#I don’t knowwwww

[nightgoodomens]

Shipping D/M is fine, cute even. It's disrespecting their partners that a lot of us draw the line at. Don't say that never happens either. I have seen it personally and have blocked more than one blog for it. Calling their relationships with their partners fake, or over, or nothing but baby trapping, or whatever else is beyond just cute fun shipping. It's actually hurtful and has led to things like Georgia being bullied off Twitter. That is taking things way too far.

Super long answer so I put it under read more, also if you’re not interested in these conversations then you can simply not click ‘read more’ and everybody wins.

You do realise that nobody is obliged to respect and love Georgia and Anna just because one is David’s wife and the other is Michael’s girlfriend?

There is this weird thing in this fandom that just because you’re Michael’s and/or David’s fan you must love and respect their partners and think their relationships are perfect. And that’s simply not true.

Georgia and Anna are separate people. I will judge them based on what they show and it would be healthy if others started to too, because while many are shocked that the ladies are not entitled to automatic respect and in extreme cases worship, I am surprised Georgia is called a Queen because she films David doing grocery shopping and Anna is called a Queen because she will post a picture of miserable as fuck Michael.

But you know what? It doesn’t bother me. They make people happy? This is what people think they deserve to be worshipped for? Cool. I might think it’s weird but I will let people be and I’d appreciate if they let me be for not thinking that the sun shines out of their asses. What I see from them make me not a fan of them but I hardly have any deeper feelings about the two of them, so I usually don’t talk about them.

People are allowed to theorise on celebs, their partners, and their relationships, based on what they see from public people who provide the material themselves. There are private couples out there who share nothing because they don’t want the public to theorise, but the people we talk about aren’t one of them.

There’s no terms and agreements that you are only allowed to squeak at what you see.

It goes both ways. If someone is allowed to comment positively, then someone else is allowed to comment negatively.

You are allowed to disagree with one and agree with another or form a completely different opinion.

The blogs that I read merely provide their thoughts on what they see. The shippers themselves discuss and sometimes even disagree with each other - politely. One thinks that. The other thinks something a bit different. Third one pops in with a completely different mindset. And that’s fine. They have a chat and that’s it. If it bothers anyone to see discussions about relationships then they can always block. But it looks like it only bothers when the discussions aren’t positive.

I block people being creepy about Crowley and Aziraphale and they’re fictional so I don’t blame anyone for blocking anyone else for whatever reason. It’s your space. Make it whatever you want it to be.

Now, Twitter is hell. It gave people the opportunity to talk with celebs. Some use it wisely. Some are slightly over the top, some are pure creeps, some are weird. If someone messages Georgia or Anna with their theory then they’re an idiot. That’s it.

I have never heard of Georgia being bullied off Twitter because of shippers so I can’t comment on that. The last time she was bullied off Twitter was because she searched her name on Twitter which she’s known for and then responded to a teenager who talked about her views (without tagging her) regarding the war. She decided to respond. People attacked. She decided to quit.

Now, I have two opinions on that - One, I think what happens on Twitter is insane. There is a reason why anybody with bigger following is refusing to post any opinions now because no matter what opinion they will give, it won’t satisfy everyone, and a mob of hate will follow. Two - barely a few months prior Georgia saw exactly what happened to Michael for sharing his opinion when he was actually asked for it, so I am not sure why she thought that fishing for trouble herself was a good idea. I guess she thought she’s above the treatment that Michael received which is interesting. Or she simply didn’t think. But considering she was posting photoshoots of herself moments later on Instagram fishing for compliments from fans… She survived the realisation that not all fans will always worship her.

Also - just a final point. It really isn’t evil or stupid to theorise and I’d urge people to have a bit of a read about PR relationships because it’s nothing new. Generally have a read about PR and you will understand why believing everything that you see on social media is simply foolish. Use common sense, trust your gut, question yourself and your views. There is a reason why celebrities have PR. There is a reason why there are contracts involved. If a bunch of people say something stinks here and they’re noticing patterns of PR/fake relationships/unhappy relationships etc… maybe have a read instead of having a meltdown about how dare they suggest this relationship isn’t an utmost perfection.

It’s good for your own development; learning behaviours and patterns to make it easier for yourself to spot people fooling you in personal relationships and in business relationships. Learn the signs of bullshit and toxicity, you will be surprised how much easier they can make your life and have you avoid shit. Be critical and use common sense. If something doesn’t click, there is a reason for it.

