#basically like trans wlmen can be considered as women & vice versa until tike for gynecology appointment

[crazyalien87]

what do you mean by "sometimes" trans women are women and trans men are men?

well i mean sometimes their birth sex matters more. but like other times I'll call them what they want to be called. I mean like I would still think women are adult female humans and men are adult male humans but then trans people are the exception to the rule. but also if someone has transitioned a lot then maybe I would consider that they have changed sex (I mean not 100% but like the appearance at least).

idk I try to strike a balance between being nice & um recognizing what words usually means and that birth sex can still affect life sometimes.

#im not tryin to be transphobic but like #idk i see from a trans person's perspective bc im trans but also it can be confusing tl call someone something that obviously opposes their #aplearance #but also i see hos it makes mlre sense tl consider someone as how they see themself in their mind instead of what they physically be #also this not the only time someone mismatch their appearance with how they are called #for exampke i know a guy named tyler who does not look like a tyler at all #i mean im getting used to it now but still #basically like trans wlmen can be considered as women & vice versa until tike for gynecology appointment #but i mean i guess we could say they are male women and female men #or maybe like consider trans people as like a thkrd gender category like how many other cultures do #idk i usually dont think about it this much #i mean i call the trans woman i know a woman & the trans guys I know guys #like idk if me getting a crush is even sapphic since i knew her before she came out as well #sorry this is a lot #anon #ask #anon ask