#cw sex

[peoplegettingreallymadatghosts]

#4chan #paranormal #cw sex

[xiaq]

Hi, I have a bit of a personal question, so if you don’t want to answer this, I completely understand!! no hard feelings at all! long story short, I’m demisexual, and I just entered my first real relationship. My girlfriend lights me up inside in a way I’ve never experienced before, but being demi I have no sexual or romantic experience and I’m a little stressed about First Times. Do you have any tips on how to relax? Or at least how to be comfortable with that unfamiliar territory? Your little tidbits about your relationship with B really opened my eyes to my own situation, so I thought I’d maybe see if you had any tips for me. Thanks in advance!!

First: Congratulations! That's super exciting!

Second:

Talk 👏 to 👏 her👏 (!!!)

My partner and I talked A LOT before even the slightest hanky-ing of panky-ing occurred. (In fact, our first conversation about it consisted of me telling him I likely would not enjoy sex and wasn't willing to submit myself to things I did not enjoy anymore and him being like, "ok, no sex, then." Which gave me the time and inclination to feel things out further.) So, when I got to a place where I was like, "ok, conceptually, I do actually like the idea of physical intimacy with you, I'm just not sure I'll enjoy it in practice," we kept talking! I told him things I thought he should know about the past experiences I'd had that might color things we did. I told him about how anxious I was because this mattered in a way that was new and scary (because I was in real actual love and, as you might imagine, not handling it well). I let him ask questions and we made a plan to try things slowly in a low-stress, no-expectations kind of way. It was super valuable A. in making me feel like we were approaching an unfamiliar territory together rather than me entering it by myself and B. it apparently eased a lot of my partner's concern that he'd do something to hurt or scare me when he knew what was off-limits, what was ok, and what we'd need to figure out.

I'll be real with you. Our "first time" sucked. I was a nervous wreck. He called things only shortly after they'd started and was like, nope, time to cuddle and watch a movie instead. And the fact that we'd talked about this probably happening, and him confirming the initial promises he'd made that he wouldn't push me, and he wouldn't get mad if nothing sexual actually happened--that made me a lot less nervous during the next attempt. And each time was an improvement until things were, you know, better than I ever could have imagined. Fireworks. Rainbows. The whole 9 yards. It just took a lot of talking to get there.

Also, people seem to think that talking about sex-- test results, dislikes, preferences––is somehow not sexy. But I found it to be the opposite. 1. I love planning things. So knowing what "the plan" is ahead of time is very nice. 2. Talking about an action before trying it out can be... titillating. Let's say.

Anyway. Communicate! If she's as awesome as she sounds, she'll be honored and pleased to tackle the situation with you rather than being a part of the thing that's giving you anxiety.

#answered asks #cw sex #love #demisexual #mylife

[angelbarelywrites]

♡ scenarios | dating billy

♡ fandoms; The Boys

♡ characters; Billy Butcher

♡ reader; gender neutral

♡ cw; explicit sexual content

♡ notes; he’s the bane of my existence + love of my life tbh

reader isss implied to be working with Billy and in my mind a supe but i made it ambiguous since i didn’t write a meeting section :v but i love the idea of Billy falling for a supe so much

•┈••✦ ❤ ✦••┈•

I. Kisses/ PDA

> he doesn’t like PDA…or at least that’s what he claims

> Frenchie and Marv give him shit- and Hughie is so supportive it makes him angrier than the others giving him shit

> but tbh they’re all happy to see him happy, and he knows that somewhere under that thick skull off his

> so when you give him a kiss or hold his hand or hug him in the base he grumbles, but he never pushes you away or actually complains

> and sometimes he’ll haphazardly pull you against him without saying a word, cheeks a bit pink as he mumbles something into your hair

> usually a ‘good job’ if it fits the occasion, otherwise a comment about how his coworkers are idiots

> now undercover, it’s a different story

> everyone is a potential threat then- and even worse, everyone is potentially going to bother you

> if he even gets a whiff of someone looking you over he’s got an arm around your waist and a hand not so subtly on his holster

