Good evening, my name is Master Adam Sir in the Kink and BDSM scene. I have been involved in the kink scene for for over 20 years. starting in Kansas City then moving to Los Angeles and currently in Phoenix. I have never been accused of being an abuser. Yes, I have former slaves who don't want to talk to me like Temprace and Phillabuster but u don't believe they would call me abusive. I took our break up badly and acted foolishly. I don't belueve my former slaves Lynx or Si'lat would say that I am abusive. I don't believe my long time slave Dracomancer would say I was abusive.
U have always ben one to advocate believing those who claim to be a victim. Today I have to step out of that mind set. my slave Ukai (Dylan or Kane... he uses so many different names) has accused me of abuse.
I want to say clearly and emphatically I did not abuse Dylan. Every thing that we did was clearly negotiated. I do not even have a punishments in my dynamics beyond making them write standards.
Sadly, those who know I was not abusive to Ukai refuse to speak up. While privately they say they don't belueve him they are not will to expose themselves.
I remember when this community was about honor and integrity. Today I fear. to many innocent Dominants are gettimg the short staff in a culture that wants to believe the submissive/slave.
I am being falsely accused by Ukai-Dylan-Kane of abuse.
I ask you this... why has Ukai (Dylan/Kane) accused so many people of abuse? He has accused all 3 of his former Dominants of being abusive and has accused a fellow submissive play partner of abuse! At one pount one has to ask are all these people abusive or us Kane/Ukai/Dylan just being manipulative and crying wolf for sympathy.
Working again is great. It feels good to be productive once again. I am settling into being single once again. With the time that I have had and the contemplation that goes with that. I know I will miss Dylan, hopefully he will be happy. I also came to realize how much I miss Merrick.
It is time to look forward.While I had wonderful times with both Merrick and Dylan they have moved on in their lives.
I came to Arizona to build a new life and I did that while having two great, in my opinion, relationships with two wonderful people.
Both Merrick and Dylan made great impacts in my life. Mostly positive some negative. But I greatly appreciate the relationships they offered me.
Who knows what life will bring.
I just hope that both Dylan and Merrick know. I will always be there of they need help.