#it shouldn't be this hard

[mayearies]

the amount of miles smut going around is ridiculous. he's a MINOR and you're writing about sexual acts between him and whoever, and you wonder why you're getting backlash? it doesn't matter if you age him up or whatever, you're still writing smut about a MINOR. you shouldn't even be thinking about sexual acts of him because he's only 15. HE STATED IT IN THE MOVIE. it literally goes for any minor in this movie. gwen, pavitr, spiderbyte, etc. the list goes on. it just proves on how much of a pervert someone is, actually. its bad enough that some people over 18 are writing smut about minors (thats full on pedophilia) but the fact that people are justifying it because they're his age? YOU'RE FEEDING PEOPLE WHAT THEY WANT. its creepy and disgusting. some of you people need to detach a little and come back to reality, cause this isn't acceptable. "bUt hE's fIcTiOnAL" who cares? smut shouldn't even be a thing in my opinion but you do you.

#this shit is exhausting #this shit is draining #it shouldn't be this hard #to simply not be disgusting #it shows what kind of person #you are too #miles morales #miles g morales #miles morales x reader #across the spiderverse #maye🧃 talks

[glbtrx]

Things I won’t accept at any cost in the new Eragon Show

Arya being a sweet girly girl again

Saphira having feathers

THE URGALS NOT BEING URGALS??

Eragon blonde. Like, just why.

Murtagh having a micro scar and not the giant scar on his back

For god's sake find a good actor for Galbatorix

DWARVES NOT BEING DWARVES???

Angela being a- a- I don't know what the heck she was? AND WHERE WAS SOLEMBUM

WHY WAS DURZA RIDING A SHADE DRAGON?

Let's say it again together, it's an E G G, EVERYONE who watchs this film KNOWS it's an egg and not a damned STONE

Just do a good work please

#it shouldn't be this hard #i promise #eragon #the inheritance cycle #christopher paolini

[futurefishy]

the horrors and miseries and agonies (internalising good advice)

or: the mortifying ordeal of not being immediately good at things

#why does drawing a picture make me feel like this it makes no sense #i want to draw my blorbos for fun without feeling like im in a saw trap is that too much to ask? #make bad art #art advice #im sorry kenzo lovelifedrawing i have failed you #how do i learn to stop ragequitting and just enjoy the process of learning #it shouldn't be this hard

[surreality51]

Tennis blorbo visa eligibility requirements: 

Be a really good tennis player. GOAT status not required, but just please please please don’t lose so much that I fall into a pit of despair

Drink your Respect Women juice regularly. Allegations of domestic abuse, sexual harassment, or supporting the views of misogynists like Andrew Tate are automatic disqualifiers.

Have a generally positive attitude. 

Don’t be a political conservative, Republican, COVID denier, or MAGA/Trump/fascism supporter

Respect the game and your opponents. Warnings will be issued for racket smashing, tantrums, and generally behaving like a whiny baby.

Getting called out by Sir Andy Murray with “nobody likes you” is an automatic disqualifier.

Please be prepared to present your credentials at the next available window. 

#tennis #why is this so hard #these are not high bars to clear #i feel like this is a very reasonable set of expectations #and yet #sigh #we've been spoiled by Roger and Rafa for the last 20 years #i only came in at the tail end of it so now i have to find a new blorbo after Rafa eventually retires #it shouldn't be this hard #ugh

[hashtag-xolo]

PSA: Faking Service Animals Has Lead to Medical and Psychiatric Providers Refusing to Accept Patients With Service Animals

I know a lot of people really don't see the harm in someone taking their pet into non pet friendly locations, especially if they tack a service dog patch onto the harness. The damages caused by these untrained dogs is numerous and a lot of people have discussed issues such as cleanliness/health dangers, (pets sniffling and licking food in grocery stores), property damage (pets urinating or defecating in stores, chewing on things out of fear) fear aggression from untrained animals leading to injuries of humans and legitimate service animals.

These damages and concerns impact housing for individuals with service animals and access into public places. It also impacts our ability to get treatment.

Let that sink in: even with telehealth appointments, medical professionals will try to avoid seeing patients with service animals simply to avoid the risk that they will be held liable if that service animal, even one they did not recommend, winds up being a fake. Even if the service animal has no bearing on the appointment. Even if it is illegal to discriminate. Because of fear of being held legally accountable for someone taking their pet where it doesn't belong.

Yes, this is illegal and an issue of poor education within the professional fields leading to discrimination. But it is being fueled by the problems caused by people faking a service animal, which is a federal offense (and often a state offense) for reasons like this. Your actions don't exist in a vacuum. The damages your pet caused make the simple act of getting a telehealth appointment a freaking pain just because someone is scared of being held legally accountable for a pet's actions.

Sincerely, someone who has been calling all morning just to get a telehealth appointment to get my medication bridged because people are too scared to see a patient with a service animal that has nothing to do with the conversation I'd have with the clinician anyways.

#fine to reblog #sorry if this isnt coherent im juat #so fucking done right now with this nonsense #it shouldn't be this hard #im not even going in person jfc #service dog #service dog community #discrimination #ableism #accessibility issues

[criticallyacclaimedstranger]

It took me three hours to wind a ball of yarn because the yarn got all tangled up into a holy mess.

