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msallurea · 8 months

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Darling the world is gonna hate you suck it up

Not before you guys jump me just hear me out!! Something I've noticed time and time again even within myself is that majority of the things we want, the things we hate about ourselves, the things we love about ourselves, etc literally come from just what the world viewed us as.

For example, black girls are the biggest target when it comes to my statement. We have been brainwashed to believe time and time again that our ethnic features, our lingo, our presence, our aura, our skin, etc have all been deemed as "unattractive" or "ugly". Girls and even guys who have a certain tone or accent to there voice (I'm specifically talking about my southern brothers n sisters here) is seen as "aggressive", women with deeper more stronger voices are seen as "manly" that quite literally takes away women pure sense of femininity!! Our bodies, if your skinny your unattractive your called things like sticks n whatnot (yall know), if your fat you're unattractive, if your body is curvy the internet may try to deem u as attractive but then we go out in the real world you're now not only oversexualized but now your body is what defines who u are as a character they dont even care to know if you're nice or not they will judge based off your physique entirely saying names such as "slut" or "whore" or even going as far as assuming your ran through or something when alot of times that's not true at all. A more softer approach such as acne, having a big nose, if your hair is short or even if it's long but looks a certain eay(yall know what I'm talking about), you even liking a certain color now since it isn't trendy all of a sudden it's an "ugly color" be so fucking fr😭. Pink and purple were the top 2 prime colors that fit this description perfectly.

My point is this, I want you to take a realllllll good look at yourself in the mirror, think of everything you absolutely hate about yourself write it out if u need to absolutely every little thing. Now look at all those things you hate about yourself and ask yourself "Do I genuinely hate all these things about me? Or were these things I was TOLD to hate about me?" Soon enough you will eventually began to realize that a lot of those things you THOUGHT u hated about yourself, were actually opinions coming from someone else NOT YOU!! You don't like the way you smile? Why? Did someone tell u they didn't like your smile? Or is it your teeth? What's wrong with them? What's wrong with smiling your heart out regardless if u show teeth or not? Absolutely nothing!! Oh someone told you that dressing up in more classy attire rather than fast fashion makes u seem lame?? Oh so now u don't wanna be the guy that dresses like he's a rich and wealthy billionaire but rather something you know every other guy is wearing also?? What was wrong with dressing in a fresh suit or being color coordinated and dress to impress with your layers and your nice button down with the pressed slacks? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!

"Darling, for as long as I am here with you. I want you to learn and understand that this world, this world will hate you, this world will turn its back on you and they won't even have a real reason why but they will. I do not know why the world is this way and why it is so dark and cruel sometimes. But, you are the light the shines above all thos darkness. You are the angel that brings heaven to the hellish parts of the world. The world hates because they can't stand to be next to someone who loves themselves so much and are so secure and accepting of who they really are. Do not limit yourself because of the things the world loves about you that is for normies and you, my child, are not that at all. You are a Queen/King, hand chosen by the most high the God of all God's, to be in this world and bring love, light and beauty to its atmosphere, crafted by love, beauty, intelligence, compassion, empathy, patience, security, fulfillment, kindness, loyalty, discipline, strength, courage and all things divine. Don't you ever lower yourself for anyone in this world except God himself. Fall in love with your creation, be in love with the divine creation that you are just as I, and surely enough, in its own strange and peculiar way the world will also fall in love with you as well. Why? Because what is a world, without you in it? "

-Ms. Allurèa

#many of you need to hear this #msallurea #my blog #advice #fix your shit

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elsaxmerida · 4 years

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Watching I survived I kissed dating goodbye

This is how I feel when my husband makes the documentary about how his book hurt people about how good his intentions are

30 minutes in and there's only been one mention of how purity culture has been weaponized against women.

Omg, his issue with it is actually just that this isn't resulting in more marriages 35 minutes in

Defense of tinder is pretty ok but not a critique of purity culture

Not actually a defense of tinder

"Neither the strict rules of courtship nor tinder

So many men

Condoms!! Are excellent!!

Idolatry of marriage bc it's the ultimate place for sexuality, the ultimate christian experience

Women are only on to reinforce men's views

Why are we sexual? What does it mean buddy?

I just tried to simplify

But people want that!!

It's catchy!!

The truth must be in the middle *musical interlude*

The pain of publicly changing your opinion

Don't use the word purity

Because the problem is the word

Ughhhhh slutshaming about nonvaginal intercourse and lesbians

But if you say sorry realllllll niiiiice God might forgive you and you'll be pure again

50 minutes in before we talk about how CSA and how purity culture hurts girls

Wow we moved on fast from CSA and how this shiz kills people

Not gonna mention how it kills people hey?

"Emotional STDs" is such a toxic idea and he knows it but he also thinks it's right-ish

Suppressed emotions make people scared of relationships and emotions

"Dreams to a nightmare"

52 minutes before we get to the actual problems he has with his book

Has to frame this through men being scared of intimacy to make it feel real

He's asking if he helped create a negative environment and she can't directly say yes

The expression he makes when he listens to a woman disagreeing with him

Ignore the 8s my cat stepped on my keyboard

He "believe[s] it's God's word" still

"Sure" "yeah" "right" he sounds so sad when he listens to people talking about things in a way that isn't sex-shaming

Things will be messy but messiness is human

That's nice

There's a place for healthy dating and I said there wasn't 1 hour 5 minutes in

How to be a good single fruit bearing woman 1:07

Marriage/singleness as vocation, everything is work if you have jeebiez

My book hurt people and it helped people, lyfe is complex 🤷‍♂️

I don't agree with a lot of it, my book, not gonna specify which bits so people can continue to buy copies

1:12 I'm so sorry. He finally apologizes and doesn't actually say who he's hurt, just that he's hurt people~~

You're making this about you still mah dude 'I'm not afraid of being wrong anymore'

Beeg yeezy

Find your purity in jeebus is quite possibly the worst note to end on

In conclusion, don't trust messages delivered with twinkled behind.

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a-random-weeb · 6 months

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Bro, being a writer is so much power. Like- I could write the most mentally deranged shit and be mentally deranged and I'd still get like 69 likes. Ik that isn't that much, but it's more than some of my fics should have... Like, that Fyodor fic literally had forced cannibalism

Also my writing is actual shit- I'm 19 I should be better 😭

idk what this is I'm just bored and felt like ranting so here are my thoughts ig

Also Chuuya>>>

Why can't he be real?! 😭

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