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pinkplantmakesstuff · 4 years

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30 Questions

So I was tagged by @ashals-dream ages ago but never got round to doing this with the house move oops, but then I remembered! I’m gonna shove it under a cut to save space but thanks for tagging me I do love lists a lot XD <3

Also gonna tag @little-leaf-man in case you want to but haven’t done this yet, but totally feel free to ignore this it’s a lot of questions to answer so don’t worry if ya don’t wanna do it!

1: Favorite living world season? Not sure, I’m only part way through season 3 and didn’t get to play 1 so, probably 3 at the moment? Mainly because I didn’t like how different it felt to play compared to the personal story, but I eventually got used to how the Living World Season stuff plays out.

2: Favorite expansion? Well I’ve only played HoT at the moment too, so that one! Also although I have mounts, I actually love the glider a LOT.

3: Favorite soundtrack? I play with the music off and play my own stuff in the background (mostly random lets play because people talking in the background helps me concentrate) because I always thought the soundtrack was too repetitive for me oops

4: First profession you played? Necromancer! It was gothest option so of course I picked it back when I first started playing. (I was like, 17 so that’s why Alec’s surname is Shadowdancer oops)

5: First race you played? Human!

6: Favorite Destiny’s Edge character? Logan followed by Eir! I like those two a lot

7: Favorite Dragon’s Watch character? I only really like Marjory and Canach at the moment, the rest don’t seem to currently have much in the way of personality if you aren’t very far in and haven’t been able to play Living World Season 1

8: Favorite Elder Dragon? Zhaitan! He’s basically a necromancer dragon. I just wish he had a voice and stuff. I want him to be spookier and chatty ;;

9: Best boss fight (story) I liked Mordremoth’s fight a lot (even if it broke and made me restart the ENTIRE chapter) but I liked it a lot! I also liked the fights you had to do to make Caladbolg whole again, especially when you had to fight yourself.

10: Best boss fight (fractal)? I like the very first one, the volcano one a lot. But that’s because it’s easy and I don’t really remember any of the other fractals.

11: Best boss fight (raid)? Never done raids so I wouldn’t know.

12: PvE or PvP or RP? PvE AND RP please. Though I don’t actually do RP especially in game but still, I like the idea of doing it! (Problem is I don’t follow lore and lots of people do oops). I also love doing PvE in a challenge way - no teleporting, setting restrictions for myself depending on the character (I.E Velvet and Proto can’t go in water areas etc)

13: Favorite canon couple? Don’t remember any of the canon couples aside from Jory/Kas. So those two I guess XD

14: Favorite fanon/self made couple? In one version it is Alec/Trahearne, but I’d also like to ship my character’s with other people’s but I always find it hard to ask ;; BUT Alec/Aodhan (Leftincommand’s boy) is currently a very VERY good one >:3

15: Favorite quote? None my memory is a sieve I barely remember the non-main npcs (In fact I don’t remember most of them)

16: Most emotional cinematic? Probably the Bloodstone Explosion on the Airship one, I don’t really find any of them emotional but character wise it would be the most hard for Alec considering his fear of airships.

17: Favorite VA? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I don’t know who anyone is because I am not interested in that sort of thing oops.

18: Post a fun screenshot! WHOMP

19: Post a landscape screenshot!

20: Most used mount(s)? Jackal, with the Raptor being a close second!

21: Favorite mount skin (for every mount you have)? (I’m only gonna pick my fave skins from the ones I own, otherwise I’d be here forever looking over each and every available one ;0; )

Raptor - Archaius Sprinter

Springer - Alloyed Irontail

Skimmer - Luminous Ray

Jackal - Kintsugi Jackal

22: Favorite weapon? I love playing with the Greatsword on most classes that can, And in terms of appearance, everything from the Lorekeeper set.

23: Favorite gear set? Not sure! They are all so different on each gender model that it’s hard to pick, plus I mix and match most of the time anyway!

24: Favorite title? Killer Queen (Because that Queen song is SO good)

25: Something you worked really hard to get? Technically not in-game, but I worked really hard on convincing my irl friends to play GW2 with me and I was very pleased when they did >:3 (LeftInCommand and CommanderTollWife)

26: Favorite GW2 Youtuber / GW2 related video? I’m very fussy with what I watch and I don’t really like watching videos of a game I am currently playing so I know nothing about the gw2 videos people make.

27: Most used miniature? Depends on what character I’m playing! Though Alec normally has Mini Trahearne. I do want the Mini Jackalope a lot though ;;

28: Most used novelty? Friendship tonic! and the Flying Broomstick!

29: Number of achievments points? 3,796

30: Something you’d love to see in GW2? CIRCUS THEMED CLOTHES, Like clowns, jesters, all of that please and thank you! ALSO player housing I can decorate. I’d spend real money on being able to create individual rooms for my characters. ALSO a photostudio mode so I can pose them and move the camera to take photos how I want.

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jenniferfaye34 · 5 years

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#Giveaway ~ Her #Christmas Pregnancy Surprise by Jennifer Faye... #books #reading #amreading #ContemporaryRomance #romance #rescuedog #SweetRomance

On Tour with Prism Book Tours

We hope you enjoyed the tour! If you missed any of the stops you'll find snippets, as well as the link to each full post, below:

Launch - Note from the Author

. . . I hope you’ll join Pepper, Simon and Daisy this Christmas as they make peace with the past, embrace the miracles of the present and are filled with hope for the future. Happy reading, — Jennifer

For Him and My Family - Review

"Love the abandoned puppy in the story. The author has a distinctive flair to her writing that makes it a pleasure to read. . . . If you love a good romance this book is for you. . . . This is strictly a light-hearted romance that you will enjoy reading curled up in a blanket with a cup of hot tea on a snowy day."