> if you want to get any actual surveillance done you have to shoo him away so he doesn’t scare anyone off

> and even then he’s checking in way more often than he needs to

> it’s hard to get mad at, because it’s sweet in his stubborn, assholeish way

> and if you don’t care about surveillance it’s easy to get him riled by playing into it

> and then he’ll kiss you hard right in front of whatever chucklefuck was eying you

> “hope he’s enjoying the bleedin’ view”

> he’s a big cuddler when you’re alone- another thing he’d never admit

> but he loves when you snuggle up with your head on his chest, listening to his heart and nearly dozing while he goes through files

> or when you’re exhausted on the van ride home and make sure no one is paying attention as you hold with his hand in the front seat, rubbing his probably bloodied knuckles and pressing soft kisses them

> he likes your little late night rendezvous the best, though

> you’re both bad at sleeping, so most nights in the base he’ll find you in the kitchen near midnight brewing chai

> you’ll be sitting on the counter in one of his shirts and smile brightly despite the bags under your eyes

> and then when he comes over and puts a hand on either side of you, you trap him in your legs

> the kisses are sometimes heated, sometimes chaste

> but either way you enjoy the tea, and spend the rest of the restless night together

II. Sharing a bed

> when you’re all living in hiding, space is tight under the pawnshop

> you’ve both got shitty little twin beds, and he’s always complaining about space

> but the nights are getting cold and the heater barely works, so you hatch your evil scheme

> evil scheme might get giving it too much credit. like way too much

> all you plan on is asking to snuggle and never leaving his bed

> but he’s taking forever to get whatever he’s doing done, and you’re tired

> no biggie, you’ll just crawl in and wait for him so you can ask

> the next thing you know it’s two a.m. and he’s nudging you

> “oi. who said you could be in here?”

> you whine and give him the biggest pout, eyes all hazy from sleep

> and not wearing all that much either

> he sighs but you can hear the smile in his voice “c’mon then love.”

> before you can scooch over he’s pulling you on top of him completely, making you feel tiny on his broad chest

> he tried not to seem too delighted when you’re there again the next night

III. Let’s get kinky

> listen. i swear i don’t think every character has a daddy kink. just all the ones i’m super attached to

> but he canonically referred to himself as daddy and that’s not leaving my brain anytime soon. so.

> he refers to you as so many sweet nicknames- and he likes to pair them with a healthy mix of degradation and praise

> “you’re a filthy fuckin’ whore aren’t yah sweetheart?”

> his default is rough. he’s a frustrated man, and he’s been pent up for a while now

> but you can take it. probably.

> he likes choking. and spanking, he loves when you’re a brat and he can bend you over his knee

> mostly because then he can finger fuck you right then and there when he’s done and make you a complete mess

> if you wear makeup he thinks it’s twice as nice with your lipstick smudged and mascara running down your cheeks

> and you look prettiest to him on your knees, already a bit teary and sucking on his fingers until you’ve earned the real thing

> he wants to breed you so bad it makes him look stupid. (tbh not literally, even if it is possible, but god the dirty talk is so good that it doesn’t matter)

> his favorite position is reverse cowgirl- he loves seeing you whine and slowly ease yourself onto him

> and to me- he’s an ass man lmao, he loves watching it as you bounce on his cock

#reader insert #gn reader #gender neutral reader #billy butcher x reader #billy butcher #william butcher #the boys #cw sex #cw kink

[clovesnz]

MESS AND SEXUAL CONTENT WARNING//

You know how when ur gettin it on w someone you pull off their underwear and coo over how wet they’ve gotten it?

That, but instead it’s a poor sickie who’s had a long day out, wearing a mask, and when they get home you pull the mask off and coo over the mess of snot under it that’s been threatening to soak through, tending to their nose with a tissue or a warm cloth and bundling them up with blankets and tea

#snotfucker #messfucker #coldfucker #snz #snz kink #cw sex #cw mess

[a-sip-of-milo]

People get so surprised/upset when they hear about the fact that I’m active in sexual spaces as an acespec. Like, you chose to infantilise me. That’s not my problem lmao.

