this is mostly just a reminder for myself but i feel like other people might need to hear it too
you shouldn't need any more justification than "i like it", "it feels like me", etc to choose a particular flag/label/pronoun set. as long as it isn't actively hurting anyone, you should be able to identify however you goddamn please and whatever way makes you feel most comfortable without judgement.
there are no strict rules or requirements for identifying with any label that makes you comfortable, and people need to stop imposing their own rules on others when it really shouldn't concern them.
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Collectors, screenshot your hoard and reblog this post with it. I wanna start a chain. I'll go first:
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right, okay, so i’m thinking maybe after all that eldritch nonsense, and that sudden immortality, and maybe a few hundred years on the Aurora, and the eventual acquiring of an accordion, maybe then Lyf can start enjoying themself
ID in alt text!
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Spivecomfshippic
[PT / Spivecomfshippic \ end PT]
A gender connected to having the ship Spive (Split/Bive) from Regretevator a comfort ship
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[ID: A flag with seven horizontal stripes, all the same size. The colors are darker at the edges and lighter moving towards the middle. The colors are, from top to bottom, pink-violet, dusty red-orange, dusty gold, light green, soft sky blue, soft indigo, and dark purple. END ID]
Xenohoardcopeic: A term for those who hoard/collect Xenogenders to cope/as a coping mechanism
The colors are somewhat inspired by the Xenogender and Genderhoarder flags
For @/nyxma0nima!
No suggested pronouns
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GENDER, SEXUALITY, & PRONOUNS HOARD TEMPLATE.
A really fucking big Notion template by yours truly
I was requested by a follower of mine to create a gender hoard. So obviously, I did everything and more. You can look at my personal gender stash if you want ideas on what to make yours look like.
Genders!
Sexualities!
Pronouns!
Templates within templates
Views. Too many of them. My head hurts.
And an about me?
I took the extra effort and sanity to be pretty in-depth about explaining things for people who are new to this sort of thing. There's a note at the top of the page called "Notes for template users" that I HIGHLY recommend to read to understand if you're new with Notion.
Does it look long? Yes. Is it actually long? Technically no. What I did was added a lot of views for the database so that you can pick whatever you like and just delete the rest. Just be sure you do it properly so you don't accidentally delete anything you actually want to keep.
The entire thing is meant to be pretty modular, meaning you're free to add and delete shit as you will, and you can also insert this into another template if you feel. It's pretty adaptable, so go ham. The only thing I will say about this template is that it wasn't made with DID/OSDD in mind, so there isn't say, categories for alters or specific labels etc for that, but you can fix that with just a few clicks.
You probably already know the next thing I'm going to say...
Endogenic systems/non-traumagenic systems and their supporters are not allowed to use my templates, full stop.
Bigots and assholes aren't allowed to use my templates. Eat shit and die.
You can edit it as much as you like as long as you do not redistribute any version of the template as your own.
I honestly didn't put a place for credit, which is fine because I don't require anybody credit me. If you do keep the credit (or make one in this case), you can move it anywhere you want.
It's 1 AM. I'm going to sleep now.
Also, I'm not really sure how to sort out these sorts of lists, so I just kinda put in the bare minimum after doing a few Google searches. If I get anything wrong or misrepresent something, it isn't my intention to be an asshole just because.
I'm exhausted. Good night.
Link: https://1800pain.notion.site/Gender-Sexuality-Pronouns-Hoard-Template-4cfac5f1336b4fcdb7d00f4be3f41b0b?pvs=4
EDIT: AHHHH I also forgot and I don't know where to put it—I added some references for pronouns/pronoun dressing rooms since I thought those were awesome and cool! Alright, that's all, I'm off to dream about men.
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I collect as many labels as I can of my identity, I have thousands of them.
People who criticize Gen Z for making labels for every aspect of our identity,
Stay mad! 😎
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Xenogendertoid collector
a flag for when you for some reason collected a lot of xenogenders but even with that name you use all of them or most of them as xenoidentities.
This wasn't made to harm the xenogender community but only to describe my experience.
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haven’t been on mogai tumblr in a while how is everyone :DD
[ ID: square flag with stripes of slightly differing sizes. color order from top to bottom is: dark brown, forrest green, green-yellow, brown, light green, brown, green-yellow, forrest green, dark brown. END ID ]
GENDERPATHETIC: where your gender is represented and manifests by being a ‘loser’ (ex. klitz from the girl next door, ‘femcels’, etc. not to be used for actual incels or toxic misogynistic communities)
coined by: me :DD !!
if you have any related pronouns suggestions lmk!
(feel free to request things or whatever! this is my first time making a flag or coining a term, so sorry it looks bad/the post is set up poorly)
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Thalassyrean [thalassa + empyrean] : a gender connected in some way to the celestial/divine energy of the sea.