Thoughts of a Blonde - Excerpt

Was this really happening? An invitation to one of the most exclusive parties in New York City. It didn’t get much better than this. Okay, it wasn’t quite an invitation. Still, she was here among the crème de la crème of New York society—actresses, models, politicians, and the list went on. How she got here shouldn’t matter, right? And, okay, she just happened to be one of the waitstaff. Not an actual guest. But still, this wasn’t just any party. This was Simon Ross’s party at the top of the tower. She stifled a squeal of delight as she considered pinching herself just to make sure this was real.

underneath the covers - Spotlight

Locks, Hooks and Books - Review

"I am giving Her Christmas Pregnancy Surprise five plus stars. I highly recommend it for readers who enjoy a light romance. It is definitely worth a read."

Becky on Books - Spotlight

FaithLaneAuthor - Excerpt

With Simon standing so close to her, she had to tilt her chin upward for their gazes to meet. As she stared into his dark eyes, she felt as though she could get lost in them. She couldn’t think of anything she’d rather do than spend the evening with him. “I’d like to go to dinner with you.” His voice lowered even more. “You don’t know how long I’ve wanted to ask you out.” “Really?” He nodded. “You intrigue me.”

Rockin' Book Reviews - Review

"This was a, mostly, predictable tale, but was so effectively written, I could not put it down. It captured my complete interest."

Liberty's Literary Loves - Excerpt

“Can I ask you a question?” He shrugged. “Sure.” “If you like animals enough to start up a chain of pet stores, why don’t you own one?” Simon didn’t want to think about the past and how he’d wanted a puppy so badly. Yet the door to the past had been cracked open and now the memories slithered through, filling his mind.

Andi's Book Reviews - Review

"I'm a sucker for holiday stories. . . . It took me a while to fall for them as a couple, because there was such a slow burn and that awkwardness between the two of them. But I did still root for them along the way. And as in all good romances, things start falling into place in the best of ways. I read through it in one evening."

Baroness' Book Trove - Review

"Her Christmas Pregnancy Surprise by Jennifer Faye is another laugh-out-loud book. I loved this book; it feels like, with every story, her books get better. Simon and Pepper are the definitive definitions of opposite’s do attract. There are a lot of things to love about this book, but you should read it for yourself. This book deserves the five stars I’m giving it and recommending it to everyone that loves a romance."

Melissa McClone - Excerpt

The new bakery was pulling out all the stops with big ads, radio spots and every other promotion they could think of. The bakery was part of a national chain that could afford to undercut their prices to drive the competition out of business. Then once the competitors were out of business, they’d jack up their prices. The nerve of some people. But Pepper refused to let them drive her out of business—not without a big fight. She’d sunk everything she had into making this bakery a success. It was a dream of hers—a dream that she refused to let die, even if it meant doing things that she wouldn’t otherwise have done, like working round the clock if she had to. The chain couldn’t keep up their deep discounts forever. At least, she hoped not.

Peaceful Pastime - Review

"Overall, I found this heartwarming story a fast and end entertaining read. I normally find novels about billionaires a little unbelievable but that wasn't the case in this book."

janicesbookreviews - Review

"I loved the dog in the story named Daisy. Pepper falls in love with Daisy. . . . I love the author’s books. I think this one of my favorites. It was such an enjoyable story with the dog."

Jorie Loves A Story - Review

"Faye tucks you into the plausible way in which two contemporary career-driven individuals can find each other quite randomly (or was it?) in their ordinary lives and find a strength of connection . . . . Faye charms you with the quirky way in which she allowed Daisy, Simon and Pepper [to] develop into a family - giving you pause for thought about the intricate ways in which our lives can be affected by each other whilst renewing your joy of a romance set during the Christmas season where anything is truly possible when it comes to love, romance and the hopefulness of second chances!"

Wishful Endings - Excerpt

He nodded. “Elaine Haskins is my assistant and the party is at my country home.” Pepper’s face creased with lines of frustration. She didn’t say a word as she digested the information. “I’m sorry,” he said. “This is my fault. Everyone was so impressed with you at the office party that Elaine added you to our catering list. After what happened between us, I forgot to say anything to her. I totally understand you wanting to cancel—” “Cancel?” Her shoulders straightened and she lifted her chin slightly. “I’m not canceling.”

Splashes of Joy - Review

"This is quite the Christmas story, with a little surprise thrown in to make it a bit of a surprise. I enjoyed Pepper’s character. . . . This is a nice sweet read, it only took a few hours to read."

Hallie Reads - Review

"Get in the Christmas spirit with Jennifer Faye’s Her Christmas Pregnancy Surprise! It’s a fun story full of delicious treats, complicated romance, and an adorable rescued puppy."

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Her Christmas Pregnancy Surprise

By Jennifer Faye

Contemporary Romance

Paperback & ebook, 256 Pages

November 1st 2019 by Harlequin Romance A festive reunion… …with an unexpected gift! When Pepper Kane’s home and bakery are burned down in the weeks before Christmas, billionaire CEO Simon Ross—the man she spent one unforgettable night with—comes to the rescue! Pepper knows this playboy doesn’t do relationships, but staying with him in his penthouse and caring for an abandoned puppy, their spark is rekindled… And then comes a festive surprise that shocks them both: she’s carrying his baby!

