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oscill4te · 3 months
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everything always peaks me. then im on the other side, see so much hostility, just as bad as what peaked me, and its like nvm. damn. oscillation at its finest.....
#i made a post like this before but i fell into a very bad trap where i just ranted about “both sides” and thats never really helpful#i think there is just a lot of “us VS them” in this world. no one is ever willing to hear others out. they just look at characteristics#of yours and make broad assumptions about you.#i dont know. i feel like everyone in my generation is so willing to jump for your throat these days for different opinions#its their right of course; but i dont know. its like if you have even a slightly different opinion on something; you cant discuss it 2gethe#i want to meet some other fellow normies man; idk#and i say that as someone who isnt really “normal” in most peoples eyes#but i can chill and talk with ppl who have diff opinions from me as long as... they arent super hostile and think in black&white...#mostly feminism and lgbt stuff im talking abt here but yeah. i just want this world to be safe for women & lgbt+ folks yknow#i base a lot of my opinions on that#im trying to just. not care anymore. im just a human at the end of the day and so is everyone else#everything feels so black and white. i just want to belong somewhere. i dont know.#my parts all have different opinions on things so i never have a stable stance on anything#i just try to have compassion and reduce my cognitive dissonance as much as possible#that led me to veganism. lgbt rights. feminism. but even within these groups there is so much hate and fighting#i cant pretend i dont fall into the black and white thinking but i always actively try to challenge it#i tell myself: the world is not out to get you. but why does it feel like it is? clearly everyone else feels like that too
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the32ndbeat · 4 years
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describe your mutuals as types of youtubers
man, i’ve been seeing a lot of these around! thank you anon for sending me this ask, this is gonna be interesting XD ( also p.s i love your brain, i’d never have been able to think of asks like that )
here goes!! ( i’m relatively new on tumblr so if yours is completely inaccurate i’m sorry lmao )
kara ( @heyy-sicheng​​ )
for some reasons i can see kara doing family vlogs
kinda like shaytards!
she just seems like such a sweet and family oriented person
the aura she has is just so warm and lovable
and that instantly makes ppl feel comfortable in her presence
talking to her is just so easy fr!
idk if this makes sense but you know how romance dramas or movies they always have that one senior who everyone just loves and they’re known for their kindness?
i think that’s how i’d describe kara
i haven’t even been on here long
but i feel like i can already tell her most things ^^
laid back and easygoing vibessss (is that even a thing? if it isn’t i’m making it a thing)
dee ( @atbzkingdom​ )
dee is definitely one of them beauty gurus imo
no, not the james charles sort
maybe jenn im but a darker ver?
she screams classiness and high end tastes
and also she’s so pretty i-
to me, dee’s got a very unapologetic personality and i love the boldness she projects
i feel like i’m talking to a really cool older sister when i’m talking to her
and she does photography too! so i’m thinking she’s got a good eye for aesthetics
which most beauty gurus have
emma ( @jopping-to-my-kpop​ )
hmm i think emma would be one of those meme youtubers or maybe a regular in REACT
like jenna marbles or memeulous ( if you haven’t heard of him pls go watch his vids, i love him omg )
ppl live to hear her opinions on diff things
bc they’re just so interesting
and the way she says them is so funny and savage
especially when she throws shade talks about ppl like danielle cohn ( no offense if you’re a fan )
i feel like emma is a very strong minded and opinionated and i rly rly like that about her
don’t be intimidated though
she’s actually super super kind and i’m so glad we’re mutuals :’)
bea ( @chaoticdeobi​ )
ok bea, i’m getting strong booktuber vibes
her works are *chef’s kiss*
i’m still in awe, i love her writing (i’m also very hyped for neoz party omg)
she seems super well read and the scenarios she writes are so creative and cute???
galaxy brain for sure
i can totally imagine bea doing book recs and everyone just drinking in whatever she’s saying bc she’s legit
she could talk about a book on pickles and i’d listen to her all the way
extremely sweet, bookish girl next door vibes
think mackenzie lane!
clarie ( @passionfruithyuck​ )
clarie would imo do great as a study youtuber who vlogs about college/uni life
like paigey or unjaded jade on yt
homegirl knows like 4-5 languages?
like HOW?!! that’s super impressive
100% an intellectual
i feel like she’s someone who is very dedicated to her craft (ie writing) and puts in a lot of effort in whatever she does
very chill aura!!
