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Anyone remember standardized testing analogy questions? Well my analogy is that:

Little ttpd: Matty :: Lavendar Haze: Joe

Both songs are Taylor trying to make the best of a less than ideal situation and pretend she’s happy in her relationship when she’s not.

In little ttpd everything she’s describing sounds kind of awful. Matty is pretentious, he’s getting super high and passing out, he’s self sabotaging, he’s filled with dread, but she chose this cyclone. She is trying to convince herself it’s worth it because she is clinging to the fact that they GET each other and he’s saying he’s gonna marry her, so she’ll have to take the bad to get that. But in retrospect she describes it as him showing her off in public and then sinking into stoned oblivion and treating her like an also ran.

Lavender haze is her again trying to reframe things that aren’t really working for her to be positives. “You don’t ever say too much” and “you don’t ever read into my melancholia” are presented as good things but also later she describes him being quiet as “quiet resentment” and “quiet treason” and a safe she can’t crack. And talks about how she was doing terribly mental health wise and he didn’t even notice (my face was gray but you wouldn’t admit that we were sick). She calls the expectation of marriage “1950’s shit” and says she just wants to stay in the lavender haze, but then “died on the altar waiting for proof” that he loved her.

#this is very smart #I 100% agree #taylor swift

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#WhatsApp

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When someone you love offers a bid for connection, you say yes every time. When someone sends you an article, a video, a funny post, it’s a bid for connection. They are trying to connect with you. When someone shares details about their day, their life, their thoughts, or their feelings with you, that is a bid for connection. They want to connect with you on a deeper level. They are trying to pull you into their world. If you love them, you say yes every time. Yes, even if the article they send is not particularly interesting to you. Yes, even if it means listening to them ramble about a game you don’t care about and think is stupid. Yes yes yes. And let’s hope they always say yes to your bids, too.

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Listen Up Columbia! — Portraits from a campus in crisis Photographed by Gabriella Gregor Splaver

#free palestine

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started with a kiss “ohwemuststopmeetinglikethis!” but it always ends with a town car speeding out the drive one evening. ended with the slam of a door then he’ll call her a whore, wish he wouldn’t be sore, cause as she was leaving it felt like breathin’! all her fuckin’ lives flashed before her eyes. It feels like the time she feel through the i-i-i-ce then came out alive!

#so underrated #taylor swift

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#I’m trying (not friends) #the song that got me into Maisie

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#I wish it was going to the movies but I’m pretty sure it’ll be straight to Netflix #but still we party

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#I popped in fairly often for all of the previous legs #even if it was just for surprise songs #but the European leg happens in the middle of the night #and I’m not dedicated enough to wake up that early #so I just wake up to chaos #tayor swift

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Taylor showing up to Lisbon Night 1 Like

#lol #I hope she makes a little joke during her piano speech #taylor swift

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#voted for yntcd #but I will avenge the manuscript #for being on this list

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#seems about right for this site

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Yikes

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thinking about the liam payne snakes tweet and laughing out loud alone in my room

#he does have some classics

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“forgive me peter please know that i tried to hold on” vs “you say i abandoned the ship but i was going down with it my white knuckle dying grip holding tight to your quiet resentment” is so 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫🫠🫠🫠

#Peter best song of all time #taylor swift

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i honestly cant believe the normal amount of wanting to be another gender is zero. like arent you sick of yours yet lol

#never

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All Too Well is overrated

send me your taylor swift / music unpopular opinions and i’ll turn them into a poll ♡

#sometimes a song really is that good #taylor swift