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Award-winning author, Jennifer Faye pens fun, heartwarming contemporary romances with rugged cowboys, sexy billionaires and enchanting royalty. Internationally published with books translated into nine languages. She is a two-time winner of the RT Book Reviews Reviewers' Choice Award, the CataRomance Reviewers' Choice Award, named a TOP PICK author, and been nominated for numerous other awards.

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anew-books-blog · 6 years

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A Matter of Time - Volume 1 ::: by Mary Calmes

Hiya Anewers!

I am going to begin with the very first book that i’ve read about M/M romance, and that was a perfect startup! Well, let’s go with it, right? (I am too anxious to know what you will tell me about this review. Begining with the synopsis and some start info:

“Books One and Two - Vol. 1

Jory Keyes leads a normal life as an architect’s assistant until he is witness to a brutal murder. Though initially saved by police Detective Sam Kage, Jory refuses protective custody—he has a life he loves that he won’t give up no matter who is after him. But Jory’s life is in real jeopardy, especially after he agrees to testify about what he saw.

While dealing with attempts on his life, well-meaning friends who want to see him happy, an overly protective boss, and a slowly unfolding mystery that is much more sinister than he could ever imagine, the young gay man finds himself getting involved with Sam, the conflicted and closeted detective. And though Jory may survive the danger, he may not survive a broken heart.”

Title: A Matter of Time Volume 1 (Books 1 and 2)

Author: Mary Calmes

Year: 2011

Publisher: Dreamspinner Press

Language: English

Pages: 280

Reading time: 6 days

Format: e-book (Kindle)

Date of Purchase: 27/07/2013 at amazon.com

LINKS: Amazon (US) Dreamspinner Press

Yes, this volume has two books in sequence. And that, my anewers, was great, since the books are too damn short, in my opinion.

I - Cover: (2)

The cover is nice, but honestly, i would do better. Jory Keyes is depicted here as a hustler (to say the least - ok, it’s not far from how the author describe him, but even so...), the city at the background give an aura of Law & Order: SVU. It's so cliché. This could be a lot more different and less obvious.

Why the hell not depict Sam Kage at the cover too?

II - Point of View (POV): (4.5)

I never read anything in first person perspective before this one, it simply doesn't catch me, this was my first book like this... And i loved it! Mary Calmes was really inside Jory's head, sometimes gave glimpses about other characters through expressions and Jory's observation. Amazing. Total bliss everytime i read this book. (This was my 5th time reading this book)

III - Protagonists: (4.5)

Jory Keyes (Book 1)/Harcourt (Book 2) - The main guy. And yes, the very same person. He is a mix of frail around his lover, but a force of nature at the same time. Reckless, clumsy, irresponsible, crazy... But totally relatable.

He was abbandoned by his mother after birth, was raised by his grandmother until his 10s, then went to foster care. Afterwards, went to Chicago to try his luck. End up working for a huge-ass-famous architectural office, with a boss who can work only with him.

Lucky in life, maybe... but in love... he is the typical stereotype of a gay one-night-stander. When he mets Sam Kage, something clicks inside him, but fear of letting go and being hurt made him run out of it every time... I will say no more for now.

Samuel Thomas Kage, or just, Sam Kage - I must say this once and for all: I WANT HIM IN MY BED, IN MY LIFE (Sorry, hubby... but i can't hide it anymore - LOL). This man is too damn perfect to be true.

Strong, simple, straight to the point... and closeted. This is Sam. He struggles about love a man and please everyone else. I relate to him a lot, since i was in the closet until i was 23. But this is not about me.

Sam is a vice detective, who loves his profession, have problems with his temper and when met Jory and his heart kicks for him, Jory has the unexplainable ability to ground him, to draw the very best of him...

IV - Antagonists: (3)

Brian Minor: (Book 1) He is a classic thug. The one who is conceited and connected with some middle rank people. He shots a guy and is witnessed by Jory at the very beginning, and since then all of it unfolds. He appears little in the story, thing is, the story is told under Jory's POV, so obviously we wouldn't know much about him, wich is understandable. He's not appealing and definately not important for the story about Jory and Kage, he is just a plain motive to keep they both tied together.

Dominic Kairov: (Book 2) One thing bothered me about this guy. He's so close to Sam - since he was his partner at CPD - and the way he turned against him was almost unfair, but we must place this story at the real life timeline. when it's written being gay was a huge deal, especially within typical "macho"-jobs. He flipped, but the fact is he saw in that an opportunity to be off the grid again. It was nice, how come a vice detective could afford a luxurious home? He was involved with the mob, plain and simple. Mary Calmes took more time to develop this one, and... even bothering me... he was really good.

An observation is needed: I think, in the end, the real antagonist of this is the one and only Jory. He sabotages himself a lot.. Read it and you will understand what i am talking about.

V - Side Characters: (5)

Dane Harcourt: Boss, Former boss and adoptive brother of Jory. Icy is his middle name, but when he let Jory in his life, things change drastically, he have a warm and tender heart, but this side he shows only to J.

Seriously, one of the very best secondary roles that i've ever read in a book, many will not agree with me, but i don't care. I love Dane, i love the way he relate to Jory and how deep their connection goes.

Two damaged persons, but with the feelling that they are soulmates in another level, the brotherhood level. It is sweet how the author constructed their evolution from boss-employee to family.

To Jory is a fairy tale in the making...

Dylan Greer: Loud, manic, frantic, clumsy, hot headed and big hearted. BFF, partner in crime of J. The kind of friend you want to have around always - if you can manage to reach out for her.