extremely friendly and good natured
supportive too, she’s someone you would love to be close friends with
amber ( @moondustaeil​​ )
i think amber would do great as a lifestyle vlogger
ok so hear me out
i think ppl would love to know more about her as a person
bc her personality is so alluring and appealing ( that sounded kinda weird but you know what i mean )
and you just want to get on her good side
i look up to her ><
tbh i was kinda intimidated by her at first but after talking to her, it’s like why would i ever think that
she's so nice!!
and her personality is very attractive to me
anie ( @mjlkau )
another booktuber for sure ^^
anie’s fics are always well written
and the concepts are always like from another world altogether
like seance? sign me the hell up
super likeable and precious!!
exudes this rly lively aura imo
which is honestly so refreshing
she’s very open and outgoing
and i want to be like that too someday, pls teach me your way anie ><
leyna ( @jensungf​ )
i think leyna could be a diy youtuber
like maybe bethany mota?
idk why but like to me, there’s something about diy youtubers
they all seem very warm and gentle
like they could be the mom friend in their friend groups
seems like she would be amazing with children
and they love her because she just gets them and she’s just make ppl feel so at ease talking to her
very genuine person and i love talking to her!
sunny ( @neocitybynight )
idk if sunny games but i feel like she could be a great at running a gaming channel
like maybe iHasCupcakes + JaidenAnimations ( i know that’s not a gaming channel but idk i get reminded of jaiden when i think of sunny )
to me, gamers are just so cool and they just have this rly spunky aura to them
and that’s what sunny is
she’s also very amiable, relatable af
i can totally see her playing some horror game on her pc in a dark room and just have a few cups of coffee next to her
being completely unfazed by whatever is going on
that whole aesthetic just seem so much like sunny idk why
also she’s a film major
how cool is that?!!
whoa that was longer than i expected! i took about an hour and a half to answer this lol and it’s like 12am now welps
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speaknvw · 6 years
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reputation - album review
insp. by outofthewoods, i’m gonna do a full review of the album during my first time listening to it :) even tho no one’s gonna read this
i’m lowkey comparing it to red because of the amount of people from secret sessions saying it’s better than red and red has been my favorite since well.. 2012
and i’m gonna include my rankings at the end
…READY FOR IT
(i think this only fits as the first track because i don’t see where else it would fit in with the album)
personally only like the chorus of this song but i 100% stan the music video of course and my WIG flew //
END GAME
BITHC DFJSJKFHD i personally love taylor’s parts and i of course love ed’s parts although this is quite a contrast to everything has changed, but nonetheless i love the beat and i love the concept of the song.
“i swear i don’t love drama, it loves me” my WIG MF FLEW MISS SWIFT.
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I DID SOMETHING BAD
“if a man talks shit then i owe him nothing” OH YES HONEY. THDJSHVJKSDC THIS SONG IS GIVING ME GOOSEBUMPS SIS THE CHORUS HAS ME QUAKING ALL THE WAY TO PLUTO.
THE BEAT DROP DURING THE CHORUS GIVES ME EVEN MORE GOOSEBUMPS EVERYTIME IT PLAYS IF THATS EVEN POSSIBLE DJFSJDK
THIS IS 100% ON MY TOP 5 FOR BOPS. I’D BOP TO THIS EVERYDAY. AND THE BRIDGE EHFSFJEHUKJK
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DON’T BLAME ME
“don’t blame me love made me crazy” honey… it made all of us crazy
idk for some reason the lyrics remind me of bey? i’m not really sure why
i ADORE HER VOICE IN THIS SONG.
i’m not really sure how i really overall feel about this song but i love the vocals in this song and i feel if i listened more closely to the lyric’s i could stan it more
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DELICATE
the beginning. omg. imogen vibes??? yes. 
THE MF BEAT HSJKHEUWHERENJWKEK
OMGFDJKFS THE PRE-CHORUS FCUK ME???? DEADASS BYE
ISN’T IT DELICATE
“stay here i don’t wanna share” sdjfsdfhjuhfn i wanna cry because of that
“I PRETEND YOU’RE MINE ALL THE DAMN TIME” THAT’S THR BIGGEST MOOD KFJSKND
this song is def calmer than the rest of these songs
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LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO
i remember when this dropped and how shook i was
and i remember shaking when the chorus came on bC JDSKFK
I CAN ALREADY TELL THIS IS GONNA HAVE SOME BOMB ASS CHOREO ON TOUR
i can def see why this was chosen to be the first/comeback single because of what the concept of the song is (i mean i think everyone does)
and from this song i was kinda expecting an album about well.. her reputation.. i guess?? but after the other two singles i wasn’t too sure what was coming BUT
NONETHELESS i adore this song and it honestly feels a little short in comparison to the rest
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SO IT GOES…
in the beginning i was a little iffy about the chorus but i love the verses.
