#I assume a lot of you will be unfollowing

[hedghost]

hedge what other utd blogs do u recc' i unfollowed a Lot of people after the blonde one left 🙏🏻

there’s like hardly any but based off the people who interact with my united posts a lot/that i follow: @p0orbaby @wosofutbolfan @sistermichael @rashfordxbruno @mayaletits @turtlelightwood @handsomehers @pajorko (i mean you’re more of a wob blog but you repost my posts so i’m counting you 😅) and @lhpics7

if any of you aren’t united fans i apologise pls correct me lmao i’m just assuming here

if there’s any hidden united fans i’ve missed this is your chance to reveal yourself and join team delulu ;)

#muwfc

[shuniverse]

hey , another important announcement . please take this seriously , and please be mature . I don’t want drama , even if this is a very serious matter

I’d like to disclose that , regretfully , I haven’t been true about my age on this blog . after speaking to a moot and anon on my other acc , I’d like to finally inform you this going forward .

I know I have ruined most of your guy’s trust in me , but I’d like to tell the truth now .

to all my friends and mutuals who are not minors , I’d like to say I’m sorry . truly , I am . this was a selfish decision on my part , and I only did it to obtain certain content , and I’m truly sorry , it wasn’t right and I want to openly admit that .

all blogs who follow me that aren’t minors , I completely understand if you block and/or unfollow me , and I will also be in the process of deleting my smut works .

they’ve been a joy for me to write , and it’s been lovely getting all of your requests , but I’d like to do the mature and responsible thing of owning up to this mistake and betrayal of my friends trust , and ridding this blog of content that should not be here

thank you to all my friends who I’ve been able to meet through this blog , minors and non-minors alike . you’ve all been amazing , and I’ve adored your content .

thank you for being here , and once again , I genuinely apologize for this . truly

love you all , alice 🐼

#I assume a lot of you will be unfollowing #and that’s okay! #but I’d like to disclose this going forward #I’m so very sorry #and I’ve learned from this mistake

[ecstasydemon]

i havent jrwiposted here or on twitter in a while but wowww the way jrwiblr act when jrwitwt even show a lil interest is actually so pretentious and annoying. i get not wanting twt users on tumblr but also shut the fuck up lol

#i have a lot of jrwitwt friends and seeing annoying fucks shittalk them for no reason is soo lame #like get a grip #also the bi lesbian lizzie shit. fuck that #you can unfollow idgaf #sorry this is my blog and i will complain abt whatever i want #also dont go assuming im some twt freak or whatever ive literally used tumblr longer

[jehans]

dude idek

twitter is dying i guess so i'm...coming back...? to tumblr....??? maybe? so hi hello it's been 8 years. i have different pronouns now (he/they) and i go by blaidd, nice to see you!

#i'm assuming a bunch of people are gonna unfollow me immediately and that's fine lmao #i genuinely don't know why anyone still follows this blog at all since i haven't posted in EIGHT YEARS #half my old friends from tumblr are gone now but to the rest of you hi hello i love you #this blog is gonna be a lot of batfam/jaydick and me posting about my fic again #hiiiiiiiii #oh also dropout/dimension 20

[aeide-thea]

i will say, i get impatient sometimes with ppl who state [what should be] the obvious wrt -isms in a work in a way that feels designed to shut down engagement with it, rather than saying, right, okay, there's some real gristle here, let's chew on it; but the flip side of that is that like—there's something deeply and frankly violently crazy-making abt seeing ppl pass something around that's glaringly fucked up along a particular axis, and seeing none of them so much as acknowledge it??

#still thinking abt the way the witcher fandom discovered book!dandelion yelling at an elf woman on geralt's behalf and decided it was Cute #without any acknowledgment whatsoever of the *deeply misogynist* language he whipped out in this tirade #and then a BNF was like 'bold of you to assume we aren't all aware' and unfollowed me for mentioning it #like. idk. it is actually important to make sure some percentage of a public conversation acknowledges the Problematic Bits imo? #bc inevitably in a public forum there ARE people there who aren't actually clear on the fact that those bits are‚ in fact‚ problematic #and will in fact dismiss it and denigrate you for bringing it up and basically deploy all sorts of strategies to resist having to realize it #at the same time��i like lots of shit that's fucked up! but like. let's like it AND admit it's fucked up. #ALSO sometimes there isn't actually enough merit for it to be worth swallowing the poison. but that has to be a personal decision. #(even as i obviously think my personal choices wrt when to cut bait are objectively correct and everyone else should be guided by them lol) #bookblogging

[running2reanimation]

-squints- are many people soft-blocking my main blog when I follow them or is Tumblr unfollowing people at random again?

#shace chats #i've been 'unfollowing' a lot of artists lately #it's very annoying #if you don't want me following you you have to tell me #otherwise i am going to assume tumblr is just being a jerk and i will follow you again #or just straight up block me

[cacaitos]

seeing their art in old like brings the memories like in akira- shit

#txt #it wasnt even the incident i unfollowed them for that was just seeing what they were doing afterwards #the unfollow one was a streak they were posting of frankeinstein and like you do that thing of ignoring a bit when an artist is spamming #smth you dont care much abt yk? till its one pornhub format meme or smth so like wait a fucking second. pay attention. look back. #BOOM it hits its frnkstn incest ship art and not like gothique analysis art i mean some yaoi seme uke anime twink type beat #whos whose mommy??????? sorry i had to go bye #why would i assume that genshin looking twink they drew alone a lot is The victor give me a break 😭😭

[gayvampcentral]

I've seen a lot of posts (and reblogged/queued a few as you might've seen) abt the HP game recently which I'm assuming means it dropped? Anyway I don't want to put this in the tags of posts by jewish people as I don't want to add onto those even in tag form as a gentile and reblogging someone else's post that says to unfollow me if you support the game doesn't feel direct enough, so I'm making my own post for it:

Please unfollow/block me if you plan on playing this game.

Yes, pirating counts. I don't want you here. If you don't care about the safety of jewish people enough to do the bare minimum of not fucking playing this game then I'm begging you to reevaluate. If you still are into HP in the year 2023 then I don't know how to help you.

Hating nazis and terfs is not enough. You have to love transfem and jewish people more than you claim to hate their oppressors and that starts with shit like this. So once again: If you plan on playing this game because you still can't let go of a franchise the support of which directly harms the people you think you care about then never talk to or interact with me again please.

#I mean I think I've been clear enough with the choice of posts i reblog abt this but yeah. official statement i guess. #oppressed groups don't need you to hate their oppressor they need you to love them unapologetically #like i've gotten into arguments abt this game irl a couple of times and i'll do it again i just don't see how 'please care abt others' #is such a wild statement for some ppl #marshall's thoughts

[incognitopolls]

hi, i sent in a comment back when one (not me) anon said they were unfollowing due to constant cisnormativity and gender essentialism in the polls. you didn't answer my ask back then, or maybe the ask disappeared since tumblr does that sometimes, but i would appreciate it if you would answer this, because i think it would be beneficial for everyone to actually talk about this openly.

i'd just like to ask, knowing that you may edit polls submitted to be more inclusive and clearer, why is the recent poll about preferences for a partner's pubic hair specifically for people with penises? and if there is another poll coming that's the same but for people with vaginas, i'm wondering why it would be necessary for a question like it to be separated like that. personally i don't see how that would make a big, or more importantly an interesting difference in the results. to me all it seems like it's doing is excluding intersex people and supporting this idea of "the two sexes" being fundamentally completely different from each other and someone's genitals playing a big part in defining people's preferences.

i'm not intending this as a hate comment, but as a genuine request for conversation around this subject, as you yourself said to the anon that unfollowed, that you'd like to hear about their side. i know i'm not said anon, but i think we're kind of talking about the same subject here, and recently there's been a lot of polls here separating people via genitals, and it's beginning to make me feel a little uncomfortable, in big part due to it implying that a huge portion of people here see gender and/or sex as a binary, and that people on the opposite ends of that binary are fundamentally different from each other due to their sex/gender.

apologies for the long ask, i just really wanted to avoid misunderstandings so i may have rambled a bit more than necessary.

Hi! Thanks for bringing up your concerns. The way I interpreted that question is that anon was curious whether pubic hair affects the sensation on the penetrating partner‘s penis, or whether pubic hair can be a hindrance– for example, acting as a barrier, or adding friction.

The original question was only aimed at people with penises, and I hadn’t planned on posting any variations for different genitals because (from what I’m assuming about anon’s curiosity) the question is so specific in asking about the sensation and/or logistics for a penis navigating around hair. I don’t think it would be helpful or yield any interesting data to post the same poll for people with other genitals. 

In this case, I think my error was in not specifying “does a partner’s pubic hair affect the sensation on your penis during penetration?”. That’s the question I think anon was trying to ask, but unfortunately it was more clear in my and anon’s heads and didn’t come across in writing as clearly as I thought I was saying it. 

Also, in response to the sentiment that there have been a lot of genital-related polls lately, there have been about 3 in the past 2 weeks, or about 3%. (7 polls per day; 49 polls per week; 98 polls every two weeks.) I understand if it seems like a lot, but the actual saturation is fairly low. I'm saying this not to dismiss you, but in the hopes of reassuring you that this blog is not shifting to become more heavily focused on separating people's genitals.

I got a number of helpful messages about the previous conversation on dyadism. I didn't respond to them due to some things in my personal life that limited my time, but I read them and have them saved as a reminder to myself when writing up polls so that I can continue to make these polls more inclusive of intersex people– I promise those messages weren’t ignored.

#not polls #nsft

[sirgogington]

This might be a little unorganized and is definitely an unpopular opinion in this community, but I'm going to say it anyway. Feel free to unfollow. I wasn't going to post about it, but honestly I am so upset for George in this situation. I want to preface that I am a 28 year old female so maybe my thinking is a little different due to that.

The more I read about people's reactions to the George situation the more angry I feel. George was being accused of sexual assault, and the consensus is "he fucked up and should have asked for consent."

My bold take is that I have little sympathy for Caiti. She is a woman who regrets flirting with George, which she has the right to. But her story really made it seem like George randomly started touching her inappropriately, forced her to drink more when she was already drunk, purposely preyed on her because she was 18, and followed her out of the room to the elevator.

None of these things happened. She was drunk beforehand and her friends that she went to Dreams room with wanted to play drinking games. George didn't randomly start touching her. They were sitting together on the couch playing a game with the rest of the group and mutually decided to start cuddling. Caiti got up multiple times and would always come back and cuddle with George. Over the hour of cuddling they were flirting with each other, playfighting etc. When cuddling George started with his hands on her hips above her clothes, and then after he assumed she was comfortable with what he was doing, given the previous signals of her laughing, smiling, and coming back to cuddle with him then he placed his hands on her waist under her clothes. He said he would slowly move them up after awhile. She didn't show any signs of being uncomfortable. She could have pushed his hand away or told him she was uncomfortable with that, but she didn't. She could of left if she felt uncomfortable or sat somewhere else, but she didn't. She also didn't have to walk with George to the elevator, but she did. She didn't have to keep in contact with him afterwards but again she did. It's no wonder why George was understandably confused, and assumed everyone had had a fun night that night, and was blindsided by these accusations. George said that he made a joke about the elevator being broken, but saw when she wasn't open to getting in the elevator with her then he backed off.

Her friends also knowingly put her this situation. They left her unattended while she was drunk in the hotel room with Dream and George and whoever else was left. Going to a drinking social at 18 is a risky situation in the first place, this is why in college I avoided frat parties because I knew what could potentially happen if I went.

George literally did not do anything wrong, and people are painting him as a monster. Now that Caiti did this stream he has lost a lot of his fanbase and friends for no reason, because God forbid you support George. If you support George you must hate woman, because he's evil. Like people have said this could have all been handled privately. Just simple communication like "hey I actually regret what happened at Vidcon, and I didn't actually like that you were cuddling me looking back" or something along those lines. If George is a decent person which it seems like he is he would say okay and apologize most likely, and they could have not had this nasty drama for no reason.

I believe there is non-verbal consent, and most people in that type of situation would rely on that more than verbal consent. They test things like George was doing and slowly progress things. He could have asked if she was okay with it, but she was showing all the signs over the 3 hours that she was. He's not making you stay if you get uncomfortable. Where non-verbal consent doesn't work is if George would have groped her after a half our of flirting. That would absolutely be wrong, and need to be apologized for.

George was defensive in his video because he needed to be. After being accused of all these things you didn't do, and Caiti leaving out details you would be defensive to. She made him out to look really bad. She blew the situation way out of proportion and George has to suffer due to this. I really think that George didn't need to post the extra apology tweet, that the livestream would of been enough to show that he had no malicious intentions and was sorry that Caiti felt strongly about what had happened.

The whole support victims things in this situation makes me upset as well. There were no victims because there was no sexual assault. Yet if you don't say I 100% support the victim then suddenly your evil and hate woman. Without there being a victim it seems dumb to put that but if you don't then you're follower count also takes a hit as a content creator. George didn't fuck up, he acted in a way most men would, and probably even in a more gentleman like way to be honest.

It also upset me as someone who has experienced very real sexual assault. The guy was 25 and I was 18. I didn't want anything sexual/romantic with him because I could see the age gap, and told him that. He invited me to his apartment which I thought would be innocent because I presented my boundaries, but then he started taking off my clothes and telling me I was okay with it over and over until I believed him and let it happen, while feeling really uncomfortable. My body language did not show any interest, just confusion. I remember answering "I don't know" when he asked for consent to touch me, but he would just keep asking until I said okay. He purposely preyed on the younger women because he knew they were easier to coerce and more vulnerable. Looking back I didn't really knew where I stood on hook up culture. He convinced me he could teach me a few things that I could use with my sexual partners in the future. Luckily it never progressed to him taking my virginity. He bragged about how many girls he had slept with, and how many he had took their virginity. I would have been just a number to him. I am so much more than just a number. (he did a lot of other sexual things with me after coercing me into saying okay. Stuff I can detail if you care to know. I remember saying out loud that I was glad that I still had my virginity and I'm glad he didn't take it afterall. Not purposely leaving out, but it was way more than Caiti had experienced with George. For my situation there was a high likelihood it would happen again to another girl like me, and I remember wanting to warn them. It's different because my attacker did have malicious intents even though he disguised it as me consenting.) Being in the mindset I am now I would have never let any of it happen, but I am much more in tune with my thoughts and opinions on things. I would have noticed all the red flags and I would have never put myself in a 1 on 1 situation with an older guy like that or any guy unless I were dating them.

Outside the fandom I've noticed that a lot of people agree with me in this. It's just within the fandom that people are of this support the victim mindset, even when said victim turns out to not have been a victim of anything. I don't know if it's different with younger people that you have to ask for verbal consent for everything, but it just seems dumb. Everyone was also drunk and not thinking straight so sober minded Georgenotfound would have probably asked for consent before he moved his hands up. It's hard to know. I think other content creators probably do agree with me, but they aren't able to have their own opinions, which to me seems gross and fake. We can't genuinely know how content creators feel on certain issues because if were to tell what they truly thought and it wasn't the majority consensus then they risk their viewership which is also twisted.

#georgenotfound #gnf #rambling #SA #my thoughts #I feel like I'm insane for thinking this due to this fandoms standards #my experience

[gyuwoncheol]

Vantage Point | Meet the Characters & Series Masterlist

Status: Begins tomorrow (January 20)!

Pair: Mingyu × f.reader

Summary: Pulling off the "No Strings Attached" arrangement with his best-friend-turned-best-friend-with-benefits was easy, but when a new condition is added onto the mix, Mingyu didn't realise just how much he held onto you when you finally let go.

Genre: College au. BFFs to FWB trope. Fluff, Humor, Angst, Smut [chapters with smut will be indicated and will contain the necessary warnings]

Author’s Note: Please take time to read this before starting the series ☺️

Hello, my darlings! Finally getting round to posting this after missing the commited date last time due to covid. But welcome!!! 🥳 This is the first story to my Snap Shoot universe! Before you get into it, let me just point a few things. This is the first time I'm ever creating a universe with interwoven stories, and while I've done SMAUs before, this is the first one I've done for SVT and the first time I'm also this adventurous about it. It's definitely very different from what I post on here but I'm having lots of fun putting it together. I know it goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway, this is very much a work of fiction. This is an AU. While Korea may be the assumed setting for this series, it is not explicitly defined. I'm also trying to avoid using lots of Korean cultural references (maybe except for food) such as use of honorifics like "hyung". While many of my other works refrain from over-describing oc's physical features, you may find that in this series (and universe), oc's features will inevitably be defined. You'll find that the visuals of the characters and the aesthetic of the photos/social media posts will be Korean/ Asian. It's a SMAU, so i'll have to place photos and these photos must maintain consistent. I absolutely do not mean any ill intention of being non-inclusive (I don't even fit the same aesthetic as oc).

Again, it's a work of fiction, while I want you to relate to oc, kindly also allow me breathing space to build the character. If you feel uncomfortable at any point in the series, you are very much welcome to stop/unfollow. As mentioned, this is a SMAU, but it contains several chapters which are purely written narrations. All edits (texts, social media posts, etc.) were done by me, however some photos (esp those of Y/N) are from the web, if they are yours, please let me know so that I may credit you or remove the photo. The texts are all done on light mode. Deal with it. This follows a FWB trope, expect lots of smut and suggestive content— specific smut warnings will be available in chapters where they are present, along with other necessary warnings. This series will have lots of fluff and lots of crackhead nonsense humor. I hope you guys enjoy this as much as I enjoyed writing it.

Biggest shoutout to my dearest friend @wongyuseokie who has been nothing but supportive through all of this and through all my dramatic Mingy-induced meltdowns. I love you more than you’ll ever know ♥️

Meet the Characters

Mingyu: Sophomore, studying Film & Photography, yn/Camie's best friend since childhood

Yn: Sophomore, studying Film & Photography with Mingyu, Mingyu's best friend since childhood. Nicknamed "Camie" by her group of friends for her highly concerning camera collection/obsession.

Seokmin: Sophomore, studying Film & Photography, same friend group as mingyu and yn, Mingyu & Wonwoo's housemate

Soonyoung: technically a year older than the 3, but currently a Sophomore with Gyu, Cam and Seokmin after shifting into their major

Wonwoo: Junior, studying Film & Photography as well, Mingyu's guy best friend and housemate in The Man Cave, a brotherly figure to OC, Soonyoung's former classmate in highschool

The Man Cave: shared house near their university where Mingyu, Wonwoo and Seokmin live, and Soonyoung often crashes.

✨Other characters/members will come as the series progresses.

Series Masterlist

To be populated as each chapter is posted. There is no posting schedule. Chapters will just get uploaded as they come.

Teaser

Chapter One

Chapter Two

Chapter Three

Chapter Four

Chapter Five 🔞

Chapter Six 🔞

Chapter Seven

Chapter Eight

Chapter Nine

Chapter Ten

Tag List!

@strawberryya @idyllic-ghost @septemberskies @ladyblablabla

If you want to be tagged as each chapter comes out, do send me an ask or reply to this post so I could include you in the tag list 😊

#paula writes ✨ #Vantage Point #Snap Shoot Universe #svthub #mingyu smau #mingyu fic #mingyu x oc #mingyu smut #mingyu fluff #svt smau #svt fic

[genderkoolaid]

Im in trans circles on tumblr and i gotta say, its getting really fucking exhausting since the reddit migration.

I dony wanna be like "yeah i unfollowed a mutual because they spoke out against transmisogyny" but like??

i dont think accusing all afab trans people of abuse+benefiting from misogyny+being transmisogynist is actually speaking out against transmisogyny. i think its just being cruel to trans men

The last thing i want to do it to pit trans women and men against each other, i love my transfem girlfriend so much. I just wish that people wouldnt assume that im an abuser because i have a pussy. Or that im a rapist because im a bottom

Its like. radfem but reversed? if you understand what im trying to say? like all talking points that have been used by cis TERFs against trans women are now being used by them against trans men. All the same shit about how we're violent, invading trans spaces, inherently misogynistic, etc

Im sorry for the rant but i keep seeing this more and more and i dont know WHERE they get the idea that i have ever once benefitted from misogyny

I know exactly what you're talking about. This kind of rhetoric is part of/based on radical feminism. We call it "trans-inclusive radical feminism" because its the same framework of ideas, with the same strict binary of "men = oppressor = evil, women = oppressed = good," but aimed at trans people and cis allies. Its discussed on my blog & similar blogs a lot when it comes to anti-transmasculinity & exorsexism in trans spaces.

#m. #ask box

[hellenhighwater]

why are people being so fucking weird about you living comfortably? like. you’ve been pretty transparent about your thrifting and antiquing habits and even offered a script for haggling/price negotiation. what?

boggles my mind and makes me worry about what folks mean when they say “eat the rich”. they couldn’t identify a rich person if they tried.

It's not great, but that's also just part and parcel of a post leaving standard circulation--it goes out of context. I have to assume at least some of this is coming from people who don't follow me (or haven't been following me for long; I gain followers at a rate of roughly 100/week so...there's always people who are just seeing my stuff for the first time without any of the history that people who've been here longer are already aware of).

I will say that by and large, this corner of this site is pretty well-mannered. For one, I don't tolerate rudeness long without using the block and unfollow buttons judiciously, so maybe my view is skewed. But generally I have very few problems with rudeness from strangers, which I appreciate. I've been on this site for a long time and I've never had to turn off anon asks, which is pretty good.

And frankly...I get it. There have been times in my life where $40 was a lot of money. When you're living on a shoestring, any indulgence, however minor, seems extravagant, and your perspective tunnels. You don't plan long-term because you can't. Slowly curating a collection of cool but affordable things seems impossible because you have to focus on right now, and anyone who is not living like that might as well be in another world. I get that. But you also have to put your head up sometimes and realize that's where you are, and take a measure of the world so that you can figure out how to get out of that spot. It sucks; I'm sorry. Having $40 to spare and the time to cobble together enough strangeness to make my home enjoyable does not make me the enemy.

#im at that point where a thousand dollars is both a lot of money and also not even enough to fix any major appliance

[velnna]

Hello! This isn't a jab or anything, you don't even need to publish it, just if you could please tag your answered asks as "ask" or whatever that would rock cuz as much as I love seeing you on my dash, I also like seeing other things on my feed that's not bloated with a bunch of answers 💛 tagging them makes it easier to scroll past them. I'd really hate to unfollow you cuz it does get really annoying (this is not just a you thing haha).

Thanks!

Yeah sure no problem! I don't actually know how tumblr works that well (I don't use the main feed 😅) and just assumed not everything/only things with tags showed up on people's feeds... for some reason lmao. Didn't know you could filter out tags. Thanks for the heads up!

Curious though, since I get a lot of asks, should I create a different blog just for them? Is that a thing people do or am I good

#ask

[rain-candy]

hi. so mike pollock (the voice actor of dr. eggman) has shown support regarding isr*el on twitter in his most recent post and there's a lot going on in there. a lot of people try to assume he's been "hacked" but there is absolutely no proof of that, plus he's posted the same thing on his instagram, facebook and twitter. right now as im posting this he's hosting a twitter space thing and speaking / answering questions but most of those are ridicule fans being on his side, and some fans coping by saying it's an ai filter (it... is not an ai filter). he is a jew and claiming that isr*el is the ancestral homeland of his religion and that he has the right to side with them or whatever, he's disgusting. he assumes people who have shown support to palestine by saying free palestine in his post "antisemitic" and thinking that him siding with israel is an opinion. he also believes that this is a war, not a genocide. i am not recording the current space going on right now, but people who are listening to it / listened to it know what im talking about. it still hasn't ended. i lost all respects for this guy. he's literally saying he "hopes he doesn't get cancelled" right now. its stupid.

he also had made fun of somebody who passed away. this isn't even funny or something to joke around with. please unfollow this guy and don't support him anymore. i would appreciate if this was spread for awareness. if you go look at the app you'll see for yourself

also, here is the twitter space recording if anyone wants to listen to it.

https://x.com/i/spaces/1rmxPMedkrXKN

#dr. eggman #eggman #sonic the hedgehog #sth #important #free palestine #fuck this guy #mike pollock #idk how to make this get to people #cease fire now #dr eggman #sonic #free gaza

[gayhoediaz]

to new people in the 9-1-1 fandom:

[brewrosemilk on ao3]

🚨 this blog is 18+ if you are a child you are not welcome here.

🚨 i have had 100% faith in these writers from day one, as have a lot of other people. inbox messages anywhere in realm of “how can you be so confident? i’m not.” or “these writers suck” are annoying and will likely be deleted.

🚨 in the same vein, i love this show. period. i love every single main character, and if you try to shift focus to buddie when i am talking about something that doesn’t have anything to do with them at all, i will also be annoyed. (and you might get blocked or called out if i’m in a bad mood.)

🚨 i am unapologetically pro sex and sexuality, in fiction and irl, and any prudish, sex-shamey takes stemming from purity culture will also be deleted and likely get you blocked. (and no, this does not mean that i don’t respect ace people what the FUCK.)

🚨 i am an eddiegirlie before i am ever a buddiegirlie or a buckgirlie. any eddie hate (which historically tends to stem from racism) will get you blocked and mocked. however: this does not mean that i do not love buck, and the excitement i have for him exploring his sexuality takes nothing away from my love for eddie or buddie. i am an adult, i can multitask.

🚨 please curate your dash. especially in a large fandom such as this one. block/filter, and move on. if i unfollow you, that does not mean that i hate you, and the same goes for people who unfollow me. it’s not an attack.

🚨 assuming you have a brain, i am always happy to talk to people in inbox and dms, but if i don’t get back to you, that is also not an attack. it depends on how many messages i am receiving at the time, and how i’m doing mental health-wise! also sometimes i just forget.

🚨 and finally - “why do you write tommy as 45-55” because he is. “bUt LoU sAiD tHaT tOmMy Is tHiRtY nInE-“ lou is wrong. that’s not me being a baby, clinging to my own headcanon - he is just factually wrong. the day lou ferrigno jr sits down and watches all seven seasons with a whiteboard and a pen in his hand, and analyses the show’s timeline, and comes to the conclusion that tommy is only thirty-nine is the day that i get that man a math tutor.

happy weewoo season 🚒🚨✨