The perfect partner to Jory by far!

VI - Hot Scenes: (5)

The first night between Jory and Sam is outstanding. Jory imagining Sam somehow insecure about being with him, but what happened was complete the opposite. He was completely aware and sure about being with him. I believed that every single person in the world wants something like at some point in life. I was breathless at the end of if. Imagining how's it going to be to have a hot-rock-hard-immense-muscular-diry-blond-sweaty-piece-of-perfection-man with his thigh over mine and his arms around my waist. Mary Calmes, you are mean! (in a good and HOT way, of course)

VII - The Story: (4.2)

In the beginning i was worried about being a cliché story, but even these kind of stories have their values. A Matter of Time Book 1 brings you to the universe of a gay cliché one-night-stand-guy who falls for a typical straight-strong-mindless-rock-hard-gorgeous-cop. BUT how it is develop is something else entirely, since it's told by the main character: Jory Keyes and his twisted view of things. It is delightful.

Actually, both books are. Book 2 goes even further. Jory was struggling about quitting his party night days to be with someone for good... having only 23 yeas old. It's not common to see a young one wanting it... and because of it i relate to it A LOT. I was 24 when i met my husband, the difference is i was never a party-one-night-stand-guy. Like i said before, this is not about me...

Book 2 show us how they finally get together... and... well... i already gave you lot's of spoilers, i will not give you the biggest one, i will just say that i am fortunate to not have read this book on it's launching and had to wait for the book 3... I was royally pissed (in a good way).

Most of this review is written like books 1 and 2 was only one, because i felt it that way. One story, divided into 2 books.

VIII - Plot Twists: (4.5)

There's enough twists in both books. But always related to Jory's behaviour. Only 2 twists aren't his fault, the ones that draws Kage back to the cop-protective-mode activated.

Good twists, but not great. For me, the only thing that really mattered at the story was how the hell Jory and Sam would end up together, and that's why i was royally pissed at the end of book 2. Again, i will say no more.

IX - Ending: (4)

I didn't see the end of book 1 as an end. It was a plain hook to book 2, and so book 2 to 3. BUT...

The end of book 1 was interesting, believeable, and somehow not unexpected as it seemed.

But the end of book 2 gave me rage rampages against Mary Calmes! I hated it, but i really understand that it was a PERFECT hook for a third story. That's why, even hating the guts of Sam Kage for what he did to Jory, i can understand why he did it. (Even didn't understanding how police regiments and laws in US works).

X - Timing: (5)

BOOK 1 has perfect timing to tell the tale. Fast paced when needed, slow paced when needed. Perfect. Following Jory's mind is challenging and super-fun.

But Book 2... Well, Mary Calmes used the memory lane too often, and sometimes right after the very scene happened, like a mexican soup opera. It was not very appealing and i caught myself skipping those small paragraphs because i've just read it. It doesn't give you the will to stop reading it, but it is totally unnecessary. Re-telling what happened in book 1 or in the very beginning of book 2 is a good thing to do, but do it at the next scene is an exaggeration.

XI - Re-reading Factor: (5)

I will only say this: Haven't i mentioned that this was the 5th time i read this book?

Well, actually it was my 8th. What do you think then? (LOL)

XII - Recommendation: (5)

Since i was reading it for the 8th time, i guess it is a must read.

Note that you can be a different impression about this story, and this is my very personal opinion about this. So, read it and take your conclusions.

XIII - EXTRA POINTS: (+2.5)

- Bonus points:

. Gorgeous characters, and absolutely my type;

. Happy ending or perfect hook for the next book;

. Perfect scenes, that took my attention;

. Should have a TV or Silver-screen adaptation;

. Story with a rook so Strong that makes me wants more and more...;

. Perfect HOT Scene (wow, just wow... did i mentioned that i want Samuel Thomas Kage in my bed right fucking now?!)

- Penalties:

. None.

Average: 4.30 of 5 (from I to XII)

Final grade (applying bonus points): 6.80 of 10

What do you think about this review? Give your impression on comments below and don’t forget to check back often, ok?

x-o-x-o

AlexM

NEXT REVIEW: “Just Drive” by L.A. Witt

#review001 #2018 #AMatterofTime_vol1 #MaryCalmes #AMatterofTime_Series #Series

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dragnews · 6 years

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For Saudi Women, Challenges Go Far Beyond Driving

Women in Saudi Arabia will be legally permitted to drive for the first time on Sunday.

The ultraconservative Islamic kingdom has championed the new law, which follows a spate of recent reforms, as a step forward for Saudi women’s rights and the opening of its society.

But many Saudis view the change with apprehension. The shift has coincided with a crackdown on activists who campaigned for the end of the driving ban. And the kingdom’s strict guardianship system, which requires women to get the consent of their husband or a male relative for a variety of basic needs, remains in place.

Earlier this month, we asked Saudi women how their lives had changed, if at all, under the new reforms. We heard from scores of women in both Arabic and English. These are some of their responses, translated, condensed and lightly edited for clarity. Because of the sensitive nature, we gave readers the option of remaining anonymous or omitting their surnames.

‘I Have Learned About My Liberty’

Fatima

Ad-Dawadmi, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

During the last few years, I discovered that I have rights that have been usurped for a very long time. I have learned about my liberty, and I am now more assertive about it.

What Saudi Arabia is doing now could lead to considerable change. However, the guardianship by men over women is a big obstacle. If a woman ventures out, her guardian could report her to the authorities as a runaway.

