#BHF vent

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Why Freddy Is A Child Killer And Nothing More.

SO! I am fucking sick and tired of seeing this shit over and over again so I think it is high time I make a post addressing this formally. Freddy Krueger is not a pedophile, child molester, kiddy toucher, or whatever the fuck you want to call it. 

You might be saying “Well Bex! I heard that originally Wes Craven-” Yup. Originally Wes Craven played around with the idea of it but it was cut early on and did not make it into the final script and nothing pertaining to that was ever shot either. 

Next you might say, “Oh but what about the 2010 remake? He was totally a fucking pedo in that!”

You are right in the 2010 remake he was! Okay. So. I am gonna say this next part loudly and clearly.  

Fuck the 2010 remake.

Wes Craven has literally nothing to do with it. In fact they did not consult Wes on the remake at all and he expressed his displeasure over that fact as well! The remake is not fucking canon to me and many others due to that fact alone. The vast, vast majority of people you see on here, myself included, who love Freddy are talking about the OG 80s and New Nightmare Freddy played by Robert Englund.

Speaking of Robert Englund! He is very important to this conversation. Now why is that? Because he played the character for twenty years? Yes I think that does give him a good amount of say in this conversation. But more than that he literally made the character who is. After A Nightmare On Elm Street back in 1984, the first one, Robert asked for more money and better billing when ANOES 2 was going to happen, the studio said fuck that, the makeup is the most important part! And they recast him! 

They got two weeks into shooting before they realized how hard they fucked up and asked for Robert back, meeting his originally, extremely fair, especially considering his role, demands.

Freddy is not just saying bitch, it is not corny one liners and it is NOT just make up, there is a fuck ton more to him, there is depth and Robert? Clearly understands that to the point that the studio agreed no one else could play him in the original franchise’s run. So I think we can agree what Robert thinks about Freddy is clearly important, leading to my next point.

As for what Robert actually has to say on the matter, and I quote from this article published on Bloody Disgusting in 2015 of what he said when asked for his thoughts on this by some fans at comic con.                                       

“You can imagine Freddy to be anything you want,” Englund began. “My theory is the word “child killer”, there’s something darkly…darkly poetic about that. It’s a very frightening phrase. Child killer! That should be enough. And I think there’s something symbolic about being a child killer. He kills children because children are their future and there’s no place for Freddy in the future. And it’s revenge on the parents! It’s the most painful thing a parent can do is to lose a child before they die. I mean, I can’t imagine how anybody…how any adults or parents survive that, the death of a child. So that’s nasty enough!”

I mean that says it all to me. He has been asked on many occasions and I have seen him even refer to the idea of Freddy being a molester as “gilding the lily” basically, it is wholly unnecessary like a hat on a hat. Freddy being a child killer is enough. Wes thought so. Robert thinks so too.

And for me? That is more than enough. I hope this clears up shit for a lot of people.

#Freddy Krueger #slasher x reader #BHF vents #BHF thoughts #BHF speaks #I am so so so SO tired of seeing this shit parroted over and over again with NO thought to it #Freddy has not is not and never will be THAT alright?! #Freddy Krueger X Reader #Take it #Look at it #Internalize it #Did I make an almost 1K post going off about this? #YES I DID

