#THOSE FUCKING MISOGYNISTS

[lilyofthevalleyys]

i had a thought.

you know those soulmate aus where they can feel each other’s pain?

so doesn’t that extend to period pains/cramps as well?

so when James felt a sudden, constant pain in his abdomen (around that area), he learnt that it was the cause of period pains/cramps and so assumed his soulmate was a girl.

Sirius always talked about having a little sister. but all of a sudden, Sirius started talking about a baby brother, and insists he’s never had a sister.

James never connected the dots. He never once thought that Regulus Black could possibly be his soulmate, even though he wished desperately for it, but wishes were just useless hope.

he’s also constantly felt horrible pains that reduced him to shaking messes, especially during the holidays. and Sirius would come back bruised and beaten.

it was only when Sirius hit his brother with a stinging hex at the leg during one of their fights, that caused James to fall instantly to the floor, did he finally, finally realise.

#AND #THOSE FUCKING MISOGYNISTS #CAN FINALLY FUCKING UNDERSTAND HOW BAD PERIOD PAINS/CRAMPS CAN GET #that was actually where this idea was borne from #marauders era #dead gay wizards #regulus black #james potter #sirius black #trans regulus #trans reggie #trans #fanfic ideas #headcannons #fanfiction #ao3 #soulmate au #soulmates #soulmate #period

[dykefaggotry]

another thing i've Witnessed in all spheres of modern feminism is who gets afforded the grace of "internalized misogyny" vs who just gets called a "misogynist"

like if you are a feminine cis girl (& usually white too) all your sexist bullshit is excused as internalized misogyny that was pushed on them by a sexist society that they have to unlearn but in the meantime we cannot hold them accountable or be too mean to them bc they're traumatized and trying :((((( so if you call out their sexism, YOU are in fact being a woman-hating bitch/dyke/etc who hates girls and girlhood

but...... if you are a trans woman or you're butch or a stud or a woman of color and you say anything even perceived as sexist, oh no no you do NOT get the grace of "internalized misogyny". you don't get time to learn or grow. you are a sexist and you should be shot and you might as well be a man.

and usually the latter group's "misogyny" is just pointing out the other group's double standards and sexism which gets us called not girls girls and "pick-mes" (used wrong) and sexist etc. like sometimes obviously we ARE misogynistic, everyone is, but usually it's over the dumbest shit and even in the cases where someone in the latter group is being genuinely sexist, they are NOT given the same grace as the former group

#sorry ive been on a feminism kick lately it's an autism mode rn but like. i have so many thoughts constantly just rattling around in there #discourse cw #but i REALLY noticed this one w my infamous post abt girl dinner lmfaooooo #the amount of ppl in those notes being like how dare you theyre traumatized by girlhood you fucking misogynist #like. do you not see the double standard there or.... no? okay

[carlyraejepsans]

ppl already terribly misinterpret sans do you want him to have the morally grey female character treatment too

i don't give a crap can you imagine the glados level cat 5 lesbian event the "dead where you stand" scene alone would cause? the trope subversion of the worn-down, nihilistic bar sleaze male character archetype that he represents? soriel yuri? does anyone fucking care about soriel yuri???

#if there is one constant in fandom it's that female characters are treated like crap and passed over the male ones #because we live in a sexist misogynistic society and as any other social space fandom is going to present those social biases as well #now are you going to be a PUSSY and let that stop you from making female characters that FUCK HARD??? #or are you picking up your gotdang gun and fighting the yuri war with us #i am half kidding i know this ask was sent in jest #but also i am 100% serious it would all be worth it it would be world changing it would be a better timeline than ours #answered asks #sans #undertale

[soleminisanction]

Did Stephanie actually cheat on Tim when she got pregnant or? Were they on break? Is it a sort of gray area issue where they weren’t speaking or they weren’t officially together or? The whole situation confuses me..

