#kinda gender actually

[teddybeartoji]

i know we talked abt toji who's bad with technology but.... i can't stop thinking abt him taking pics like tom hardy in his myspace era

#does anyone see my vision #PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS #this is MY toji #need to pay sb to draw toji like this #the right picture is my favourite pic of all time #might get it tatted on me actually #also i love tom hardy #he's so cool #like look at this mf #kinda gender actually #like how do i become this #need to be him #wait the more i sit here with this post the more i keep thinking abt how similar they are #sexy ass big men who are comfortable with their sexualities #the famous “i'm an actor ofc i've had gay sex before” quote tells you everything i think #they're the same #obsessed with this thank you mickey #will be thinking abt them for the rest of the day now #mickey vs gender #7 - 12 #toji

[autisticaradiamegido]

day 343

none of your fuckin business dude

#day 343 #year 4 #sollux captor #karkat vantas #kanaya maryam #aradia and terezi in the bg but im not gonna bother actually tagging them for this one just to avoid spamming their tags #homestuck #anyway sollux being invited to girls night is honestly less of a gender thing and more of a All The Girls Just Kinda Think Hes Neat thing #but its also a little bit of a gender thing #regardless he has determined karkat isnt ready for that conversation yet #whatever karkats literally just jealous anyway

[offkilterkeys]

The world isn’t ready for my alpha kid readings.

#jane crocker #jake english #roxy lalonde #dirk strider #homestuck #alpha kids #Jane is the struggler don’t you EVER contest that #many might argue it’s Jake but he doesn’t struggle inherently #usually he just vibes until he’s forced into situations wherein he struggles #Jane struggles from the beginning #her entire arc is a struggle #also had to change it from “the fujoshi” mostly cause I don’t like that and also cause it’s not as versatile as the other labels #I don’t actually think Dirk is boring btw i just think that when put up against his friends he has a lot less complexity going on #like his arc is fairly simple as opposed to Jane and Jake’s #and even Roxy’s #His problems seem inherently a lot more straight forward to me simply because he’s articulate enough to realize he has problems #Jane and Jake are almost there #problems are like on the tip of their tongues #and Roxy is kinda like the John of the team where she isn’t even gonna acknowledge the possibility of problems #girl is like “problems? haha not me #I’m the put together one in this group :)” #and just ignores all her internalized misogyny and heteronormativity #she is a mirror to Vriska in that they both put a lot of emphasis on preforming romanticism as a means of affirming their gender #anyway my alpha kid readings are way too boring so I feel like nobody would really be interested in them Sighhhh

[m-for-now]

As someone who is genderfae (microlabel under genderfluid), I have a lot of different experiences with gender.

I just wish someone told me sooner that it won't go like "today I'm a girl" "today I'm an enby" but more like ,,, "today I am a swamp witch" "today I am a feminine victorian vampire boy" "today I am a forest goblin collecting people's stares about my gender expression like shiny rocks on the ground" "today I'm an androgynous pirate lady"

Like,,, sure, are those real genders? I don't fucking now. If a cisgender person asked me what I identify as that day, would I answer like that? No, definitely not.

But to my genderqueer, trans and genderfluid friends; do you get me? I can't be alone with this, right?

#genderfluid #genderfae #gender expression #genderqueer #transgender #nonbinary #queer #questioning my gender yet again #gender crisis #gender #my gender soup has so many flavours you don't understand #i needed to explain to my friend that when i say i want to dress like the cutest victorian inspired goth vampire prince #it's not actually a male gender #like.. you would really think it is #but that is a very nonbiney gender somehow #don't ask me how #or maybe it does count as male? #but the femininest androgynous male you can think of #like cute pretty let me giggle like a little girl kinda feminine #i don't even know if half of these things make sense #“why don't you just say girl or enby” #because moon witch dark cottagecore female isn't the same #as go out in the sun and enjoy the breeze i command a ship androgynous pirate lady female #anyways

[punkeropercyjackson]

"This is the gender fuckery and cis+ website"You guys can't even handle trans people who don't want to physically transition

#no because this literally ruined my first best friendship after i grew up friendless my whole life💀she sxually harrased me with bodyshaming #and the worst part is that it wasn't even her saying i'll never be a man i'm bigender and super femme and THAT'S why i want to stay afab #but she refused to understand me!!!she expected my femininity to be the same as a cisgirls and my manhood the same as binary trans dudes' #i explained my gender SO MANY TIMES and she used 'she' 'accidentally' even though her fuckass also called me 'a girl in a he/him kinda way' #she saw my bigenderness and genderfluidity as a fucking joke instead of who i actually am just because i don't want t or surgeries bc gnc #and i told her both those things too but here we are!!BE NORMAL ABOUT TRANS PEOPLES BODIES AND STOP BEING A DICK EVEN IF YOU'RE ALSO TRANS #trans #transgender #transmasc #transmasculine #bigender #genderfluid #trans men #demigirl #ftm #transfem #trans women #nonbinary #agender #demiboy #transneutral #transmascfem #black femme #genderqueer #xenogender #catgender #dragongender #ghostgender #💌 #summerposting

