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Lucy the Re-blogger turned 5 today!

#tumblr birthday #tumblr milestone #well this is awkward #Pics #happy beautiful blog I guess

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Okay, what did I miss?

#text #WOW SON #IT'S BEEN A WHILE

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I’m a real soft bitch. A warm hearted bitch who lives for love and affection.

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Natasha and T'Challa?? I ship it. I ship it hard.

#text #civil war #captain america: civil war #sorry if thats spoilerish #and i shipped bruce/natasha and yet here we are #natchalla

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macaron and marshmallow sandwiches.

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Vanilla Cinnamon Sugar Churro Waffle Doughnuts

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I will never be the girl wearing cute flats, skirts, and blouses to work. It’s not to say I will never wear a blouse, because I will if I have to but I won’t be comfortable at all. 

I’ve always gotten complimented in “nice clothes” but no one seems to notice the discomfort when I wear them. 

For work, we have a casual dress code but I always feel like I’m being looked at and judged for wearing a white tee and my freshest sneakers. I’ve seen other girls dressed the same way but I never look like them. They look better, and at the end of the day, I feel like an unprofessional schlub. 

While I continue to make peace with the fact that I’m my own person and I will never look like them, I can’t help but want to change and be the girl with the flats with a cute blouse though. Despite this, I keep reminding myself that if I do, I wouldn’t be myself. I shouldn’t force myself to be something I’m not because of what I think others think of me. I’ll just end up still feeling uncomfortable.

Basically, what I’m saying is that I’m having trouble being myself at work without feeling shitty about it, and that I still don’t know how to make the causal dress code super cute for myself. 

I will never look like the girls at work when we both wear white tees and fresh sneakers, but I need to be happy with looking like me. 

#text #image issues #you won't catch me in flats; either sneakers or boots or toms in the summer #i will always wear my jeans #and my plaid button downs #and my crisp white tees on occasion #i go hard when i have to dress up but i don't always feel comfortable #getting dressed every morning has become a struggle and i don't wanna fight anymore #how can i be causal but cute?!

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1. People will promise to never leave you. They will. It’s okay to be sad when they do. 2. It is always okay to cry. Always. Find a bathroom, bury your face in your pillow, and let it out. Cry in the shower. Cry in the car. Cry when you need to. 3. Boys will flirt with you for a while and then ignore you. Then, they will flirt with you some more. It will be confusing. You have every right to stop putting up with it. 4. Pay attention to what people say when they’re angry. When you make up and they tell you they didn’t mean any of it, know that they did. Also know that they wish they didn’t. Forgive them. 5. Never pretend to be someone you’re not. If you don’t like tea and classic novels, don’t act like you do to impress people. If you don’t want to wear leather jackets and combat boots, don’t wear them to please someone else. 6. People will be mean to you; they will spread lies, call you names, and talk about you behind your back. Eventually you will realize that it is petty and stupid and not worth your time. You’ll be right. Move on with your life. 7. Your friends will not always be there for you. When you really need to talk, they will sometimes not want to hear it. That’s okay. Take a deep breath and remember all the times you felt the same way. Exhale. 8. You will wait and wait and wait for your first kiss and your first date and your first relationship. The anticipation will kill you. You will keep trying to find the right person in everyone you meet. Relax. There’s no rush. The best things happen unplanned. 9. Enjoy being young. Love that everything is spontaneous. As you get older, things become more and more scheduled out. Embrace the fact that you aren’t there yet. 10. Tell people how you feel. It will be terrifying in some cases and gratifying in others. It will create relationships and ruin them. But speak your mind, even if your voice shakes, because your thoughts may never otherwise be heard. 11. Sleep. If you go to bed late, sleep in. If you’re still tired when you wake up, go back to bed. If you can’t stay awake during the day, take a nap. Sleeping is a foolproof way of getting rid of your problems for a little while. Utilize it. 12. Talk to people. Talk to your sister about the guy she likes. Talk to your mom about her childhood. Talk to your dad about his favorite books. Talk to your grandparents about their families. Talk to your friends, talk to your pets, talk to the cute waitress at the restaurant. Learn things from them. Be inspired. 13. Always bring a sweater. Even if you think it won’t be cold. 14. Try new things. Eat a new food, try a new kind of juice, switch up the way you dress. You never know what you might end up loving. Life can get boring. Mix it up a bit. 15. Take care of yourself. Wash your hair with that good smelling soap you love. Eat fruits and vegetables. Drink lots of water. Go for long walks in pretty parks. 16. School is important. Try your hardest. If you don’t get something, ask for help. Do your homework. Show your teachers that you’re willing to work hard, and when it comes time to apply to colleges, you’ll be glad you did. 17. There will always be someone prettier, smarter, funnier, or more popular than you. The beauty of it is that it isn’t a competition.

17 things I learned by 17 (via jane-eyyyre)

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“You’re so quiet” nah fam I talk. Just not to you

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Hot Fudge Swirl Ice Cream

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bey: so, kendrick…

jay: baby, please don’t-

bey: you wanna hop up on this album where I rip this nigga bedside me apart and water the minds of the black youth at the same time?

jay: he don’t wanna-

kendrick: tell me more

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*apologizes for being distant* *apologizes for being affectionate*

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petition to ban “slideshow” as an article format on the internet

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It’s Bulbasaur blooming season

#bulbasaur!!!!!! #my favorite Pokemon tbh

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Maple Belgian Waffle Cake