#aspec #acespec #ace #nsft #cw sex

[midnight-moth]

Phantom has a big ol’ crush on the animated fox version of robin hood. He will scream at you and run away if you mention it.

#Dew will absolutely get into full cosplay just to laugh when he gets hard #bushy tail ears and all #but then of course he’ll have sweet foxy sex with him #best part of this cosplay is the fox wears no pants #and he’ll only call phantom maid marian after he cums cause he’s a gentleman #where is he putting the tail #I think you know #cw sex #cw pet play #<- maybe? idk what it means to dress up as fox robin hood for sex

[yrrtyrrtwhenihrrthrrt]

It's late so uh, anyway some spicy/kinky (not safe, 18+!!) headcanons for comic Goldenloin (+some movie!)

(totally not inspired by @sir-ballister-boldheart thank u for being brave enough to speak the truths)

Ambrosius has a massive degradation and discipline kink post-comic. This was not the case at ALL pre-joust because his ego could not have handled that. Now he can handle quite a lot but needs lots of hugs after and if Bal says anything degrading about his appearance, especially related to his scars he will face crippling sub-drop and lose the mood instantly

Ballister, just like his movie self, has a praise kink, but he is in denial about this because he thinks that a praise kink doesn't go beyond being called a "good boy" and he thinks he is too dominant for that. Ambrosius knows better.

Both Ballisters have a possessiveness kink but on opposite sides. Boldheart wants to get marked up, Blackheart wants to do the marking, but both are down for both

Ambrosius likes to have his hair pulled, obviously

They used kink to work through a lot of their problems and rebuild trust in one another (as they have been established to be two healthy adults who are capable of working through issues through open communication like a normal couple obviously)

Ambrosius is extremely prone to sub-drop and it hits him like a fucking truck. He needs a lot of hugs and ice cream when this happens, but Blackheart goes to great lengths to make sure it doesn't.

Ambrosius finds it extremely hot that his boyfriend became a scientist and constantly wants to roleplay about it that he's his "test subject." This took a while for them to figure out because Ballister kept fucking the mood up by trying to apply the literal actual scientific method to their roleplay. Ex: "No babe how could I accurately measure how this aphrodisiac works if I don't have a control group? We have to try this again next week but without---" while Ambrosius is tied up like "Jesus Christ just inject me with jaderoot and kill me." They eventually figured it out when Bal had to begrudgingly accept that roleplay science was not, in fact, actual science. Still fun, though.

Anyway y'all please have fun with this, hope it's not too much ;p

#goldenheart #ambrosius goldenloin #ballister blackheart #ballister boldheart #nimona #nimona comic #cw sex #not safe for minors

[envergortitwindow]

The hair on Enver Gortash's ass may be as dense as an untamed, untouched forest but that never stop Rhyleth from eating it out like all-you-can-eat roasted dwarf on the regular as he sits on his face.

#baldur's gate 3 #enver gortash #the dark urge #durgetash #du: rhyleth arkenmtor #enver gortash x the dark urge #the dark urge x enver gortash #cw sex #the gortASS

[peoplegettingreallymadatghosts]

#4chan #paranormal #bridget #guilty gear #trans #cw chasing #cw sex #tulpa #cw r slur #non serious content #I hope #forced feminized #forcefem

[sexy-sea-basss]

Aeon would totally mark up whoever he slept with. Bruises, hickeys up and down their throats, loves to leave rope marks on their wrists and ankles from being tied up.

his favorite marking is his hand print on their ass and neck.

“Pretty.” He says as he walks by them the next morning.

#Those are todays thoughts #come again tomorrow #Luci thoughts #phantom ghoul #aeon ghoul #the band ghost #cw sex #cw markings

[xiaq]

Me, B, and my parents taking turns showering

My dad: Alright, my turn. Is there anything you need to put away before I go in?

