#asexual

[tumbler-polls]

#make up #lgbtqia #lesbian #bisexual #asexual #style #tumblr polls #tumbler polls #submitted by anon

[whatareyoureallyafraidof]

#equality #same-sex #marriage #gay #lesbian #transgender #asexual #bisexual #pansexual #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #SAGA #gender #identity #human #civil #rights #afraid #sanctuary #Maine #NOH8

[mlmshark]

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

#tma #the magnus archives #especially looking for jmart stuff #tma jmart #jmart #jonmartin #jon x martin #jon sims #jonathan sims #asexual #acespec #ace

[bloggingboutburgers]

Yeah, I know "not all aro/aces" and all, but please don't use "not all aro/aces" as an excuse to not explore anything exclusively aro/ace ever. Otherwise any trace of aro/aceness might end up effectively lost to fandom osmosis.

To sum up... If you wouldn't be homophobic that way, please don't be aphobic that way.

#no one can know i don't like sex #aspec #asexual #aromantic #tw aphobia #aspec erasure #my art #nonburger #am i gonna get bazooka'd for this #i think i'm making a good point others also have made before but i'm bracing to get bazooka'd for this #because... experience #anyway here goes nothing

[sexyremys-blog]

Hi babies 🥰 wanna see beneath my bulge ?🍒🍆🥰

#lgbtq #lgbtq community #trans pride #trans woman #trans women are beautiful #transfem #transgender #transgirl #transisbeautiful #asexual #lgbtq positivity #lgbt pride #trans women are amazing #trans goddess #trans women positivity

[elsa-fogen]

Dance with Radio Demon

Lilith was forsing him into dancing with her. She was trying to make him want her and never let him have it, but Alastor just...isn't into that, and Lilith is kinda confused. Al could consider it a win, but he'd prefer never had this situation at all

And now some comfort...

Soo... yeah. I want to traumatize him as much as posible and then give him comfort with Rosie. They are literally everything.....

#hazbin #hazbin hotel #radiorose #platonic radiorose #the radio demon #alastor the radio demon #radio demon #hazbin alastor #alastor hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #rosie and alastor #alastor and rosie #hazbin rosie #rosie hazbin hotel #hazbin lilith #lilith morningstar #hazbin hotel lilith #asexual #aroace #aromantic #aroace alastor

[dollopheadsandclotpoles]

Even after all this time and awareness, it feels like asexuality is still not treated like a proper sexuality. Recently had a girl tell me that she was at a place where she ‘felt so asexual’ because all the other girls were so beautiful and guys were ignoring her because of it. She didn’t know I was asexual and I didn’t take offence (I know she didn't meant it in a malicious way) but it does feel uncomfortable that people are using ‘asexual’ in lieu of ‘unattractive' or 'lacking sexual appeal.' It's really giving 90's/early 2000's slang of using 'gay' to mean 'lame.' Even shows like Brooklyn 99 which took immense pride in being progressive with their comedy, had an episode where one of the characters says "Oh, and I'm sorry if we implied you're both asexual nerds who can only be friends with service animals."

I have mentioned this before also, when I talked about how I feel like people are more comfortable erasing the identities of canonical aro/ace characters in media but act like it's unacceptable with other sexualities... but it does feel like asexuality (and aromanticism tbh) are still not considered 'real' sexualities. In the case of shipping fictional characters, I understand there is nuance to that issue and so don't want to get into it, but it does kinda add to my point.

Why is it that people treat asexuality like it's not a sexuality? Why is it that when I come out to people I'm met with insistence that I'm wrong about my sexuality, that I'm 'self diagnosing' (it's not a medical condition), that I'm probably 'just inexperienced' or haven't 'met the right person' or have a hormone issue? Why can't people just accept that it's a sexuality like any other??

#asexual #ace stuff #aroace tag #asexuality #ace #don't mind me just needed to vent #just tagging asexuality because it was that 'felt so asexual' comment that made me feel this #but I think it does extend to aromanticism as well #but who knows at least for me I can no longer tell where the ace ends and the aro begins

[redysetdare]

enough stories about how someone learns to truely be happy through love. i want a story where someone is desperately seeking out love thinking it's the only way to be happy only for them to learn by the end that happiness is what they make of it and they don't need love at all to make it.

#aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #loveless aro #loveless #non-partnering #nonpartnering #non partnering #nonamorous #aplatonic #enough of amatonormative tropes in media!!! enough 'you're miserable without love' stories!!! #less “you're too focused on ambitions to make you happy that you dont let yourself fall in love” #more “you're too focused on finding love to make you happy that you wont let yourself live” #more “there is so much more to life than love and so much more that can bring your happiness if you just let yourself experience it.” #maybe I should write this story #and when i say love i mean all love. not just romantic love. #which is why i tagged aplatonic too #while i mostly see this trope in terms of romantic love i think there's something to be said about #telling stories where people are perfectly content alone too #it doesn't have to be sad or pathetic to not have friends by choice. they dont have to be a miserable person to not have friends #i think we need more variety in stories where it shows people just content in their lack of love or relationships in all shapes #not everyone wants a family not everyone wants friends not everyone wants a partner not everyone wants love #some of us are content without. that should be explored without the need to fix it.