[asterbats]

finished the chimera ant arc today. this is how i'm coping

#merukomu #komugi #meruem #hunter x hunter #hxh #chimera ant arc #did i need to keep the boobs? yeah #i dont think meruem cares abt gender roles btw or anything hes a bug who eats people #starry arts #i might make actual fanart of komugi at least........ iim kinda obsessed with her

[harbingersecho]

i risk my life just to exist in this world. i'm not someone you can mess with.

#guilty gear #guilty gear strive #gg testament #guilty gear xx #guilty gear testament #art #testament #*23 #mine #the epitome of gender envy btw. #its like they were tailor made for my liking. #the day testament was announced for strive was both a day of grief and celebration. on one hand testament. on the other... victorian goth #sorry i hate victorian goth. its overrated. #someone mistook sierra for testament and it reminded me to actually draw them #i kinda wanna buy him for strive but last time i played it i had to wait 40+ mins for a fucking lobby? it was weekend evening. how. #tbf it was a year ago so maybe the lobby situation on ps is better. i gotta check it sometime

[atomicpirateperson]

so I realized that around this time of the year is already past my 1 year anniversary of being hyperfixated on Rob?? time flies

this is the timeline of how it happened according to some vague memories:

1. i happen to see some random video of The Rerun on like, YouTube I think

2. me: hmm i think that one eyed guy is giving some real gender envy– wait. oh no. its happening. he's the new Chosen One, isn't he

3. im not hyperfixated im not hyperfixated im not–

4. I AM SO FUCKING HYPERFIXATED I LOVE ROB FROM TAWOG HE MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME!!!!!!

5. rob is a major part of my life and my headspace now. i couldn't stop if I tried, because some part of my brain views him as an actual close friend, and therefore abandoning this hyperfixation would feel extremely cruel. i would never do that to him and therefore he will be my imaginary bestie/adoptive son forever. i will never grow out of it. i am perfectly okay with that

#its always been gender envy that gets me hyperfixated on a character. like i dont think its ever been anything else lmao #and by his gender i mean the fact hes kinda just a Funky Creature Thing Whose Species We Cannot Quite Identify. that is the gender #this actually might be the longest character hyperfixation ive had so far... he really is the Chosen One #i used to watch this show when i was in elementary school but i didnt have access to every episode #so maybe thats why i have no memory of him from when i was that young? #or maybe seeing him in that video unknowingly gave me deja vu which is another reason why he initially caught my attention? #5 or 6 years later... the irrelevant forgettable side character from that one weird cartoon crawls out of the deep recesses of my brain #and ends up living in my head rent free #for over a year #and he shows no signs of moving out anytime soon #top 5 comebacks of this past decade-and-a-half (my life) #this is so weirdly poetic in a kinda fucked up but also funny way #wow this whole post is basically just me screaming “I HAVE AUTISM” over and over #rob tawog #tawog #the amazing world of gumball #tawog rob #dr wrecker

[kiraman]

are people aware of the fact that Mizu is not canonically in any way shape or form.............. queer....bi.....

(quick note here because reading comprehension stays dead and people may not read the tag novel: I want bi Mizu! I hc her as bi! I love sapphic Mizu)

#Yall are not ready for this take but.......boy....... #can we like praise the show for all its wonderfulness without Proclaiming it a REVOLUTION for the LGBT com. before it actually earns it #It's a thought....... #No one wants bi Mizu more than me trust me but it's just not canon yet. Gender exploration has not gone There #we can meta and we can HC and we can analyse. But it's SUBTEXT #But actually full on praising it for .... something that it's just not there yet is wild to me #A sapphic AF woman #I GET IT. All I write is bi Mizu &Mizu/ladies but it's not canon yet! And if we get it great if we don't oh well! #I'm just saying that...you can't praise a show for what Might happen. That's all 🧘🏻‍♀️💙 #Blue eye samurai is wonderful for so MANY other reasons #Stop giving it credit it has not earned #this is totally open to discussion and non confrontational btw❣️ #if anything the only thing you can kinda give them rep for is Taigen getting a hard on for someone he thinks is a man and STILL... #blue eye samurai #bes mizu #and before anyone comes at me swinging I don't ship ta*zu. that's not at all my point.

