#sir stop calling me dear I will literally sacrifice you to the moon goddess next week on lunar sunday

[starxedchild]

Can we please talk about people that feel entitled to say “dear” to a woman they’ve never met??? I think it’s sooo off putting when a guy starts calling me dear. I am genderfluid. I might not align with being a woman anyways but even if so, using “dear” feel degrading and dehumanizing? Like I feel like it’s a weird power-play to show superiority and be like “oh you are a dear, do this, do that” also because 100% of the time later in the relatively normal conversation (after repeatedly stating that I do not want to be called that) they will start calling out “my attitude”?!? Maybe don’t expect me to explain why I don’t like being called “dear” and just roll with it?? And NO YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EXPLAIN THAT “DEAR” ISN’T A BAD WORD, but so also is “Karen” and yet I still don’t want to be called one. So fuck you, weirdo. If you’d be more understanding of boundaries and the fact that „no means NO“ and not „why?“ then maybe, just maybe, you wouldn’t be a lonely incel with no bitches.

#ranting #so sorry #for the rant #misogyny #feminist #equalist #no means no #sir stop calling me dear I will literally sacrifice you to the moon goddess next week on lunar sunday #not even a woman a 2/3 of the time but ok