"Was John gay? A question mark has been set against his sexuality. Pauline Sutcliffe has suggested John had a love affair of sorts with her brother, Stuart; while John's school friend Pete Shotton has affirmed that John told him he'd had sexual contact with Brian Epstein in Spain. [...] This is only relevant in as much as what stock Paul McCartney puts in such stories about his best friend and, on balance, he rejects suggestions John was homosexual, not least because he and John spent countless nights together in hotels on the road, 'and there was never any hint that he was gay'. Certainly the suggestion has never been made about McCartney himself."
Fab : An Intimate Life of Paul McCartney, by Howard Sounes
"Paul and John kind of knew that they were growing apart, and Let It Be was almost like a marriage that’s failing, and they wanna go on their date nights again".
Q: I always found it interesting that John got married a month after you.
Paul: I think we spurred each other into marriage. They were very strong together which left me out of the picture, so then I got together with Linda and we got our own kind of strength. I think again that they were a little bit peeved that we got married first. (October, 1986)
“I’ve never been the kind to go down to the pub with my buddies. John was really my only male friend, if only because of proximity." -Paul (FAME magazine, 1990)
"My favorite photos are of John and George. There’s a huge sentimental aspect to them. John was a great character. A very different kind of guy to the other boys I knew. We met at the village fete. He was playing with his band. He was a year and a half older than me [and] my first friend who wore glasses. He was always taking them off and polishing them. I found it fascinating." -Paul (2024)
"We were a bit tired so we checked into a little hotel for the night. Of course it was too nice a bed after having hitchhiked so we said: “We’ll stay a bit longer”.” -Paul
"If you go to a party and the husband and wife have been having a row - there's a tension, an atmosphere. And you wonder whether you are making things worse by being there. I think that was kind of the situation we found with Ringo. He was probably feeling a little bit odd because of the mental strangeness with John and Yoko and Paul." -George Martin
"I can still see John now: checked shirt, slightly curly hair...I remember thinking, ‘He looks good – I wouldn’t mind being in a group with him’." -Paul
"Paul mentioned that John was often the subject of his work, commenting: "John is a central figure in my life. I will always be grateful for having so much intimate time with him. The more distant his stuff becomes, the greater he seems. I used to do caricatures of John. He was the only person I knew with an aquiline nose. When I painted him recently, I found myself saying: 'How did his lips go? I can't remember.' Then I would think: 'Of course you know, you wrote all those songs facing each other.'" -Bill Harry
Paul: If I'm going to see a face in a painting, it's highly likely to be his.
“I often think of John when I look at this one,” McCartney says, gazing off dreamily. “John used to always do those funny little men, you know? And I would often sketch John when we worked together, often without him knowing it. It was so easy doing John because he had glasses, those sideboards – what you call sideburns – and that long, aquiline nose.” (2001)
"I would often sketch John when we worked together, often without him knowing it. It was so easy doing John because he had glasses, those sideboards –or sideburns – and that long, aquiline nose.”