#cute guy advice

[craycraybluejay]

Btw i do block anti para discoursers. If u believe in thought crime you're going to annoy the shit out of me if you're not just full on trying to harm people who aren't doing anything wrong. And I don't want someone like you around me. Also it feels like abuse apologia and false conflation of a thought or feeling with abuse. And that is cruel to victims of abuse.

only exception is if we're mutuals and you in good faith want to learn more about why the idea of thought crime is BAD NEWS. Oh yeah and it puts innocent people behind bars, and i don't mean for stuff like csem which actually is abuse. What I'm referring to is known as Obscenity Law in the US, barring the possession or distribution of ANY generally legal pornography if it "doesn't align with your community's values" and "is obscene/gross" and "has no artistic merit," all of which are extremely subjective and up to judges, juries, and lawyers. Don't panic though, furries and bdsm likers and lolicon havers. These things alone are not illegal, and you cannot be charged for obscenity law unless someone specifically goes through the effort to take you to court with an incredibly good lawyer. Basically, unless you think that someone who has legally obtained proof (e.g: not stolen, etc.), a lot of money, and a burning hate for you, and you live in a very conservative community, the chances you will ever have to deal with obscenity law are extremely low to none.

#pro para #obscenity law #us law #disclaimer that i am not a lawyer and simply heavily into law research of all kinds but cannot give legal advice as a lawyer #(yet) (might become a lawyer someday idk we'll see) #paraphile safe #thought crime #btw antis before you use the legality argument as a gotcha for the millionth time #your cute fluffy gay fanfic with no age difference can still apply under obscenity law #tw csem mention #also 'proship antipara' people are cringe as hell #if you can acknowledge that thinking about a character is not abuse you can acknowledge the same of thinking ab something real #cause thing is thinking about something does nothing to anyone #like right now im choosing to think about killing idk some guy walking his dog. the guy and the dog are fine and alive and well. #nothing happened or will happen #hope that helps

[mitchievousness]

KazuRei Week Day 1 - Growing Old

when miri is fully grown and moves away from the family home, the papas move to the countryside and become the unofficial elder gays in the little village

#the papas deserve a good rest from the bustle of the city #rei is wearing a samue ! he likes casual yukatas bc its simple and loose (and very different from the suits that he used to wear) #kazuki just likes to wear a shirt and basketball shorts lmao #he also has a bit of a beer belly ;w; #most of the townsfolk privately refer to them as elder gays even tho they never officially told anyone but cmon. #no one's falling for the ''we've been roommates for almost four decades'' bs #they suck at giving advice tho... (baby gay: how did you guys come out to your parents? #kazuki: never told mine. we already weren't on speaking terms when i met rei so. #rei (trying not to say that his father tried to assassinate both his husband and child when he found out): ... yeah same #((also yes this is all inspired by barakamon lmao. its one of my favourite animes - slice of life comedy and has lots of cute kids in it!)) #anyways first prompt done woo!!! happy kazurei week everybody! #this is the first fan week that im gonna participate in all the days (hopefully lmao i still have to do two other prompts) #also i tried to do a different style than my usual in the first pic and even tho im not entirely happy with it its eh. fine. lol #i just like rotating this half-cooked au in my mind hkfhkjfdgs #buddy daddies #kazurei #kazurei week 2023

[wildmelon]

when not even pixel women can exist without being creepily sexualized 😃

#when i can't escape this even in my escapism 😃 #this is VERY VERY DIFFERENT from the thirst comments you guys leave in rb tags btw. #those do not bother me at all i find them very funny and cute. #they are totally different from this tonally and have never made me feel uncomfortable the way these replies did. #also i already blocked this person not looking for the just ignore them advice js #sexualization tw

[astraystayyh]

SAHAR I genuinely did not know anyone else to turn to with his question than you and I'm too TERRIFIED to come off of anon.

ANYWAYS.

What the actual hell are you supposed to do when you have a crush. What do you do when these feelings are so freaking overwhelming and so overpowering that you have no other choice but to submit to it? I feel so much for this particular individual and I can't tell them (obviously) because they're in a completely different league from me and are so talented and so beautiful and NWWJNSNWS I can't 😭😭

Like I smile whenever I talk to them, think of them, rejoice in happiness whenever I see their reply to my texts and just GOD I'm such a goner but I don't know what to do with all these feelings???

