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"What's the biggest lie ever told to women and girls?"

"That sex means anything to a man. It is an act to fulfill a standard male need. It don't got shit to do with love, intimacy, care, feelings; it don't mean shit. It's no different than taking a fucking piss. If you have ever thought, or ever had sex with a man with the intention or belief, or hope that it will lead to love, or that it meant anything regarding respect or love for you, you is a motherfucking fool.

Why do you think it's so easy for a man to make you a single mother? Nothing about you becoming a single mother meant a motherfucking thing to him. He didn't give a fuck about the sex, he didn't give a fuck about you, and he don't give a fuck about that baby. In his mind, he's stuck paying child support to you because he took a motherfucking piss.

This is why bragging that you had a man, or that you had someone else's man, is the stupidest shit that you could ever say out your fucking mouth. To that man, it was literally between you, or that dirty wife-beater on the floor. Your biggest competition was his hand and dirty laundry. But go off, sis!

— Chad The Great

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someone just pointed out that heterosexual women have higher chances of getting STDs, getting pregnant, and having their consent violated in some manner during sex than they have of even receiving an orgasm.

imagine putting yourself through that, just to be told by men that your value decreases when you have sex. 4b movement now.

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bratz dolls were so evil i fucking hated them the second they hit the shelves in 2001. i remember the first time i saw them advertised in a catalogue for toys-r-us and felt so insulted as a female, i think it was the first time i ever felt that way . i just knew at a tender age that something misogynistic and nefarious was afoot even if i couldn't understand why i found them so deeply insulting.. nowadays a good percentage of the women who played with them as kids aspire to look like them through heavy make up and plastic surgery . 8 year old me was right

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The biology of woman in fact holds the key to the story of the human race. The triumph of evolution occurred in the female body, in one critical development that secured the future of the species. This was the biological shift from primate oestrus, when the female comes on heat, to full human menstruation. Although generally unsung, indeed unmentioned, female monthly menstruation was the evolutionary adaptation that preserved the human species from extinction and ensured its survival and success. Menstruation, not hunting, was the great evolutionary leap forward. It was through a female adaptation, not a male one, that "man" throve, multiplied and conquered the globe.

- Rosalind Miles, "Who Cooked The Last Supper: The Women's History of the World"

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A woman went viral for being turned down for a next interview for a role, she asks the recruiter what she did wrong, the recruiter tells her they were “concerned about her lack of effort in her appearance.”

She explains she wore a freshly ironed blazer with a collared top. Her nails were painted a professional beige. She got a blowout for her hair, so a professional style. She had on subdued gold earrings.

The only thing she wasn’t wearing was makeup; she states she really doesn’t wear makeup, and only had chapstick on, as her skin is sensitive. Her lawyer mother has already explained she has no legal case against the company for any type of gender-based discrimination.

Just in case anyone wants to ask why feminists still refer to the “pink tax” or rail against more and more elaborate makeup trends being pushed on girls and women.

Women being punished socially for not wearing makeup is still a feminist issue.

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someone just pointed out that heterosexual women have higher chances of getting STDs, getting pregnant, and having their consent violated in some manner during sex than they have of even receiving an orgasm.

imagine putting yourself through that, just to be told by men that your value decreases when you have sex. 4b movement now.

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"What's the biggest lie ever told to women and girls?"

"That sex means anything to a man. It is an act to fulfill a standard male need. It don't got shit to do with love, intimacy, care, feelings; it don't mean shit. It's no different than taking a fucking piss. If you have ever thought, or ever had sex with a man with the intention or belief, or hope that it will lead to love, or that it meant anything regarding respect or love for you, you is a motherfucking fool.

Why do you think it's so easy for a man to make you a single mother? Nothing about you becoming a single mother meant a motherfucking thing to him. He didn't give a fuck about the sex, he didn't give a fuck about you, and he don't give a fuck about that baby. In his mind, he's stuck paying child support to you because he took a motherfucking piss.

This is why bragging that you had a man, or that you had someone else's man, is the stupidest shit that you could ever say out your fucking mouth. To that man, it was literally between you, or that dirty wife-beater on the floor. Your biggest competition was his hand and dirty laundry. But go off, sis!

— Chad The Great

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Putting her brilliant response aside, women have literally died because society treated us like smaller men. Women have different symptoms of diseases, need doses of medications that account for our metabolism, and have unique conditions that are in desperate need of further study. Arguing that biological sex has no importance just sets us back. Women are a biological class and we exist, and we matter.