I am optimistic that, with King Salman and Crown Prince Mohammed, the laws will be on our side — God willing.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

My life as a Saudi woman is very different from that of my mother. My experience as a female is very sad. I cannot go out of the house unless my older brother gives me permission, as if I were a prisoner. I cannot go to the market or any recreational place — not even to the hospital.

In comparison to my mother’s life, in the past, women had it better. They didn’t have to deal with guardianship because there was no such thing at that time.

What changes would you like to see next?

We need a law that determines the age at which a woman becomes an adult. I am 29 years old, not a child. We shouldn’t be treated like minors for the rest of our lives.

Rola

Jidda, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

The law allows us to sit at soccer stadiums, go to the cinema and, soon, drive. However, there is still a lot of resistance from the government and religious figures against granting women total freedom.

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

We thought it would but were very disappointed when the crown prince ordered the arrests of the women pioneers who fought so hard to get the driving issue on the table. We are back to a country of facades, as much as it was before, only now with a liberal slant.

‘Getting to Drive Is Essential’

Jory

Ras Al-Khafji, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

All the bans against Saudi women are slowly being lifted. Two years ago, I was struggling a lot. But now, it’s really becoming better for women.

The L.G.B.T.Q. community still does not see the light of day here. But I have a tiny bit of faith after everything that has happened.

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

Yes, I don’t need to annoy my father or brother to drive me to my friend’s house anymore, or pay a driver just to run errands.

I will go to college this year, so getting to drive is essential. I remember seeing tweets from girls in college about always being late to school, or staying at school longer because their driver was late. I don’t want that to happen to me. I’m so grateful that this came at the perfect moment. I’m secretly proud of this dysfunctional country.

Fareeda Al-Sajan

Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Frankly, the changes that have been implemented in the last three to four years are small enough to only be truly appreciated by those who did not have the privilege of growing up in an open-minded household.

I was lucky to be brought up by parents who made sure that nothing was out of my or my sisters’ reach because of our gender. However, there has also been a noticeable change in the status of women in Saudi society, with many starting businesses and holding more positions in government.

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

The lifting of the driving ban is one step closer to the independence and liberation of Saudi women. Many people do not realize how significant the ability to drive — to freely transport yourself of your own accord — is, because they have never had to live without that right.

The new driving law will aid many working-class women who cannot afford drivers and taxis to sustain jobs, to drive to school and university, and to simply have other aspects of a normal life that women of other nationalities have always known.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

My mother is Egyptian, and when she first married my father and moved to Riyadh, there was a culture shock. Egypt, which also has a patriarchal society, was still more progressive than Saudi Arabia. Back then, the Saudi hai’a, or religious police, held absolute authority in enforcing Shariah law however they saw fit. Now, although the religious police still exist, they hold little to no authority. I can walk freely in public spaces without covering my hair.

Anonymous Woman

Khobar, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

One of the obstacles for me is that I can’t go to the hospital. When I was 15, my father beat me with a stick and broke it on my head. Since then, I have suffered from headaches and other problems. It gets worse every day. I can’t go to the hospital because my guardian won’t allow me to go alone, and he is always busy and has no time to take me.

I don’t remember the last time that I saw the light of the outside world. I am giving myself one year. If life doesn’t change, there is no solution except suicide, as many other girls have done.

The Challenges Still Facing Saudi Women

Abeer Alkasbbi

Columbus, Ohio (born and raised in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

Ms. Alkasbbi, who was born and raised in Riyadh, shopping with her daughter, Noor, in Columbus, Ohio.CreditCourtesy of Abeer Alkasbbi

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

I am lucky to have a family that could afford a private driver since I was born. Now, after studying (and driving) in the United States since 2013, I miss how my driver used to drop me off where I wanted to go and then pick me up when I called him, without worrying about parking or traffic.

I know that there will be some women who will benefit from the new driving law, but they probably won’t be able to afford a car if they couldn’t afford a driver. I always viewed the driving ban as the “privileged women’s” problem because there are many women who are concerned about money and food more than anything else.

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

The biggest obstacles are twofold. First, there are the constant international interventions in Saudi issues and the Western standards that are often forced on us, threaten our identity and make it hard to have a fair conversation about the “real” issues facing Saudi women.

Second, the media’s representation of Saudi women is biased. Stories of Saudi women that make the headlines “fit the narrative” of showing how oppressed, victimized and unintelligent they are. News organizations rarely make a genuine effort to understand the people in Saudi Arabia, including women and their opinions, values and reasons behind what they do.

Raghad

Mecca, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I am subjected to violence and beatings and am denied the most basic rights, including the ability to go to a hospital. I have been insulted and cursed in ways that are anathema to Islam.

I have been denied the opportunity to study or work. I am forced to wear the black abaya and to cover my face and eyes. I am forced to remain inside the house. I am prevented from going out even to buy my essential needs.

I can’t benefit from the laws that allow women to drive or to attend concerts or sports events because the guardianship law denies me my independence in my own house.

May

Tabuk, Saudi Arabia

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

We need to stop the guardianship law. Anything else is just wasted effort.

The law prevents me from doing what I want if it doesn’t suit my guardian, including driving.

Hiya

Hafr Al-Batin, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Many things have changed. The powers of the man responsible for me have been curtailed a lot. As a woman, I can now make decisions without my guardian’s permission.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

My mother was a Bedouin. She never had the educational or job opportunities that I do. I continued my education through my master’s degree, all paid for by the government. In the past, there was no education for girls. That is why my mother didn’t get one. Now it is different. The state takes good care of educating girls, granting many full scholarships to the best universities in the world, and offering them great financial support.

