#im a little concerned about the fansom culture around those

[just-aro]

searching AO3 for anything except romantic relationships is just like...

me @ myself: no romance! only sex!

porn WITHOUT feelings please

"ambiguously romantic! :)" tag -> the fic involves a dramatic, romantic love confession

gen? (only fics rated g, most of which are pure fluff... and therefore not exactly my thing)

*searches fics rated E in frustration* -> did you want to learn about several kinks you definitely do not have, and one you might have, but not in that context?... oh look! one fic that seems to be what you want! and - oh. uh. wow that's terribly written.

"pwp (porn without plot)" but like. bro. it is not porn just because they are naked and kiss and there is one (1) paragraph of barely described, fade-to-black sex.

#aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #sex ment #sex tw #anyways rip my eyes #the amount of times i squinted at the first paragraph #and then closed the tab... #versus the amount of kudos/subscribes/bookmarks #was like. 15:1 #and im pretty generous with kudos #... also im uh. debating posting a bullet point fic i basicallt wrote via discord messages with a friend? #except. it's very intensely all hurt no comfort #and also dead dove: do not eat with so many warnings. like i think every archive warning? #and given that almost every fic in that fandom that is either full hurt or dd:dne has moderated comments #im a little concerned about the fansom culture around those