“i make all your grey days clear” “I’m so chill but you make me jealous”
“but I got your heart skipping when i’m gone”
WOW MISS SWIFT REALLY MADE MY WIG FLY WITH THESE LINES. NGL.
but listening to these lyrics help realize how the chorus fits in
side note: when i first saw the track list i honestly thought of you are in love (which is my favorite song from 1989) and the verse where she says “and so it goes, you two are dancing in a snow globe round and round”)
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GORGEOUS
i love the concept of this song but i don’t know if i LOVE it,, does that make any sense??
and i loved reading people’s posts on twitter/tumblr about their conspiracy theories of this song
and i relate to this song when i see ppl who r beautiful but i’m too much of a pussy to say shit to them
and i wish i knew why she chose this as a single
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GETAWAY CAR
wow. just wow. THSEJFEHNRJRE THE FUKCJNGJBN BEGINNING OH MYOOGFDI I WANNA CRY
THIS SOBNG IS SO GOOD WOW
“i wanted to leave him, i needed a reason” 
THE FUCKING CHORUS I LOVE IT I LOVE IT I LOVE IT
I LOVE THE VIBES THIS SONG GIVES OFF
THE TYPE OF MUSIC ID LISTEN TO DURING A ROADTRIP TBH?? AND NOT JUST BC OF THE TITLE
but wow i love her voice in this song jsjfnejr it reminds me of something but i can’t put my finger on it
“there were sirens in the beat of your heart” oH MY GOD this line. 
THE BRIDGE WOW IM LITERALLY IN TEARS RIGHR NOW
THINK ABOUT THE WHERE PLACE YOU FIRST MET ME
NO NOTHING GOOD STARTS IN A GETAWAY CAR
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KING OF MY HEART
i love the beginning fuckfjd<3 though i.. don’t exactly like the beat but i do like the lyrics and i love how she told the ppl at ss how each lyric is a diff stage of her relationship. i love how she did that.
the chorus reminds me of getaway car a bit
change my priorities wow
i don’t know i just don’t really connect w this song but i think some of the lyrics are cute and soft like old taylor :)
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DANCING WITH OUR HANDS TIED
the piano oh?? THE BEAT OH???
JDSJDFSB THE LYRICS OH MY GOD
“deep blue but you painted me golden / oh and you held me close / ooh how was i to know” HSKJFWEH WOWOWWOOW
I HAD A BAD FEELING
QUEEN TAYLOR IS SHAKING ME
i loved you in spite of deep fears that the world would divide us
i love.
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DRESS
“they got no idea about me and you” wow you right.. we didn’t have any idea sis :( 
I LOVE HER VOICE IN THE BEGINNING BABY YES TAYLOR
only bought this dress so you could take it off
anyone thinks that they know us but they know nothing about all of this silence and patience panic and anticipation my hands are shaking from holding back from you
I honestly love how this song is about sex lmao
nonetheless i love the beat and feel of this song:)
AND THE BRIDGE TOOK MY BREATH AWAY. i would say wig flew but she took that during the first 3 seconds of end game
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THIS IS WHY WE CAN’T HAVE NICE THINGS
okay the beginning,, i thought it was an ad so imma be honest and say i don’t like the beginning
this song gives me the vibe of we are young by fun., is it just me?? idk but that’s what i thought of during the verses vs the chorus you know??
if only you weren’t so shady,, this is why we can’t have nice things
ALRIGHT I LOVE HOW SHE DEDICATES THAT PART OF THE SONG TO PEOPLE WHERE SHES LIKE:
HERE’S A TOAST TO MY REAL FRIENDS WHO DON’T CARE ABOUT THE HE SAID SHE SAID
AND HERE’S TO MY BAAABYY (i love the way she says baby in this song it’s deadass so adorable) HE AIN’T READING WHAT THEY CALL ME LATELY
AND HERE’S TO MY MAMA HAD TO LISTEN TO ALL THIS DRAMA
AND HERE’S TO YOU BECAUSE FORGIVENESS IS A NICE THING TO DO– HAHAHA I CAN’T EVEN SAY THAT WITH A STRAIGHT FACE
I LOVE IT. I STAN. 