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Comment les organisations à but non lucratif peuvent utiliser les canaux numériques pour créer une audience et maximiser les dons en ligne. Il y a quelques années, bon nombre des plus grands sites caritatifs ont échoué sur les bases de la convivialité, mais les organisations à but non lucratif ont fait d'énormes progrès en ligne depuis lors. En effet, de nombreuses organisations à but non lucratif ont désormais entièrement intégré le numérique dans leur organisation et en récoltent les bénéfices. Voici quelques façons dont les organismes de bienfaisance peuvent s’améliorer en ligne et augmenter le nombre de dons qu’ils reçoivent. Accepter les dons en ligne Fournir un parcours client clair Utilisez le marketing en ligne Rendez-le mobile Promouvoir les dons en ligne via des canaux hors ligne Tester et améliorer Dites aux gens ce que leur don permettra d'accomplir Emballez les dons comme des produits Utiliser l'ancrage des prix Optimiser la caisse Utilisez les e-mails post-achat pour établir des relations avec les donateurs Fournir un parcours client clair Pour les organisations à but non lucratif qui acceptent les dons en ligne, il est essentiel que les internautes sachent où faire un don dès qu'ils arrivent sur le site. Cela signifie invariablement de beaux appels à l'action clairs que l'utilisateur peut repérer instantanément. Voici un excellent exemple d'Oxfam. Le lien de don est l'une des quatre options principales, et l'utilisation de la couleur et de la forme le fait ressortir sur la page. En revanche, la page d'accueil de BHF ne met pas l'accent sur le lien de don. Il est là à côté du champ de recherche, mais il pourrait être manqué en un coup d'œil. Optimisez votre site internet pour les écrans mobile Comme pour la vente au détail en ligne en général, le mobile deviendra un canal de plus en plus essentiel pour les organisations à but non lucratif. Il est donc vital que les sites et les processus de don soient optimisés pour l'utilisateur mobile. Promouvoir les dons en ligne via des canaux hors ligne Les gens réagissent souvent à la publicité en se rendant en ligne, souvent via des smartphones, il est donc avantageux de promouvoir vos canaux en ligne via d'autres formes de publicité. On estime que 84 % des téléspectateurs qui possèdent un smartphone utilisent leur appareil mobile tout en regardant la télévision. Cela signifie qu'il existe une méthode de réponse instantanée s'ils voient une annonce qui les affecte d'une manière ou d'une autre. Reconnaître ce comportement lors de la planification des campagnes peut aider à générer une réponse en ligne. Cela peut être en créant un site Web dédié autour d'une campagne, comme l'a fait Cancer Research, ou en s'assurant que les URL sont visibles. Tester et améliorer Les organisations à but non lucratif peuvent utiliser des techniques d'optimisation des conversions telles que les tests A/B pour maximiser leurs revenus en ligne. Si vous générez du trafic vers votre site Web, il est avantageux de s'assurer que le plus grand nombre possible s'inscrive ou fasse un don. Voici un exemple de l'association à but non lucratif Kiva, qui a cherché à améliorer sa page de destination pour les nouveaux visiteurs. Une partie du projet consistait à optimiser la moitié inférieure de la page de destination, qui expliquait le fonctionnement du service. L'image ci-dessus montre la version originale, et ci-dessous est la page remaniée - la version "gagnante". En ajoutant plus d'informations et en répondant aux questions clés des visiteurs, ainsi qu'en utilisant la preuve sociale sous forme de témoignages, la nouvelle version a augmenté les conversions de 11,5 %. Dites aux gens ce que leur don permettra d'accomplir Les gens veulent sentir que l'argent qu'ils donnent fera réellement une différence, et une façon de le faire est d'illustrer le genre de choses que le montant donné peut acheter. Voici un exemple du WWF, montrant ce que différents montants de dons peuvent accomplir.

Emballez les dons comme des produits Cela rassure les donateurs sur le fait que leur argent va atteindre un objectif précis et constitue également un excellent cadeau de Noël alternatif. L'exemple le plus célèbre est celui de l'achat d'une chèvre pour faire vivre des familles en Afrique. Utiliser l'ancrage des prix Les organismes de bienfaisance préremplissent souvent les boîtes de dons avec un prix suggéré, ou proposent une gamme d'options (souvent trois) parmi lesquelles choisir. Il s'agit d'utiliser une compréhension du comportement humain pour augmenter les dons, dans ce cas la tendance à travailler à partir de la première information offerte lors de la prise de décision. Par exemple, les entreprises proposent souvent trois niveaux de prix différents (pensez aux forfaits d'abonnement TV par exemple), ce qui fait souvent que l'option intermédiaire semble être le meilleur rapport qualité-prix. Dans le cas des organismes de bienfaisance, les donateurs peuvent ne pas avoir l'impression d'être bon marché en choisissant le don le plus bas et choisiront donc l'option du milieu. Optimiser la caisse C'est un sujet trop vaste pour cet article, mais il suffit de dire que les organisations à but non lucratif devraient apprendre des sites de commerce électronique et s'efforcer de rendre le paiement en ligne aussi simple que possible. Certains domaines à considérer incluent: Utilisez les e-mails post-achat pour établir des relations avec les donateurs Les e-mails de confirmation et de suivi peuvent être utilisés pour tenir les donateurs informés de l'avancement de leur don et du travail précieux effectué par l'organisme de bienfaisance.

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[bisexual-horror-fan]

I really don't want to be a prude and have a say of what you can't and can write but the grabber actually s/a all his victims.Not only that they were children.I get why you find him hot lmao cause I did too but I think it's a little disrespectful when you write a scenario based on something that's actually disturbing but nonetheless I love your writing (:

Well this is a super gross ask and I'll tell you exactly why.

CSA, abuse and incest mention.

So the author of the original short story didn't write him that way. Nothing in the text of the movie says that. Like the kids are very explicit about what the Grabber or Al, does to them. If he did do that, why wouldn't they warn Finn? Why not go all out and spill every detail? They are dead. They hate him. Have no loyalty to him. Why would they exclude that part of what he does?

