#i am said trans man

[pookapufferfish]

Trans man upset that his body does not act like a man's even though he is pre literally everything and his body can't just change randomly

Dysphoria sucks, dumb emotions caused by dumb bodily functions suck

#rambling ray #i am said trans man #i just wanna curl up and hug my plushies and not experience dumb mood swings

[transmascissues]

it’s so funny to me that people used to try to warn me “if you go on t it won’t make you androgynous it’ll just make you look like a man” because 1) i do want to look like a man, that is famously a major part of being a trans man but also 2) t literally has made me androgynous?? like they were wrong on both counts. i got most of the looking-like-a-man changes that i wanted (deep voice, broader body, hair all over my body including my face) and i also give every single cis person in a five mile radius a stroke every time they try to figure out my gender. the assumption that trans men wouldn’t actually want to look like men and the assumption that cis people are good at correctly gendering us once we’re on t are both weird as hell.

#people said this to me all the fucking time pre t #to the point that it did almost make me too afraid to go on t bc ‘what if they’re right and i don’t really want to look like a man?’ #but it turns out that was bullshit on so many levels #i look ‘like a man’ now and love it and also am the most androgynous person most cis people i meet have ever seen #y’all just don’t know how t works at fucking all #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia #trans men #transmascs

[queeraliensposts]

If y'all don't believe that transmascs experience misogyny let me tell you something that happened recently.

There was a post that was essentially making fun of "pick me gays", where they were saying that "I don't watch rupal's drag race, I don't like being called "gurl" and I don't do *insert stereotypical gay activity"". And in that post I commented that some people don't like being called "gurl" or "girl" because it makes them dysphoric and you shouldn't label them a "pick me" because of it. The responses I got for that comment were SO hostile for the sake of my mental health I had to delete the comment. Some people even tried to PURPOSELY trigger my dysphoria.

In that same post a cis man said that he prefers men who are masculine and he shouldn't be shamed for his preferences, and EVERYONE agreed with that.

If you don't see the hypocrisy IDK what to tell you.

#for the record I don't think people shouldn't have preferences #as long as you're not INSULTING people that don't fit said preferences there's nothing wrong with that #I also prefer mascs but I'm not gonna insult fems for being fem #what I am saying is that if someone saying 'please don't call me this' is more controversial to you than “I'm not attracted to these people” #you need to check your priorities #I have more right to my boundaries then you have to your dating preferences #this just proves that in a bio essentialist society people will be offended by those who are percieved as women setting their boundaries #if you are offended by a trans man saying “please don't call me girl” but you're not offended by a cis man saying “I prefer mascs” #you have some transphobia and misogyny to unpack #lgbtqia #trans #ftm #transmasc #gay #trans men #transandrophobia

[lesbianredhoodedmercenary]

#limbus company #lcb #happy pride btw. i don't know if i've already said this #ihave more headcanons than these i think rodya is bi and trans and sinclair is gay and trans but they could only have 1 for this #i did outsource the “who should be on this” to friends because i am indecisive and this is the lgbt bus so. could be any number of sinners #hong lu's particulars being: bachelor (+ sheltered) is really funny to me like #i know the original korean was some sort of title indicating a young man of high birth iirc and it wasn't directly translatable #but “bachelor” as a translation is rlly funny. like confirmed bachelor? the 1950s euphemism for gay men?

[elijah-loyal]

hey guys, small conundrum

i'm planning on coming out to my parents in around 5 months and i need to put together a presentation; i will also be writing a LONG essay about the existence of trans individuals (and validating it because my family is interesting?? one way to put it ig) and i need

suggestions for presentation

sources for helpful studies and information for the essay

good points for the essay (in case i forget any)

if anyone can help, i would greatly appreciate it!!

#yes i am coming out in an uncomfortable household because i have no other choice #for me i would rather finally be free; finally having said it and been done with it #no my parents are not supportive of trans individuals #no i do not think "i'm different teehee they'll validate me!!' #i know what im getting into #trans #transgender #help #trans help #research #ftm #ftm trans #transmasc #trans ftm #tboy #trans man #trans presentation #lgbt #queer #coming out #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #queer community

[empty-blog-for-lurking]

if i can get even one person to listen to The Mechanisms i would have fulfilled my purpose

#Do you want a tragic adaptation of greek mythology featuring genderless Ulysses (Odysses) as a weary soldier completely grief stricken by #The war crimes they committed? Ulysses dies at dawn got you complete with anticapitalist messages all sung in a cyperpunk blues world #Do you want grim dark tragic fairy tale adaptation with lesbian Cinderella desperately looking for her war criminal wife #Who was kidnapped by an evil space emperor to create army of clone soldiers and is opposed by said wife's sister who is Snow White? #Once Upon A Time (in Space) got you covered #Do you want Arthurian legend figures in Wild West in Space setting where Arthur Guinevere and Lancelot are healthy poly couple and #Mordred is a sympathetic trans man with a 'Love was there but it couldnt save anyone' style story? High Noon Over Camelot #Do you want Norse Mythology in a style of Train Murder mystery with a horrifying twist #Lesbian morally grey Loki and her morally grey wife Sigyn? The Bifrost Incident #They are all in space and are tragedies and fuck severely #the mechanisms #once upon a time (in space) #ulysses dies at dawn #high noon over camelot #the bifrost incident #Listen in that order #for reasons #I havent even talked about Frankenstein or Alice or Hereward the Wake or Redeath #empty thoughts #edit: Yes i am pinning this post what about it?

