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How is it so widely ignored that serial killers are disproportionally often men who mainly or only target women and usually sexually abuse the women before murdering them? Why isn’t it specified as serial femicides or hate crimes? This is so often overlooked and rarely specified in reports and it goes to show once again that misogyny is barely recognised at all. It’s not always just crazy, evil people with blood lust who commit crimes against people. It’s men who hate women. 

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eleventh plague. emails. 

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joins tumblr to pass time

becomes a radical feminist

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it’s the price we pay for being sexy as fuck

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#video #😭

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Saw this license plate today and I'm still ugly laughing about it

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The researchers gave the participating women capsules containing powdered versions of the two foods. Thirty-five women consumed the equivalent of one medium carrot, and 34 women consumed the equivalent of 100 grams of chopped kale. The remaining 30 women didn't consume either.

Twenty minutes later, ultrasound scans showed that most of the fetuses exposed to the kale flavor seemed to grimace, while most exposed to the carrot appeared to be laughing. The control group, meanwhile, didn't have the same responses.

#lmao #no one eats kale for the flavor #i love that even fetuses are like #nope

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it’s insane that men around the world made laws stating that if a man rapes a woman and doesn’t wanna go to jail all he has to do is marry her and some countries still go by that law. like they really decided a woman should be punished for getting raped by being what is essentially tied to him (moreso his property) for life

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When there is no women’s movement, no consciousness raising effort, and little to no political will, what women are left with is piecemeal trauma confessions, in which women are told to recall, in great detail, the many incidents of assault and battery done to them by men.

These are then used for the benefit of publishers and other media outlets to make money out of these confessional autobiographical pieces, advertising them as wild “sex scandals” and the like, encouraging a rubbernecking consumption of women’s trauma in the wider public. This is especially popular for industries that enjoy precarious veneer of prestige, and the resulting shock value allows the public (especially men) to feel vindicated that all this only ever happens “over there”. Women are encouraged to relate to and share these pieces endlessly, while offering women as a class nothing in return except maybe a temporary catharsis.

We have seen many cases of women being easily sued for defamation whenever the male rapist decides to do so, and these media outlets will not defend the women — we have to ask: to whose benefit are these autobiographical pieces published?

I have nothing but endless sympathy and solidarity for women who come forward with these extremely painful experiences and publish autobiographies detailing them. I also fully support them when they admit that they feel a sense of catharsis having finally told the world what has been done to them. This is not aimed at these women in any way. I only mean to question the propaganda that publishers/media outlets put out that this is some type of praxis for understanding women’s condition, even seeing this as feminist action, when it is far from that. All it does is offer women an endless look into the blackhole of male terror, without any political empowerment to answer back for.

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i work in the substance use field and see some profound human suffering every single day. without exaggeration, all of my clients—ALL—have at least 3 of the 4 ACES (adverse childhood experiences) which predict negative health outcomes. and i only say “at least” because some won’t talk about certain experiences; my suspicion is close to all of them have all 4.

this is also not an exaggeration: of all the shit i see day to day, whatever my male clients suffer—mental illness, substance use, homelessness, incarceration, barriers to care, lack of education, sexual assault, physical assault, on and on—it is all always worse for the women. not only do they suffer the same circumstances, but they have their male peers to worry about, too. and then they often have to rely on those same men to protect them from other men or to help meet their unmet needs.

my male clients frequently assault or harass or take advantage of the women who are at a similar station in life. one will tell me about how healthcare workers didn’t treat his abscess at the hospital because of stigma (a rightful and worthy complaint) and then turn around to the woman he calls his girlfriend to tell her to “shut up you druggie bitch no one cares,” when she wants to add her own experience with stigma at the hospital.

or the woman whose abusive boyfriend went to prison and she managed to get into a period of recovery, got an apartment, had a part time job—then he got released and refused to leave her alone, literally breaking into her apartment and bringing drugs and people, until she experienced a relapse and now her housing is at risk due to drug-related activity. and all anyone of her peers says about her is she’s stupid; they laugh at her behind her back and talk shit about how many men she’s been with and how they’d never want to be seen with her. she’s a victim of trafficking, too.

it’s just…woman hating is the oxygen, the constant companion for any other societal problem. i’ve yet to see a circumstance in my job where women suffer only as much as men, and not more. the women always suffer more.

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Anyone else been noticing how absolutely unapologetically men have been supporting Andrew Tate?

Yesterday I was watching a video called "New Yorkers reacting to Andrew Tate" on Youtube and every single fucking top comment was like "ok but why are these girls calling Andrew bald? No wonder he hates women" or "I don't agree with Andrew Tate BUT these girls are so rude and they're making fun of Andrew Tate, I think I understand why he hates women" like WHAT THE FUCK YOU STUPID FUCKING MOIDS???

How is it that a dirty male can be like "yes women should be raped, subjugated, treated like property and be sex trafficked" but no woman can even call him a bald asshole?

They hate us so much that they expect us to be nice to them even when they call for brutal and inhumane violent treatment against us. Why are m*n so repulsive and pathetic holy fuck

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32 trans women murdered is an epidemic that causes every trans person to fear for their lives and requires immediate legal intervention and enormous sociopolitical outcry but hundreds of trans women convicted of violent crimes against women, children, and animals is not a pattern or problem and not reflective of the community at all, bigot.

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Can someone please tell me why walmart is selling cakes with the hurricane on it??? what the fuck is going ON???

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Replies directed at a girl who found teenage r*pe p*rn in her dads search history…. Redditors need to be lined up against a wall and shot to death