#including and especially transfem doms

[bun-haired-nutjob]

Hey there cutie 😘

Welcome to my blog, where hot women O_O

I'm a trans lesbian who wants to look like any woman even remotely attractive, and so I'll see where my journey with HRT ends up taking me for what looks I'll pull off best <3 (The rest I'll happily be owned by O_O)

I started out shy and easily flustered when I first made this blog, and now... well, I still am, BUT I'm also a switch and can dish out what I can't can take ;3

If you're trans and a reddit refugee or just new to transfem Tumblr in general, send me a message! I owe feeling welcome in this community to the people who I talked with when first starting out, and so I want to extend that opportunity to other transfems who need someone to talk to! (Whether that be just casual conversations or more, err, involved things O_O)

If you want to flirt, dom, be dommed, just chat, or anything else that you can think of, then my asks and DMs are always open! ...that is, assuming I don't lock up and forget to respond!!! (It's not you, it's my awful social skills </3)

I'm into a LOT of stuff, so if something's not on any of the lists below chances are I just forgot to include it! Feel free to send an ask if you want my thoughts on anything not included below <3

Things I Want to Be:

Bunnygirl

Catgirl (mrrp nya :3)

Cowgirl (the Wild West kind)

Cowgirl (the milky big-breasted kind)

Robotgirl

Slimegirl

...the property of a hot woman O_O

Kinks/Things I'm Into:

Bondage

Breeding

Bullying (in a sexy way)

Consensual non-consent (CNC)

Cumflation

Deflation (only in the context of 'undoing' inflation)

Degradation

Expansion

Free use

Humiliation

Inflation (SO SO SO NORMAL ABOUT INFLATION I PROMISE)

Lactation

Objectification (ALSO SO SO SO NORMAL ABOUT THIS)

Oviposition

Petplay

Praise

Size difference (either being larger or smaller)

Stuffing

Teasing (both receiving and giving ;3)

Tentacles

...and I'm open to trying most things at least once!

Not Into:

Feederism (but it's not a DNI - just not my thing)

'Full' Furry (there is a very blurry line between 'human with animal elements' and 'full furry', but this is mainly limited to the very extreme end of the spectrum - again, not a DNI, just not my thing)

Weight gain/slob (I prefer stuffing that focuses on a taut round belly)

DNI:

Ageplay below the age of 18

Cishet men (this is a queer space!!!)

Detrans as a kink or 'anti-trans' movement (if you're detrans but respectful of those who are trans then you're still welcome!!)

Raceplay

Sissification (I enjoy being a woman, and my humiliation kink doesn't relate to whether or not I'm a woman thank you very much)

...and more I've yet to think of

I hope you enjoy your stay at my blog!!! Reblogs are always appreciated, especially if you leave notes in the tags - I love reading them!!! <3

#vivi's social skills

[roseblog-rog]

Hello Rose Blog Enjoyers!!

(My old pinned post got murked so heres a new one lol)

About Me

My name is Rose (she/her), I’m transfem, poly, and on the aroace spectrum, I’m physically disabled (chronic pain, cane user), I’m autistic, I’m a singer/songwriter who also plays drums and piano, I love photography, I read and annotate books for fun (NERD), I occasionally write (and when I do it’s smut now), and I enjoy biking sometimes. There’s more but thats the main stuff.

ALSO I LOVE MY PARTNERS @flowers-but-gay AND @ambiguousmuffinboi AND @wowzoerz-blog HI HI HIIIIIIIIIII I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH GGRRRAAAHH

BIGOTS DNI.

Instead of cringing or whatever at my blog maybe go outside and allow some whimsy to enter your cold and empty heart. Any sort of bigotry will not be tolerated here. Period.

MINORS DNI.

This blog is nsft. Very nfst. Love you guys but yyyyeah if you’re a minor and you follow me I’m unfortunately gonna block you.

The Juicy Stuff

Ah yes, the juicy stuff.

I am a sub-leaning switch (though I find domming about as fun as subbing, live laugh dominatrix).

Dm’s and asks are open to all, though I ask that you do not start either with sexual advances or comments on me. Flirts are fine, but don’t go too crazy, m’kay? The best way to go about sending asks or dm’s is being silly and just talking to me. Let me get to know you first!

On that note I also do NOT do hookups.

My primary kinks include musk, oral, degradation/praise, getting marked up or marking someone up, teratophilia (especially tentacles), piss, feet, blood, puppyplay, size difference, embarrassment/shaming, exhibition, ownership (both sides), and some others that I’m exploring or that are too hard to mention (though you’ll see them occasionally with tw’s).

Other Stuff

I have a sideblog where I talk about book stuff sometimes if you’re interested @roseisabooknerd-rooknerd

My smut will be under the tag #(ro)s(e)mut

My favorite hornyposts will be under #i-am-actually-the-most-normal-ever

I’m also a furry (avian to be precise). I WANT WINGS SO BAAAAAAAD!!! I WANNA BE BIRD!!!!!

and uhhhm yeah! enjoy my absolutely “scary but entrancing” blog!