No, Steph didn't cheat on Tim. She was already pregnant when they got together, she just didn't know. She was, however, cheating on her then-boyfriend Dean for at least some of the time she was aggressively flirting with Tim and turning all of their random patrol meet-ups into dates, because unlike Tim, she was the one who initiated that flirtation and she never mentioned to him that she was seeing someone else (while Tim repeatedly told her to cut it out because he was).

Which, to be fair, was almost certainly because Chuck Dixon decided he wanted to do that pregnancy arc after she'd been flirting with Tim for a while, and everything about Dean was an afterthought. I imagine the only reason the pregnancy wasn't from a one-night stand is that Mr. Reactionary Conservative Asshole didn't want to imply that his darling Spoiler was a ""slut"" who (gasp) slept around. She's a "bad girl" but not that bad a bad girl, after all. 🙄

#dc comics asks #stephanie brown #tim drake #once again for those in the back: #fuck Chuck Dixon #and fuck his shitty misogynistic pregnancy subplot #zero Steph shade here it's purely Dixon who can go fuck himself

[dyketubbo]

not to be a woman womaning all over the place but i feel like if you genuinely like. do not have friends that are women then you have something to work on. if you cant think of any female characters that you treat the same way you do male characters then you have something to work on. if you cant handle even seeing "i dont like being called a guy/bro/lad/etc because it doesnt feel gender neutral to me" but can understand when one of your masc besties is uncomfortable with being called girlie or sister then you have something to work on. if your default in regards to how you handle other people and even characters is to assume masculinity then you have something to work on. if you cant even let women and otherwise feminine people speak about our experiences without bringing up how you suffer too then you have something to work on.

it doesnt matter if youre queer or a poc or a minority in whatever which way, if you do not include women in your life and cant even stand a fucking inch of genuine feminism (and i dont mean terfs but god is it fucking agonizing that thats all you people can think of when you hear feminism anymore) where the point is to treat women, all women, equally then you have something to work on. listen to women, even the ones whose experiences completely dont align with yours (hell ESPECIALLY the ones whose experiences completely dont align with yours). just like how we all have to check ourselves for racism, ableism, queerphobia, we all have to check ourselves for misogyny too. stop acting like it got solved at some point. it still exists and it exists within you and you have to actually fucking work on that. "women should be included in your life and you should listen to them" shouldnt be a hard goddamn pill to swallow.

#mask mews #truly i dont think if you can call yourself a feminist then thats a red flag. actually. like legit #yes fuck terfs we all fucking hate terfs but if thats all you can think of when you hear feminism youre letting them win #youre lettin the misogynistic assholes who call people 'feminazis' win. the mras the pieces of shit who treat our rights like a debate topic #and no transmascs yall are not exempt from them just because youve experienced misogyny too #i see misogyny from queer men all the time and yall need to stop acting like being a minority #prevents you from being harmful to other minorities #black men often perpetuate misogynoir. trans men often perpetuate transmisogyny. gay men often perpetuate lesbophobia #just as women can perpetuate the harmful shit against all of those groups too #we're all being shit to each other and we all need to check ourselves and im tired of people acting #like its just okay to like. exclude women from shit #its exhausting and its misogynistic and i think especially in this fandom none of you ever moved on from thinking gaming is only for men #watch yourselves. watch how you talk about women. about femininity. #how when yall talk about the annoying cis white women #its clear which of yall are annoyed about the cis white parts. and which of yall are annoyed about the woman part

[bumblingbee1]

What's not so funny, is that during International Women's Day, misogynistic men were just whining and trying their damndest to make it all about men.