That's it, I'm getting a skein winder. A modern one, not that vintage, huge wheel I have where you can't adjust for skein sizes.

#it shouldn't be this hard

[beesinspace]

Why is naming characters so hard 😣 😫

#beesinspace #oc #it shouldn't be this hard #oc talk #hate this almost as much as colour palettes lol

[kushanna]

kushanahime -> kushanna

let's see if i'm satisfied now or if i'll change it again in the next six months

#this is the fourth kushana username i'm attempting #it shouldn't be this hard #personal

[fangomusic]

Nine Albums: Female Britpop

Elastica, Elastica Sleeper, The It Girl Echobelly, On Lush, Lovelife Catatonia, Way Beyond Blue Kenickie, At The Club Dubstar, Disgraceful The Popguns, LoveJunky Republica, Republica

#female #female fronted band #britpop #elastica #sleeper #echobelly #lush #catatonia #kenickie #dubstar #the popguns #republica #it should be a thing #it shouldn't be this hard #uk #90s #90s rock #90s music

[killerandhealerqueen]

Got rejected from another job opportunity...

#sass talks #it's just so hard #it shouldn't be this hard #and i swear to god #if i hear another person say that no one wants to work anymore... #i'm actively either going to drop kick or throat punch a person #i'm more than qualified for like 95% of the jobs that i apply to #i just don't have experience because i was in school since i was fucking 3 #BUT HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO GET EXPERIENCE IF I DON'T FUCKING GET HIRED FOR A JOB?! #RIDDLE ME THAT #anyways #if you need me #i'm going to go watch some jacksepticeye and try not to want to murder someone

[thundergrace]

So on the way out of the global top 10 it got 6,950,000 million more hours of viewing.

I guess the point of concern is the '(-62%)'. I've seen it said a few times recently that shows that drop more than -50% rarely get renewed. But I've not seen it said that it never happens. I also can't recall what the time frame was there -like what was the window for how long it would be ideal to keep the loss above -50%.

If it was the first two weeks, June 10th - June 24th, it may be okay. But that number will keep increasing throughout the remainder of the first 30 days, so I'm concerned about that.

Like I keep saying, it always looks like it can go either way because Netflix is merciless. I'm just hoping it's cheap enough to make that it's considered a good enough of an investment with the numbers it's gotten, which still appear impressive to me and about as good as - if not better than- Netflix could've been expecting with such a niche show, a smaller target audience and sandwiched between some heavy hitters.

So we'll see soon if it was sabotage with the scheduling or if they were always going to keep the scheduling in mind when making a decision about renewal.

#they'll probably cancel just to see how powerful the demand is in the backlash #there is no bottom #they can always go lower with their tactics #first kill #it shouldn't be this hard #every fucking time

[frozenhi-chews]

Me: kay I've got my tablet, I've got stuff done and a video is playing, time to work on some art-

Art Block: Hmm? What was that?

Me: THIS DOESN'T COUNT, I NEED TO WORK ON COMMISSIONS

#so sorry its taking a while #it shouldn't be this hard #im working trust meeeeee #the cake doth speak

[beemintty]

Sometimes when you have so many options you end up picking nothing, paralysed by your indecision.

#yr 12 is a nightmare #when did picking a direction become so hard! #why can't i choose a uni course! #it shouldn't be this hard #i was so certain before #and now? #i can't breathe #what do i choose #whats right? #my thoughts #poetry #thoughts #on life #quotes #academic validation #school #exams #exam season #the future #its scary

[screaming--agony]

Dear Diary,

Losing respect for someone is worse than being upset with someone. Upset has the opportunity to overcome an issue. Respect reflects character. I'm no longer upset, I've lost respect. But I wish you the best.

#dear diary #heart vs mind #numb #weight of the world #friends break hearts too #losing respect #disappointment #respect reflects character #i'm tired of mind games #it shouldn't be this hard #baffled #i don't understand #anxiety #under my skin #struggling #series of unfortunate events #mind boggled #insecure #i want honesty #the small things matter #i wish you the best

[torturedpoetsdpmt]

ugh I know that it's not their fault, but I get irrationally annoyed when I see people talking about how they went to multiple shows when I'm struggling to get just ONE ticket to ONE show

#like pls #I'm happy for you and your 6 shows #but god #it shouldn't be this hard #I knew it was doomed the minute I didnt get verified fan #anyways lmk if you need me to take an 8/3 or 8/4 LA ticket off your hands

[fitzfunnymoments]

Working on my Little Robots US dub video and I have no idea how people manage to do videos like this I literally got like 3 lines recorded and then had a panic attack because my voice dysphoria got so bad </3

#fitz's cursed thoughts #I'm okay now don't worry #it shouldn't be this hard #I straight up have no idea how people do these types of videos </3 #I mean maybe it's because not everyone hates their voice as much as I do #but it's the dysphoria on top of the fact that youtube instantly detects my voice as a child's voice no matter what #and then turns off the comments no matter how many times I turn them back on #like??? if my voice was at least deep enough to the point that i didn't sound like I'm 10 maybe I wouldn't hate it so much lol