Like I can't tell them but I need some kind of relief from all these feelings and I'm so terrified of messing shit up like ooofff

Please help your anon out here 😞🫶🫶

-🐸

wahhhh im so honored u thought of me :,)) i know exactly how u feel because that was me a few years back,, ur feelings are so grand that they almost swallow u whole and u want to confess but u also do not.. it’s really hard ;-;-;

these topics are complicated because yk the crush varies from one situation to another (is it 100% unrequited, is there a chance they’ll like you back, do they like u and u are just oblivious etc etc) but what i can tell u is that these feelings are yours for now and you have nowhere where to put them, so for as long as they are there, try your best so they wouldn’t weigh heavily on ur heart,, enjoy the GOOD sides of having a crush like all the things u cited and just looking forward to seeing that person,, it’s fun and it’s sweet and it’s a good thing to be able to feel for someone this deeply because it speaks for the grandeur of ur heart,, dont try to suppress these feelings or to get rid of them because they’ll only come to haunt u ten times fold,, so make the best of the small happiness it gives you daily

i really like mitski’s lyrics ‘nothing in the world belongs to me but my love, mine all mine all mine’ ,,, i see it as ur feelings are urs and no matter what goes on in our world no one can tamper with them, so u should embrace them fully,,, and U CAN NEVER KNOW WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN,,, a bit of sahar lore but i did like this guy for two years and when i gave up on it he asked me out,, we did break up after but now i look back at that time with a lot of fondness because i had a crush!!! and it was mine and i was happy when i saw him and those are good memories i get to keep

i dont know if this helped but i hope it did!!! also no one’s truly out of ur league, u can test the waters a bit and see how it goes hihi GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! fingers crossed ull come back with dating news 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

#this made me miss having a crush 😔 #it’s rough out there #sahar's.asks <3 #🐸 anon #i also think it’s so cute when u guys ask me about love and stuff like this PLS ALWAYS DO IT I LOVE IT #sahar’s advice session #🫡

[theodorejamisonseville]

“The Chipettes should invite me over for more pajama parties. Sometimes, I need a break from my brothers. They give me headaches.”

“Breaks from the people you love are healthy and don’t mean that you love them any less. It means you love them enough to say “I am tired, but I don’t wanna snap at you, so I’m gonna take a break and I’ll be back to hang out later.”

#theodore seville #wise words #advice #pajama party #girls night (featuring one guy) #Eleanor’s pajamas are CUTE #I want a shirt like that

[terriblewritingadvice]

overdosing on twa yuri /j

#terrible writing advice #twa art #AAGGHHH I LOVE THEM SO MUCH.. #ive been thinking abt them soo much as of recent its agonising they bring me so much pain im so sad about them and alos theyre soo cute .. #anf i love tvem .. yeag #twa conspiracy guy #twa ace #twa knight commander #twa kacey #conspimmander

[lovedlovingly]

i am so brave having someone in my apartment helping me out with things :D it's one of those "when it rains it pours" situations and he's so chill about it all and helping me through 😭 I might live in a functional apartment at the end of the week ᕦ⁠ʕ⁠ ⁠•⁠ᴥ⁠•⁠ʔ⁠ᕤ

#hes also cute and giving me advice like a dad should (side eye @ mine) #also this guy laughed at my dads shitty carpentery it validated me so much 💗 #after all internet security stuff i wanna learn more about plant care and how to fix things in a home :D #i feel like tahani last episodes when shes just learning how to do EVERYTHING in the good place!! i will get to the point #that nick Offerman tells me my woodworking is great NSNSNDNDNDMDL

[ice-sculptures]

so what is it called when you do find men attractive and like looking at them and sometimes feel those stereotypical "butterflies" around them but the idea of actually dating one longterm makes you wanna shrivel up into a ball and hide

#everything abt me screams comphet but this one thing trips me up #bc i thought lesbians weren't supposed to find men attractive at all. so how can i call myself one if sometimes i do think guys are cute #not being rhetorical here. if any of you have actual advice i would really love to hear it bc i do Not have anyone to go to abt this irl :( #rae.txt