Yet I haven't seen any of them post anything about international men's day, which is today. Gee, I wonder why... (I already know lmao)

#bee bumbles #those men don't give a fuck about men's day they just wanna silence and degrade women #typical misogynist and mra bullshit

[puppyeared]

Atla live action 😐

#thats my honest reaction 😐 #to be fair ive only seen 20 minutes of the s1 finale bc my parents are watching it but. mmmmm kinda mid #like. the casting is definitely an improvement since the last time they tried a live action but it feels like the writing falls flat #or maybe im being harsh bc ive only heard negative criticism on it beforehand. but fr anytime u bring up the original its already #good and not just because its the original. so much fucking detail went into it to the point of someone noticing azula wielding mai's knive #to how well thought out irohs character is used as a way of uniting the cast especially as zukos foil #i heard that sokkas sexism was toned down and i have to agree that feels like a cheap move. like i get WHY they think it would be better #but its not about how that reflects on real world its about how it affects the story. sokka starts out as a misogynistic asshole because #it makes it that much more impactful when he changes. toning that down makes it flatter and makes his character development weak #and someone pointed out they didnt even make him wear the kyoshi warrior uniform and i know it feels like such a small detail but #come on man. they did that in the original because not only does it help him really walk in their shoes - wearing 'feminine' clothing and #makeup and having suki explain its significance but it also ties in with the shows theme of harmony and intersectionality #i was also disappointed when they had the fire sages explain how the water tribe draws power from the moon because in the original it was #IROH who explained it to aang and everyone else BECAUSE we as the audience is under the impression hes with the 'bad guys' #and it builds up to how he learned from the other nations which reconciles his past as a war general and his character overall #AND its an excellent starting point for the cast and audience to understand how the nations arent as closed off as you would think #plus you would think its only fire nation doing propaganda but they expanded on that with earth kingdom censorship and it WORKS #a lot of things in the live action also feel arbitrary like. they gave momo a near death experience for 5 minutes for no reason #im firmly on the stance of bringing back filler moments instead of putting major events right after each other so that u give your #audience a sense of time passing and to really absorb the story. but i think thats more like shock value than filler and yeah its a small #thing to gripe about but those things build up and its really annoying. the thing abt avatar filler moments is that however small #its at least meaningful. hell even the beach episode emphasizes how isolated zuko and his friends are as child soldiers #i also swore to never watch the first live action since it was that bad but i really liked the stylized tattoos they used for aang #anyway. those arejust my thoughts. im not gonna watch the rest because im a ride or die for the original aftr growing up and #rewatching it at least 20 times as a kid. but theres definitely room for improvement and i wish ppl wouldnt take it as 'better' just cuz #netflix is adapting it. i wouldve killed for them to just reanimate the entire avatar series and touch NOTHING ELSE no redub #no changes to the story. just reanimate the thing and leave the rest alone and youd make easy money just the same #ALSO its very jarring not hearing jack desena and dante basco voicing sokka and zuko cause their voices were the most recognizable to me #i get that its because its live action but im allowed to feel a little sad abt that. and uncle irohs accent was really soothing #yapping

[grymmdark]

if i were the sort of person to be able to organize a fandom event thing, I'd love to organize a week dedicated to appreciating the women of trigun.

i feel like the women in trigun are underappreciated, despite being just as interesting and compelling and important as any of the men.

and im not gonna say its misogyny or that you have to like the women characters as much as the men ones, but i do think many people would find they enjoy the dynamics and characterizations and whatnot of the women characters as much as the men ones if they were brought more to their attention.

#grymms spectacular fucking posts #trigun #trigun maximum #trigun stampede #trigun 1998 #trimax #tristamp #trigun 98 #ik it wouldve made more sense grammatically to say male and female but since those are more biological than gender terms i decided not to #also this fandom is far from the worst ive seen in terms of things like being dismissive or misogynistic about the women. i think generally #ppl here are actually pretty good about not being either of those things. but i also think overall the focus does lean on the men and thats #not necessarily fair to the women since they're just as important and well written

[brookheimer]

yes they’re all evil and horrible yes they’re all human and sympathetic yes none of this is new information yes people are inexplicably acting like it is yes it’s annoying to see such surface level takes like ooohhh people have nuances yes it’s even more annoying that apparently that’s necessary to clarify even at this point four fucking seasons in yes i am going to kill myself in the head

