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[victoria-grove]

Hey if they are pulling out the "purity culture" card on the recent "drama". Its a red flag. They are the real manipulators trying to brainwash you. Like, do you really want to defend pedos and incest shippers? Dont look too good on you. ._ .

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this is not fandom drama, these are the consequences of your actions

#cats the musical #cats musical #actions for which you have yet to apologize

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I am LOVING the facts you are spitting all over my feed right now I can’t believe some of these things are considered radical statements when it’s actually common decency Keep being awesome, I’m so sorry there are people like that in the fandom, but it’s honestly so comforting seeing people like you standing up for what’s right All my love ❤️❤️❤️

thank you so much for your kind words ❤❤ i got so fed up after what happened that i couldn’t keep silent. and i’m so sorry what you and all of your friends had to live, because you guys passed for so much!! you’re so brave and honestly, y’all deserve better

#tuggoffelees

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the 30+ years old cis/het white users who believe themselves owners of the fandom need to go, now

#cats the musical #cats musical

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why does white people love to make themselves the victims

#literally the least you can do is apologize??? #you were such monsters to user tantomiles #you misgendered them multiple times #but you keep avoiding apologizing like ????? you're horrible people #'but they did that they did this' it doesn't fucking matter!!!!!! #you made fun of somebody mental health and misgendered them multiple times #there's literally no excuse for that #that the conversation was private and they werent mean to see it doesnt justify it

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breaking my hituas to say what’s going on with the cats fandom is disgusting and everyone involved should be in jail

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oh yeah the fandom was so nice and welcoming uwu uwu if you were a white cis/het person of course, because if you weren't, the story was very different 

#cats the musical #cats musical

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as soon as i called out user @akucrisp very obvious ableism and transphobia, they quickly blocked me, i think that speaks very clear the kind of person they are

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This is an informative post about Statisticalcats’ Discord Server under the name of Unashamed Felinity.

It’s going to be very long, so buckle up.

I joined this server, admittedly, to talk about ships I wouldn’t usually be able to talk about openly on the feed. I have always been a believer in letting people do and ship what they want as long as they’re not hurting anyone. This means that I do ship things like incest and non/con, but I would never expose a minor to that kind of thing or put it openly on my blog, because I know it can be harmful and triggering. 

When I first joined, I had access to all parts of the server, including the controversial and nsfw channels.

I messaged Satisticalcats to ask about role locking certain channels, but as I did not know her very well, I tried to be polite and nonchalant about it.

She was relying on an honor system, and for Discord’s nsfw channel permissions (which are really easily bypassed). This made me really uncomfortable, but I didn’t say anything just yet because no minors had joined so far. Luckily, someone else in the server brought up the same point, and Statisticalcats finally agreed and locked the channels.

Now would be a great time to let you know that Whitmerule is 37-years-old, and Statisticalcats is 26-years-old. They are right, minors will want to explore nsfw content by themselves and possibly with other minors. However, it made me incredibly uncomfortable that these adults in and close to their thirties took it upon themselves to create a space where they could expose minors to incest, large age gap ships, and other controversial and inappropriate ships. It should make you uncomfortable too. I will reiterate that I am not against shipping these things in your own circles, but this made me feel sick.

My experiences in the server only got worse from there. They have a locked channel under the name of “problematical-chats” where they talk about discourse that goes on in the fandom itself. This is where they specifically name certain anti-shippers, insult them, try to analyze their psychological states, and accuse them of bullying and abuse. The specific users that have been mentioned are @rumplteazer​ , @zitface​ , @tuggoffelees​ , @incorrectcats​ , and, of course, @tantomiles​ . You probably recognize these urls as prominent members of the fandom.

They are specifically obsessed with tumblr user @tantomiles , and have targeted them multiple times, often blaming them for being the cause of the fandom’s drama. It’s actually obsessive. The theory that Tantomiles is “grooming” their friends and “brainwashing and manipulating” them has been thrown around, as if all these people couldn’t possibly hold the same opinions.

OH, remember when Jellicle-ho got “cancelled” for misgendering Tantomiles? but did you know that all of them actually all do it all the time?

Oh and let’s not forget the looooong psycho-analyses of these people (that are incredibly personal and literally nobody asked for them)

I don’t feel like unpacking the fact that the 37-year-old who’s open to helping teens work out their sex stuff also “works professionally with vulnerable young people”. Anyway, I’m just really sick and tired of these people acting high and mighty. Yes, I ship incest. Yes, I ship other dark shit. No, I don’t openly share my thoughts with minors, and no, I don’t obsess over people who find my interests LITERALLY TRIGGERING. Ugh. I have the basic moral sense not to shove peoples’ triggers in their faces and then act like they’re the ones ruining the fandom.

