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I’m writing this is for every girl out there that is experiencing pressure to not/do something or be someone she’s not. I don’t want you to cave in. Do not give up. Fight for what you believe in and stand your ground. You are entitled to your own opinion and decisions.
I don’t want no man. Yeah, shocking, I know. When I say that, everyone goes ⊙△⊙, as if I just said I dunk my hands in hot oil every Friday morning.
I don’t want to get married. When people hear this they go ._.
I don’t want kids. Yeah, I’ll let you guess how people react when they hear me say this.
But no, you must want to want kids. You’ll change your mind. N O
Why am I giving you examples from my life? To tell you I know how annoying it is to have your decisions questioned. I’m not 12 anymore, I know how I want to go about life, but people insist to insist I’m crazy. Like, who are you, exactly?
Anyways. If you know what I’m talking about but feel helpless, read on.
As a born again christian, I prioritize God and my walk with Him. I’m not here to please mortals and fool around. Therefore, I have the power to stand against traditions and stereotypes. But even if you aren’t like me, I’m here to tell you - you matter, you don’t have to want something just because everyone else does, you’re not an object, you are a masterpiece. If you’re going to be changing your world view, beliefs, or attitude, God is the only one who should be the reason for that. God is the only one who can give, and has already given you a purpose. No amount of nagging, harassment, mocking, or the like, should have power over you. Don’t let the world influence you, you’re one of a kind, and no one else will walk the path that lies before you. So be strong and know your worth, Adam may have been created before Eve, but she was created because Adam was no good on his own.
(I’m only rephrasing Genesis, lol) So don’t let any men, or any other woman tell you how you must feel or what you should be doing when it comes to a certain thing. The world is fallen, and we all may be damned sinners, but you were created perfect, and in Jesus Christ that perfection is perfected even more. In eternity in hellfire, one will experience the consequences of all their actions. Their own actions. Jesus doesn’t send anyone to hell, people will go there because of their own choice(s). So don’t listen to mortals, because the only voice of reason that’s left in the world is God’s. This is the only voice you should hearken to, and if anyone else tries to take that place, you can tell them to *censored due to profanity*
The modern woman must be allowed to make decisions for herself. So allow yourself to! Do research, be single, study, run a business! You owe it to yourself.
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women have endured so much. have been so many things. have created and sustained innumerable and infinite cultures and traditions.
what have men done?