#every succession post has to be like ‼️DISCLAIMER‼️ IK THIS CHARACTER IS EVIL BUT or IK THIS CHARACTER IS NUANCED BUT #like why but #why do we have to go back to the literal base level of media literacy that’s like Sometimes….. Characters can be Two Things…… At Once #like everyone makes fun of those Why Do We Watch Evil People?! articles (and rightly so) but i mean…. some circles on socmedia are no better #if i had a time machine i would go back and gatekeep succession so only people who could comprehend the concept of dialectics cld watch #pop on here for 2 seconds. see discourse about the discourse. kill myself. log off #ITS NOT EVEN DISCOURSE #it’s just like #person: this character is evil or humane #other person: actually they’re both that’s what it means to be a human being we contain multitudes #third person: shut the fuck up we know that already jesus #fourth person: shiv experiencing misogyny in the show is misogynistic writing #me: wading into a body of water with rocks in my pockets virginia woolf style #succession #okay. okay. paper time. bye

[sendmyresignation]

something I've been thinking about lately. i do think it's incredibly telling that almost 80 percent of the conversations around 'gatekeeping' and 'posers' and shit end up just becoming vitriolic hatred of 'alt girls' like i hate shit spotify playlists and dollskill fake leather edge and tiktok recommendations as much as the next person but this is a very big attitude coming from a website full of people who spent their formative middle school years shopping at hot topic for multi-colored skinny jeans while listening to like. falling in reverse or 21p unironically (this is a self-own btw). first of all teenagers having shit taste isn't killing punk music. but also why is the object of your hatred always boil down to a woman faking it? as if it isn't the single oldest stereotype in heavy music? like am i insane for thinking this is an issue

#like theres another dimensionality for sure about how some women do position themselves as like 'weird' when they split-dye their hair #and wear black. and are in actuality conventionally attractive and posturing #like as a dyke metalhead that can be legitimately frustrating but also i dont think this is an issue of poserism #a lot of those women do for real listen to heavy music. #its very similar to like. those metal frontwomen who do like mag calender photoshoots for 'sexiest ladies in rock' #like theyre very much not the issue and its weird to shift the blame onto them for playing the game #and its even more fucked imo to question their allegiance to 'the scene' because it just warps into #every misogynist talking point about how women are 'too pretty'to play guitar or get sweaty in the pit or whatever #ANYWAY there is literally never this much attention given to like rym poser dudes with no brain that theyve become their own #evil subcategory of 'fake alt girl' when men are selling out to make much worse shit pop punk all the time lmaooooo #been thinking about this since i read laina dawes memoir which whil on one hand v good is so inredibly peoccupied #with other women in metal spaces. implying that those who dress sexy to go to shows do it entirely for the attention of men and are #'bad role models' left a bad taste in my mouth #my posts

[threeawfulfruits]

Somehow I have gone my entire life under the impression that Kingdom Hearts and Final Fantasy were the same thing

Cue me growing increasingly confused and disturbed for the first two hours of a FFXVI playthrough on YouTube as I watched graphic violence and sexual content play out on screen with the latent belief that Mickey Mouse was going to show up at some point...

#don’t eviscerate me #OBVIOUSLY I am not a gamer lol #I died laughing when I figured it out #idk I thought Chocobos were like a cutesy fantasy ostrich thing from KH so they and the art style were the (supposedly) common link #which was what confused me #fuck man #I’m so stupid #took me an hour to realize Clive wasn’t some AU version of Cloud Strife #tbf I’ve never seen any content for any of these games nor have I ever had any friends obsessed with them #literally my only context was old commercials from back when cable was a thing #on that note though holy shit what a game those graphics were sickkk #those fight sequences hot damn #and I’m glad Jill ended up with a LITTLE mfing agency because it’s not even REMOTELY a stretch to call that game intensely misogynistic #the few female characters tended to be weak or evil so no dice for me in general #some of the later characters were cool I liked the shipbuilder girl #Mid!!! yeah that was it #kingdom hearts #final fantasy #final fantasy xvi #ffxvi spoilers

