#suicide baiting mention

[just-antithings]

gotta say it makes me deeply uneasy when the notes under a post that admittedly was making a very bad, ill-informed take are filled with people telling the op to kill themselves or to hurt themselves. it’s alarming to me how normalized that’s become

#mod erin #just asshole things #suicide baiting mention #self harm mention

[valcaira]

"Empaths" be like:

"I'm such an empath!! I'm such a good person who would never abuse anyone and I'm literally an angel on earth because I can sense the ✨energy✨ of others!!!! Live Laugh Love!!!!! Anyway that's why I want every single narcissist to die a horrible death and rot away in prisons and be segregated from soceity and be abused and kill themselves and I love speading hate about people with a specific subset of mental illness that they cannot control. Look how much of a pure and loving empath I am!!!!!!"

#kill bite maim #ableism #sanism #empath #empathy #narcissistic abuse #npd #cluster b #hypoempathy #no empathy #narc abuse #suicide baiting mention #hypocrisy #mental illness

[syscourse-confessions]

💙- Vent. TW suicide baiting mention, lots of cussing. Replies of any kind OK, idc just need to put this out there

We're a DID system, professionally diagnosed. And we just need to get this off our chest - The DID/OSDD is the single most toxic, hateful, exclusionary, and controlling community we've ever interacted with. That includes communities for every other demographic we occupy (queer, autistic, personality disorder, etc) and every single subculture / fandom we've been apart of as well. .

First of all, the anti-endo shit. Despite being [partially] traumagenic and heavily disordered, we're passionately supportive of endos. And oh boy you better believe that means we get excluded and harassed right away. We've been told to kill ourselves, been told we're lying about our diagnosis and trauma, been told we deserved our trauma, that they hope it happens again, etc. All for the crime of *checks notes* believing that people can determine their own subjective, internal experiences :|

Pretty much all other forms of syscourse are awful too. The fact that there's been entire blogs on here dedicated to trying to spot fakers. The fact that having too many alters or fictives, or not having enough, or not being able to afford a diagnosis, or having weird system experiences, can all get your fakeclaimed. The fact that now people are debating over whether or not OSDD-1a "counts" as a system.

The entire community is absolutely obsessed with controlling how others identify and what qualifies as being a system. They attempt to put boundaries around how severe your trauma has to be, or what age the trauma happens at. They're genuinely willing to look a trauma survivor in the face and say, "Well actually, since your trauma happened when you were 10 years old its impossible for you to be a system, teehee sorry, your own internal experiences don't matter <3".

They think that psychiatrists are the be-all-end-all of every neurodivergent experience Ever, despite how psychiatry has historically been wildly racist, sexist, queerphobic, and just generally suppresses people who don't fit into the norm.

They also try to dictate what recovery looks like for literally everyone, that you should want final fusion. Or if they're ok with functional multiplicity, that you should want to have as few alters as possible, and that they all have to be as normal as possible. Introjects are told that being close to their source is inherently anti-recovery. Every kind of system experience is treated as inherently pathological and something that should be fixed.

And yeah, I know that this obviously not applicable to everyone in the community. Some of these statements are relatively niche arguments, but they're all real ones I've actually seen people debating over. And more importantly, the community fosters these kinds of shitty awful takes because the entire community is built around control and exclusion. It keeps getting taken further and further entire more and more systems are being squeezed out, and only the few Acceptable systems remain.

Thank god we have the plural community, which obviously has it problems too, but the DID/OSDD community is so vitriolic, so vicious towards the "wrong kind" of trauma survivors, and so exclusionary that it is entirely antithetical to recovery and healing as a system. Its so fucking awful, and I hate it more than anything.

💙 - Vent

#syscourse #syscourse confessions #suicide mention #suicide bait mention #suicide baiting mention

[evilwriter37]

I know the tumblr abuse team sucks, but wow, people are just allowed to make jokes about suicide baiting now, huh?

Fuck you, tumblr.

#tumblr nonsense #suicide baiting mention

[brettdoesdiscourse]

Also, if you want people to listen to the point you're making in a conversation, wishing violence and death doesn't do that.

