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absolute mess of replies saying Yes Definitely or No Absolutely Not on your post asking about femboy but basically it has always been pretty derogatory its like the ''nice'' or ''polite'' version of Tr*p where it doesnt have accusatory connotations, i.e. you are trapping me into sleeping with a Man™ ?? etc. but still usually referring to trans women or Ambiguous characters who are trans women but we have to make it Ambiguous, like it has never been meant to be understood as a feminine boy its specific to ''person who at first appears to be Female™ but context reveals they are lying/pretending/just like to present that way, and are actually Males™''

the other context its frequently used is like force fem shit so that is uh Yeah Maybe not the best. like typically in the sense of ''making'' a femboy, but since that is pretty intense kink shit I wont delve into it too much lmao

i guess its not quite a slur but not exactly a great word to use because whether its about fetishising trans women or demonising us its still mo

its most often referring to trans women and in a dehumanising way. i think its fine to self id as regardless of that but important to be aware n prob best not to use it in general but especially for the characters most people would think of as femboys lol

Source: am trans woman raised by the internet

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Interesting! For the most part, I've seen trans people telling me it's used as a self-identifier and that it should only be applied to those who are comfortable with it, however, they do concur with the opinion that it's also used by transmisogynists to dehumanize or fetishize trans women. As for the replies, the most popular opinion is that it depends on the context while some are of the opinion that it isn't (though I assume they don't take the fetishization part into account); I've yet to see someone actually say that it is.

I appreciate your response btw! I feel like I'm learning a lot today!

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the-fuckboy-king-blog · 6 years

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Fuckboy Shaming

Jericho Cooper

There have been countless amount of times that I’ve been called a fuckboy by a girl on the first date. That is literally the equivalent of me calling a girl a slut. Saying that I look like a fuckboy, asking if I am a fuckboy. Replace the word with slut and tell me what you think. Honestly, calling me a fuckboy is slut shaming. Just like a lot of other harsh terms, I feel that they can be powerful if used in a positive way. I’m not saying women should embrace the term slut, but I’m saying I will be embracing the term fuckboy from now on.

Not only will I be embracing the term fuckboy, I will wear the title proudly. I will be as much of a fuckboy as I want. I’ll sleep with as many women that I want. And I won’t feel guilty about it. As a matter of fact, I’m going to be such a fuckboy, I will define the term. And then I’m going to create an army of fuckboys. And we’re going to take over the world.

“Fuckboyism: a lifestyle that practices the art of getting a lot of women”

a fuckboy must always remain polite and perform their art with a high level of respect for women and oneself. a fuckboy should always use protection, as children are the spawn of hell. a fuckboy has no limitations on women. all women are fair game. Regardless of relationship status. a fuckboy has no plan to commit to a relationship. fuckboys are smooth and full of charm. i've been practicing fuckboyism for years and didn't even realize it. this is where a lot of people would apologize for their bahavoir but not me. i've ended up screwed over by girls multiple times. i dont feel bad for lying to them. i dont feel bad for playing them. i will always respect them and never harm them but as for their feelings, i dont care about them. why? you may ask. because anyone who identifies as a female is bonkers. they don't want to settle down with you, and start a family with you. they just pretend to or think they do. now this might seem like a good time to sarcastically say "who hurt you". but that's the thing. i have learned to control how i feel after a relationship ends. simply because i dont give a damn anymore. especially not about a womans feelings. i dont care about when she falls in love with me, i dont care if i break her heart. Just like a lot of fuckboys, i’ve become heartless. but here's the realest thing i can say right now. fuckboys are over all good for the female population. fuckboys might not stay around for very long, but they provide women with a good time. the word fuckboy has always had a bad connotation. females assume we look at them as objects and use women, when in reality, fuckboys have been serving women for centuries. women are attracted to fuckboys because they are typically attractive. they dress well and have good hygene. an average fuckboy is typically at least a 6 on a scale of 1-10. btw, 6 is higher than you realize. we'll get into that later. women are also attracted to fuckboys because they are smoother than butter. fuckboys make women feel good. we make them feel beautiful and special when in reality we could just as easily move on to the next one. fuckboys are great for a night, a week, a month, but don't get too crazy, we won't stick around for long. women need fuckboys because we bring an experience they will never forget. sometimes, a fuckboy is just what a girl needs.

example: a couple weeks ago i was going on the hunt for some good ole puss. but as soon as i walked down the stairs of my apartment, i saw a girl crying. this was literally a perfect situation. i asked her what was wrong and she told me she had boy problems. i immediately asked if she wanted to come upstairs to my apartment to talk, she said yes. my roommates were at my apartment so we were just hanging out. she told me she was having a bad night because her and her boyfriend were fighting. i comforted her and said all the right things. not ten minutes later she asked me if i wanted to go home with her. we had amazing sex, i left that night and i havent heard from her since. i know i helped make her night better just by making her feel special, pleasing her, all while getting laid myself. my fuckboy status it was only a couple short months ago i re-attained my fuckboy status as i had been out of the game for two years. there are many ways to achieve fuckboy status. lets say you arent getting as much puss as you'd like. thats ok. keep trying bud, you're still a fuckboy. if you're trying and you wear the title proudly, you're a fuckboy. but theres gonna be a turning point, where you realize, you are a true fuckboy. this time, mine was when i had to fight a 39 year old man because i was fucking his wife. you dont have to get in a fight to feel the true meaning of being a fuckboy. but if you're fighting a girls husband, you might be a fuckboy. fuckboys should always know how to defend themselves. there have been several times i've been physically attacked by some dude/dudes because of a girl. fuckboys should try to be physically active to remain in shape to the best of their ability. that doesnt mean there cant be some chubby fuckboys. a list of "shoulds" --fuckboys should never turn down a challenge. even if they dont win, they should always try. --a fuckboy should always present themselves with confidence and attempt to charm everyone they meet. --fuckboys should always try to maintain a healthy relationship with their mothers, because she is the first woman you get to know. a fuckboy must never sexually harrass or sexually assault a female. if you do, you are not a fuckboy, you are a man whore. man whores are disgusting stay away from them the difference between a fuckboy and a man whore: a fuckboy is often confused as a man whore. the thing is, a man whore is like the male version of a slut. man whores are like the kind of guys with three baby mamas. a fuckboy is just a guy who gets bitches. a man whore is the kind of guy who gets chlamydia and doesnt get it taken care of. fuckboys use protection. women can also be fuckboys, they are not called fuckgirls, they are simply called female fuckboys. they go for women. fuckgirls are a thing, but they have different strategies and motives. they go for men. a typical fuckboy would not go well with a fuckgirl.

Anyway, stop shaming fuckboys. There’s nothing wrong with getting bitches and acting cocky.

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