So who’s involved? Here’s a list of every url in that server (minors not included). You’re welcome.

statisticalcats terpisochorian jellicle-beans skimbly-shanks (main: the-gadabout-gander) porgsarespacepuffins demonsummoning the-bunny-wife monkeystrap (main: afgunst) msariadneoliver snowhite-dahlia whitmerule natsstupidstuff fish-d mischief-queen-fanfiction jellicle-ho partyinthemysterymachine uppastthejelliclemoon

Anyway I’m tired of them. I deleted my Discord, and I’ll archive my tumblr soon too. Oh, and just so we’re all on the same page, here’s a link to the chat logs that I exported directly from the server so you can read for yourself.

https://cybersheepface.tumblr.com/post/624225274982285314/httpscybersheepfacetumblrcomincest-incest

Let me end this with the clarification that I decided to make this post by myself because I wanted to, anyone mentioned here had nothing to do with my decision, nor did they even know I was making it. I mean, these people are LITERALLY BREAKING THE LAW. Oh, did you forget that it’s illegal to expose minors to adult content? Did you forget that incest/pedophilia/dark fiction COUNTS as adult content? You’re lucky I don’t have the energy to report your server and get you banned from Discord for good. Have fun with getting mad at people for not wanting to see our triggering shit. I mean the priorities here are just in the wrong place all together. Please read this, fuck it, spread it around, I don’t care. This shit needs to be seen.

#this is so fucking disgusting #and why are all the targeted people lgbt+ hmmm #🤔🤔🤔

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Here’s my jellicle OC! Meet Tyimo the poet cat! They live in a bookstore and like to climb the shelves and sit on chairs and desks (they like to be tall.) Tyimo is generally very helpful and can be a little timid, most of the time they’re content following others/helping others accomplish what they want to. When it is their time to shine, though, the second pic is the outfit they wear in their song!

Tyimo both collects and writes poetry, so they’ve got big stacks of books and paper and they have a giant pen (think like Bustopher Jones’ giant spoon prop.) They’re also a HUGE romantic and write sappy poetry about pretty queens, but they’re far too embarrassed to send any. Tyimo is very reserved but clever with words and loves to be helpful to others. 

Please tell me what you think of them and if your OCs would be friends with them :D

#SMALL COMEBACK TO SAY EVERYBODY PLS SEE MY FRIEND OC #Ahhh they're so cute!!! #cream and yogurt will be happy to be their friends!!

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I'm feed up with tumblr right now for many reasons, so if we're mutuals and you want to keep interacting with me you can DM me for my twitter

#not only fandom but tumblr tires me up #a working app it's too much to ask? #and xkit isn't working after that site update so my blacklists doesn't work #I'll come back eventually but for now I'll take a rest

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This is beyond disgusting, I'm sorry this happened you and your friend, I just wanted to tell you that you have all my support

Alright. Lets put this kitten to bed shall we?

I am alerted to uppastthejelliclemoon's precense after she posts some shit about that racist misogynistic homophobe we all know and love for writing alpha male munkustrap fanfiction and how shit has been taken too far over some shitpost blah blah blah idk. I scroll thru her blog being like what kind of person posts this? Seriously? And i stumble upon this au she had been indulging in which is terrible and you can look it up for yourselves. Apparently this was the second time this kind of thing has happened as well (being that she writes disgusting shit and gets called out for it) so let's keep that in mind.

Anyway im discussing this with my friend as we are both disgusted by this and he messages uppastthejelliclemoon directly asking for clarification. She doesnt respond. I get impatient and point out the fact that this shit exists on my own blog and tag her so she can have an oppurtunity to explain herself. She doesnt respond.

My friend replies to my post with his own commentary and additional screenshots.

People see it and respond appropriately in disgust as it is disgusting.

Uppastthejellicle moon decides to do a non apology in which shes basically like well I didnt INTEND to and im only being positive and also guys why did you tell everyone about this thing they could find on their own and not talk to me. Directly.

Except then she only got anonymous messages?

But then, when she is in dms with my friend, no one spoke to her? But then only anons did. BUT THEN SHE DID RECEIVE A MESSAGE FROM HIM EXACTLY. Funny that.

Weird how the story changes like that and ours doesnt. Hm.