The only thing you've done is,

1) Give people who disagree with you an easy out by saying, "oh this person is unwell anyway, they're actively wishing violence on others. Why should we listen to them?"

2) Discourages people who are willing to hear your point out because they're not comfortable supporting/agreeing with a message that includes wishes of violence.

3) Pushes away people who agree with you because they also don't support a message encouraging violence.

Online, if you're actually trying to change minds or educate people, you need to make your point accessible and something people are willing to support.

And most the time, people say shit like this and get called out for making threats will scream, "but I didn't actually mean it!!" Then why say it. Why threaten someone, and make your argument less valid, just for something you didn't mean? And why do you feel so comfortable threatening violence that you're randomly throwing it into your posts?

#suicide baiting mention #suicide baiting tw #threats mention #threats tw #social discourse #discourse #discourse about discourse #pro ship #pro ship safe #brett does discourse

[oncforallxbroccoli]

Random Asks (always accepting) || anonymous asksed:

Izuku, if you had taken 14-year old Bakugo’s advice that fateful day to jump off the roof, do you think he would have mourned you? Regretted his actions?

"I... I don't know if he would have mourned, but I'd like to think he'd regret his actions. Especially since if I did jump -- he would've gotten in trouble for bullying me into suicide." And that would've heavily affected his chances of being a hero.

#suicide baiting tw #suicide baiting mention #{ i'll do my best; (ic) } #{ broccoli boy answers your questions; (answered) } #{ more mysterious than broccoli; (anon) }

[revenant-coining]

re tumblr brackets: as a fictive of something pretty popular people get REALLY NASTY about the opposing side in an "unfair" bracket and it's hard to watch, I've seen people call for suibaiting people who vote the more popular option or going on long tirades of victim blaming over the "character" (me)'s personal trauma. please help /lh

eck sorry that's happening 2 u. fandom spaces can be so. weird to put it lightly sometimes :/

#anon #suibaiting mention #suicide baiting mention #🪼 asks

[sorin-sunchild]

I think we need to understand that it's not just trans feminine people that need protection advice. Every single trans* person, regardless of gender and presentation, should learn how to protect themselves and be supported in doing that. You never know when you're going to cross paths with someone that looks at you and decides this is the day you get hurt. Not because you're a trans woman or a trans man or nonbinary specifically but because you're not cis (or at least, don't look it, since even slightly gnc people get badly treated by these kinds of people too). It could be a couple of women who decide you're not woman enough so it's fine to harass you in the street for presenting as one. It could be the man who lays his hands on you because you're still actually a woman no matter how much you transition and that's how he treats women.

It could be the online harassment campaign to get you fired because obviously identifying as a woman now makes you a predator. It's the person who decided to rape you because you still have a vagina and that's how you'll be 'brought to your senses'. It's the thousands of messages telling you to kys that accumulate in actually being doxxed, followed and threatened for not existing as the gender or presentation they want you to. If we stand together, if we give everyone the tools to protect themselves, we can start fighting back.

#transunity #trans #transgender #rape mention #suicide baiting mention #violence mention #hate crime mention

[just-antithings]

Why do antis' complaints always have the same misleading slant to them? They always go "I was attacked for saying I don't like (x problematic thing)" and then every time, them "not liking problematic things" was always them screaming "unalive yourself" at someone who wrote it and getting told en masse that's not okay to say. They either can't conceive that you can dislike something w/o telling enjoyers to KTS or they know full well what they did wrong but can't deal with the possibility of losing their victimhood

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#mod erin #ask #just anti things #suicide baiting mention

[strebcrarchives]

If you suicide bait people via anon then you my dude are a fucking loser. Idk what else to tell ya, go outside and touch some fucking grass.

#Just a dandy pineapple in space #suicide baiting #suicide baiting mention #This is directed at an anon I saw on the dash

[transfaabulous]

I tried to explain patiently and politely to someone why telling people to commit suicide was unacceptable and they responded simply by saying "nerd" so I called them a cunt, told them to fuck off, and blocked them.