this song is so cute tbh
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CALL IT WHAT YOU WANT
alright alright alright,, the fourth single of rep. probably my favorite single.
i love the contrast from this is why we can’t have nice things
and this song is so cuteeee and i love how she stays calling him her baby,, it’s the cutest thing and makes my heart go [<3<3<3]
and i know i make the same mistakes every time bridges burn i never learn at least i did one thing right lmao that line lowkey broke my heart 
this is the type of song you listen to when you’re in love tbh it’s so cute and the lyrics r like old taylor and i love it
not because he owns me, but because he really knows me
LOVES ME LIKE IM BRAND NEW I adore that lyric
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NEW YEAR’S DAY
this song is so cute wow. it’s so different from the rest of the album though and i feel like it’d be a deluxe song, but NONETHELESS IM IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG WOW
squeeze my hand three times in the back of the taxi
please don’t ever become a stranger whose laugh i can recognize anywhere
this song is deadass so cute oh my god i love how she shows her soft side in this song
HOLD ON TO THESE MEMORIES
that reminded me of long live oh my god i’m trying not to get emo ab that
CANDLE WAX AND POLAROIDS ON THE HARDWOOD FLOOR - YOU AND ME FOREVERMORE
this is the most og taylor swift song on the album and the type of song that captured my heart all those years ago and wow. i just love it.
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overall i love this album more than i thought i would because,, well to be quite honest i kind of grew apart 1989 and thought this would just push me away further but it definitely did not. no, it’s not your typical taylor swift cheesy heartbreak songs, but it’s different and that’s what i love about it. is it better than red? once i get more into the lyrics and the concepts behind all of the songs i think i’ll determine my opinion on that.
one thing i really loved about this album is how it’s not just about her heartbreak and the hell and the pain she’s been through with the last relationship she was in (of course there’s that in this album but it’s so much more), it’s also about her well, reputation, and how she feels in her current one. i can tell how happy she is right now and i can already feel her smiles through the songs, the smiles she probably had during the recording of this album.
i love the change of style that came out of the 3 year hiatus
and now here’s my rankings (for now at least)
- getaway car
- i did something bad 
- delicate
- dress
- dancing with our hands tied
- new year’s day
- king of my heart 
- don’t blame me
- end game
- call it what you want
- gorgeous
- ready for it
- this is why we can’t have nice things
- so it goes
- look what you made me do
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meru90 · 7 years
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(different anon) i think it's less the length of time and more the stage of development that's being pointed out as an issue, like how 18 y/o are already adults and 15 y/o still kids- its like a college student dating a highschool sophmore. and even assuming that they're both liking each other, that still puts them on uneven ground in terms of maturity that can lead to a power imbalance, even if its unintentional
im posting some ask like this cause damn this uncererly expanded and i was ready for bed ; v;; you are all thinking way too much into this…
Anonym schrieb an meru90:i think what they mean is that otabek is 18, which is technically an adult. and so otayuri is kinda iffy because in a relationship between a 15 y/o and a 18 y/o theres a bit of a power imbalance which can lead to an unhealthy relationship.
Anonym schrieb an meru90: (not the same anon but these are the reasons i can think of for people not liking otayuri) i think its more that (at least in the us) 18 is legally the age when one is an adult… and maybe because 3 years isnt a big difference in the long run but during the teen years esp, 3 years means a big gap in like mental and emotional maturity cause puberty
Anonym schrieb an meru90: BUB I DONT GET IT EITHER they just hugging they ain’t doing anything illegal but peeps still get a lil cranky even tho in some countries (I think Russia as well I could be wrong) the age of consent is 15-16. Their ship is honestly just two high schoolers dating which last time I checked is pretty gosh dang normal, unfortunately some folks only see the age gap and automatically assume it’s illegal. ANYWAY IVE BEEN BABBLIN I LOVE YOUR ART AND I HOPE YOU KEEP DRAWING EVERYTHING YOU LOVE peace out✌️
Anonym schrieb an meru90:it’s a big deal because there is a HUGE amount of maturization that goes on from being 15 to 18. yurio has even said it himself, his body has not developed yet. 18 is a legal adult, 15 is not even old enough to drive.
Anonym schrieb an meru90:Throwing my 2 cents, but I find it rather uncomfortable considering that Yurio is literally a child and also very child-like in his behavior, especially compared to the older characters who despite their quirks have an air of maturity about them, so when there’s people shipping him with Otabek & JJ and whoever else in romantic and sexual manners, regardless of whether it’s fiction or not, it’s still a child being sexualised by older people which I find kind of disturbing.