You see on social media how your friend bullshits people because they post a picture of the best boyfriend in the world while you know they are fighting three bloody times a day. You think celebs are truthful on social media?

Anyway this has gotten long - my point is: People are allowed to theorise but they’re stupid if they directly message the person about it.

#dingdong night went on for too long #oh well #hugs and kisses mwah mwah #NightGoodOmens answers #I had a tag for such posts so you can block them and I forgot fuuuuuck #Michael and David answers #was that it #I don’t knowwwww

[5weekdays]

old picture of me but happy tdov. earlier this week i saw a trans dude do standup and now, for the first time, i'm seriously entertaining the thought of going on T

he/she/they

#i don’t knowwwww #undescribed

[ratcandy]

anyway Every time I try to argue to myself how menticide works I end up just running myself in circles over the points we’ve already brought up here before just clutching my head and going AUUUUGGG and giving up . Clinging to my headcanon that the menticide and cordyceps are separate entities working in tandem and jus sticking with that forever

#Literally just paced around my room mumbling to myself about it and how whatever is controlling Sozo must be #an obligate parasite otherwise it wouldn’t care to keep him alive. And clearly it has kept him alive long enough for him to have #learned how to use menticide to control the Mushroomos AND have his own sort of following #but we know menticide itself isn’t an obligate parasite because it can grow in soil just fine #So clearly there Must be more than one fungi at play here right. Right. RIGHT #I don’t knowwwww #clamtalk

[starscelly]

trying to decide if i want to experience 3 hockey games or if i want to experience academic success in january

#i don’t knowwwww #might do the former ….. #yap yap yapping

[midnight-moth]

I thought I was making progress with the backlog of asks but there’s still 22 and some of them are 5 months old. I’m sorry!

#do I still answer them #I want to #but maybe the moment has passed #I don’t knowwwww

[tvslashers]

i am about to ramble and it may not make that much sense but i gotta get it out of my system. So listen. I think that care for my psychiatric problems, and i mean true care that would really help me in the long run, is entirely not accessible with the way that things in the psychiatric care industry are. And you may say, oh is it because it’s too expensive? Too far away? But no, it is not any reason like that. It is simply due to the fact that I cannot be honest with any mental health professional without risking losing my autonomy. I know for an absolute fact that if i was honest with any health care worker about my mental state that they would institutionalize me. I have already on multiple occasions had to push aside my dignity to BEG literally beg them not to send me away due to wanting to hurt myself or being delusional at the time.

But does this help at all, really? Does shaming me and threatening me stop me from wanting to hurt myself? Of course not. But instead of opening up an honest and harm reductive channel for people to deal with these urges it is punished. And I am not exaggerating when I say that this kills people. It’s so taboo still that even bringing it up to people who are usually pro harm reduction as a treatment method for drug addiction suddenly become extremely uncomfortable at the idea of the same model for self harm (which can also be an addiction!). Suddenly everything about how shame and criminalization harms people flies out of the window. I’m not dumb, I understand that it’s super easy to accidentally kill your self when you’re cutting yourself. But freaking out on people will not stop them from doing it. Putting them in the psych ward involuntary for however long and just drugging them up and forcing them to try cognitive behavioral therapy mechanisms that don’t fucking work (if someone tells me to squeeze an ice cube one more time i will heap my lid) will not stop them from doing it. Frankly the only thing that stops me right now is everyone hiding sharps from me and knowing that if i do it it’ll just upset everyone around me and i don’t want to deal with the headache. I know it’s upsetting to see people you love in pain. I know it’s scary, it’s hard to look at, it can be ugly. But shaming it away is not the answer. I’m not going to pretend I know what the answer is either! Because im just someone who learned how to cope by harming myself and no one has helped me learn how to kick it because i can’t talk about it. But I do know what the response it right now to it is not working. For anyone.