#pinned post #intro post

[butchcockiness]

Palestine children's relief fund: https://www.pcrf.net/

wear a mask! check out this post for resources on masking and COVID safety:

(back to my second acct @butchcockiness2 )

age in your bio/pinned, at least put your decade, or blocked. read my dni

we are still in a pandemic. y'all better be masking in public. i'm disabled we don't support anti maskers here

DNI OR GET BLOCKED:

MINORS/AGELESS BLOGS (at least put your decade! 18+ is not an age!), cis men, transandr-phobia truthers, transmeds, "trans m4n l3sbian" supporters or if you're weird to lesbians who assert their lack of attraction to men & consider it an important part of our sexuality, ableists, pr0sh*p

h*rry p*tter fans, anti-BLM, antisemites, islamophobes, blogs full of stolen porn, weight loss or self harm blogs, aphobes, biphobes, panphobes

in terms of kinks: d-trans/dykebre-king/any orientation "play"/misgendering, r-pe/hard cnc, feed-sm, agepl-y, racepl-y, g-nplay, k-dnapping, inc-st, permanent body harm, snuff, bigotry and other generally extreme/very hard kinks. if write porn of real person fic and post it online cut that shit out im gonna block you!

tme people who use the fb or either t slur/ fetishizers of transfems (you only see them as dom tops, etc)/tme "transunity" preachers/if you rb "callout posts" full of transfems/other transmisogynists Will be blocked

if you message me or send asks and disregard any of my boundaries listed below i'll block you (READ THEM)

if you violate any of these and i find out you WILL be blocked. please just respect boundaries. also, if you ignore this and some of my posts upset you, that's on you lol

my gumroad if you're interested in supporting me financially/getting more of my more formal erotica work:

tagging system explained under the cut, plus boundaries if you want to message me (READ BEFORE MESSAGING), to summarize and for asks as well don't send me a sexual opener or start talking about very intense topics early upon talking. new followers send me your favorite fruit emoji if you've read this and my dni on an ask, i won't publish it. i'm always happy to hear you enjoy my writing, but i'm not comfortable w my first interaction with you being sexual!

#lesbian breeding - self explanatory

#bottom surgery smut - posts about transfems - who have had bottom surgery

#butchcockiness original - all my original writing (when i remember to tag it)

#butch bottom - posts about me bottoming

#transfem pussy - posts about transfem pussy, whether bottom surgery pussy, intersex transfem pussy, or any kind of hole transfems know to be their pussy

#trans chastity - posts about fucking a transfem in chastity

#t4t4t - group sex, usually about tag teaming

#transfem bottom - self explanatory

general stuff you'll find on this blog:

• butch/femme dynamics

• some butch4butch stuff (newly :3)

• breeding (no pregnancy beyond the "getting pregnant" part)

• soft dom/sub dynamics

• consensual, previously negotiated somnophilia (will tag)

• consensual, previously negotiated free use (will tag)

• sub top/dom bottom dynamics (especially fem/ femme sub top and a butch dom)

• terato (especially werewolves)/fantasy stuff (like portals)

• you WILL find t4t butch4transfem content here, including either party topping/bottoming, usually w the butch being dominant, and both pre/non and post transfem bottom surgery content!

• i will rb posts about transmisogyny, racism, lesbophobia, ableism, and other issues

BOUNDARIES, READ IF YOU WANT TO MESSAGE ME (i know this is long but i've had some really bad experiences):

i am very happily monogamous with my wonderful femme, and they of course know about and support this account. we have slightly more relaxed boundaries than many monogamous couples, and i might engage in some horny interaction in notes/asks/dms, but i'm not looking for a sexual or romantic relationship, and this is not going to change. don't message me if you can't respect this boundary. don't dm me with a sexual opener, but mutuals who want to make friends are welcome, and if we vibe well i might be interested in some sexual interaction via dm (but don't just message me with that intent please).

i won't engage with you sexually if you're younger than 20/21 or much older than 30, or if you aren't either polyam/ethically nonmonogamous or already very comfortable and secure with being sexual with someone who you are not going to have a serious relationship with. i don't want either of our feelings to get hurt and i don't want to feel pressured to give more than i'm comfortable with. in general, be aware i am disabled and have fatigue that is often severe and i will often not be able to reply right away or keep up steady chats.

also, don't message me asking for advice on heavy topics or venting heavily unless we're friends/close mutuals (and even then, ask first), especially if we've never talked before. remember that i'm a stranger online and i don't know anything about you, nor do you know me personally. i'm on here to have a good time and be horny, i'm not your boyfriend or your therapist. send me your favorite bird emoji if you message me if you have read this. content creators (including sex workers! y'all are so weird to them too) are not your emotional support providers and we deserve to have our boundaries respected.

i am a lesbian and i will obviously not engage sexually or romantically with men or men aligned people; that said, i may occasionally like or rb content written by men, including trans men who are comfortable with lesbian interaction, bc i am transmasculine and relate as such. non sapphic transmascs are welcome to engage w my content as well, as long as you respect the DNI of men DNI blogs i rb from!

