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executive dysfunction is legitimately physically uncomfortable. i’ll be trapped between two things, weirdly caught on how-much-time-it-might-take-me. i take hours worried im going to take hours doing things. i’ll sit on the floor for the entire day, caught up in the middle of not-doing the chores i actually do want to be doing.

& the amount of mental energy that goes into it. & the legitimate amount of anger and discomfort and self-hate. is not “being lazy”.  it’d be a lot less work if i didn’t have to fight myself to just get up and do it. 

i just need you to understand it’s not effortless. it’s never effortless. it’s not “okay let me just get up and finally start doing this.” it’s more like. i am slamming my foot on the pedal but the car is in neutral and nothing is moving. it’s more like shouting instructions into a dying telephone. it’s more like being trapped in a small electric box, and someone who hates me is administering shocks. 

im trying. im trying. please help me get up.

#important #god yes this is how I feel constantly

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#merlin #bbc merlin

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MERLIN (2008 - 2012) Morgana Pendragon ▶ Season 3, Episode 03: “Goblin’s Gold”

#merlin #bbc merlin

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#merlin #bbc merlin

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Hi, yes, welcome to my most favourite comic ever.

The First and Last times Merlin Braided Arthur’s Hair (And a few other times as well)

This is in response to the numerous requests I have had to draw Merlin doing Arthur’s hair.   Because I think there is a level of intimacy and trust involved in grooming someone else’s hair. I was inspired examine the relationship between Arthur and Merlin (and how it develops) through these moments. 

#merlin #bbc merlin #merthur #not my art

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MERTHUR WEEK 2020 day seven: free choice | 1.10 vs 5.13

#merlin #bbc merlin #merthur

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If you live in Alabama and you have a trans child age 19 or younger and they’re receiving hormone therapy, get THE FUCK out now.

The state of Alabama has just made it a felony to give trans children ages 19 or younger hormone therapy or affirmation surgery.

Trans Lives Matter and stay safe.

-fae

#important #lgbt #lgbt stuff

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what terfs think happens when we agree with a post but then disagree upon realizing op is a terf: 

terf: -and thats why i think women should have spaces free from men 

normal person: i agree! 

terf: im a terf btw 

normal person: i no longer agree out of spite and will ignore you even though youre correct and i know it 

what actually happens: 

terf: -and thats why i think women should have spaces free from men

normal person: i agree!

terf: im a terf btw 

normal person: i now realize that when you said “men” you meant a certain subset of women, and changing the subject of a sentence changes its meaning. when you change “men” to “trans women” i no longer agree 

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if i see one more post from a terf acting all smug about people agreeing with their crypto shit im gonna scream. no, we arent drinking your kool-aid, youre just too much of a coward to say what you really mean 

#important #fuck terfs

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🔥 FIRE GIRLS!🔥

Boom. More of my fire girls 💕💕💕

Instagram | ☕Ko-fi | Youtube

(i always forget to add these grrr… )

Image description is in the alt text again, let me know if it works better the other way. I can put it back here. :)

#avatar the last airbender #atla #not my art

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#lol

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This comic from Lilo the Autistic Queer (@A_Silent_Queer on Twitter) made me smile today. There is no one way to look trans, and no one way to transition. However you choose to express your authentic self is good and doing what makes you happy regardless of what cis people think is good.

#lgbt #lgbt stuff #important

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#me

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“my child is fine” your child has long ebony black hair with purple streaks and red tips that reaches her mid-back and icy blue eyes like limped tears

#god fucking damn it #if I have to see this so do you #I understand and I blame my first bf 100% #he thought it would be funny to read it out in class while the teacher was gone #cursed

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New form of joke: telling someone to roll an ability check for something that obviously doesn’t need that type of check

#lol

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| CAMELOVE2021 ❤︎ DAY6 | Ladies First

#merlin #bbc merlin

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#just husband's heading back to their castle

#merlin #bbc merlin #merthur

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gwaine + food happy birthday @forever-rewatching-merlin​ 🍗😍🥖  bonus: after being denied food 

#merlin #bbc merlin