I am still furious. How the fuck is this acceptable behavior. I explained to them that suicide baiting actually literally leads to people's commiting suicide. I explained to them that people go to prison for suicide baiting. I explained to them that this isn't fun and games, that this is a serious thing and that I find it horrific that it's become so normalized that telling other people to kill themselves doesn't register as actually telling other people to kill themselves.

TELLING SOMEONE THAT THEY SHOULD GO KILL THEMSELVES IS SUICIDE BAITING. YOU ARE LITERALLY TELLING THEM TO COMMIT SUICIDE. THAT IS SUICIDE BAITING.

I remember back when every few months we'd get yet another headline about how yet another person was driven to suicide due to suicide baiting. I told them this.

And none of that matters because apparently I lost any moral standing the moment I showed that I cared about making sure people didn't get driven to suicide. Sure showed me. Worthless fucking cunt. Hope that one day you'll look back at this and feel so ashamed of your behavior that you feel sick for a month. I hope the feeling rots inside you. I hope you have to live with this shame for the rest of your miserable fucking life. You're 23 years old and you still act like this? Fuck you. Why don't you log off and see how well this behavior gets tolerated when you have to fact actual consequences for your actions.

#c'est moi #negative #suicide baiting mention #text post

[syscourse-confessions]

as a traumagenic system who was harassed, fake claimed, and suicide baited im so sick of anti-endos acting like their community has done no wrong and its all those horrible pro-endos making trauma survivors unsafe

pro-endos didn't mock our trauma, pro-endos didn't try and force us to use language that increased our dissociation and intrusive thoughts, pro-endos didn't fucking send us suicide bait and gore.

we have been driven out of spaces and made unsafe by anti-endos so many more times than pro-endos and none of them will acknowledge that their community could ever harm anyone whose traumagenic.

they constantly talk about how horrible shared spaces are meanwhile we'll likely never be comfortable in a traumagenic only spaces again after the hell that anti-endos have put us through in them before

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#syscourse #syscourse confessions #suicide mention #suicide bait mention #suicide baiting mention

[evilwriter37]

Heads up: there’s a user named @/gandalfyaoi making suicide baiting jokes in the HTTYD fandom. I reported their post finally (reporting was broken this morning.) Hopefully it gets taken down.

#suicide baiting mention #I came upon it so suddenly and it was distressing

[brettdoesdiscourse]

Even if you don't tell people to kill themselves, if you foster a place where people feel comfortable doing that (example: posting asks where someone tells someone to over a specific reason and agreeing with the sentiment while not calling it out), you're just as bad.

#discourse #social discourse #suicide baiting mention #suicide baiting tw #brett does discourse

[genderqueeradrien]

#text #spirals cw #suicide baiting mention #discourse

[tooattached2fictionalcharacters]

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@softasawhisper

3. screenshot or description of the worst take you've seen on tumblr

Oh lawd. I've uh...been on tumblr since 2011 via other blogs. I'm not sure I could say the worst take I've seen if my life depended on it. Mainly because I really try to forget when someone did a dumb, and also because my memory doesn't like to hang onto important shit let alone that xD but probably anything that sums up to 'if you don't agree with this xyz fanon idea that is in no way some human rights violation, go die/kill yourself'. Like, I saw way too much of that kind of harassment in years past. Like the burnbook blogs?? Touch grass if that's how anyone sees fandom, I beg of you. 0.0

6. which ship fans are the most annoying?

Any that stick the 'opposing' ship in said opposing ship's tag just to rankle the other shippers. It's not relevant to your post, you just want to be a dick. Plz stop.

8. common fandom opinion that everyone is wrong about

I think there is a large chunk of the fandom that finds Karen boring and I kindly ask what, my good dude, the fuck are you on about.

13. worst blorboficiation

Any time I see feminization of Frank I immediately just blue screen of death, stop all processing, does not compute.

19. you're mad/ashamed/horrified you actually kind of like…

What am I- still catholic? There is no shame in what I like around here. 😋

22. your favorite part of canon that everyone else ignores

I like Elektra because she's complex and human and flawed, but everyone acts as though she is somehow not also a product of her trauma, same as Matt, and honestly can't stand that.

#tagg inbox #apologies for being a sloth and taking forever to respond 😶 #suicide baiting mention