What changes would you like to see next?

I would like to see the government give priority to the role of education in helping society get rid of norms and habits that keep women inferior to men. As long as those habits continue, girls from those traditional families won’t be able to benefit from the laws of gender equality because the power of norms in our society is stronger than the power of the law, especially when it comes to women.

Nour Youssef contributed reporting.

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For Saudi Women, Challenges Go Far Beyond Driving

Women in Saudi Arabia will be legally permitted to drive for the first time on Sunday.

The ultraconservative Islamic kingdom has championed the new law, which follows a spate of recent reforms, as a step forward for Saudi women’s rights and the opening of its society.

‘I Have Learned About My Liberty’

Fatima

Ad-Dawadmi, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

During the last few years, I discovered that I have rights that have been usurped for a very long time. I have learned about my liberty, and I am now more assertive about it.

I am optimistic that, with King Salman and Crown Prince Mohammed, the laws will be on our side — God willing.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

In comparison to my mother’s life, in the past, women had it better. They didn’t have to deal with guardianship because there was no such thing at that time.

What changes would you like to see next?

We need a law that determines the age at which a woman becomes an adult. I am 29 years old, not a child. We shouldn’t be treated like minors for the rest of our lives.

Rola

Jidda, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

‘Getting to Drive Is Essential’

Jory

Ras Al-Khafji, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

All the bans against Saudi women are slowly being lifted. Two years ago, I was struggling a lot. But now, it’s really becoming better for women.

The L.G.B.T.Q. community still does not see the light of day here. But I have a tiny bit of faith after everything that has happened.

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

Yes, I don’t need to annoy my father or brother to drive me to my friend’s house anymore, or pay a driver just to run errands.

Fareeda Al-Sajan

Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

Anonymous Woman

Khobar, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I don’t remember the last time that I saw the light of the outside world. I am giving myself one year. If life doesn’t change, there is no solution except suicide, as many other girls have done.

The Challenges Still Facing Saudi Women

Abeer Alkasbbi

Columbus, Ohio (born and raised in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

Ms. Alkasbbi, who was born and raised in Riyadh, shopping with her daughter, Noor, in Columbus, Ohio.CreditCourtesy of Abeer Alkasbbi

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

Raghad

Mecca, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I am subjected to violence and beatings and am denied the most basic rights, including the ability to go to a hospital. I have been insulted and cursed in ways that are anathema to Islam.

I can’t benefit from the laws that allow women to drive or to attend concerts or sports events because the guardianship law denies me my independence in my own house.

May

Tabuk, Saudi Arabia

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

We need to stop the guardianship law. Anything else is just wasted effort.

The law prevents me from doing what I want if it doesn’t suit my guardian, including driving.

Hiya

Hafr Al-Batin, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Many things have changed. The powers of the man responsible for me have been curtailed a lot. As a woman, I can now make decisions without my guardian’s permission.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

What changes would you like to see next?

Nour Youssef contributed reporting.

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For Saudi Women, Challenges Go Far Beyond Driving

Women in Saudi Arabia will be legally permitted to drive for the first time on Sunday.

The ultraconservative Islamic kingdom has championed the new law, which follows a spate of recent reforms, as a step forward for Saudi women’s rights and the opening of its society.

‘I Have Learned About My Liberty’

Fatima

Ad-Dawadmi, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

During the last few years, I discovered that I have rights that have been usurped for a very long time. I have learned about my liberty, and I am now more assertive about it.

I am optimistic that, with King Salman and Crown Prince Mohammed, the laws will be on our side — God willing.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

In comparison to my mother’s life, in the past, women had it better. They didn’t have to deal with guardianship because there was no such thing at that time.

What changes would you like to see next?

We need a law that determines the age at which a woman becomes an adult. I am 29 years old, not a child. We shouldn’t be treated like minors for the rest of our lives.

Rola

Jidda, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

‘Getting to Drive Is Essential’

Jory

Ras Al-Khafji, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

All the bans against Saudi women are slowly being lifted. Two years ago, I was struggling a lot. But now, it’s really becoming better for women.

The L.G.B.T.Q. community still does not see the light of day here. But I have a tiny bit of faith after everything that has happened.

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

Yes, I don’t need to annoy my father or brother to drive me to my friend’s house anymore, or pay a driver just to run errands.

Fareeda Al-Sajan

Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

Anonymous Woman

Khobar, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I don’t remember the last time that I saw the light of the outside world. I am giving myself one year. If life doesn’t change, there is no solution except suicide, as many other girls have done.

The Challenges Still Facing Saudi Women

Abeer Alkasbbi

Columbus, Ohio (born and raised in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

Ms. Alkasbbi, who was born and raised in Riyadh, shopping with her daughter, Noor, in Columbus, Ohio.CreditCourtesy of Abeer Alkasbbi

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

Raghad

Mecca, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I am subjected to violence and beatings and am denied the most basic rights, including the ability to go to a hospital. I have been insulted and cursed in ways that are anathema to Islam.

I can’t benefit from the laws that allow women to drive or to attend concerts or sports events because the guardianship law denies me my independence in my own house.

May

Tabuk, Saudi Arabia

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

We need to stop the guardianship law. Anything else is just wasted effort.

The law prevents me from doing what I want if it doesn’t suit my guardian, including driving.

Hiya

Hafr Al-Batin, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Many things have changed. The powers of the man responsible for me have been curtailed a lot. As a woman, I can now make decisions without my guardian’s permission.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

What changes would you like to see next?

Nour Youssef contributed reporting.