Weird thing you'll notice is her claiming that well this shit she posted was a while ago and why didnt we address it then and im like. Hm. Weird you think we know every post you have ever made and know exactly when and where. Sounds a little like you think everyone MUST know everything about you at all times because youre so important. So important that you decide that the homophobic racist misogynist gets the clear over a shitpost and we are bullies as your friends call us despite everything showing clearly otherwise?

Anyway.

To the people reading this im sure youve realized im not a pleasant speaker when i know im right and am speaking to people who will die on a hill of nasty shit of their own making.

My friend, however, as you can tell from just the excerpt of their conversation is very respectable. He's gentle and factual and calm as he explains himself. He would ask me and his other friends if what he wrote was too harsh or innacurate before sending them for you see, he has a stress condition. Its very clearly stated on his blog that im sure uppastthejelliclemoon and friends have seen as they are able to message him.

See, I think my friend here did a great job handling this situation considering his stress condition, and i do not think that him having a stress condition exempts him from speaking his mind and defending himself. (Which jelliclemoon's friend ruvyr will later say the opposite of in the screenshots that follow, which is ableist, by the way, but lets keep going).

However, when you are discussing an issue with someone you know has a stress condition and you start to dogpile onto him with your other friend who has nothing but insults and a way of twisting their words to suit your narrative?

Maybe dont do that. Because now my friend had to vomit due to this outright gaslighting.

See, i have received zero messages from these people directly because they know that I wont be nice. They pick on someone weaker, my aforementiond friend, who did exactly as uppastthejelliclemoon had asked in the first place.

So.

Uppastthejelliclemoon gets a callout post for their horrible shit.

Uppastthejelliclemoon, whitmerule, ruvyru and probably more then decide to knowingly dogpile on the weaker of the two that made the callout post to the point of him physically vomiting.

* i wont be specifying who gave me this screenshot, but i believe it is a reliable source, heres the full one unedited:

Here it all is. The whole picture for you.

I suggest you block

@uppastthejelliclemoon

As they clearly do not take criticism well and as I have said, repeated the same actions that have been called out for previously.

@whitmerule

Who has a history of writing incestuous fics and frowns down upon "antis" (aka normal people) that speak up against this nasty shit weve mentioned today, and also participates in this blatant attack on my friend who did nothing wrong.

@ruvyru

For associating with them in the first place and just being a straight up bully as you can see in the dms they requested be posted publically

@statisticalcats

Who is literally into incest and uses terms like "purity culture" unironically to describe me saying hey, maybe racist, sexist, ableist, and just nasty shit like that, being bad!

@fiercejellicle

Well you know why. If not, look up purplezprout on my blog.

And just avoid these people in future.

Me and my friend @zitface are done with this drama, specifically. I applaud them for handling this situation well, but like i have said before, I will point out shit I find gross in the future. I dont give a shit.

Feel free to reblog, and reply with your favorite love song! Im working on a not disgusting fanfiction and need inspiration. Hope you all have a good day.

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It’s currently -checks watch- 11:49 am right now which means I haven’t slept in over 48 hours but I need to tell someone. I’ve discovered the peak way to interpret Cats and that is in an entirely literal way. Like u know that post about the inherent comedy of cat girls? They’re just weirdos with ears and tails who will look you in the eyes and call you a bitch while they knock shit off the bench. They can and will fuck your wife but they can’t vote. I’m losing my mind over here

I.... don't know what to tell you, reading this felt like a fever dream and I'm not drunk enough to answer this, but if they're going to fuck my wife they could also fuck me

#nsfw #I'M LOSING MY MIND ASHSJDKDKF #I REALLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO ANSWER THIS #BUT YOUR MIND SLEEP DEPRIVED ANON? POWERFUL

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i may not show it but college really be giving me brain damage

#sorry for the inactivity but this is keeping me so stressed #i hate it here!!

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we really need to retry to have that conversation again bc every i think of that one user who ships tugger and jemima my blood boils

oh yeah i remember her, and it’s very unfortunate that everytime we try to speack up about it some users get angry and say that we’re ruining the fandom experience™ , and i’m sorry y’all hate “discourses”!!! but many persons have told me how they don’t interact with the fandom anymore and feel many persons here lack of emphaty, so i’ll not shut up

#discourse #fandom drama #cats discourse #Anonymous

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Cats PSA for the US Department of Transportation from the mid 80’s

#this gave me nightmares

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Tantomile once requested by @tantomiles

#ohh her eyes so beautiful...