Me: Put…away. Like what??

My dad: I don’t know. Anything…personal.

Me, understanding: Oh yes, (sarcastically) don’t worry, all the sex toys we brought along for surviving the ice storm are put away.

My dad: Well I didn’t know. 

Me: It’s like 40 degrees in the house right now. Also, y’all are here. Because it’s your house. My dad: It’s a big house. And it’s not like your mom and I have never had sex in Mawmaw’s [my grandmother] house. We’re cool. We understand.

Me: Oh my god, you’ve had sex in Mawmaw’s house??

My dad: Of course I have. You haven’t??

Me: NO. It’s Mawmaw’s house. Mawmaw lives there.

My dad: Mawmaw also has had sex in her house. Just FYI.

Me: Please stop talking and go take your shower.

#so happy hes left behind his conversative fire and brimstone views of sex #but Id be fine if he didn't share them with me #lol #shit my parents say #but honestly #cw sex

[angelbarelywrites]

♡ scenarios | dating negan

♡ fandoms; The Walking Dead

♡ characters; Negan Smith

♡ reader; gender neutral

♡ cw; explicit sexual content

♡ notes; in case anyone forgot i’m technically not a dedicated slasher blog

i put this in sections so i didn’t have to make more than one post lol . also these take place while he’s still the ruler of the saviors. i’ve been obsessed since his first episode oh my god that’s eight years of hyperfixation so that’s usually where my brain goes plot- wise

i’m thinking Billy Butcher is up next? lmk who else we wanna see, Garcia Flynn from Timeless is probably too niche? but i love him so so much

•┈••✦ ❤ ✦••┈•

I. Kisses/PDA

> negan is an affectionate person

> with his wives it’s just for show- they’re hot, and he wants all his followers jealous of his lifestyle

> but with you, it’s different

> his wives don’t like him, per-se. he’s convenient to be married to and easy on the eyes, but they’re cold to him

> and he knows why, he doesn’t really give a shit. especially now that he has you.

> you may not be his spouse- you’re sure as fuck not letting him call you that without a ring- but he’s even more physical with you

> standing by him? hand on your back. sitting? you’re on his lap. look cold? he gives you his jacket and keeps you tucked under his arm

> “i just like takin’ care of you darlin’”

> and he loves kissing you in front of others- from little pecks to long, lingering kisses that makes other people look away

> he seems possessive, and he doesn’t mind people pointing it out

> it’s not that he doesn’t trust you- it’s never that

> he trusts most of his men too…maybe not simon. because simon loves staring at your ass

> but he’s proud. he’s proud you’re his, and he’s yours, and that he gets to show you off

> and like hell he ever lets anyone forget it

> alone he acts like keeping his hands off you is impossible

> he smacks your ass any time you lean over, pulls you into big bear hugs from behind and randomly pick you up

> he doesn’t ever want you to doubt his feelings for you, and physically is the easiest way for him to show it

> he’s very sexual, big shocker

> but his favorite kisses are sleepy kisses

> you wait late into the night when he’s due home from terrorizing his territories

> some part of you is afraid one day he won’t come home- so you always wait

> you’ll be exhausted, rubbing your eyes and yawning and usually wrapped up in a blanket

> but no matter how long he takes directing his men and double checking inventory and dealing with the dead

> “hey there, baby doll”

> you always run straight into his arms and bury your face in his chest. he’ll laugh and pick you up, kissing you gently before he carries you to bed

> most times he falls asleep on top of the covers with you, eager for the morning when he can make it up to you for being gone so long

II. Sharing a bed

> negan isn’t used to sharing a bed anymore

> the wives have their own rooms just down the hall, and so do you

> no reason for him not to give you at least a little space

> and having a room is the height of luxury in the sanctuary anyways. it’s a perk of dating the boss

> but you don’t know how to tell him you do want to share a bed, even though you’re barely apart when you’re awake

> so you just…don’t. you assume it’s a boundary he wants to keep and don’t mention it

> until the night terrors start up again

> you’ve seen a lot of people die a lot of different ways. most of them people you cared a lot about

> the memories always seem to come back in your dreams no matter how far back you push them

> when you’re woken up by one in the middle of a harsh storm, it’s just a bit too much

> you just can’t stop crying, and it’s loud and you need held. you need him.