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For Saudi Women, Challenges Go Far Beyond Driving

Women in Saudi Arabia will be legally permitted to drive for the first time on Sunday.

The ultraconservative Islamic kingdom has championed the new law, which follows a spate of recent reforms, as a step forward for Saudi women’s rights and the opening of its society.

‘I Have Learned About My Liberty’

Fatima

Ad-Dawadmi, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

During the last few years, I discovered that I have rights that have been usurped for a very long time. I have learned about my liberty, and I am now more assertive about it.

I am optimistic that, with King Salman and Crown Prince Mohammed, the laws will be on our side — God willing.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

In comparison to my mother’s life, in the past, women had it better. They didn’t have to deal with guardianship because there was no such thing at that time.

What changes would you like to see next?

We need a law that determines the age at which a woman becomes an adult. I am 29 years old, not a child. We shouldn’t be treated like minors for the rest of our lives.

Rola

Jidda, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

‘Getting to Drive Is Essential’

Jory

Ras Al-Khafji, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

All the bans against Saudi women are slowly being lifted. Two years ago, I was struggling a lot. But now, it’s really becoming better for women.

The L.G.B.T.Q. community still does not see the light of day here. But I have a tiny bit of faith after everything that has happened.

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

Yes, I don’t need to annoy my father or brother to drive me to my friend’s house anymore, or pay a driver just to run errands.

Fareeda Al-Sajan

Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

Anonymous Woman

Khobar, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I don’t remember the last time that I saw the light of the outside world. I am giving myself one year. If life doesn’t change, there is no solution except suicide, as many other girls have done.

The Challenges Still Facing Saudi Women

Abeer Alkasbbi

Columbus, Ohio (born and raised in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

Ms. Alkasbbi, who was born and raised in Riyadh, shopping with her daughter, Noor, in Columbus, Ohio.CreditCourtesy of Abeer Alkasbbi

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

Raghad

Mecca, Saudi Arabia

What are the biggest obstacles that remain for Saudi women?

I am subjected to violence and beatings and am denied the most basic rights, including the ability to go to a hospital. I have been insulted and cursed in ways that are anathema to Islam.

I can’t benefit from the laws that allow women to drive or to attend concerts or sports events because the guardianship law denies me my independence in my own house.

May

Tabuk, Saudi Arabia

Do you think the new driving law will change your life in a significant way?

We need to stop the guardianship law. Anything else is just wasted effort.

The law prevents me from doing what I want if it doesn’t suit my guardian, including driving.

Hiya

Hafr Al-Batin, Saudi Arabia

What, if anything, has changed about your life as a woman over the last several years?

Many things have changed. The powers of the man responsible for me have been curtailed a lot. As a woman, I can now make decisions without my guardian’s permission.

How is your life as a woman different from what your mother experienced?

What changes would you like to see next?

Nour Youssef contributed reporting.

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NLNG 2017: Battle for the soul of Nigerian poetry

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NLNG 2017: Battle for the soul of Nigerian poetry

Now in its 14th year, the Nigeria Liquefied Natural Gas (NLNG) Prize for literature, which rotates among the genres of poetry, prose, drama and children’s fiction, has been awarded 10 times. There were joint winners in 2005 and 2007, while in 2004, 2009 and 2015 no price was given at all.

Some critics claim that the NLNG berthed in the port of Nigeria’s literary landscape in a vessel built in a shipyard of schemes. They say the prize originated as a conciliatory gesture of social responsibility from a corporation seeking to anchor its reputation through its endorsement of Nigerian writers, perhaps in a bid to reduce the harm that these pundits of history could do through sordid tales of the NLNG’s exploitation of the Niger Delta.

Read: Johwor Ile becomes first Nigerian to win £15,000 Etisalat Prize for Literature

A closer look at the prize

There have been arguments about the outrageous sums being lavished annually to put the NLNG Prize together. A blue ribbon of USD100 000, which must be administered with a budget of USD850 000, is bewildering. I do not belong to the school of thought that suggests the prize money itself is outlandish, but I do think we can make better use of the funds assigned for administering it.

The NLNG Prize is not the only literary prize worth USD100 000 or more. In America, for instance, the Ruth Lilly, Kingsley Tufts and Wallace Stevens prizes offer the same amount of cash. However, the issue is that the US is a nation with a plethora of annual awards. How many do we have in Nigeria? In a nation that needs more viable systems through which writers of all ages and career levels can gain access to grants, fellowships, festivals, readings and workshops, I would say that USD850 000 yearly could transform Nigerian literature, raising it to a pedestal of global excellence.

Regarding the prize’s rotation between genres, the NLNG must begin to hand out awards for all the genres each year. Awarding just one book in one category means that the prize would overlook potentially great books in genres outside the stated category published within the year in focus. In this way, the prize fails to lead readers to amazing voices that need to be heard.

Everyone who understands the business of publishing, especially in Nigeria, knows that the life span of a book is about six months tops. How, then, can you wait to award these books only once in four years?

Read: African literature never sleeps: Brittle Paper’s Ainehi Edoro

Unlike other commentators, I am not just proposing annual prize money for each category currently being rotated; I am saying it is time the NLNG made room to shelter a wider range of works, including non-fiction, media and other hybrids of literature. For this to be achieved, a full bank of competent Nigerians in various fields must be selected to serve as judges of the different categories annually.

Who are the judges?

This takes us to another crucial issue, which is the composition of the judging panel, judging processes and competence of the prize’s jurors.