[scrumptiousfoxglitter]

In hindsight, maybe an early sign that I'm allon't was viewing romance as a somewhat equivalent to dragons in fantasy. Yes I love the hypothetical of taking a dope flying fire breathing beast out for a joy ride, yes I would have a literal heart attack and facking die if I was inserted into the situation. Yes this is basically also my stance on romance, your point being?

#aroace #actually aromantic #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #ace ace baby #aspec #shitpost #lgbtqia #queer

[morgaine-la-reveuse]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but:

It is absolutely fine to use a label, only to realise it doesn't suit you anymore. Labels aren't there to bind you to them. They serve as a way to better describe how one feels and what ones lived experience can be like.

I had two pipelines of relabeling myself simultaneously.

From bi to lesbian, and back to bi.

From asexual to demisexual (because I thought, that one day, maybe I feel this kind of attraction, as sex-ambivalent and oscillating were terms I related with, and still do), and back to being asexual.

Does that make me less sapphic or a-spec? Absolutely not.

And to be honest: I still haven't figured out if I'm demiromantic or aromantic. And that is perfectly fine. We don't own anyone an explanation, but ourselves.

If the label felt good at that time, but doesn't anymore, let it go and take the one that feels more fitting. ♡ We are human beings. We are allowed to grow. You are valid, no matter which label you choose.

#lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #lgbtqia positivity #queer #asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #aspectrum #aspec #lesbian #sapphic #gay #pansexual #bisexual #trans #non binary #some positivity #queer labels #personal ramblings

[just-trying-my-best-everyday]

Allos can also have QPRs. Btw. In case you thought it was an aspec-only event. Or romance light. It's neither. And you can have one if you want.

#*oprah voice* you get a qpr! and you get a qpr! #qprs can be anything you want them yo br #pls pls.pls remember that #aspec #aromantic #aromanticism #asexual #asexuality #aroace #lgbtq

[yagikidd57]

#oversexualization #wtf #lgbtqia+ #asexuality #asexual #asexuality is valid #ace community #lgbtqia community #ace space #tiktok #acespec #aspec #aromantic #aromanticism #queer #queer community #aroace #arospec #lgbtqia #tw acephobia #tw aphobia

[dragons-and-cake123]

Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to ALL Lesbians!

❤️🧡🤍💗🩷

Lesbian Visibility Week includes:

Agender lesbians (me!) 🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤

Asexual lesbians (also me!) 🖤🩶🤍💜

Trans lesbians 🩵💗🤍💗🩵

Aromantic lesbians 💚🤍🩶🖤

Nonbinary lesbians 💛🤍💜🖤

Genderfluid lesbians 🩷🤍💜🖤💙

Intersex lesbians 💛💛💜💛💛

Genderqueer lesbians 💜🤍💚

POC lesbians 🖤🤎❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Aroace lesbians 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

Butch lesbians ❤️🧡🤍💛🤎

Femme lesbians 💜💜🤍💗🩷

and many, many more!

#lesbian visibility week #agender lesbian #asexual lesbian #trans lesbian #transgender lesbian #aromantic lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #intersex lesbian #genderqueer lesbian #poc lesbian #aroace lesbian #butch lesbian #femme lesbian #asexual #ace #trans #transgender #agender #aromantic #aro #lesbian #nonbinary #enby #genderfluid #intersex #aroace #genderqueer #femme #butch

[bloggingboutburgers]

This gig is doing wonders for my self-esteem related to my age tbh

#no one can know i don't like sex #asexual #aging #ace #asexuality #my art #nonburger #yeah yeah i know you're not supposed to put yourself as an artist because of your age #and it's not a race and everyone at their own pace yadda yadda #you try telling me you haven't felt anxious at least ONCE over those things #unless you're one of the talented young ones obviously #...and even then #anyhow #this is a breath of fresh air

[breaking-news-the-aroace-has]

The AroAce is protesting this vehemently. They can absolutely be trusted near massive heavy-duty machinery that can completely demolish things. They would never, EVER put important government documents or a transphobic state legislator into an active woodchipper. No way.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aspec #breaking news #brought to you by ^him #arospec #what has the aroace done today #aroacespec #aro #ace #aro ace #asexual aromantic #they can be a little silly sometimes. they admit that. #but everyone should have basic rights! #and sometimes those rights include messing around with woodchippers #trans rights

[aisha-mahmood]

HELP PALESTINIAN PREGNANT WOMAN GET INSULIN AND MEDICAL CARE.

Peace be upon y'all !

my situation is really concerning🚨 I am a pregnant woman who lives with my children and lives in a tent my blood sugar is high and I'm last to my pen. I need my insulin to bring my blood sugar back down. And medical care for the past 2 months. Everyday I am dying of fear and starvation.The cold is brutal.

As much as you can donate and sharing my campaign. Things have been really hard for me as only is at 60% of my final goal and needs as much as possible to be safely

بقدر ما تستطيع التبرع ومشاركة حملتي. لقد كانت الأمور صعبة للغاية بالنسبة لي حيث أن نسبة 2٪ فقط من هدفي النهائي وأحتاج إلى أكبر قدر ممكن من الأمان.

$700/$1800

#gofundme #mutual aid request #asexual #art #emergency funds #donations #charity #free palestine #free gaza #artists on tumblr