[fagbearentertainment]

I need to confess this somewhere and you're the unfortunate individual. I'm like 80% sure purple guy, specifically the Sexy Tumblr Edition™️, was my trans awakening. No longer quiiiiite goals, but definitely contributed. That one bloody painter creepypasta guy too, purple guy planted the seeds of thought but painter man watered them. 🏳️‍⚧️

This image @/special-vibe made has never been more relevant

#if it makes you feel better mine was way worse #my trans awakening I mean #not the first person I said ‘oh man I wanna be them’ for but the thang that made me go ‘oh wow I am. not cisgender’ #it’s so embarrassing #and that’s saying something coming from me #fnaf

[kanethegoofster]

When I first watched the show I looked at these three and went "yup they're trans"

#murder drones #transgender #headcanons #kameron's ramblings #thad murder drones #lizzy murder drones #uzi doorman #especially with uzi asking if thad's in dentetion because he “testoteroned too hard” #I know they're robots but that line made me chuckle about the thought of trans robots #now I am dying on these hills #liam vickers the only man that has made me look at a robot and said “they got that tboy/tgirl swag” #I do headcanon n as trans but I didn't think it when I first watched the show #took me a while and seeing people headcanon it and I went “damn he is”

[microwavedautism]

I want

Trans Gale.

But I want him as a fat hairy man without any surgery. Give that man tits!

#bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #gale dekarios #(in case it needs to be said I am in fact a fat hairy trans dude) #(but like the 16 year old version) (not quite a man yet)

[dilfpassing]

currently thinking about when i was pacing in the kitchen for hours visibly nauseous with anxiety working myself up to tell my dad i was trans by saying i was going to start testosterone and he just went "lol ok"

#the man does not give a single fuck apparently #i was flipping out over telling him too #i didnt even say i was trans i was just like yeah i am going to go on testosterone this summer #[literally crying as i said it bc i was so nervous] #and he was like ok #whatever

[neutroiis]

liked the people’s joker but to no one’s surprise i wish the depictions of trans masculinity were, um, more nuanced. but it’s still really fucking good and worth seeing. just don’t expect to see any fully developed trans masc characters who aren’t like, explicitly abusive shitheads or joke characters

8.5/10 movie, would be a 9.5 if they’d given the penguin mastectomy scars. if your only character with visible top surgery scars or visible transmasc traits is a fucking shithead, idk, i think that is sort of mean to the other type of trans person who is Not You

#if it hadn’t given me the jump scare of ‘T4T will work out’ then I prob wouldn’t be so butt hurt abt it #certain parts feel like the author rehashing Twitter arguments and i don’t love that #also the only non binary rep was a robot. would like if that trend could stop #that being said i went to see this with a trans man and he didn’t give a shit LOL #so i think i just see it as unfair in like a principles sense #but if other ppl aren’t bothered maybe i am just a kill joy

[catboyfurina]

focalette / neuvalors whatever the ship name is orz

#beeep #gi #query #i am a trans guy furina truther and i think a lot of fanon neuvalors is really focused on a sort of. somewhat misogynistic (imo) stereotype #idk a lot of fanon seems to really like Big Strong Protector Man and Hysterical Little Emotional Woman #and thaaats not up my alley BUT I SHALL ELABORATE ON WHAT IS ! #first of all. i think both of them have feelings and emotions and shit. when fanon is like here are fontaines crybabies that fanon is like #yea. you get it this time #i think furina is really invested in pretending to be who he thinks fontaine wants as an archon #and i think part of that is pretending to be a cis woman. and i think that is also why he's so dramatic and over the top in part #fontaine wants a spectacle so he gives them a spectacle but (as seen by the fountain) does hide the less entertaining side #(or the side that he can't bear to let become entertainment) #and i think he doesn't and or can't hide as much of that from neuvillette #i think when theyre both tired and alone furina can drop the exaggeration . and that. that specifically is soooooo #and tying into the trans headcanon i think nvl is the only one who knows #i still dont think furina has said everything but like. neuvillette being the only one past that first incredibly high wall. yeag #and neuvillette is imo one of those people that likes ppl that are annoying (cough cough just like me fr fr rn) #buuuuut ngl i havent thought as hard about neuvis end of it #...i dont think theyd be together currently in canon tho this is one of those slowburn bait things #also. i don't think furinas a kid pensive emoji. i know its popular on like half the fandom but nnnot my headcanon #i dont think hes acting childish in a child way i think hes acting childish in a clown way #.....hopefully this isnt my sinister!baizhu headcanon moment that ages soooo poorly ahdsjfjshsgh

