#ive mentioned this before but i do really like vace in the sense of i am putting him in the pringles jar and Shaking

[hirokiyuu]

was talking abt this on twit but vace+sol is one of my fave exocolonist dynamics bc theres soooo many ways to take it like. theyre besties theyre worsties theyre going to kill each other in unarmed combat, sols got him on a childleash and is teaching him to stop biting every single person he knows, they flirt sickeningly and outrageously even when dating other people and they break up in every universe they start dating in unless they go into space together and die in a wormhole explosion, sols the entire reason he learns to be content planetside and find himself and peace and goes to therapy and if sol doesnt indulge his stupid manchild ego from the time theyre like fifteen to nineteen their entire rship can just crash and burn into absolute nothing, theyre jsut. theyer so much theyre so fucking funny. i love them

#sol+vace runs the entire gamut of Two People Who Grow As People From Just From The Luck Of Having Known Each Other to #You Two Are Fucking Perfect Together Don't Ever Involve Anyone Else In Your Toxic Mess #to Were It Not For The Laws Of This Land You Would Be Dead On The Fucking Pavement As We Speak #and that is soooo funny to me i adore them #ive mentioned this before but i do really like vace in the sense of i am putting him in the pringles jar and Shaking #i am not apologizing i am dropping him in there and going to fucking town #there are still chips inside #personal #i was a teenage exocolonist spoilers #teenexo stuff #besties worsties killing each other in unarmed combat etc etc

[hirokiyuu]

Hello! Saw your last post and got me thinking: What do you think Vace and Lin would be like as parents? I imagine that fatherhood wouldn't come to him as easily, but I think he would earnestly try to be better than both his parents 😁

oh yeah absolutely i think post therapy vace is a better dad than his family (low bar) and i think in therapy he has like the self awareness? to try and push past that

actually therapy vace is very fun in general bc like. i think one of vace's qualities regardless of therapy is how he pushes himself to be The Best it's just like a reframing of what The Best is u kno. there's a reason his cards are vace's confidence u kno. and that confidence is in some ways genuinely earned like!!! he IS the best soldier on the helio!!! like!!!! he has all those awards and he's very smart and like. it makes sense!!!

but then he goes to therapy and he starts like. reframing some of his stuff re:being Good and like what it means to be not just Good At Things but a Good Person and like. thats so much more difficult for him u kno in ways that other stuff wouldnt necessarily be. esp bc a lot of the stuff involved is like, him moving to be more vulnerable and show weakness and forgive ppl and those are not things he's good at naturally which is like. just very fun wwww

the reason i bring this up re:his parenting: i dont think he'd want to be a parent until he's really dealt with a lot of the worst of his shit. he mentions this in his 100 right: he's aware his whole thing comes from his dad who he has an IMMESNELY complicated rship w/. (i say this bc like. in his 50 he mentions hating his dad right. and yet he still has a picture of him u kno. lmfao. god) i dont think he'd ever want to subject his kids to what he went thru. i think he's aware of what he's done and how much worse he could've been u kno. the monster under the bed is who he is without sol

and even then it still takes work u kno. this comes up in the endcards abt how on his worst days he's still just like he was and how it takes times to break past that and find someone to meet him halfway. i have him meet lin when he's like early 30's bc i really do think it takes him a Long Fucking Time to hit a point like that. a lot of relationships. u kno. takes Work. takes time.

BUT THE POINT OF THIS.... to answer your actual q..........

i do actually think vace is a pretty good dad in these circumstances! i think he's protective and caring and i think in context w/rship with lin especially where he's got a partner that's good at reframing issues from "you versus me" to "you and me against the problem" it helps him get in that mindset with kids as well u kno.

i think tho in some ways he's better w/them when they're little GLKHSDLKGH i think he might be a bit overprotective when theyre older. i am shy talkign abt lin but im even shyer talking abt the fankids i made for them but i DO think its immensely funny for him to have his daughter hit adolescence and be like. ok im not calling u daddy anymore. and not bc she's embarrassed abt being a daddys girl or antying she just needs him to realize shes practically an ADULT NOW (vace meanwhile is there like. you are Not an adult jesus christ)

ok thats the serious analysis now here is my stuff thats for Me (sparkle emojis) ive talked abt this with alm before and in some ways i think vace is the parent the kids rely on for most every day stuff bc i do think he spoils his kids a little u kno. daughter shows up asking for a snack and he Prepares something for her meanwhile lin is like (gets smth preprepared from the fridge or tells her to wait for mealtime) takes them shopping teaches them to tie their shoes all that kind of stuff u kno

lin meanwhile is like...... practical wwww ive talked abt this in other places but he has difficulty with people sometimes bc of his augment. he's not great at comforting tbh! i think if the kids are upset adn htey want hugs abt it they go to vace. lin tho i think is the parent they turn towards for more serious stuff? bc vace despite everything still is very emotional while lin is very Not that u kno. so they can be like. uh. papa. ive fucked up. and lin is like (guy whose response to literally Everyhting is How Do We Fix This) How Do We F

in some ways as well i think the kids and lin grow closer as they get older. not to say i think they necessarily grow Away from vace but the way you interact w/small kids versus when u interact w/older ones means i think vace would do better w/the really younger ones while there'd be a bit of disconnect btwn them and lin until they're older u kno. lin is bad at mirroring and coddling and part of the thing abt his rship w/vace is it does help him get better at dealing w/other ppl w/strong emotions, part of that also relies on vace understnading that lin is trying u kno. and that's not a capacity kids really have at such young ages?

overall tho. i do think they are pretty good parents wwwww vace does hover too much but lin i think helps him dial it back wwww and lin struggles more at first but he gets there. their kids i think grow up well! and that's what matters!

#if u ask me to talk abt the fankids i will be here another five paragraphs #this turned into half vace character analysis. as u do #rotating olivace in my ehad constantly every single day. thinking abt him. thinking #he is so Like That i cant not think abt him u kno #oh i do think when they bring up kids lin is like. you'll be a good dad (no hesitation) and vace is like ??? #and lin is like. why are you surprised. #and hten lin is like. idk if im gonna be a good parent. and vace is even more ?????? #i actually have written stuff of them having the 'hey we should have kids' convo but #Ha! Will I Ever Post It. Ha! #anyways jesus christ ive been working on this ask like two hours in btwn other shit. here it is. olivace as a dad content #asks #va1iant viridity #teenexo stuff #lin stuff #i was a teenage exocolonist spoilers