#i don’t knowwwww #i feel crazy bananas insano whenever i think about it #ultimately my point is people are going to hurt themselves when they are in #so much mental anguish that they don’t know what to do. ok. #nicely: get over it and be there for them to talk about #what is causing them to want to hurt themselves and how you can help them feel #safer and shit idk. #im not very articulate a lot of the time about this stuff

[ashmp3]

Thinking of cutting my bangs when it gets a bit colder …

#like i am so close to saying fuck it and doing valeria mazza bangs #but i don’t KNOWWW if i’m ready for that i already had them once and they look super cute though #on the other hand i love being able to slick my hair and it’s all long and i don’t have to think abt pieces falling out #i don’t knowwwww #i’ll make a poll or i won’t i’ll just do it let’s not kid ourselves #tt

[designernishiki]

technically… I can afford that gorgeous nishiki jacket rn……. but should I………

#i can afford it but it’s still Pricey… then again I hardly ever buy clothes so #hhhhhhhhhhhh #I don’t knowwwww #rambling

[cottageivy]

pet health tw

so baker got a blockage again, and no vet can take him except to do surgery, which he needs but we can’t afford :)))) my parents are apply for a vet credit card thing but the interest rates are 50% so. fun. i’d have to get a job asap and so would my mom

if we don’t get that, then we’d have to wait til 1pm and go to an animal shelter, surrender him so they cover the surgery, and then apply to be his foster parent.

overall i’m just really stressed and scared so if you could send some positive thoughts over here pls pls do in whatever way you do <33

#mia rambles #pet health tw #i did apply for a bookstore job yesterday unrelatedly and i have a phone interview but it is a seasonal/temporary job so like. #i don’t knowwwww #i could do crochet commissions but crochet takes time so i’d have to get a job and find time to crochet as fast as i could #it also would be expensive for people to buy in order for me to liek. make a profit so.

[percysheliey]

always wanted to live overseas when i was younger … but now i find places i’ve always known and wish to find a place there to make my own … to be near family and live in a place still unfamiliar but familiar enough i don’t feel isolated … i want to travel everywhere in the world but the thought of leaving my entire life … living in a foreign place seems too permanent

#idk if this makes sense #maybe it’s bc i get along with my family #maybe it’s bc every other country is just as horrible if not worse than mine :/ #i want to travel so bad it’s insane !!!! but the thought of moving my entire life somewhere else #like everything i love is here the ocean i love is here #there a plenty of other places and people i will love #but younger me wanted to escape everything whereas i want to put my roots down in something familiar so i can feel like #i always have something to go back to #i can see myself living in foreign cities and such for a year or so but never having a life there #i don’t knowwwww #i am too young to consider such things #rosie rambles

[scarrdaemon]

i’m so torn between if i want to shave or keep growing out a bush. i like how smooth i am after i shave but it’s always a hassle for upkeep

#she speaks 👀 #i don’t knowwwww #i’m so torn between the two #and i want to go ahead and decide before it gets too long #and yeah i know i’ve been gone i’m sorry 😂 #i’ve been busy looking for a new job

[wewontbesleeping]

I don’t want to make the thing I’m making for dinner anymore but idk I don’t know how much longer my cabbage will be good for …

#idk !!! #I don’t KNOWWWWW #tteokbokki with cabbage… idk it sounds good but I’m just like. #it’s not EXACTLY what I want rn #I don’t even know what I want #a big salad actually… idk WHYYYY I want something cold but I do!! #unfortunately i don’t have salad #idk! #maybe I’m dehydrated actually now that I think about it #bc I’m like WET LEAVES ….. #JUICY FRUIT DRIPPING … #ok yes I’m definitely dehydrated I’m drinking a glass of water and then deciding if I’m making my thing

[s1ck-b1tch-2]

How does the whole man asks the woman out thing work when you’re both nonbinary? I think it’s pretty clear we both have crushes on each other but I don’t know if it’s my job to ask them out or not

#it might be? #they’re a bit more stereotypically girl than me? #as in they’re kinda bimbo ey #but I am actively not a man #i don’t knowwwww

[inplateaus]

i keep thinking about beau is afraid like i though i hated it but sometimes i think i liked it

#i don’t knowwwww #i will keep changing the rating im sure

[oozywoozycon]

when two people who hate each other also only respect that person they mutually hate

#it’s a ‘everyone in this room is stupid but you’re slightly less worse than the rest’ #and ‘i hate you i hate you i hate you i wouldn’t spend my time hating someone useless’ #i don’t knowwwww #just two people who have just stabbed each other nodding at the other ‘you’re the only bitch in this house i respect’ #idk idk idk #hoozy

[priestfrommidnightmass]

earlier today i got an idea which would basically be writing a script abt my very real trauma and like . it’s a terrible idea and the more i think abt it the idea gets worse

#nick thoughts #i deal with shit through art #and . this happened so long ago that like it’d be dumb to talk abt it anymore #like i’m over it but god. it would be so cathartic #but it’d also be so triggering to revisit everything :( #i don’t knowwwww #i’ll write it down but probably not act on it until i’m sure i can