I just don’t ship otayuri (sexually) ATM because while it’s only three years, Obatek is a legal adult and someone around fifteen… Of course once they are both adults you will need to pry the ship out of my cold dead hands. Anyway, that’s my personal opinion, but of course you can have yours
I’m not a passionate shipper of otayuri but honestly I don’t think age is much of a problem. It’s not like once you turn 18 you suddenly become an adult. legally you may be an adult, but that’s just for legal purposes. a 3-year age gap is still a 3-year age gap. It’s reasonably small. outside the fictional world though, its wiser to follow laws. that’s just my opinion!! (And what does the anon who unfollowed you mean by genderbends? i’m confused by that?)
Anonym schrieb an meru90:GIRL ITS FICTIONAL THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT not to mention i bet half of these ppl complaining ship kiyoyachi and yakulev guess what they have basically the same age gap so shame on uuu!!! (btw love u and ur art)
I don’t mind a gap difference of 3 years,people are claiming that this is a matter of maturity are quite weird because you’re certainly not mature enough in only 3 years. Anyways, my problem with you is that you think that because you have your opinion people should respect yours. They shouldn’t Socrate died because people thought everyone should have their opinion,nut it’s not necessary a good thing. There is bad opinions ! They aren’t all good
Hey what’s good? I just wanted to say do you, I personally don’t agree with the shippings for similar reason to the anons but at the end of the day it’s just a ship.I’ve seen lots of age diff relationships and life and some have turned out insanely well and others not so well,it all depends on the compatibility of them. I ignore it because it doesnt bother me so much? there’s so much more immoral to worry about than a 15 and an 28 y/o getting into a relationship. Have fun and stay awesome
Anonym schrieb an meru90:I don’t like to add to the pointless discussion but the people who complain about otayuri age difference probably still ship 1st year and 3rd year high school students. Who have the exact same age difference!
Anonym schrieb an meru90:lol die fighten jetzt echt wegen otayuri? sind doch nur irwie 3 jahre unterschied nicht??? so unnötig. Im laughing my ass off here wtfff
Anonym schrieb an meru90:i can’t stand the underage discourse at all, i’ve had to abandon a number of fandoms since the atmosphere was intolerable, bloodhounds ready to destroy and kill you over your personal fictional preferences. jfc let people enjoy whatever they want ugh
Anonym schrieb an meru90:don't listen to that bs >.
Anonym schrieb an meru90:bruh, some people get so offended by the smallest things. Like if you don't like, don't look it's as simple as that! Don't let these people stop you from drawing Otayuri cause honestly the way you draw them is lovely!
Anonym schrieb an meru90:I think people are blowing this a bit out of proportion.. peeps need to chill out
Anonym schrieb an meru90:honestly people are being way to mean to you about what you want to draw if they are ganna talk shit to you then they should come off anonymous. your art is good and you should continue to draw what you want and just block the people who have a problem with it cuz people who are technically 18 still date like 16 year olds and such its called high school it happens
Anonym schrieb an meru90:genderbend isnt transphobic... i dont understand why its so wrong to imagine a character being a opposite gender i think its absolutely ridiculous my own community give hate or talk as if it is. its art. personally i just imagine genderbend in the spectrum of being opposite gender cis wise, or trans, or non binary. its a word and damn people are triggered its so dumb i really cant deal with tumblr and I'm sorry you get bombarded with hate honestly people take things too seriously lmao
Anonym schrieb an meru90:Honestly, just ignore all these people sending rude messages. It's a testament to their character that they'd criticise you for doing nothing wrong. 15 and 18 year-olds date all the time, and there's nothing wrong with shipping characters in a platonic friendship. Both Yurio and Otabek have strong, mature personalities - there's nothing about them that indicates anything bad or abusive would happen. I love your YOI art, so draw whatever makes you happiest, regardless of people with little minds❤
Anonym schrieb an meru90:IT IS NOT LIKE MERU IS DRAWING SMUT OR ANYTHING SEXUAL FOR GODS SAKE PLZ LEAVE MERU ALONE THE AGE DIFDERENCE IS WAY SMALLER THAN THE ONE BETWEEN VITOR AMD YURI AND NOBODY SAYS OTAYURI GET TOGETHER BEFORE YURI IS AN ADULT STFU HONESTLY
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