#i promise u that u dontt have to feel this way all the time

[redysetdare]

Look, i get it. You're SAD your Aro. You're SAD your Ace. you HATE not feeling romantic/sexual attraction. you WISH you were allo. Life isn't how Amatonormativity said it would be. I GET IT. But at some point u gotta stop wallowing in self pity and misery and reach the acceptance stage of grief. I promise you that you will feel better once you stop feeling bad for yourself and start realizing you aren't broken for being aspec. literally you have the option to not live your life feeling miserable over something you can't change. You will find other things to make you happy. you will find that you don't have to "miss out" on anything. You can find happiness. You just gotta learn to let go of your misery. You deserve to find happiness, even if it's not in the way you original thought you would.

#text #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #also it's just good to let go of the internalized aphobia because every aphobic thing u say is seen and heard by other aspecs #dont think ur self deprecating posts are only effecting you. #but literally the amount of ppl i see who just wallow in their own misery instead of like...even trying to find happiness elsewere is wild #i promise u that u dontt have to feel this way all the time #'i can never be in a romantic relationship' who says that? you literally can if u want to no one is stopping u except for urself there bud #yeah it's not exactly as amatonormativity described it but amatonormativity was BS to begin with sooooo #iidk i just dont get the point of feeling sorry for urselfwhen ur handed something that gives u a new perspective on the world #i just dont think it's healthy for so many ppl to just trap themselves in a grief and not move on from that #like yeah i get it sucks but also u gotta learn to accept and love urself as u are at some point #if only for your own emotional health