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*screams into a pillow*

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Cool studies on women

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The "oh but we're not calling women cunts like that" people know it hurts women. They just don't care. Now it's even worse, because men can call women cunts in the most misogynistic way they can muster and claim it's not offensive because sometimes other people didn't mean it like that.

If it was another group of people, you wouldn't be allowed to call them slurs but it's okay "you didn't mean it." Because all other groups include MEN. Men are respected and humanized. Only women are treated like this.

Yeah yeah, I have plenty of Australian friends. Just like every other country, Australians are people with lots of different opinions. Many Australians think the word cunt is too vulgar and offensive. Some only say it as a masculine term and use it towards men because they are aware of the nasty way it can be used against women. Others explain that Australians saying cunt is a meme, and many Australians who often swear still don't use that word. People in America use slurs casually, even when they shouldn't. People in America will defend obviously offensive things and say they are fine. People in America will participate in saying bad things and brag about how not offended they are by it. That's what people do. Australia isn't special in this way. You don't have to support the word because of "muh Australia" or whatever. It's not used there nearly as much as you think it is. Many Australians say they would never use it because it's rude.

"Cunny" is a pedophile version of cunt, meaning an underage girl's vagina. I see men say it around the internet a lot. I searched its origin and it's actually a very old word from the 1500s. How long before that becomes an acceptable too. Just stop with these words. It's wrong.

If you hate the word cunt, you are right. Don't let others make you feel crazy. Let the word die off.

"Woman is cunt, lustful, wanton. She must be punished, tamed, debased." ― Andrea Dworkin, Women Hating

“Men have few restraints in expressing to prostitutes—during sex or in any sexual scenario— their real attitudes toward women as a class; they have no reason to feel constrained, since the woman is there to be a woman, period—to be inferior, subservient, and used. She is there because the man wants a woman, someone exactly of her class, someone who is her sex function, not human but an it, a cunt: she is there for that reason, not for anything human in her. Her function is limited, specialized, sex-specific, and intensely and intrinsically dehumanizing.” ― Andrea Dworkin, Right-Wing Women

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Dear men,

In case you haven't heard it today, you're kind, caring, handsome and smart. Don't ever let these misandrists ruin your day.

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"Queer"

Well, here's the first rant I guess.

I hate the word queer with a passion.

People tend to forget that, when they go on an on about their 'queerness', about 'queer identities', 'queer rep' and what not, they're just talking about strangeness. Something to be weary of. Something wrong. Something that stands out, but for the wrong reason. Because it's what the word queer is. It's what it represents. It's what it means, literally.

My attraction for women is not strange. I'm not queer. I'm not an anomaly.

Call yourself queer if you like. But assuming that everyone falling under the LGBT acronym should agree to be called a slur is delusional. It's not a word that will ever be entirely reclaimed, and it shouldn't be.

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queer

Do you feel big now? Cowering behind anon using a slur against someone who experiences same sex attraction? You are just like every other homophobe in the world and from generations past. You aren't special.

LGB drop the T.

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Sometimes a post is good but then they refer to gay sex or love as “queer” and I just feel so much annoyance towards the op. Why are we referring to gay sex and love as weird? Why are we agreeing with homophobes who’ve always tried to convince us we’re deviants?

Gay sex and love are natural and normal parts of being human. Not “queer”.

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I’ll never understand self identified “queers” who get mad when “people call their ‘identity’ a slur”. Because I thought the whole point of calling yourself “queer” was to reclaim the slur. If you are choosing to identify with a slur, you’re going to have to be okay with people calling it what it is; a slur!

It seems they want to have it both ways. They’re reclaiming the q slur, but actually it’s not a slur so shut up if you view it as such.

I’m convinced that the whole “we’re reclaiming it for power!!” Argument was a sham the whole time. They always just wanted to call themselves weird because they think it’s quirky, and they’re mad that the cute slur they like is actually a slur. So they’re trying to convince us that it’s not actually a slur, despite many people having first hand experiences with the word that say differently.

Which is how you get people who “identify” as “queer”, but won’t even acknowledge that it’s a slur and actually get mad at those who refer to it as such. They never meant to reclaim the word—they couldn’t, it wasn’t theirs to reclaim. They just thought it was a fun word, so they took it.

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Hi I’m a queer woman, I don’t appreciate you calling my identity a slur. Stop it.

No because it is a slur. Stop denying LGB history.