#i once saw a meme abt dutch's narcissism & loved it so much before proceeding to realise it was made by an ableist

[eclaire-went-bam]

npd + rdr culture is seeing people call dutch a narcissist and going "YEAA KING he's just like me ong" and then promptly realise they're actually insulting him with the word 'narcissist' & i proceed to backpedal ...

#i have no idea how familiar the rdr2 fandom is with personality disorders?? ive seen a lotta ppl be positive with them. like “they're just #like me bcs they totally have x y or z!!“ which is fun to see #but ive also seen a LOT of people throw around the word narcissist as an insult as if it isn't an actual mental illness ppl can have #yikes ... embarrassing 😨😨😨 #anyways dutch SOOO has npd (& other things too but that's not relevant for this post) #DUTCH IS A NARCISSIST !!1!!!1!2 :D (stims & dances bcs i'm tired of seeing narc used in Always a demonising way) #rdr2 #dutch van der linde #rdr #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #he's just like me 🤩 #when i was still in my “i literally can't be a narc because i'm literally perfect” phase i literally hated dutch and i hated him even more #bcs of how much i related to him #the urge to say “— i'm not abusive!” so ppl don't get the wrong idea vs hating to need to constantly make it clear that npd ≠ abuse & i can #talk abt his npd & relate to it without the Other Stuff™ #i once saw a meme abt dutch's narcissism & loved it so much before proceeding to realise it was made by an ableist #ableism tw