x08: tori and charlie

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We keep escaping parties to hang out with each other. Not running away this time though. HEARTSTOPPER | S01E03/S02E06

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The tales of Nick Nelson: A Love Sick Puppy

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HEARTSTOPPER S1 -> S2: Supportive Straight Friend Edition

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the taylor vs selena reaction images from tonight are so funny like girl

#tale of opposites #i super ship this friendship like ALL THE TIME

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1989 music videos + running away from the camera

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I just finished reading the novella.

This made me feel better.

Just thinking bout how Nick and Charlie and Tao and Elle both start doing long distance at the same time, and even though it’s sucks for Charlie and Tao, at least they have each other to commiserate with

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can we just take a moment to appreciate how amazing charlie is as a boyfriend

idk why it's not discussed enough

reasons why charlie is the best boyfriend ever :

how he always made sure nick didn't feel pressured or obligated to come out

how he asked nick if he was feeling okay before coming out to anyone

he told nick that it was okay to find coming out difficult

how he was there for nick when he was stressed about his GCSEs

how he took it upon himself to tutor nick (ioNick coMPounDs)

how he stood up to harry

"i would fight anyone who's mean to you"

he was unbelievably patient for nick to figure out coming out to his friends and family to the point that he neglected his own well being to make sure nick felt protected and got everything perfect for him

"lets take the coach, you can rant about him the whole way there"

he made sure he was a safe place for nick to fall into

he made sure nick consented before being intimate with him

the way he made sure nick knew that he didn't have to have sex with him ever

he was the only person nick could show all his emotions to. the negative and the positive.

how he hugged nick after nick came out to his dad

All in all charlie is the most supportive, patient, soft, loving, wonderful, caring and UNDERAPPRECIATED boyfriend of all time

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So maybe I should resign

And I have honestly thought about this for a long time but I just don't see myself having the same kind of passion at work compared to just last year...

To be honest, I have also thought about this around the same period last year but then i got a raise and I said goodbye to newer opportunities and was very hopeful for what could happen in the company.

But this year, I am again at the exact same place as last year, and the year before that.

If I am so irreplaceable in the business, why don't I feel that?

#career #work #adulting #problems #mentally fucked #burnout

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So I've read my old blogs and AUs.....

And I feel like I wanted to practice doing it all over again!

Of course, I'd need a lot of building up to do but nobody here reads anything anymore so wow, I am free to do it!

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x

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“Some people aren’t loyal to you, they are loyal to their need of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty.”

— Unknown

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'Cause I don't need anyone, I don't need anyone I just need everyone and then some

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♡☆♡ darcy olsson & tara jones wallpaper

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In his apology, Ben tells Charlie “I just wanted something good. You were something good.” Their relationship was all about what Ben wanted and needed, so for Ben it was something good. He could have this relationship entirely on his terms, and Charlie was treating him very kindly and respecting Ben’s needs while they were together. But Ben didn’t do the same for Charlie. He only cared about having something good - not about being something good for Charlie.

I think there’s an important lesson here, beyond Ben. Since Heartstopper was released, there’s been a really large contingent of fans talking about Nick as the perfect fantasy boyfriend. Wondering where their Nick is, or even complaining that people like Nick don’t exist in real life. And I think that’s missing the point. The Nick and Charlie relationship is not about Charlie lucking out and magically finding the perfect boyfriend. It’s about the mutual kindness, communication, and respect between them. It’s about them being good to each other.

Maybe the takeaway shouldn’t be “when will someone treat me that way?” Maybe it should be “I want to treat someone that way.”

#ahhh so well put

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i love you more than anyone, actually.

#ughhh it is unbearable indeed #my otp forever #nick and charlie