It is troubling that currently 90% of the jury and members of the NLNG Prize board are from the academia. The problem with this is that a great number of these academics cannot boast of works that excel in the fields they are judging. I think judges need to be people who have proven that they understand the subject matter they are judging. In this case, it means that volumes of good books, and not just academic papers, will be required. One can be great at theorizing about writing but still not be able to come up with a book of repute. Hence, I think it is time for the NLNG to restructure its judging panel.

While it is true that the dominant mentality across the nation is to define a person’s competence by the organisation they work for and the positions they occupy, this has not paid off for the NLNG over the years. Instead, there have been squabbles over the credibility of jurors and the merit of works chosen for the prize. Bearing these in mind, I think it is now appropriate to discuss NLNG’s history in relation to the 2017 long list.

Looking back

The poetry prize has been awarded twice in the NLNG’s history, first as a joint award to Gabriel Okara and Ezenwa Ohaeto in 2005, then in 2013, when Tade Ipadeola clinched the prize with his collection Sahara Testament.

In 2009, the NLNG failed to award a prize, even though nine poets made it to the shortlist. Five of the works – A Memory of Rivers by Lindsay Barette, Litany by Omo Uwaifo, Songs of Odamolugbe by Ademola Dasylva, and Eaters of the Living by Musa Idris Okpanachi – were labelled by the judges as ‘having explicit political concerns and social setting is never absent from their consciousness’.

The remaining four – From a Poem to its Creator by Diego Okenyodo, January Gestures by Nengi Ilagha, Love Apart by Hygenius Ekwuazi and Fossils by Ahmed Maiwada – were said to have foregrounded ‘a different poetic concern – the self as the starting point of knowledge and experience, with obvious consequences for social vision’.

The judges went on to say: “There is among this group [of four] poets, a greater consciousness of the poet’s resource and professional responsibility accounts for central attention [sic] to playful possibilities of the world and it’s implication for the relation of language to reality. These are the poet’s poets; they are often masters of word and form, and are useful models of younger writers.”

Read: Nigeria’s Romeo Oriogun awarded Brunel International African Poetry Prize

Having said all this, I find it baffling that these same judges could have withheld the prize money that year. Were these professors really competent enough to have acted as judges for the prize? Did they fail to appreciate the high quality of works shortlisted? These were the questions raised in 2009 and, sadly, these same questions can be asked about the 2017 jury.

English literary critic Diana Birch noted that in judging the Man Booker Prize in 2012, judges read a total of 145 books in seven months. Birch stressed that each of the judges read the entire list in the same order. While poetry collections are not as bulky as novels, I would argue that poems are more tasking and more sensitive to handle. How, then, did the judges consume 184 poetry collections between 7 April, when submissions for the 2017 NLNG Prize closed, and 22 July, when the longlist was announced? If they had waited for the normal procedures of collation and handover by the board, it would mean that our judges had only about a month and few days to come up with the longlist.

Was this enough time to perform the reading efficiently, or could it be that the judges only read the names they were familiar with? Only the panel, led by Prof Ernest Emenyonu, or the board, led by Prof Emeritus Ayo Banjo, can disclose this information.

Regarding the merit of works on this year’s longlist, I am eager to know what the judging process of the prize entails. Maybe an error was to blame for the eyesore that the longlist turned out to be, because having read a couple of the works, I can attest that there are certain books on that list that were not deserving of this prestigious award. I am also shocked that a number of quality collections were left out.

Amongst the longlisted works, one newcomer stands out. It is not the fact that the author’s name would not ring a bell in some quarters that strikes me; it is the title of his collection. Garri for Breakfast by Seun Lari-Williams reveals a huge flaw in the judging process. Beyond the forced rhymes and sloppy expression of the poet’s ideas, I believe that this collection failed in its attempt to create a new mode, as some would argue.

I do not see how a collection like this can be compared with Hate Artist by Niran Okewole, or Amu Nnadi’s A Field of Echoes, or even Dami Ajayi’s Clinical Blues or Nine East by Uche Nduka. Perhaps, as some have inferred, it is an issue of morality and the poet, or the ‘un-seriousness’ of their themes – something the NLNG has accused poets of in the past.

The cover or Clinical Blues, a collection of poetry by Dami Ajayi. Image: Konga.com

Shortlist fever

Regarding the shortlist, I cannot hide my displeasure at the fact that Peter Akinlabi’s Iconography, just about the best collection that was actually entered for the prize this year, was denied a place in the top three, solely because one of the judges was directly involved in the publishing of the book. Why sit on the bench when you know a collection you published was entered for the award? Is it not a global rule that those affiliated with the publications nominated are exempted from judging such contests?

Millions have earnestly waited to know who the 2017 Nigeria laureate will be. But let me categorically state that none of the work by the finalists had a really mind-blowing effect on me. No book entered for the NLNG 2017 was worthy of the prize money. If we must compare, the Steven Wallace lifetime awards was recently given to Jorie Graham, for ‘proven mastery’ in poetry over a lifetime. I dare anyone to compare the works on the NLNG shortlist to her latest collection. Let themes, politics and cultural settings be an argument for another day.

In the light of these truths, I am one of those who proposed a split award between the finalists, so that each poet could return home with a share of the bounty.

If the NLNG prize is to remain a serious literary laurel, it must begin with a restructuring of the jury by including knowledgeable young Nigerians. But I fear, like many before me, that the NLNG will brush these criticisms aside. Even so, it is important that we should not sit back and watch Nigerian poetry conform to this nation’s parameters of generic mediocrity.

Congratulations once again to Ikeogu Oke on clinching the 2017 Prize.

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