Favorite thing about renaissance faires is that they have fuck all to to with the renaissance. This thang is not about historical anything this is about dressing up like a fairy and watching a joust
Indigenous peoples of the great plains should've never told white people about tornadoes. "I don't know man that shit never happened before you showed up"
Yknow what fuck this, I’m queer and I’m trans and that’s all the general public gets from me. If you wanna talk deeper about it we can but like. Labels suck !!! And they don’t work for me !!!
The Fear of calling myself nonbinary is so very there
Like. I’m not a man. I’m so not a man, but I want to be seen as close to being a man without technically being one as possible.
I do technically fall into the “nonbinary” category. Calling myself a man feels,, incorrect. But I’m obviously also not a woman, or anywhere near it. But like.
If I call myself nonbinary, if I keep my hair long, if I keep dressing how I do, people are gonna default to calling me a woman or call me they/them at best. Which is also not for me:
People will strip me of my masculinity because that’s not what “nonbinary” is to them. Nonbinary to most people is basically just “AGAB with a little flavor” and I hate that. I don’t wanna be treated that way.
There is so much transphobia around nonbinary people that the majority of “allies” don’t want to unpack, and I don’t want to fucking deal with.
The Fear of calling myself nonbinary is so very there
Like. I’m not a man. I’m so not a man, but I want to be seen as close to being a man without technically being one as possible.
I do technically fall into the “nonbinary” category. Calling myself a man feels,, incorrect. But I’m obviously also not a woman, or anywhere near it. But like.
If I call myself nonbinary, if I keep my hair long, if I keep dressing how I do, people are gonna default to calling me a woman or call me they/them at best. Which is also not for me:
People will strip me of my masculinity because that’s not what “nonbinary” is to them. Nonbinary to most people is basically just “AGAB with a little flavor” and I hate that. I don’t wanna be treated that way.
There is so much transphobia around nonbinary people that the majority of “allies” don’t want to unpack, and I don’t want to fucking deal with.