[mwagneto]

The thing is that yes, 13 herself is good, but the show as a whole just wasn't great during her run. Something something there's a baby in this dumpster

yeah like i recognise that most ppl just disliked the show even if they liked her but that's like... almost worse to me? coz i rly love her seasons like i hate the big twist as do most ppl but like it's literally doctor who i'm used to bad decisions. but like the episodes themselves are fine? good even?? i mean there's some i think suck ass like rosa or kerblam but a lot of them are like really good??? and it literally just. makes me really sad that ppl put up with 6 seasons of moffat but literally immediately gave up on 13. like it was actually fucking insane to watch how hyped everyone (EVEN non dw fans) was about her turning into a woman and then the fandom just. disappeared. like idk obviously i cant fault anyone for liking/disliking whatever they want but it makes me so fucking sad.. i like her & her era so much and it seems like 99% of people are only willing to acknowledge it even exists when they wanna make a gender joke abt tennant or when it'd look weird to not include 13 so they include her even tho they know nothing about her or completely misinterpret her as a silly goofy friendly #girlie coz people are chronically incapable of engaging w text if it's a woman

#like again i cant. like. fault ppl for not liking it coz like ppl are gonna like what they like you cant force it #but it makes me so fucking sadddd she's everything to me.... #we had a long ass convo abt this exact topic last night/this morning w 2 separate ppl so funny timing #but like tldr yeah i get that ppl dont like the episodes it just makes me really sad💔 #especially since ppl are always willing to suffer through moffat but somehow not 13 ?? even ppl who hate the moffat era #and like at this point I'd rather ppl leave 13 out of things and say they hate women than see another one of #those character memes where op sorts every doctor into categories and somehow for some mysterious reason always #puts 13 as the fucking idiot dumbass who knows nothing #like it's just painful to me that's my girl and ppl are either unwilling to watch her or misinterpret her so much it becomes misogynistic #i got mail! #doctor who #13th doctor

[hyacinthsdiamonds]

Sophie Kumpen had a incredibly successful karting career and she could've accomplished far more but she chose to raise her family instead. Her talent, her accomplishments are hers in her own right. She even competed with future F1 driver and world champion Jenson Button and won, something Jenson himself is always quick to remind people. She far more than just Max's mother and deserves far more respect than what she's been afforded today.

#f1 #formula 1 #formula one #sophie kumpen #max verstappen #italian gp 2022 #italian grand prix #to the Tifosi singing those misogynistic lines #fuck you & i hope you know Michael Schumacher would be absolutely disgusted by you #as would both current Ferrari drivers and both past Ferrari drivers on the grid

[1pcii]

SHADAHKNKAS saw u in the notes of some kuina posts and that made me realize that there is simply a bond with kuina and tashigi fans, who may even often be the same fan, because AOUGHHH KUINA I CARE HIM SO MUCH episode 19 literally changed me forever. swords + gender struggles are all you need to hook me on a character sometimes Maybe. the whole greatest swordsman promise... sob. also. something about zoro promising his name will reach the heavens and trans kuina. which made me think.. what if kuina and The trans fear of dying then having your deadname on your tombstone that you can't do anything about because you're dead. kuina dying before they even get to figure everything out and all of a sudden he's just known as kuina forever, and then zoro making a name for himself in kuina's honor or something idk (i like zoro's backstory) (KUINA )

THERE ISS. people who theorise that they are secretly related or the same person or direct parallels are so close to getting it but don't imo (no shade to those theories tho, I just personally find them narratively unsatisfying).

like they are parallels in that kuina is symbolic of the sexism people suffer and tashigi is an adult woman who has come out the other end sword swinging but ultimately so unsure of herself as a result. also the (trans)genderisms, we are all hand in hand 🤝.