[youngpettyqueen]

thinking about trans Julian again specifically thinking about the idea of Julian being trans but electing to not undergo any gender-affirming surgeries

like I was thinking about this the other day in the context of his line about him and Kira being the only other options for a womb when he had to transplant the baby from Keiko, because the implication that Julian has a womb also implies he's elected out of having a hysterectomy for gender-affirming purposes. I say that because we know gender-affirming surgeries- at least the more cosmetic ones- are very easy to undergo (see Profit and Lace, where they very quickly and easily turn Quark into a woman (yes I know it wasn't gender-affirming for him but its the easiest episode to use for my point)) so I feel like it wouldnt be a reach to say that a hysterectomy would be a fairly easy procedure to ask for and undergo

which as ive been thinking about it more I think this like. perfectly tracks with Julian as a character, that he would opt out of undergoing gender-affirming procedures. because I think, considering what his parents did to him and how strongly he resents it, that he would steer clear of anything he would view as "changing" himself. honestly so far in the future I think its safe to assume views of transitioning are very different, and I'd like to think that there wouldnt be nearly as much social pressure to physically transition at all, but even if there was I think Julian would be very resistant to the idea that he would "have" to change anything about himself. Julian is very unapologetically himself in every regard, so im pretty confident in saying that that would translate over to his gender identity and asserting that he is a man, and he doesnt need to change anything about himself or his body to be one

#star trek: ds9 #julian bashir #I dont typically put this much thought into my trans hcs but Julian being trans is an hc that fascinates me #from a character analysis standpoint #I think he wouldnt physically transition at all! #I dont think he'd even go on hormones #'but what about the facial hair in the prison camp' afab people can grow facial hair without hormones #'but what about the lack of titty' he could be wearing a binder #frankly I dont think he even would I think he's just flat-chested #it would track with his build. beanpole man #but yeah Julian as a trans man who does not physically transition. things I am thinking about often #like I said Julian does not apologize for any aspect of himself and is very loudly himself #and he doesnt let other people's opinions of him change that #look at his friendship with Miles #Miles loves to remind Julian how annoying he is and Julian thinks its funny #I think its one of the reasons they get along so well honestly #cause sure Miles complains but he also wouldnt change Julian and Julian knows that #I dont read Julian as being insecure about himself #he hates what's been done to him but he isnt like. insecure about it. he knows it wasn't his fault #he hides it for legal reasons not because he's insecure #but I think his resentment over what was done to him ties directly into how he would resist undergoing any procedures or physical changes #frankly I think Julian hates being a surgery patient just in general #I think he hates any procedure he cant be awake for #and he fights like a cat trying to get out of a bath anytime he has to go under #but thats a whole other post and hc #anyways trans Julian supremacy

[chronurgy]

One of the things I sometimes struggle with as a nonbinary creator with nonbinary characters is the idea that I can "protect" them from misgendering. That if I don't describe their body in any way and never use any words to describe them that might be even remotely gendered and make sure any art of them is androgenous enough then people will be forced to see them as nonbinary and not just "basically a man/woman"

#Idk man read some stuff today and am feeling weird rn #I think there's more to be said here about how in the end it doesn't really work but I just. Yeah. #Been thinking a lot about how even trans friendly people do this to nonbinary people #How many of us get rounded down to our agab or whatever people think our agab is if they don't know it

[faggotslime]

There is nothing wrong with being trans masc, but if a trans man tells you he is a man, and you turn around and call him a 'trans masc' I see y'all and y'all make my skin crawl.

Trans masc and trans man don't inherently mean the same things to everyone— it costs nothing to respect people's identities and not use terminology for them that they do not use for themselves.

I don't call myself trans masc, and when others still call me that it is technical misgendering. Idc what anyone says. If I call myself a man, and you call me a masc instead, that is not the same thing. Y'all don't go around calling cishet men 'mascs'.

#personal #talk #trans shit #it truly feels like people water down my identity as a trans man to make themselves more comfortable with me and its like? #when you call me 'trans masc' do you see me as a man like i said i am #or are you viewing me with ypur own interpretation of what you think i am and applying your own label to it #its so weird #just respect what people wanna be called #also braindead tr*nsph*bes dni idc about your opinions on this lmaooooo

[bioaccumulation]

As a trans person i think the worst gender envy i experience is towards my male cousin who is the spitting image of my father when he was his age. Why do i not get to be the young, handsome, better interpretation of my father when im the one whose had to live with the asshole my whole life. My cousin got my fathers looks and i got my fathers temper and mental illnesses

#although it should be said my dad is balding and hasnt looked good since he was 29 #so i guess only time will tell who gets the short end of the stick #i will also say i adore this cousin and he is the cousin i am closest too #if he's not a fanatastic ally he's a little bit gay or trans #ill probably tell him soon but he def knows im gay/trans whether he thinks im butch or nb or closested trans man idk but he has asked me #or i should say called me ''queen'' before and then said ''..or king?'' and i ofc said king and it brings me so much joy that he calls me #king now- like its the closest i have to a family member knowing im trans