#aro 🤝 poly

[zephyr-heart]

I love you QPRs, I love you polyamory, I love you relationship anarchy, I love you aromantics with partners, I love you people who don’t want relationships, I love you I admire you loveless community, I love you ignoring amatonormativity <3

#if you don’t know what something means I probably have a definition in my pinned post #queerplatonic #polyamory #relationship anarchy #loveless #loveless aro #aromantic #amatonormativity #aro 🤝 poly

[thelovers-arocard]

how about the "why didn't i care about being cheated on?" to aro and/or poly pipeline

#or atleast not caring for the normal'' reasons lmao #aros and poly peeps 🤝 a lot tho #aromantic #aro #arospec #polyamory #polyamourous #polyam #nonmonogamy #*haunts ur halls*

[cosmosredshift7]

Hi, I'm gale

He / him, ze / hir, it / its

I'm 31, so please don't interact if you're under 18

USAmerican, pennsylvanian specifically

biromantic and asexual

Relationship anarchist

poly and partnered

Aces 🤝 Aros - Aphobes go fuck yourselves challenge

Current Fandom: hades, and dungeon meshi!

If you don't like what i post, you're entirely free to unfollow me.

Sideblogs:

Cosmosredshift77 - book fandom posting

Crystalcowboychromer- cyberpunk (not 2077) aesthetic blog

Elderemopussy- emo music posting

#Gale.txt

[thekittyburger]

I posted 1,359 times in 2021

130 posts created (10%)

1229 posts reblogged (90%)

For every post I created, I reblogged 9.5 posts.

I added 135 tags in 2021

#myart - 26 posts

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Longest Tag: 136 characters

#it’s sad hours whenever i think of what we could have but won’t because she probably doesn’t like me that way and if i told her it could

My Top Posts in 2021

#5

Ive just realised Lizzie and Joel are the best example of the golden retriever gamer bf and bi gf

26 notes • Posted 2021-09-01 15:19:06 GMT

#4

I need more m-spec solidarity on my dash

im talking pan🤝bi🤝poly🤝omni🤝bin🤝etc

these all broadly overlap but the distinction matters to some people and that’s okay :)

bi is the attraction to two or more genders usually with a preference but not always

pan is the attraction to all genders without a preference and not ’seeing’ gender

poly is the attraction to some but not all genders with or without a preference

omni is the attraction to all genders usually with a preference or not being gender-blind

bin is the attraction to both binary genders with or without a preference

sorry I couldn’t include every m-spec identity but you’re all super valid! These were just the ones I could remember, feel free to comment any other m-spec identities I missed!

32 notes • Posted 2021-08-13 16:24:51 GMT

#3

Ive just remembered something.

Ranboo's enderman side has a green eye.

Notch was going to add endermen's eyes turning green when the ender dragon was defeated.

This likens to the dragon controlling endermen.

No one has been to the End in the dsmp.

Ranboo broke the system.

32 notes • Posted 2021-03-13 14:42:46 GMT

#2

Het Trans people are still lgbtq+

Cis Het Aces are still lgbtq+

Cis Het Aros are still lgbtq+

Aces/Aros who use the split attraction model are still lgbtq+

Aces/Aros who don’t use the split attraction model are still lgbtq+

M-specs who experience more/most attraction to the opposite gender are still lgbtq+

You’re not lgbtq+ if you exist fully inside heteronormative values

thank you for coming to my ted talk

206 notes • Posted 2021-11-09 18:21:57 GMT

#1

SCOTT OMG

1728 notes • Posted 2021-08-06 17:43:38 GMT

Get your Tumblr 2021 Year in Review →

im concerned for myself, don’t look to closely at the longest tag hahahafjghbjjb

#my 2021 tumblr year in review #your tumblr year in review

[zephyr-heart]

Poly Aro Ask Game

1. Did you identify with Polyamory or being Aromantic first? How did you come to identify with both?

2. Where do you fall on the Aromantic spectrum?

3. What does being Polyamorous mean to you (is it an identity? a choice?)

4. Do you consider Aromantics to be LGBTQ? What about Polyamorous people?

5. What has your experience coming out been like?

6. How do you label your relationships, if you label them at all?

7. How many relationships do you have (if any) and are you looking for more?

8. What type of relationship structure do you have/want? (solo poly, non-hierarchal poly, relationship anarchy, etc.)

9. What does love mean to you?

10. Free space for your followers to ask questions!

#polyamory #aro 🤝 poly #aromantic #ask game

[zephyr-heart]

Definitions (just in case)

To be updated when I find interesting links or new information. This post will change as I learn.

Amatonormativity

“Amatonormativity is a word [Elizabeth Brake] coined to describe the widespread assumption that everyone is better off in an exclusive, romantic, long-term coupled relationship, and that everyone is seeking such a relationship.”

Relationship Anarchy

Relationship Anarchy applies anarchist principles to intimate relationships. It is non-hierarchical; romantic relationships are not automatically treated as more important than platonic ones. You ignore societal expectations on what your relationship must look like and build relationships unique to you.

The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy by Andie Nordgren

Queerplatonic Relationship (QPR)

Impossible to define but wrong to leave out

The origin of the term Queerplatonic

The history of its use from its creation to 2019

#amatonormativity #relationship anarchy #aromantic #polyamory #queerplatonic #queerplatonic relationship #qpr #aro 🤝 poly

[zephyr-heart]

I’m rambling but I just think it’s neat that the Aromantic community has Queerplatonic Relationships and the Polyamorous community has Relationship Anarchy, and obviously neither of those are exclusive to those labels But they are widespread with their respective communities. And they don’t mean the same thing, QPRs are a type of relationship and Relationship Anarchy is more of way of approaching the relationships.

But I just think it’s neat they both share the same idea of rejecting society’s expectations of what relationships look like and deciding what your relationships look like for yourself.

#aromantic #polyamory #aro 🤝 poly #queerplatonic #relationship anarchy