You are saying this based off the director interview right? I don't care honestly. The author didn't write it like that, the movie had no clues or even illusions to that either. To take the credit without the talent, effort or tact or honestly, balls, to have it in the explicit text of the movie feels fucking weak and lame and disgusting.

Why do we have to go that far all the time? Is him being a kidnapper and child murderer not enough? Are you that desensitized to violence and horror? That it's only scary if he's a pedophile who's assaulting his victims? Because I think him being a straight child murderer is gross enough. It's bad enough. It's scary enough.

Why is it so important to you?

Also, if you claim to love my writing, to be a fan of mine, why send this to me when it basically says, "Ha ha you're gross but love your stuff!"

And the final point. You didn't think when you sent this. Because hey Anon, you don't know this, but I am a victim of incestous CSA at the hands of my birth mother. I watched the movie. I didn't see a single hint towards the Grabber being a pedophile.

So why is it that your mind went there, when I, a victim, my mind never did once? Maybe ask yourself that. Maybe think before you send shit like this because you never know who is a victim and while I'm in a great place myself, this could be extremely harmful and triggering to some people. This still fucked me up to get.

I write lots of disturbing scenarios, all consensual with ADULT readers. I'm not sorry, I'm not apologizing. I'm mad.

I hate this conversation about the Grabber and Freddy and the assumptions that I write these characters in that context while I'm a victim myself. The idea people think I would write characters that I think do that is gross. You clearly think so highly of me. Glad you think I would write straight up pedophiles dude, really, thanks so much. /s

So there are my full thoughts, I'm on vacation right now and I'm going to make another fucking drink.

#BHF asks #Get fucked Anon #Shut up #BHF life #BHF vents #Tw csa #Tw incest

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Some days are days where you get up and kick ass, take names, kill the game and write and write and write some more.

And other days beat you down so hard that you just have to call it and crawl into bed early.

Today is the ladder.

#BHF vents #UGH #What a beast of a day #Wish I could be writing but it is not gonna happen

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Something has been lingering on my mind and I want to make something very, very clear. Just because I do not write non-con, a very personal preference, doesn't mean that I do not support non-con in writing. I do! I think it is a great vein to explore and I support my fellow writers who engage in it and deff think they deserve basic respect and to not get hate for writing what they want.

I will not tolerate people shaming other people or trying to talk down non-con writers or writing to me.

#Thank youuuu #Seriously just because I don't feel comfy writing it myself doesn't mean it isn't good writing #Or valid #I support non-con writers wholeheartedly! #CP is the line for me I cannot support cheese pizza but trying to shame anything else with me WILL NOT FLY #BHF vents #BHF speaks

[bisexual-horror-fan]

All right. About that ableist shit about Bubba Sawyer. I really get pissed off at that shit. Especially since I consistently see the same people implying that he is adult enough to understand murder, crossdressing, cannibalism, preparing (human)meat for food, farmwork, vengeance, spitefullness, insecurity about his looks, fear of not being accepted and Lord knows what else. Basically all the other complex thought processes of an adult, but SEX, which is not a complex thought but a desire that almost everyone feels at some point in their life? Oh no, he is way too precious baby for that. Like FUCK OFF and take a long hike off a short pier. 

Bubba is an adult. And a disabled adult IS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE the same thing as "a very tall innocent little child". Humans are way more complex than that. Inability to verbalise his thoughts and function exactly like everyone else in some areas doesn't make him a child. Lacking understanding of some things doesn't mean that the person lives in a fluffy pink candy land of their own, detached from the real world. A low IQ and the mind of a child are not the same thing. Bubba lives on a farm with his family for fuck's sake. Sex is one of the most down to earth things there are in human lives. 

That fucking abhorrent mentality is not too fucking far off from "disabled people shouldn't be able to get married, they are children and need to be protected", and that shit is extremely harmful in real life.

-Furball891

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Well said as always Furball! You really get it you know? Thank you for chiming in.

Seriously anyone I see pulling this shit, on any character in our circle, not even ones that I like in that specific way, I will not tolerate it. I am sick of it, so, so sick of the lack of education about these things and the most basic surface level thought being spewed out as fact.

It's just awful how many people just say, totally seriously, "Oh yeah disabled people like that have no desire for sex or pleasure or physical intimacy, moreover they can't fully understand it, comprehend it or consent to it." and think that is an okay thing to say! And it isn't! And I am gonna make sure that they fucking know it isn't okay, it's shitty, wrong, harmful and just factually incorrect.

#An ice cold take that is all too common #But Furball knows better of course and I love themmmm #BHF asks #BHF speaks #BHF vents

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Friendly reminder to never, ever call me "mommy" or any variation of it even in a joking context please and thank you!