> you creep as quietly as you can down the hall, and you hesitate at the door until the thunder crashes again

> when you stumble in he sits up fast with a knife in his fist

> then he gives a slightly annoyed sigh in recognition, relaxing

> “the hell are you doing?”

> “i just- um-“

> you can tell he notices the wobble in your voice and opens his arms up without another smart remark

> “hey, hey, i’ve gotcha..”

> he doesn’t ask questions- you don’t cry for nothing. and he gets nightmares too

> falling asleep in his arms feels natural…so natural it becomes a habit

> and he sleeps better with you too, curled around you and holding you so tight you think he might be worried you’ll disappear

> it’s less than a week before you stop using your bed altogether

III. Let’s get kinky

> he’s happy in pretty much any dominant role, whatever you call him is good enough for him- daddy, sir, master, etc

> and he likes when you call him whatever it is in front of his men

> the only chance of getting your dick/strap in him is if he power bottoms. but 95 percent of the time? you’re receiving and it’s big

> he likes being risky. he’ll take you out to visit settlements just to have an excuse to stop and fuck you in the car

> or even in a house there, just a room over from his men and gagging you with his fingers so you don’t get caught

> not that he’ll care if they catch you anyways

> he has a nice big office- half of the reason he uses it is so he can have you on his lap as a cockwarmer while he reads or looks over inventory numbers

> the other half is so you can suck his dick under the desk while he talks to simon or dwight

> (simon is a raging pervert so he definitely knows, too)

> he loves fucking your face, watching you get all teary eyed and drooling all over yourself from taking his massive cock

> “oh look at the fuckin’ mess you’re making!”

> he’s generous though- he loves reciprocating oral

> and he loves overstimulating you too- whether that’s by edging you for hours or just making you cum again and again and again

> he loves taking you from behind, pushing your face into the mattress and gripping your hips so hard they bruise

> but he also loves when you ride him slow, gasping quietly as he watches you fall apart completely for him

#negan x g/n reader #negan x y/n #twd negan #negan smith #negan x you #negan x reader #the walking dead #twd dead city #cw sex #cw kink

[aroace-confessions]

CW sex, body image problems

I'm gray ace, I have and enjoy sex but I'm almost exclusively reactive. I don't feel sexual attraction at all. My bf feels like I don't find him attractive. I have body image issues and so does he, he's so good at telling me all the things he's attracted to-- my curves, the way I move-- but all the things I love and see about him are romantically charged. I love his smile, and how squishy and warm he is. I feel terrible, because he thinks I'm not attracted to him specifically, and I've tried to be more thoughtful in my compliments to him, but it's hard to know just what to say when those are things i just don't notice. The things I say that are made up make him feel better about his body than the things I say that are wholly the truth, and that doesn't feel right to me. I wish my romantic attraction to him was enough, and that the non-sexual things I love him for were enough.

Submitted 03/03/24

#asexual #ace #grey ace #acespec #cw body image #cw sex

[haystarlight]

Friendly reminder that condoms aren't just for people with dicks. Like, there's the big condoms that are made to put on vaginas but also:

People that use straps/dildos/toys sometimes put condoms on the things to keep them clean. (Cause it's important to keep those things clean, that stuff goes inside people! Keep it clean!)

People that cut up condoms with scissors to make homemade dental dams.

Anyway have fun and be safe.

#was thinking about a fic I read some months ago and it reminded me of this #the fic was like “why would lesbians need condoms” and I was like #1. trans lesbians #2. this post #tw sex mention #tw sex #cw sex talk #cw sex mention #cw sex #tw sex talk #tw sex toys #cw suggestive #tw suggestive #sex education #safe sex #sex ed #sex health #sex positive #sex positivity #condoms