realising that im technically aroace was such a trip i was like wow i went from bisexual/biromantic to no no no ghdhd (i do not like the label aroace for me i feel like it doesnt fit me so i say quoi/biromantic as well as asexual, but technically gray ace bc idk it could change and if it did it would be bisexual)
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Ya’ll I was SO fucking TOXIC at relationships before I found out I was aroace.
And Not Much Better before I realized I was cupio aroace.
I was really disappointed when I realized I was aroace.
It took a long time for me to actually be proud of it, and even find reasons TO be proud of it.
I love the way I love, now. It’s so liberating and light. It’s atypical, and it’s lovely.
idk ya’ll, I’m just feeling a lotta feels rn.
am I alone in any of this?
I don’t think I am, but I would love to hear other’s feelings.
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there needs to be a specific guide for asexuality and aromanticism. lately i've tried to read through a lot of "queer guides" specific towards teens and younger people. but they usually only mention asexuality once or twice, and aromanticism barely once. the SAM is never used. and the definitions usually are "people who don't want sex/romance" or "people who don't have a sexual identity" (sort of like agender).
we need guide books specifically centered towards aspec youth, to tell them that asexuality isn't just a stop along the way to Gay Town™ and that there are dozens of potential identities.
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Your little emote (?) drawings to react to asks are v cute. And so expressive as well!
Also I love?? The designs of your ocs?? I just really like their clothes and colors it’s all so nice
Thank you!!!! XD I really enjoy making these, I emote like 10 times less in real life but I like to think these are able to express how I feel :) still waiting for someone to send something that makes me laugh because I’ve got a wheeze meme locked and loaded!
I’ve also just been doing all of these on my linear algebra homework lmao
And thank you again!!! Haha so many of my oc designs were outdated so I’m glad I was able to take some time recently to update them! I’m also now trying harder to match and coordinate their colors since they’re in teams :) if I feel ambitious I might go back and revisit some even older characters from like middle school.
I feel kind of bad for not having more diverse characters? Lmao like 4/6 of my current characters are Chinese, but yeah. I’ll work on that
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Beauty and sensuality are completely separate from sex.
You just live in a society that considers aesthetic appreciation as something indiscernible from flirting.
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What if I don't want to be aroace but think I am?
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Right so I’ve got some alters. And a few have identified as ace and the others have been a mixture of bi, aro etc but my identity I’m unsure about. Cause I don’t feel a romantic attraction BUT I do feel attraction physically and romantically when I get to know the person and it can be anyone so it’s not like a just ‘opposite sex’ type. If that makes sense. And I was wondering does anyone know if this is an identity? Summary: I’m attracted to people once I know them and not just theopposite sex.
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this is a shitty take im probably going to delete when i wake up but uh. if i didn't have the word to describe my attraction (or lack thereof) i think i would have just called myself a lesbian. it's not like im attracted to men. like, in any way.
what if lurien wore crocs?
that's it. that's the post.
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We had an assignment in health today to write our caregivers a letter saying that either we or our girlfriends got pregnant at our age (15/16), and that if that didn't apply because of our sexual orientation, to write that we got HIV through sexual contact.
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lgbt+ kids: *being besties with their english teachers*
also lgbt+ kids: *having a complete disregard for grammar, spelling, and literally any other skill needed in english*
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if im one of your “biggest fans” hmu im clearly obsessed with you
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soo a really cool friend of mine made this for me and it means the world :3 it’s aroace terriermon and it’s ADORBSSS <33
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Pride flag edits thingy
Here some old edits i made I wanted to make more but aslo im so lazy and just didn't maybe other day one day I make more or not eh
December 3-4, 2020
Ahhhhhhhhhhh free to use if yah wanna sksksk imma go spam more random post and junk
Bodevan from Captain Fantastic is autistic and bisexual and uses he/him pronouns! He supports his siblings Vespyr, an autistic femme genderforestis luxaer saltusifo lesbian who uses she/her, they/them, and 🌲/🌲s pronouns; Kielyr, an aroace nightgender person who uses she/her, 🌳/🌳s, and it/its pronouns; Rellian, a gay nonbinary boy with ADHD who uses he/him and they/them pronouns; Zaja, an autistic forestinfernal ferveogender genderfox huntigender trans girl who uses any pronouns aside from he/him; and Nai, an autistic intersex agender person who uses any pronouns!
dni transcript under the cut:
dni: racist, sexist, ableist, islamophobe, antisemite, anti-mogai, truscum/transmed, t(w)erf/swerf, aspec exclus, anti-pan/ply/omni, anti-mspec lesbian/gay, against men/nonbs using femme/butch, pronoun policer, map or supporter, pro-ship/anti-anti, gendercrit, nonbinary skeptic, anti-queer, anti-endogenic, anti-self dx, autism speaks supporter, anti-blm/acab, cringe/flop blog, or nsfw blog. thank you!
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Okay it's Gaming Club Time!!
Gema Takagaki is pan. Midori Gurin is genderfluid and aroace. Mai Waifu is lesbian. Pippi Osu is gamegender and omni. Ryuto Ippongo is gamegender and bi
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Aroace Scorpion Background
Ok so petition for aros to call our non aromantic partners our bow?
Because like bow and arrow but then also like beau is an like old word for someone you’re courting???
Am I crazy or is this perfect
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Nexus Aroace / Nexelic: A term for someone who knows they are on the aroace spectrum, but doesn’t know where exactly on it they are, due to neurodivergence and/or something similar (for example, plurality).
Someone who uses this label may have a lack of understanding of how romantic and sexual attraction works at all, and may have a hard time feeling “just right” with a specific label or experience. As such, someone with this label may, for instance...
Feel as though they have a cluster of different pieces of labels
Hoard labels due to a vague connection to multiple of them
Use no specific aspec labels because none fit just right
Have labels that blend into each other due to being a system
Have labels that you quickly pick up and later drop or wear out
Have a label that feels vague, fluid, flux, or confusing in one/multiple ways, while still being distinctly aspec
This term is largely based off of the nexe- orientation labels by @neopronouns. The term nexelic was made alongside nexus aroace primarily for spadillics (people who don’t use the SAM), but anyone can use either term. The colors of the flag were taken from the aroace spectrum flag.
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WIP line chain game!!
i was tagged by @dickwheelie tyyy :D <3
rules: write the latest line from your WIP and tag as many people as there are words
its a wooden overcoats crossover fic and it is supremely stupid because i thought of a funny idea and ran with it, i think i might finish it though! anyways:
“Oh dear God someone make him stop before I vomit all over the place.”
i’m not tagging 15 people but i will tag @ruewrites @vore-dog @legendsandlor and any mutuals that wanna participate!!
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