[prxckedradiolove]

so normal about dinahboose 🙃😭

#i don’t even know if people ship it anymore all the stuff i see for it is pretty old 😭 #dont care 😎 #i know im evil #im such a multishipper tho.. cooking oil is so sweet at times… #i feel like if your gonna ship greaseball or c.b with dinah i think everyone has this lil yeah dw they get better tho #which is so me im like #AWWW GUYS THEY ARE SO CUTE #but i only ship them when c.b apologizes to rusty and everyone 😡 #then its okay 🥰 #so many thoughts about what c.b did tho.. #cuz i feel like him braking/crashing rusty and being on electra and greaseball’s side is kind of out of immatureity and naive(ness?) #just a lil bit #and dinah helps him realize good morality in some way #but what i love about dinahboose above any other c.b ship is that i feel like c.b could also improve dinah as well #like during theres me he’s so supportive and guenuine and i feel like he would totally give dianh advice #i’m still figuring out caboose’s character tho because he is.. confusing #a lil deranged guy 😭 #wow ok that was a lot of tag talking alright gn everyone #trainrot #dinahboose

[starsh0cked]

Any ideas on what colors i should use for Wisp? Shes based off the Silk moth which doesn't give me much to work with...

(Also cool fact: I ship her with Magolor-)

silk moths!! mienna was inspired by silk moths!! they’re super cute, aren’t they? and fuzzy and fluffy - one of my favourite insects!!

now, on colour schemes… i see what you mean by not having much to work with - compared to the bright colours of most kirby characters, silk moths are extremely monochromatic. if you want wisp to resemble a silk moth, you could mix desaturated, pale colours with bright accents: a dull cream with a dark pink, or a softer green with a deep blue.

unfortunately, i wouldn’t say i have too many suggestions on what colours wisp could have! if anything, you could try a soft brown with light pink or yellow, or dark blue and a light blue or green. or you could start colouring her with your favourite colour in mind, and colours that look good with that!

#ask sh0ck #saw your next ask btw! #and cute!! #tbf when i was picking out mienna’s colours i had a png of taranza next to her #i did most of her colour pickin based on his values #and designed her with him in mind #bc that guy is the only insectoid floralian i think abt #my main advice for this is: just feel it out #it takes some experimenting #but you’ll come up with colours you like eventually ✌️

[sleepy-bunnie]

Just went on a date, it was cute. He was handsome and had beautiful eyes. We met at 10 ish in the morning and we departed around 630ish. We hugged and we watched some movies and side cuddles a bit with him running his fingers over my shoulder, and I really like him, I think? But as soon as he left I am slowly freaking out?

First time I've gone out with someone and thought, I find him really attractive but did he like me???

#date #personal #cute #guy #man #handsome #advice

[henryhina]

Hinata Hajime wellness video creator with like 50k subscribers vs Komaeda Nagito fashion OOTD tiktoker with a miraculous 300 million followers

#they meet at school and Komaeda is like “hey you're the guy from my fyp that helps me rwlax before school!!!” #and hinata is like “you're the cute twink i followed for advice on making your hips look more narrow!”

[duskholland]

booked a tattoo appointment…

#if anyone has any advice on the process/healing etc please let me know !!!!!! #two weeks today… paid the deposit…. omg. like omg #first tattoo ahhhh #the artist is SO GOOD + i tried to get an appt when they opened their books in may but i was too slow #even tho i set alarms etc #so this time around i was truly ON IT #and i got one of their flash designs as well 😭 guys it’s so cute #it’s a sword but it has purple colouring on it too? like delicate line work w colour it’s BEAUTIFUL #it is gonna be big tho #but omfg it’s so pretty #i’ll post photos after it’s done

[irisseireth]

The social commentary on this show is really off the charts

#extraordinary attorney woo #it didn't have to go as hard as it does but I'm glad it did #early on they already had another autistic person who was much less 'functional' on a very difficult case #to make a point about ableism #the comment about dr Asperger? amazing #later on: do north koreans deserve to be treated like criminals or are they refugees? #and how do we as a society deal with what they do because they are desperate? #another: are children people? can they decide what they want to do? #also a lesbian couple!!!! #girl sabotages her own marriage so that she can run off into the sunset with her girlfriend of 10 years #iconic #nobody is doing it like them #i adore this show already #also: the cute girl tm isn't bitter over the popular guy falling for young woo #and helps her and gives advice both professionally and personally #and is generally just really nice towards young woo