coquetterockgirl

[coquetterockgirl]

I started working part time in an accounting department when I was 19. I still work there and all my favorite coworkers are 40+

We go out together and eat lunch together, we celebrate birthdays together. I enjoy their company and I’m pretty sure they enjoy mine.

We lead very different lives but I think that’s an asset and not a complication. They offer insight to my struggles that no one my age could, they just have more life experience. They’ve been where I am. At the same time I can help them understand their kids, offer my own experiences and how I felt a couple years ago. I help them figure out good gifts for their younger relatives and they help me when I’m looking for gifts for my mom.

Don’t automatically shut yourself off from people who are older or younger than you. Proceed with caution and stay aware but in most cases I think befriending people outside of your immediate peer group can be a very good thing. You absolutely don’t have to and maybe I’m biased because I’ve always gotten along better with older people, but don’t rule it out on principle.

Regular life is not segregated by age and don’t I think online spaces should be. But! as i said proceed with caution and stay aware in online spaces.

Age gap discourse is surreal to me because social circles being limited by age is very much just something for when you're in school. Even in college, you can be in classes with people 20+ years older than you, especially in community colleges with people getting degrees "later" in life.

People in their late teens and early 20s are coworkers with people in their 40s and 50s. If you join community groups or clubs, you'll probably meet people decades older than you. Your neighbors probably won't be the same age you are. Neither will everyone at the bars or cafes you frequent. It's totally normal to meet someone much older or younger than you and hit it off as an adult because real life is not segregated by age.

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#growing out a buzzcut #looking very anakin elisode III

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smash your head into a wall friday

#vibes

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No because why is he so fine. Like actually what the hell.

I would do literally anything for him.

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#10% luck #20% skill #15% concentrated power of will #5% pleasure #50% pain #and #100% reason to remember the name

[coquetterockgirl]

this is what makes us girlbloggers

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#me at 12 #now i just play 4d chess against myself

[coquetterockgirl]

I am doll parts,bad skin, doll heart

[coquetterockgirl]

✨ew✨

#coquette #girlblogging #lizzy grant #lily rose depp #alana champion #gaslighting gatekeep girlboss #girly things #manic pixie dream girl #girlhood #the virgin suicides #brandy melville #my edit #girlblogger #bella hadid

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yo wtf girl

maybe id care about anya taylor joy if she got fat and brunette

[coquetterockgirl]

i made this, ya’ll better appreciate it

#coquette #girlblogging #cool girl #daddy's good girl #lily rose depp #lizzy grant #vintage #girl interrupted #alana champion #the virgin suicides #manic pixie dream girl #female manipulator #gaslighting gatekeep girlboss #girly things #girlhood

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[coquetterockgirl]

sunny afternoon, white wine spritz, american psycho 🖤🤘🏻

what more could a girl want?

#cottage aesthetic #actual cottage #girlblogging #rock girl #coquette #cottage garden #rose garden #american psycho #brett easton ellis

[coquetterockgirl]

#dave vanian #me at 8:30 dragging myself out of bed and to the coffee maker

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loved her baby face 💛

i 🩵 her

#lily rose depp

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#girlblogging #my vibe honestly #cool girl #coquette