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Excerpt from Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown.

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oh my god. it's aromantic day

#text #not acethetic #aromantic

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I wish all aromantics or people who dislike Valentines day a wonderful day of nobody bothering you about who you’re with or if you have a valentine.

#text #not acethetic #aromantic

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#black #words #PS: 2

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While aromantic is trending I’d like to say that aromantic people deserve so much better than we’ve gotten in this community so far. Step it up, be a better ally. Listen to our voices, uplift them, and stop letting aces speak over us and for us (Aroaces are fine cause you know. They’re aro too). We have our own voices and they deserve to be heard as well. 

We all have unique experiences and labels and it’d be great if we could be uplifted instead of ignored mostly. We deserve to be included as part of this community just as much as aces do. 

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MM6 Maison Margiela Teddy Shoulder Bag

#white #fashion #accessories

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happy ace awareness week

“ace people can still have sex or engage in sexual activities” and “no one, including ace people, is obliged to have sex, enjoy sexual activities, media, or kinks, and it’s super okay to never engage in any of those things if you don’t want” are ideas that can and should coexist

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happy tdov to all my trans aces out there!! 💙💗💜

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Asexuality is weird because you’ll be 12 going “wow why are people my age concerned about sex we’re just kids” and then you’re 16 going “wow why are people my age concerned about sex we’re just kids” and then you’re an adult suddenly realizing that other people are attracted to people and want to have sex with them and that’s the normal thing at that age and you’re like oh maybe it’s me

#not acethetic #text

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shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.

#not acethetic #text

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probably been done before but still funny

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For the people out there who think you need to have had sex at least once before you can really say your asexual.

I will say this

Straight men? You are no longer allowed to say your straight till you've fucked a guy and decided you dont like it.

Straight women? You are no longer allowed to say your straight till you've fucked a girl and decided you dont like it.

Gay men? Ditto. No saying your gay till you've fucked a lady and found you didnt like it

Lesbians? Fuck a dude first or you just not valid, sorryyyy!

Did this make you angry?

Guess what! Now you know how asexual people feel when you start this shit with them. I'm 30 years old. I am asexual. I have never had sex. Never had the slightest inclination to have sex.

And I do not need to have had sex to decided I'm just flat out not goddam interested.

#text #not acethetic

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hi happy october this is your reminder that trauma induced asexuality is just as valid as being born asexual

#asexual #asexuality #text #not acethetic

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Boys who are sex-repulsed/don’t enjoy sex/are too uncomfortable to have sex - you’re doing an amazing job at coping in a society that associates your maleness with having strong sexual desires. You are valid, you are loveable, you are not ‘weird’ for not fitting into the stereotype of men wanting sex all time.

#text #not acethetic

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#white #animals #snake #hand #asexual #white aesthetic #aesthetic

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ace people deserve to feel safe in queer spaces

#not acetheric

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Hand embroidery on natural linen.

#grey #art #embroidery #cats