MAN KUINAS STORY BROKE ME DOWN ON A BASE LEVEL AND REWIRED NY BRAIN. I had to take a break from reading just to let it soak in it's so good, a swordsmans promise indeed, that scene was beautiful, I love zoro the world's first a accidental feminist <3. zoro carrying on her dream with his will never not have me in hysterics.

FUCK YEA THATS SUCH A GOOD IDEA. I have soo many thoughts about baby!zoro and kuina and trangenderism. egg kuina cis zoro, egg kuina STEALTH TRANS ZORO ABSVDJFBKSHDKDN <333.

little baby zoro looking at his grave with the uncontrollable urge to carve out those letters. to carry and rearrange them and make sure they get back to him in the afterlife spelling 'worlds greatest swordsman'.

trans kuina makes me so emotional because ultimately I don't know if they were canonically trans but it's my FAVOURITE 'what if' for them. they never really got to be anyone outside the dojo masters daughter. the failure of a heir and the girl who beat zoro 2001 times. who would they have been if they got to grow up? come to terms with themselves and unlearned all that heavy, painful biases pushed onto them? as a transmasc who's studying into a (cis)male dominated field myself ik, the feelings of 'betrayal' and 'proving misogynists right' and imposter syndrome and inadequacy issues and perfectionism they might've gone through,,, sobbing my eyes out HE MEANS EVERYTHING TO MEE.

zoros backstory is genuinely one of my favourite parts of the manga idc how 'simple' it was it's still beautiful.

#kuina being the greatest swordsman of heaven and zoro being the greatest in hell. and they're besties and everything is good and nice :') #I fucking love him so much it's insane #him and zoro and koushiro are such interesting characters it's kinda a shame all ppl rlly focus on is the mundanity of their death and #how it 'sets a tone' and establishes a sence or mortality for zoro #like those things are important but let's talk about HER TOO!!! #the girl who wanted to be a 'boy' for her dream #who started out in self hatred but could've maybe grown to love of masculinity when exposed to healthy example of it #and I learning the internalized misogyny implanted by his father from within #psii.txt #text #ask #the-neighbours-kid #shimotsuki kuina #<-ooh using the official character tag for organising so if you see this in tag search I have a zero tolerance for ppl calling me or anyone #else a misogynist for having this hc. EPS my fellow transmascs who know what we're talking about #I will just block you #anyway cookie TY FOR SENDING THIS ASK YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE KUINA... SHAKING UR HAND RN THEY ARE SO FUCKING GENDER 🤝🤝🤝 #trans headcanon #trans kuina #trans zoro

[ransomdemands]

For the record, many of the posts on this blog are about trans people. When I refer to 'girlcock', I am speaking about a woman with a penis, not a 'crossdressing man'. Women can have penises, men can have vaginas, when say 'girlcock' or 'boycunt' I am explicitly indicating that the post is about trans people. Not a cis person who enjoys gender nonconforming fashion and especially not someone who fetishizes trans people and sexualizes their misogyny. terfs fuck off.

#ransomrambles #I am fucking ENRAGED that someone would comment that on a post i wrote. #God i wish i could like retroactively delete my post from someones blog fucking god #ok heres the thing theres nothing inherently wrong about genderplay #or even being aroused by and sexually gratified by presenting as a gender different to your own in those contexts #however the problem with s//ssy and detr//ns is that it isnt just genderplay for its own sake #it often represents a deeply misogynistic and transphobic worldview #the implication that a post about a womans body would in any way be about a crossdressing man is ... upsetting. #i know i cant stop people from interacting #especially with posts that have broken containment theres really nothing i can do but block liberally #but yknow for those of yall who made it this far #its about trans people #because im trans people