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Genuinely so close to turning off reblogs on this post because apparently y’all can’t handle someone pointing out how the asexual character is disproportionately sexualized compared to the other characters.

Before you start an argument with me over this post here are things I will clarify because people apparently just LOVE twisting others words or jumping to conclusions on this website:

- I’m not saying no one can ever make smut of Jon, I’m saying they need to do it respectfully

- I do not hate asexual people (that should’ve been fucking obvious)

- I do not hate Jonny sims, the creator of the magnus archives, or trying to tell him how to write his own character, which again should have been fucking obvious (Someone literally said “Would you tell Jonny sims to fuck off?!?!?” Like…no where the HELL did you get that from?)

- I am simply pointing out that people love to sexualize Jon

- I do not hate asexuals that explore his sexuality or project on to him (same person from before said I hate asexuals that explore his sexuality, which, again, when the fuck did I say that?)

- I’m an asexual person that is not sex repulsed, I am not judging other asexual people who are also not sex repulsed and projecting that onto him

- And I’ll say it again IM AN ASEXUAL THAT IS NOT SEX REPULSED just for extra measure because apparently that keeps going over peoples heads

- Don’t try to talk down to me about asexuality and how it’s a spectrum because I already said too many people use that as an excuse for his over sexualization and IF ONE MORE PERSON TALKS DOWN TO ME ABOUT MY OWN SEXUALITY IM GOING TO EXPLODE

- I am allowed to feel uncomfortable with the way someone characterizes Jon, even if that person is asexual, and especially if they constantly put him in sexual situations

Honestly I’m done with people throwing a fit over this post or trying to twist my words so I sound like a bad person that hates asexuals. The point of this post is that people are sexualizing an asexual character A LOT and apparently some of you can’t handle that.

I’m honestly not in the mood for this. I just got out of a relationship where I was being groomed and pressured to do sexual things (which I also made a post about but I guess people give more of a fuck about starting arguments online than helping victims ig) and the first thing I needed being out of that was not people to start arguments about my own sexuality and bashing me for having an opinion. I’m done with this.

For those of you being respectful about it whether you disagree or not, thank you, but I’m really just done with this. Asexuals can never say shit about anything apparently.

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

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Yep, that’s why I added the part where I said I don’t know what their identity is. I’m not bashing the artist, they can draw what they want, but personally scrolling through their profile both their characterization of Jon and Martin, but especially Martin as a fat gay trans man myself, made me uncomfortable and I was just glad that I wasn’t the only one that was put off by it. The artist can do whatever they want as an asexual, but I, as someone who is also asexual, can feel however I want about it too. I never said they weren’t asexual, in fact I assumed they probably were, and I’m not invalidating their identity as an asexual person in any way by saying the characterization makes me and other people uncomfortable.

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

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YES you are so right. That artist literally makes Jon horny 24/7 and people praise them for their “asexual rep” which like ??? All they do is draw that man horny or in sexual situations ??? Also I think we need to talk about how much they sexualize the trans Martin hc because as a fat gay trans man the way they sexualize Martin as a fat gay trans man makes me incredibly uncomfortable. At first I thought the appreciation was cute but the more I scrolled the more uncomfortable I got. Then again I don’t know what their identity is but, maybe they’re asexual maybe their trans idk, but it really just feels weird

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

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Very important post I should’ve made a while ago

Minors be aware of this person

Grooming tw

Their user is @nottthewizardozz

About three weeks ago he messaged me being very flirty, and despite both of us establishing that I’m 17 and he’s 20+ (not sure what age exactly), he continued to message me and be flirty.

Eventually the flirting started to get sexual and he asked me about my kinks, again I am 17 and this was something he knew. I will admit it was 100% my fault for playing into it, I knew it was wrong and that I shouldn’t have been talking to him but I did anyways.

He eventually started to act like we were a couple, which was nothing either of us actually confirmed, and pressured me into sending photos of my outfits and room when I refused to send a photo of what I look like.

He then pressured me to add him on discord where he continued to be both romantic and sexual towards me, along with pressuring me to send more photos of myself like my outfit and my lips.

Here are some examples

I won’t show the whole conversation because I’ll be honest I’m embarrassed and ashamed of some of the things I said and did for him, even though he was pressuring me to do them. I only have the discord messages because out of stress I completely deleted all conversations we had on tumblr. He would often pressure me to do things, take no as a an answer for a little bit, only to pressure me again a few days later or find a “compromise”.

When I eventually told him that this was stressing me out and I didn’t want to keep talking to him, he agreed to not talking, only to find an excuse to message me a few days later.

Of course I fell to the pressure and let him keep talking to me. He kept flirting and being romantic despite the fact I told him I didn’t want to talk anymore and that it was wrong.

It’s only been tonight that I finally worked up the courage to block him both on tumblr and discord, and to be completely honest I feel sick. I feel sick that he messaged me, I feel sick that I did what he wanted, and I feel sick for calling him out for it. I don’t know if it’s an issue with me being too empathetic, something that just happens to victims when they finally speak up, or the manipulation, but I do feel really bad about making this post.

That being said I don’t really want him to be harassed, so please don’t. Only make sure that people are aware that he messages minors sexually and that they should be cautious of him.

I’m just looking to spread awareness but also for some support, I feel really bad about all of this and I just need some comfort. I feel gross about the whole situation, both what he and I did, and right now I just need people to support me, thank you.

[mlmshark]

Very important post I should’ve made a while ago

Minors be aware of this person

Grooming tw

Their user is @nottthewizardozz

About three weeks ago he messaged me being very flirty, and despite both of us establishing that I’m 17 and he’s 20+ (not sure what age exactly), he continued to message me and be flirty.