#Big squick #Like I do not fuck with that #Please be respectful #You want an alternative Boss is good my friend Vic uses that and it's fun #BHF vents #BHF speaks

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Wow don't you love how some people add onto your posts without acknowledging any of the original things you said and add their own, shit tier, reasoning as to why they disagree? Not actually opening up a discussion, showing they didn't read your post and also not making their own SEPARATE POST?!

Yeah. Me too.

You know what else I love? Not responding to their fuckery and blocking their ass.

#Like dude #Clearly nothing I say will change your mind #And if you think he is like that? #I don't care about what you have to say #And I don't wanna deal with you #And I'm fucking blocking you #BHF vents #Just say you don't understand nuance and move on #Like fuck people LEAVE ME ALONE LATELY MAYBE? #Too hard a challenge? #I guess so! #I'm fucking tired

[bisexual-horror-fan]

I keep getting ads for fucking clothing with puzzle pieces on them and I am TIRED.

#Please #Let me rest #No I will not buy your shitty clothes covered in that hateful BULLSHIT #Get it outta my face #BHF vent #BHF speaks

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Hey! So! No writing the past few days, I know I don't owe literally anyone an explanation but I still wanted to give one. Shit’s been hard on my end. Stress is piling up, Mr.Bex and I trying to plan our move which will involve us moving to an entirely new city and me getting a new job, he’s had a death in the family and I got some truly awful news about my family, some big drama stuff, that is just really weighing on me, on top of my work being short staffed and overworking me, writing production has been MUCH slower as a result. I am still working on stuff, promise, writing makes me so damn happy and it is still one of my favorite things to do, I’m just making sure when I am not at work or putting out fires in my personal life that I am getting proper rest. Writing is still happening and will continue to happen, just not sure how often output will be for the next bit.

I am still endlessly grateful for all of you and trying to figure out what to do when we hit 1K which will be SO great and a fantastic motivator I imagine. Thanks for being here and sticking it out with me.

#Legit thanks to everyone who has been so sweet to me #Also yeah this is why I haven't been the best at replying #a bitch has LOW spoons atm #BHF life #BHF speaks #BHF vent

[bisexual-horror-fan]

I had a terrible nightmare last night. I am having a terrible day and I'm stuck at work for nine hours today send HELP!

#I dreamt of my abuser for the first time in months #She touched me #I didn't act like myself and had no control over my actions #I forgive her and she cried and hugged me #I feel sick to my stomach and my skin is crawling at the thought #Bad mental health day all around #BHF speaks #BHF vent #BHF life

[bisexual-horror-fan]

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#Usually never feel like this #Don't even know why #I just feel unmotivated and unconfident #Which is SO not me #BHF life #BHF vent

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Oooo! Finally got what I think can consitute my first hate comment on ao3! Posted my Herbert fic from the other night and someone wrote that “-you can say ‘afab reader’ all you want but everyone knows this shit is only written for straight girls.” Awe someone is big mad aren’t they? 

#Boo hoo #That isn't constructive criticism at all believe it or not #Not helpful and honestly? #Kinda fucking rude dude #But hey a milestone is a milestone and they can be mad #I love Herbert a lot #I fully headcanon him as bi and adore the trans interpertations I see of him too #But I write this and of course it is ONLY for straight girls #Forget the fact that I am bi and poly and by deffination how I experience attraction to men and how I write them is FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT #But you are right #I only write for the fucking STRAIGHTS #Fuck off #BHF vent

[bisexual-horror-fan]

My God this should not be a wild or controversial take but nothing pertaining to fandom is worth telling someone to seriously kill themselves.

#Like it is not that fucking serious #Do not do that shit #Don't bring that negative ass energy anywhere near me #You can block or blacklist or unfollow and ignore it #And please do not try to defend this stance and try to convince me times where it is acceptable to tell someone to do this #It is gross #BHF speaks #BHF vents

[bisexual-horror-fan]

So after seeing some less than savory shit in the tags here is your big fat fucking reminder that I am polyamorous and it is a big part of who I am! I write so much polyam stuff because I want to see more content for people like me, I have a lot to say on it and it is important to me. SO! If you are a person who doesn't support polyamorous people or think that we are not deserving of love and respect, that our kinds or relationships aren't valid or that they are wrong, inherently more abusive or WHATEVER, that you can leave.

The shit I write, even if it is NOT polyam is not FOR YOU! It just isn't and I would super appericate it if you could get out and never come back.

#Like my GOD #I am not gonna say it again and I am not gonna apologize #BEGONE #Polyam Postivity #BHF speaks #BHF vents #BHF rants