[lycorisamaryllis]

so i got into stardew and really like the writer guy. thus i gave him a new outfit and put him in the woods

#my kinda guy is elegant and fashionable #gender envy yk #i actually made this as a second attempt from a shared canvas #this version is a lot better honestly #digital art #digital illustration #digital artwork #digital artist #stardew valley #stardew fanart #sdv elliott #stardew elliott

[pillowprincessvarric]

It is honestly crazy how on this website you'll just get like, random terfs trying to convert you to protestantism on your posts

#i don't have a god shaped hole in me actually. well i mean i kinda do but not in the way you mean it & my holes r none of your business #and i don't believe that having yr first period in a gender neutral bathroom would be traumatic. drown yourself.

[oceanwithouthermoon]

its crazy to me how people sometimes see kusuo and kusuo transformed as kuriko/kusuko as like.. different people but not ??

im not sure how to phrase it but like.. i once saw fanart of kuriko being shipped with one of the boys and then she transforms back into kusuo and the guy lets go of her and is like "ew.." LIKE BRO WHAT😭

what do u mean u ship kusuo as a girl with someone but not kusuo as a boy.. are YOU being homophobic or do you think the character is homophobic?? either way, what ???

#ive seen this in fics a couple of times but the fanart really got me cuz it was like rlly good art too #its like seeing a genderfluid person as a different person depending on how masc/fem they feel that day #like if u date them are u gonna say ur straight and then not be dating them on whatever days they dont feel like the opposite gender #im ngl not to be dramatic but the fanart made me really sad LMAO #like it feels like.. angsty.. for kusuo #OMG IT REMINDS ME OF MY WIP FIC #OF 'KURIKO' AND AREN WHERE KUSUO DOESNT TELL AREN ITS HIM #maybe thats why it feels sad to me but it just kinda is sad #like imagine being a gay guy but u look like a girl at some point and a guy likes u #but then finds out ur a boy and they're like 'yuck!' #thats so satousai core actually #saiki k #tdlosk #the disastrous life of saiki k. #saiki kusuo #meows post

[oneiroy]

ok just a very simple gpose but i wanted to show bc i'm super exited about having ported the gapped teeth to ryss's asym face, and also about giving her a lil bit of stubble.....

the stubble is only for occasional use, but i do think ryss fluctuates on the, let's say butch spectrum, and leans more heavily to the masc side at times!! she can never grow full facial hair, but sometimes she can get a lil bit of stubble :)

it's not super visible in gposes (somehow more in game actually...) and the textures are not super hq, but i tried my best using textures made for male miqos oTL

#ryssrael #adult label for chest just to be safe....... #she is just so!! gender!!!!!! #having managed to put a bit of facial hair on her actually brings so much joy #and the teeth too!!!!! #ngl. was kinda bugging me that she had perfect straight teeth #there was no good reason for that LMAO

[wrathofrats]

Also btw adding onto the no one posting about the ghoulettes thing, isolating them from the other ghouls also isn’t fun. Some people treat them like their own entire separate entity, as if they’re not even in the same band and it’s kinda annoying as hell LMAO. Let the ghoulettes hang out with the ghouls idk why we love to act like men and women can’t hang out???

#reminder that writing quote unquote straight sex is ok. #opposite gender smut is ok and valid some of yall are kinda strange ngl #this is a whole debate tho #but yall can actually write sub women with dom men the world won’t end!!! I promise!! #i digress

[spacephobos]

thinking about how jaime and cersei used to dress up as each other as kids. and how they looked so similar they're own father couldnt tell them apart.

they were probably so confused when they began growing up and no longer looked completely identical.

i think its so interesting though. like a lot of characters are explored through the lens of gender and gender roles in asoiaf and cersei and jaime are so fascinating to me in the way they fit into that.

as children they were a pair an identical set. and then they grew. and then the second they reached past the age of adolescent androgyny they were both forced into their respective gender roles.

it mustve been so confusing for cersei who grew up genuinly believing she and jaime were one and the same, two halves of a whole to be treated so much lesser than him. to be no longer his twin. but instead his twin sister.

she talks about the difference in the way theyre treated as kids but imagine just how much more shocking and awful it must be to have to watch as your twin who was once your literal carbon copy gets told all about his future freedom and prospects whilst you are forced into preparing for you future as a housewife at age like? 12?

#nurse help hes thinking about the lanniaters again #cersei lannister #jaime lannister #asoiaf #kind of a ramble #asoiaf meta #kinda? #asoiaf is a story about the horrors of gender roles actually

[judastarkid]

stephanie lauter is for sure some kind of genderqueer with how little she cares about shit like “boys room/girls room”… genderfuckyou

#stephanie lauter #starkid #nerdy prudes must die #npmd #i feel like she’d start using she/they pronouns out of spite #and then realize its kinda nice to not have gender expectations #and then realize she’s actually really vibing in this #like. she already dresses how she wants to #this is just an internal alignment to realize smth #just a headcanon #i speak