Eventually the flirting started to get sexual and he asked me about my kinks, again I am 17 and this was something he knew. I will admit it was 100% my fault for playing into it, I knew it was wrong and that I shouldn’t have been talking to him but I did anyways.

He eventually started to act like we were a couple, which was nothing either of us actually confirmed, and pressured me into sending photos of my outfits and room when I refused to send a photo of what I look like.

He then pressured me to add him on discord where he continued to be both romantic and sexual towards me, along with pressuring me to send more photos of myself like my outfit and my lips.

Here are some examples

I won’t show the whole conversation because I’ll be honest I’m embarrassed and ashamed of some of the things I said and did for him, even though he was pressuring me to do them. I only have the discord messages because out of stress I completely deleted all conversations we had on tumblr. He would often pressure me to do things, take no as a an answer for a little bit, only to pressure me again a few days later or find a “compromise”.

When I eventually told him that this was stressing me out and I didn’t want to keep talking to him, he agreed to not talking, only to find an excuse to message me a few days later.

Of course I fell to the pressure and let him keep talking to me. He kept flirting and being romantic despite the fact I told him I didn’t want to talk anymore and that it was wrong.

It’s only been tonight that I finally worked up the courage to block him both on tumblr and discord, and to be completely honest I feel sick. I feel sick that he messaged me, I feel sick that I did what he wanted, and I feel sick for calling him out for it. I don’t know if it’s an issue with me being too empathetic, something that just happens to victims when they finally speak up, or the manipulation, but I do feel really bad about making this post.

That being said I don’t really want him to be harassed, so please don’t. Only make sure that people are aware that he messages minors sexually and that they should be cautious of him.

I’m just looking to spread awareness but also for some support, I feel really bad about all of this and I just need some comfort. I feel gross about the whole situation, both what he and I did, and right now I just need people to support me, thank you.

#psa #call out #call out post #pedophilia #grooming #tw grooming #trans #transmasc #trans man #ftm

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I need more positivity for trans men I feel like shit

#trans #transmasc #trans man #trans male #gender dysphoria

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boy blessed by the flame / engulf me in your crimson! / let me melt between your teeth! / scorch this skin and see it scar / bitten and brusied / knees raw and bloody / my body craves your fervor as i beg to feast on the scraps of your divinity / burn me, my love / remind me that i am yours

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You know I think I’m going to stop complaining about when I get called girl on this website. Because everytime someone tries to accuse me of ‘toxic masculinity’ I feel like I’m about to become the joker.

#I honestly hate being called girl tbh #like even when it’s slang #it makes me uncomfortable #but I feel like I can’t tell people that because they’ll get mad #they might do the ‘oh but I call everyone girl!’ bullshit #like I know people irl that would do that to me #trans #transgender #trans man #transmasc

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i love u gay trans men

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Yeah, I know asexuality is a spectrum. I’m a non sex repulsed asexual, I know that. Please don’t talk down to me about my own sexuality it’s really annoying. I’m saying people who aren’t asexual use the “It’s a spectrum” as an excuse to sexualize Jon without ever actually acknowledging his sexuality, like they want to sexualize him and hold him to allo standards while having an excuse to do that. Again, it’s not aimed at actual asexual people, it’s aimed at people who disregard his sexuality so they can write him however they want, which is sexually, and also be rude to asexual people when they point that out.

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

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I 100% agree with you. A lot of people are taking this as “don’t write him having sex at all” which wasn’t exactly what I meant. The last line was just a joke mixed with my own aggression about how people are constantly sexualizing Jon, the ONE asexual character out of the entire series. It isn’t a commentary about Jon as a character or Jonny himself, it’s more aimed at the fandom and how they treat him. It’s not aimed at asexual people projecting or finding comfort in him by writing his asexuality in different ways, it’s aimed at non asexual people who keep writing smut about him and then using the “it’s a spectrum” thing as an excuse when it’s clear that they just want to sexualize him and get away with it (and I’m not being dramatic I’ve seen people write over eighty pages of just straight smut about him). This is my commentary as an asexual person who isn’t sex repulsed (which I feel like is an important note) about how the fandom treats Jon’s asexuality because objectively compared to the rest of the characters he is the most sexualized and its just gross. I love seeing how other people write Jon and martins relationship, especially when it involves sex, when they’re writing correctly. I’m mad at people who intentionally want to sexualize him and disregard his sexuality completely, on top of that they give people who see Jon as sex repulsed so much shit and isn’t fair. That is what I’m complaining about, not people who are doing it respectfully.

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

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rise, lesbians!

#this is an mlm blog but #let’s go lesbians!!

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Yeah I’ve noticed the people weird abt Jon’s asexuality are also weird in general. Someone in the reblogs was throwing a fit because “I’m asexual and I don’t care!” And I checked their profile to find out they’re a pro/comshipper, radqueer, shipper of Jon and Elias (which is insanely toxic), and calls people that disagree with them “antishippers”. So yeah, noticing a trend with these people.

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex

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I was gonna say I need my mom to stop blow drying her hair but it’s turns out I’m actually just hearing shit because she’s not even in the house anymore

Uuuggh my head hurts I need to actually go to sleep

#probably just my fan making me hear it tbh

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Uuuggh my head hurts I need to actually go to sleep

#disabled #disability #chronic illness #chronic pain #chronic migraine

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Apparently the person throwing a fit over this is a proshipper and radqueer (aka someone who supports literal pedophilia) and yk what I’m not even sure why I’m surprised that definitely checks out

One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex