Do you like the vore community?
I do!
I will admit I was a "vore hater" when I was younger, people telling me it was gross and to go out of my way to make fun of people. But this was before I found out about safe vore and such.
Turns out those people telling me to go out of my way to be mean to people in vore community's, made me like vore!
I had stumbled on some YouTube channels that were strictly "safe and soft vore," and they posted sometimes, but not very often (I think the channels got terminated).
I soon traveled onto Tumbler, seeing it was a place where people could start up little "ask the character series" and found tags that led to more and better safe vore! (And more trust worth!)
I stumbled on vore blogs like @scketchorinopop and @fastfur07 who posted small stories and lost of art, and I fell in love!
I made my first few posts, and with the help of @cardnompfs telling me I tagged stuff wrong and getting to know me, I was kinda welcomed into the community!
Everyone here is amazing and nice, very interaction I have had with people has been pleasant, (besides my first hate comment and a NSFW blog reposting my stuff) and I love everyone here so much!
The community is great. The people are great. And the anonymous askers and great!
To think I have only been here for I think around half a year, and I get people saying that I'm one of their favorite artist and they are happy I liked their posts-
I just feel so happy and welcome here, and I feel like a real person here this is a place where I can be myself and share my art work and my love for storys, and help comfort those in need of it.
Sorry for the story, but this post just reminded me how far I have come and how far I can go. Thank you all so much, and I love you all, thank you!
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Head of HR used flight vs invisibility superpower as the icebreaker question in our onboarding call this am. And revealed that she'd choose flight, because invisibility was a "slippery slope". She'd immediately start robbing banks and would inevitably have to spend her whole life invisible.
Head of HR.
And if she could, she'd do crime.
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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He'd moved to metropolis on a whim.
The city was big, he's earning good money via commissioned things (most people come to him for cosplay actually, who knew that knowing how to build a sci-fi gun that doesn't even work would be this wanted??) and he's got a nice apartment!
Superman and Supergirl were the active heroes, he didn't need to involve himself anymore with the world of heroes, he would continue as a civilian. It was better this way.
So how come LexLuthor, of all people, what is his luck?, sends him an invitation to LexCorp AND once declined, seemed to have created some sort of energy absorbing weapon that directly zoomed in on his immediate whenever around?
Civilian life is one thing.
Being rescued via Super for the 9th time is another.
"Hey Danny." Supergirl grins, they're floating to the side as Superman deals with Lex.
"Hey, Supergirl." Danny replies with a sigh, holding his bag.
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