#marvellong at someone becoming strong or having big shoulders or being cool or whatever OUTSIDE of this framework is fine obviously

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#thinking about media #idk what to tag this #romance #? #idk lol #gender stupid #imagining someone trying to do a non binary version of this trope is cracking me up #like ....idk fuck umm uwoh my pixie cut feels so choppy when im arnd uuuuu....my flat chest is as small as ur big shoulders uwu #even this is vastly inaccurate and too funny to work but it definitely feels like offensive stereotyping so its along the right lines #needs some more workshopping jk lol #anyway it stresses me tf out #anime #marvellong at someone becoming strong or having big shoulders or being cool or whatever OUTSIDE of this framework is fine obviously #but dammit its the framing love as an embrace of normative restrictive values that stresses me the fuck out #its like saying youre not in love with the person youre just paying a compliment to how well theyre fitting into a box thats not ... #also lets b real these descriptor tropes tend to lean rly hard on the man being macho and the woman being weak but we all saw that coming #anyway i love cheese gimme cheese but this isnt cheese this is dick cheese