#lesbian breeding #bottom surgery smut #butchcockiness original #butch bottom #transfem pussy #trans chastity #t4t4t #transfem bottom

[a-faggot-with-opinions]

whys it appropriating to use top/bottom as a straight person (genuinely asking)

(Note: I use "straight" and "non-MLM" somewhat interchangeably here, mostly because the misusage of top/bottom/vers usually comes from cishet people and cis bi women. I also don't really touch on trans women using the terms here for the sake of time and also because I don't really care what transfems do with their connection or lack thereof to the MLM community.)

Using top/bottom/vers as a non-MLM is disregarding the history of those words and the reason why they exist. This is because these terms mean very specific things in our communities. A massive oversimplification of the meanings for the sake of time is that a top wants to fuck people, a bottom wants to get fucked, and a vers is fine with either position.

This should not be conflated with dom/sub/switch, which are terms in kink communities. When most non-MLM use top/bottom/vers, they are usually conflating it with dom/sub/switch. Which completely ignores the history of the word, and in some cases fetishizes MLM because the implication is that gay sex is the same thing as kink.

Saying something like "my (cis, non-MLM) girlfriend tops me!" is just incorrect unless she is pegging you (but I will get into why you still shouldn't use that word later). This is similar to how you wouldn't call a non-sapphic "stone" - it's not an accurate descriptor because it doesn't apply, and it's misusing terms that are only for certain communities as if they belong to everyone.

This may seem like a common but harmless misconception to many non-MLM, but it's actually really bad. Here are some examples of harm brought to the MLM community by misusing our language:

Our language being used as a vehicle to fetishize us and further ostracize us: by conflating vanilla gay sex with kink communities, people further the existing negative stereotypes about MLM and reveal their own unconscious anti-MLM biases. While plenty of MLM including myself are happy being included in kink communities, it is nonetheless harmful to our community as a whole to conflate the two like this.

Being left out of the conversation when it comes to our own experiences: convincing straight people that top/bottom/vers is for them, we are left out of discussions of our own experiences because non-MLM are convinced that they belong in our communities.

This isn't really harm, but non-MLM using top/bottom/vers is usually incredibly cringy for us MLM to witness and we will all collectively laugh at you.

I am already hearing some non-MLM say, "but what about the evolution of language? These words have been used by non-MLM for decades now!" and that is a fair point. However, it is important to recognize and understand when a term commonly used stems from appropriation, and fix that.

There is, of course, some nuance when it comes to non-MLM talking about MLM people using top/bottom/vers language. It is weird to say that someone is a top/bottom/vers when they haven't made that information public if you're non-MLM, or to be weird about that aspect of them. However, I would give non-MLM the benefit of the doubt in a lot of these cases.

Also, a few words on gatekeeping: saying that non-MLM shouldn't use top/bottom/vers might be considered gatekeeping by non-MLM, but in fact, protecting our language from appropriation isn't gatekeeping.

Also also, I'm using MLM here as an umbrella term for gay men, bisexual men, nonbinary people who love men and other nonbinary people, and everyone else who might identify with "gay" in the MLM sense. This post is not to gatekeep who is able to identify as MLM.

So what can you do if you're not MLM? First, stop using those words to refer to yourself, and start thinking more critically about who you're calling a top, bottom, or vers. Remember to educate yourself about queer language and terminology and to listen to MLM, especially trans MLM and MLM of color.

You can also reblog this post. I'm not going to guilt you into reblogging, or say that not reblogging this is homophobic, but I would still strongly encourage it. If you're not MLM, please don't start shit, just listen. My asks are open if you want to become more educated on this topic!

#asks #gay #discourse #queer politics

[elfgirlboytoy]

alright finally getting around to a pinned post

my name’s Bryn. this is a sideblog, I keep it semi-separate from my main but if I’ve followed you or liked one of your posts you’ll probably know (and if you’re not sure you can just DM me here and ask, I’m not all that shy about it). bisexual switch, transfem and genderfluid (currently bigender and using she/he, or it/its when subby in an objectification kink kinda way). in a relationship which is closed romantically but open sexually. if you wanna message me go ahead, though there’s every possibility I’ll end up being awkward about it lol. not exclusively t4t but I lean that way

kinks

this list goes pretty much entirely both ways in terms of whether I’m domming or subbing at a given time

bondage

body writing

choking

CNC, including consensual intoxication play, hypno, and somno

feet

objectification

overstimulation (tagged “overstim kink”)

painplay (tagged “pain kink”), especially biting, scratching, and spanking

petplay, especially collars, leashes, and cage-style muzzles (never had any actual experience with muzzles sadly)

pissplay

public sex (fantasy only for ethical reasons)

saliva

tentacles

armpits, scent, sweat (tagged “not for gf” so my girlfriend can filter these ones lol)

turn-offs

impregnation/pregnancy (the word breeding is hot to me but actual pregnancy related stuff just doesn’t do it for me)

hard limits

incest, zoophilia (I will just straight up block over these)

diapers, farting, scat (these ones are just complete turn-offs to me, I won’t block over them)

#t4t nsft #mtf nsft #nb nsft #transfem nsft