also in my unlisted youtube videos. major gender moment when i did holden caulfield closet cosplay and filmed a fake vlog for a high school project. singlehandedly launched the classics as vlogs trend.
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Made a transadult oc :D
Trans age:25(bodily a minor)
transid:Transhousewife,transginger(they dye their hair with permission of her parents),transmom and transmarried
Pronouns:she/her/they/them
Sexuality:demiaroace and biromantic
(Might remove this?)Para:transmap/map or aam
Though she might be Transhousewife she wants to get a job and work hard for her partner
-pup and sappho
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@gingerhaze does not know me at all. I cannot claim to be their biggest fan, even though I love darn near everything of theirs I've ever seen. I can't write as much fanfic as a tribute to their work as some of the other people in the various fandoms, I can't claim to have followed them for all that long on social media, but somehow they've made me a better person and accepted myself more than damn near anything else.
They wrote Adora in SPOP so well that I saw myself in her and helped me find out just exactly the kind of woman I actually am. (...and led me to the community that would help me find the words for it and the love and acceptance that I'd never had in my life.)
When Nate fully embraced being publicly transmasc and told the world their new name, the gentle way they told their story and said the words, "I love that our biology is malleable," and a scared little girl inside me answered, "Please don't make me go back!" I was finally able to start truly healing enough to not only accept masculinity in the world, and just in time to fall in love with my own transmasc NB possible life partner. (I'll know for sure in October, I think, but so far we're holding on tight until we get there.)
And today I watched Nimona with my daughter, like I promised I would (Thanks for the catch on a good birthday gift for my kiddo, Nate! ADHD made it so I completely spaced when her birthday was, so whether you knew it or not, you had my back). My wonderful teenager who came to her "transmom" (her word for me) to ask what a lesbian was when she was too scared to go to her "biological mom" (the mother who carried her for 9 months), who told me she wants to be goth, then punk, then just make art, then be a Youtuber. (She's pretty sure she's not trans or NB, and she knows she's in a safe space to explore that with me, and she keeps saying that she isn't sure if she's straight or gay, but I'm pretty sure with her desire to wear a suit and take her best friend to prom, plus her very short haircut she got for her birthday that I'm raising a lil' butch lesbian...who's not going to be 'lil' for much longer, given she's already taller than her granny)
And (avast, spoilers ahead) when Nimona was feeling lost and alone and like the world was doing its damndest to kill her and she had been made 'the bad guy' and had so many things go wrong and I could only see when I was homeless and my van blew its coolant system all over me giving me third-degree burns in the middle of a desert where the nighttime temperatures never dipped below 93F and I was in shock and knew that everything I had ever fought for to hold on to something good in my life had just nearly blown my hand off and there was a bridge over a busy freeway only a few minutes walk away and all I had to do was make it over the railing...
...and my girlfriend held me back. (No, not the transmasc NB, I'm poly, get with the times, people, it's the 21st century and we invented the Internet, you have no excuse)
And when Ballister held Nimona back, I cried, and I was SO glad my daughter was so transfixed with the movie 'cause she missed me healing YET AGAIN because of Nate's work. When the credits were over (or, more accurately, we wound up back at the Netflix screen 'cause the interface to just finish watching the credits didn't work), I made my way into the bedroom and my girlfriend didn't even see me yet and said, "Are you crying?!" and I hugged her and kissed the top of her head and hugged her and she said, "You ARE crying!" in that amused and loving and exasperated way she gets when I get all emotional.
Thank you, Nate.
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Desperately hurting for dinner tonight, if anyone's willing to part with 17$ please do consider tossing it to my kofi page.
Help keep a transmom fed.
(Kofi)
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It is HOT today at the zoo! More muggy actually. Can’t even hide from it under the canopy of these trees. But the kids love it so I must keep on pulling this wagon with two toddlers while wearing a giant backpack full of food and water for these little bottomless stomachs! To the giraffes! And yes I’m still around just been prioritizing my kids and then my rental properties. You do you ___________________________________________#momlife #momlifebelike #summertime #summer #milwaukeezoo #sweatingmyassoff #tanktopwars #girlsinhats #liveauthentic #girlslikeus #lgbt #thisiswhattranslookslike #lgbtq #transmom #hotsummerdays https://www.instagram.com/p/CS95IuNHNnZ/?utm_medium=tumblr
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