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― Stxrgender
︰A gender that feels a strong connection to the stars while being agender/genderless. The individual may feel as though their gender identity is validated by the stars︰
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Telioglitched/ Radioglitched
Telioglitched: A gender that often feels disconnected or erratic; in a way that is bright and difficult to ignore. This gender may also feel like an error to those who experience it.
Radioglitched: A gender that feels disconnected or erratic; in a way that is quiet and often feels like ‘background noise’. This gender may also be linked to a slight feeling of something being ‘wrong’
… I swear I’ll post more otherkin stuff I’ve just been enjoying making these…
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How do you start gender hoarding? I know that it might sound like a stupid question, but you see, I live in a place where trans people and nbs are looked down upon but lesbians and gays are ok. (rural Australia)
I felt weird coming out to my bf as a demigirl( I am AFAB) and he knows I’m a furry, but doesn’t know about my alter humanity (questioning therian)
So my view of gender is very “traditional” and where I live there’s only really female, male, trans and (very rare) nonbinary. I also have highly suspected autism/ self diagnosed yet I don’t see gender in a way I hear people with autism do, probably due to my upbringing
I want to know from a person like you who knows the “newer” ways of gender how I should gender hoard and not stick myself to just the traditional genders
its not a stupid question at all!! ill do my best to answer!
so i identify as agender transmasc. agender goes under the trans umbrella and nonbinary, but i dont see myself as gender neutral i just have no gender.
now going more into the transmasc, just means i feel more masculine. doesnt really effect the way i present my gender any differently, hmm i guess i dont really know how to explain it.
i dont understand the concept of gender, i dont understand a lot of social constructs, i honestly think its sort of unneeded.
my gender is complex in the most noncomplex way, its vast and its tiny.
ive made my own genders based off of feelings and intrests, i think thats the best way to get started with genderhoarding. making your own ideas, analyzing yourself. (personally its helped me become more aware of who i am!) imaginationnnnn!! creativity!! make something up, no ones stopping you!
the way i view gender is its what makes you, you. it doesnt have to make sense to anyone but you. it doesnt have to make sense!
some of the things i tie in with my gender are the rustling of leaves in a forest, fog in the early morning, large fields, chaotic music, soft stuffed animals, the smell of pavement after it rains, soft piano music, acoustic guitar, the moon
some of those things are real different!! and those are some of the things that i view my gender as!
i think its a lot easier too with the internet, theres a ton of people who have similar ideas and interests so they also make genders, sexualities, and flags to go along with them.
i have a board on pinterest that i frequently add stuff to, i could link it here if you would like! i also save just anynthing that pops up if it remindes me of my friends or it seems cool. it doesnt mean i identify with it, but its cool to read about them!
i keep track of them in a notebook as well!!
my genders relate to my hyperfixations, mostly. Hyperfixations and anything that i can relate too!
ex. horrormasc: a masculine aligned horrorgender. fits both definitions (1: a horrifying/all over the place gender, and 2: a gender related to different horror genres)
raingender: a xenogender connected to the rain
scenekid/scene neutral, oldwebemoic, onlineboyic, endspacic
etc, etc.
dont feel rushed at all to tell your boyfriend! when i started feeling more comfortable telling people, i made sure to have articals pulled up to read, notes etc. so it would be easier to sort me thoughts? get it out more smoothly.
i also wanted to talk about self-diagnosing!! i hear so much negative about it, but honestly, its good to research and try and find out things about yourself. that my opinion. and not for longterm, just for a bit until you can get evaluated. gahhhhh self diagnosing is valid and it makes me so mad to see people who think its not. granted, some people to just see a couple things and "oh yup got that"
but when you really spend time looking at signs, symptoms, traits
it can be very beneficial in the long run, and also just to check before you go get evaluated also
i apologize if this is insanely long, or if it makes no sense. im sleep deprived, im trying to fall asleep gahh
i hope this helped even a little bit!! if you want me to expand on anything or explain anything further feel free to dm me!
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Enampingender
[PT / Enampingender \ End PT]
A gender related to enamel pins.
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;litvoidgender 〜 ☆゚.*・。゚⋆˙⊹ !!
litvoidgender | ✦ ࿐ ˊˎ-
🫥 ;a gender this is literally a void, not an absence of gender that uses void as a metaphor. this gender is there and is intrinsically connected to the nothingness of a void, while still existing.
*;literally + void + gender
req : for anon :) sorry it took a whole !! hope this works :0
indigo says : iactually really like this flag
reminders :
- drink water !
- eat enough food today !
- take any meds you need !
- you are super super cool !
- ily so much /p !!!!!!!!!
thanks for reading !! ⍢
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